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MagoP · 06-01-2021 12:54AM

Mister Vain wrote: »

Wouldn't bother me. If anything it would be a turn on. Still wouldn't pay for it though.

For real? Would it not bother you that all your mates and strangers off the internet were w*nking off to the mother of your children?

fantaiscool · 06-01-2021 07:30AM

Hellotonever wrote: »

If there are any legit Irish girls on onlyfans I'd like to know

Why do you pay when porn is freely available online? Genuine question.

Mister Vain · 06-01-2021 06:43PM

MagoP wrote: »

For real? Would it not bother you that all your mates and strangers off the internet were w*nking off to the mother of your children?

Who said anything about the mother of my children? We were talking about being in a relationship with someone. No it wouldn't bother me. Shur those same guys could be **** over her photos on Instagram for all I know.

hynesie08 · 06-01-2021 06:55PM

MagoP wrote: »

For real? Would it not bother you that all your mates and strangers off the internet were w*nking off to the mother of your children?

They're w*nking off to her, I'm w*nking on to her, think I win in that scenario......

Padre_Pio · 06-01-2021 07:04PM

hynesie08 wrote: »

They're w*nking off to her, I'm w*nking on to her, think I win in that scenario......

Nah, think when you're down in the pub (when they're back open) and you know that your gf is probably sending pictures of her tits to half the lads there and probably your friends.

Imagine if your brother signed up to your gf's OnlyFans :pac::pac:

fantaiscool · 06-01-2021 07:26PM

Padre_Pio wrote: »

Nah, think when you're down in the pub (when they're back open) and you know that your gf is probably sending pictures of her tits to half the lads there and probably your friends.

Imagine if your brother signed up to your gf's OnlyFans :pac::pac:

Well lads who sign up are surely going to be getting stick for signing up. No lad is going to openly admit to signing up to a girls onlyfans. I've been trying to understand the mentality of guys that do but have not come across any guy who admits doing it. Among my group of mates any lad who signed up to a girls onlyfans would be getting serious stick.

Mister Vain · 06-01-2021 07:30PM

fantaiscool wrote: »

Well lads who sign up are surely going to be getting stick for signing up. No lad is going to openly admit to signing up to a girls onlyfans. I've been trying to understand the mentality of guys that do but have not come across any guy who admits doing it. Among my group of mates any lad who signed up to a girls onlyfans would be getting serious stick.

Exactly. You're hardly going to admit to **** over your friends gf on Onlyfans. Plus how many lads in your social circle are going to be Onlyfans subscribers anyway? And then just happened to be subscribed to you gf?

hynesie08 · 06-01-2021 07:36PM

Padre_Pio wrote: »

Nah, think when you're down in the pub (when they're back open) and you know that your gf is probably sending pictures of her tits to half the lads there and probably your friends.

Imagine if your brother signed up to your gf's OnlyFans :pac::pac:

That's when I take a long refreshing sip of my pint, look him in the eyes and say "not only do I go home to her, you paid for this pint"....

Biker79 · 06-01-2021 07:39PM

I would have serious concerns about the future.

Consider for a moment, the number of women who have made p** videos over the past few decades. It has skyrocketed. Then consider all the women making money on Onlyfans etc. It doesn't leave a large pool of eligible women.

In fact, we could soon be in a position where we could reasonably ask if any attractive woman hasn't sold herself, in some shape or form, on the internet.

That's a lot of attractive women who will be growing old with cats.

fantaiscool · 06-01-2021 07:43PM

Biker79 wrote: »

I would have serious concerns about the future.

Consider for a moment, the number of women who have made p** videos over the past few decades. It has skyrocketed. Then consider all the women making money on Onlyfans etc. It doesn't leave a large pool of eligible women.

In fact, we could soon be in a position where we could reasonably ask if any attractive woman hasn't sold herself, in some shape or form, on the internet.

That's a lot of attractive women who will be growing old with cats.

Why are some men delusional that women are somehow going to lose out here? No attractive woman will grow old with cats unless it's her decision. There are copious amounts of men they can choose from and having an onlyfans won't change that.

Padre_Pio · 06-01-2021 07:45PM

Biker79 wrote: »

I would have serious concerns about the future.

Consider for a moment, the number of women who have made p** videos over the past few decades. It has skyrocketed. Then consider all the women making money on Onlyfans etc. It doesn't leave a large pool of eligible women.

In fact, we could soon be in a position where we could reasonably ask if any attractive woman hasn't sold herself, in some shape or form, on the internet.

That's a lot of attractive women who will be growing old with cats.

I suppose people had the same opinions about the growing divorce rate, single parents, or that men and women are having more sexual partners than before.

All comes down to your own dealbreakers when you're looking for a partner.

Biker79 · 06-01-2021 07:48PM

fantaiscool wrote: »

Why are some men delusional that women are somehow going to lose out here? No attractive woman will grow old with cats unless it's her decision. There are copious amounts of men they can choose from and having an onlyfans won't change that.

No guys I know would ever date a girl who has sold herself on the internet.

Well...some of them might, but they would be a bit ...desperate... or certainly not interested in settling down with one.

Women will absolutely be the losers here. Once it's on the internet it's there forever.

Padre_Pio · 06-01-2021 07:51PM

Biker79 wrote: »

No guys I know would ever date a girl who has sold herself on the internet.

Well...some of them might, but they would be a bit ...desperate... or certainly not interested in settling down with one.

Women will absolutely be the losers here. Once it's on the internet it's there forever.

Dunno, some lads would be proud of it, some wouldn't care, some wouldn't know.
Sure who really knows everything about their partners past. There's certain things I'm taking to my grave :pac::pac:

Biker79 · 06-01-2021 08:07PM

Padre_Pio wrote: »

Dunno, some lads would be proud of it, some wouldn't care, some wouldn't know.
Sure who really knows everything about their partners past. There's certain things I'm taking to my grave :pac::pac:

Yeah but imagine marrying someone, only for certain videos for resurface years later...

And the older a woman is when she settles down, the more the mystery surrounding her young free and single years. What exactly was she doing all that time?

Her past has a bigger impact on her than a guy's past has on him. It might be unfair but the reasons are rooted in biological differences. Women don't cope as well with multiple partners as men do.

And that's before things are complicated by things like Onlyfans and p***hub.

Personally, I think these things will spark a return to stricter morals.

Dravokivich · 06-01-2021 08:09PM

Biker79 wrote: »

Yeah but imagine marrying someone, only for certain videos for resurface years later...

And the older a woman is when she settles down, the more the mystery surrounding her young free and single years. What exactly was she doing all that time?

Her past has a bigger impact on her than a guy's past has on him. It might be unfair but the reasons are rooted in biological differences. Women don't cope as well with multiple partners as men do.

And that's before things are complicated by things like Onlyfans and p***hub.

Personally, I think these things will spark a return to stricter morals.

Would it bother you?

Biker79 · 06-01-2021 08:11PM

Dravokivich wrote: »

Would it bother you?

Yes. I would say it would be same for most guys.

Some might put up with it, for various reasons.

Mister Vain · 06-01-2021 08:12PM

Biker79 wrote: »

Yeah but imagine marrying someone, only for certain videos for resurface years later...

And the older a woman is when she settles down, the more the mystery surrounding her young free and single years. What exactly was she doing all that time?

Her past has a bigger impact on her than a guy's past has on him. It might be unfair but the reasons are rooted in biological differences. Women don't cope as well with multiple partners as men do.

And that's before things are complicated by things like Onlyfans and p***hub.

Personally, I think these things will spark a return to stricter morals.

In the future people will be shagging in storefront display windows like that scene from Blade Runner 2049 and this will all seem very tame.

Biker79 · 06-01-2021 08:23PM

Mister Vain wrote: »

In the future people will be shagging in storefront display windows like that scene from Blade Runner 2049 and this will all seem very tame.

I'm sure they will.

Assuming the problem of reproduction has been solved by technology, then I guess people are free to behave how they like.

Although at that point, you might also find that men might prefer sex robots, instead of hooking up with real women who have had a colourful past.

silverharp · 06-01-2021 08:28PM

there is a US comedian who has a sketch where as a dad his only job is too make sure his girls dont end up on a pole, similar energy here

fantaiscool · 06-01-2021 10:09PM

Biker79 wrote: »

No guys I know would ever date a girl who has sold herself on the internet.

Well...some of them might, but they would be a bit ...desperate... or certainly not interested in settling down with one.

Women will absolutely be the losers here. Once it's on the internet it's there forever.

Women cannot lose mate. Get it through your head. The fact that a site like OnlyFans exists should tell you something.

Biker79 · 07-01-2021 12:15AM

fantaiscool wrote: »

Women cannot lose mate. Get it through your head. The fact that a site like OnlyFans exists should tell you something.

Maybe for a while they cant...until their mid-30s.

After that, their saucy careers are over. And from there, its a solitary life in a studio apartment with some cats for the next 50 years.

Or as a single mother.

Hellotonever · 07-01-2021 03:07AM

fantaiscool wrote: »

Why do you pay when porn is freely available online? Genuine question.

Onlyfans is just advertisement. Sh*t goes deeper than you could know

fantaiscool · 07-01-2021 06:44AM

Biker79 wrote: »

Maybe for a while they cant...until their mid-30s.

After that, their saucy careers are over. And from there, its a solitary life in a studio apartment with some cats for the next 50 years.

Or as a single mother.

You're overestimating men I think. I don't really see any problem for these girls at all in getting a partner if they want one at any stage whatsoever. Men have got to a stage where actual grannies are making a killing on OnlyFans. An attractive girl in her mid 30s with a kid would still probably need a secretary to manage her inbox if she joined up to a dating app such would be the bombardment of messages from men.

fantaiscool · 07-01-2021 09:25AM

Biker79 wrote: »

I'm sure they will.

Assuming the problem of reproduction has been solved by technology, then I guess people are free to behave how they like.

Although at that point, you might also find that men might prefer sex robots, instead of hooking up with real women who have had a colourful past.

The sexbot is interesting mainly because theres an accusation that the whole concept objectifies women but on the other hand women are objectifying themselves doing things like OnlyFans. Guys are not signing up for their personalities. If the sexbots become so advanced that there is no difference in how it would feel to have sex with one vs an actual woman then I wonder what would happen. I have no idea. I think men would still swarm to actual women as it's more about getting validation from women which a sexbot can't give? Although I have no idea how paying a woman for OnlyFans is somehow giving validation to a man. I would opt for a sexbot if it was realistically on par with having sex with an actual woman but I'm not sure it would take off. It's probably light years away too.

knucklehead6 · 07-01-2021 10:09AM

hynesie08 wrote: »

That's when I take a long refreshing sip of my pint, look him in the eyes and say "not only do I go home to her, you paid for this pint"....

IN fairness that answer made me laugh

Richard Hillman · 07-01-2021 11:07AM

Biker79 wrote: »

Maybe for a while they cant...until their mid-30s.

After that, their saucy careers are over. And from there, its a solitary life in a studio apartment with some cats for the next 50 years.

Or as a single mother.

Never underestimate the amount of men chasing even a mildly attractive woman.

razorblunt · 07-01-2021 11:28AM

Biker79 wrote: »

Maybe for a while they cant...until their mid-30s.

After that, their saucy careers are over. And from there, its a solitary life in a studio apartment with some cats for the next 50 years.

Or as a single mother.

You say single mother like its a bad thing.
Are the going to get hit with a shovel when they turn 40? There would be many single men out there happy with them, provided they've stop deluding themselves by chasing up girls half their age in bars.

Hellotonever wrote: »

Onlyfans is just advertisement. Sh*t goes deeper than you could know

Could you elaborate on that please?

paw patrol · 07-01-2021 12:37PM

hynesie08 wrote: »

They're w*nking off to her, I'm w*nking on to her, think I win in that scenario......

hynesie08 wrote: »

That's when I take a long refreshing sip of my pint, look him in the eyes and say "not only do I go home to her, you paid for this pint"....

if that's your investment in your relationship then fair play to you.
not for me.

07-01-2021 01:00PM

razorblunt wrote: »

You say single mother like its a bad thing..........

Most chaps don't want to raise a kid that isn't their own. Most chaps have no problem seeing a single mother but longterm they'd not see it as ideal.

paw patrol · 07-01-2021 01:59PM

Augeo wrote: »

Most chaps don't want to raise a kid that isn't their own. Most chaps have no problem seeing a single mother but longterm they'd not see it as ideal.

dunno maybe in your 20s
but when you get into your 30s meeting a girl of similar age without and ex and/or kids becomes rare. meeting one who is sane without a kid and a long term ex is unicorn stuff

for fear of upsetting people , excluding medical reasons etc..

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