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Should I chance it?

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    #62
    [Deleted User]
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    Eircom_Sucks wrote: »
    you're wife won't be happy with you :D

    ......

    Indeed, she doesn't like me referring to folk as fat or ugly etc.
    :) She's superfit though :) and not high maintenance.


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    #63
    Eircom_Sucks
    Registered Users Posts: 3,193 ✭✭✭Eircom_Sucks


    Augeo wrote: »
    Indeed, she doesn't like me referring to folk as fat or ugly etc.
    :) She's superfit though :) and not high maintenance.

    she wears the trousers i see :D


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    #64
    Church on Tuesday
    Registered Users Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    4Ad wrote: »
    Onl yesterday I was talking to a lad outside my house, tracksuit tucked into my wellies, bucket in hand (looking good if I may say so myself) when she jogged by it'she only time I have met her out running in weeks..
    Hiding from me !!

    Stop with the excuses and ask her out before some other lad does.


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    #65
    H3llR4iser
    Registered Users Posts: 4,027 ✭✭✭H3llR4iser


    Very friendly and we have s good chat when we meet..

    You're spoken to her more than once already - you're 75% down the road. These day and age (COVID-19 aside, I mean it as a cultural thing) making "first contact" with someone is actually the hard bit.

    Just ask her to get some coffee or something - again, I know it might be an issue with the COVID situation. Worst case scenario, she will say "thanks but no thanks".


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    #66
    dubbrin
    Registered Users Posts: 156 ✭✭dubbrin


    H3llR4iser wrote: »
    Worst case scenario, she will say "thanks but no thanks".
    ...

    ...and we can all put this one to bed


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    #67
    hurikane
    Registered Users Posts: 688 ✭✭✭hurikane


    I’d say it’ll take OP a few dates too before anything happens. Probably a couple of years.


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    #68
    granturismo
    Registered Users Posts: 1,891 ✭✭✭granturismo


    dubbrin wrote: »
    ...

    ...and we can all put this one to bed

    and unsubscribe from this thread.


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    #69
    4Ad
    Registered Users Posts: 2,671 ✭✭✭4Ad


    granturismo wrote: »
    and unsubscribe from this thread.

    Feel like unsubsrcibing myself at this stage..

    If we meet we chat but the only time we meet is out running and not in the same direction, believe me If we were going in the same direction I'd put on the afterburners to catch up !

    Yes I'm a disaster...


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    #70
    Jafin
    Registered Users Posts: 769 ✭✭✭Jafin


    4Ad wrote: »
    Feel like unsubsrcibing myself at this stage..

    If we meet we chat but the only time we meet is out running and not in the same direction, believe me If we were going in the same direction I'd put on the afterburners to catch up !

    Yes I'm a disaster...

    So switch up your route if you meet her. If you see her coming against you slow down and ask if she'd like to run together, and then go the same direction as her if she says yes. Look, I get it, I'm a complete disaster when it comes to flirting and attracting people too, but it's all just excuses you're building up in your mind. Worst case scenario is she says no and you get on with your life.


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    #71
    Staplor
    Registered Users Posts: 1,119 ✭✭✭Staplor


    So nobody suggested Strava stalking her to find out her routine?

    What's become of Boards.ie at all?

    Instead of wellies, he'll be in a tux with a box of milk tray next time.


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    #72
    eviltwin
    Registered Users Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    4Ad wrote: »
    Feel like unsubsrcibing myself at this stage..

    If we meet we chat but the only time we meet is out running and not in the same direction, believe me If we were going in the same direction I'd put on the afterburners to catch up !

    Yes I'm a disaster...

    The fact you are chatting at all is a good sign. Look just bite the bullet and ask her out.


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    #73
    raclle
    Registered Users Posts: 2,350 ✭✭✭raclle


    Is she on FB? Maybe you could message her instead


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    #74
    Feisar
    Registered Users Posts: 6,602 ✭✭✭Feisar


    raclle wrote: »
    Is she on FB? Maybe you could message her instead

    Is the OP 15?

    Pull up when you see her coming, she'll surely stop to say hello. Ask her out, get the yes and then jog on as they say.

    First they came for the socialists...



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    #75
    raclle
    Registered Users Posts: 2,350 ✭✭✭raclle


    Feisar wrote: »
    Is the OP 15?
    Well if he's not confident its an alternative


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    #76
    Feisar
    Registered Users Posts: 6,602 ✭✭✭Feisar


    raclle wrote: »
    Well if he's not confident its an alternative

    True enough in fairness.

    First they came for the socialists...



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    #77
    St. Westy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 226 ✭✭St. Westy


    4Ad wrote: »
    Feel like unsubsrcibing myself at this stage..

    If we meet we chat but the only time we meet is out running and not in the same direction, believe me If we were going in the same direction I'd put on the afterburners to catch up !

    Yes I'm a disaster...

    can you not change your running route to match hers then ;) stop making excuses :pac:


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    #78
    BorneTobyWilde
    Registered Users Posts: 35,665 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    If this is her


    tumblr_n1tqvehQ9n1rjf3ito1_400.gif


    And this is you

    run+fail-reality.gif


    Then give up the chase.. not going to happen


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    #79
    BorneTobyWilde
    Registered Users Posts: 35,665 ✭✭✭✭BorneTobyWilde


    What you dream v reality



    RKzqbjB.gif


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    #80
    Kylta
    Registered Users Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    I say give up the chase mate. I've seen corpses move quicker than you. Go find another woman. Oh wait don't, or we'll have to go through this all over again.


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    #81
    cannotlogin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,172 ✭✭✭cannotlogin


    4Ad wrote: »
    Feel like unsubsrcibing myself at this stage..

    If we meet we chat but the only time we meet is out running and not in the same direction, believe me If we were going in the same direction I'd put on the afterburners to catch up !

    Yes I'm a disaster...

    With you're current strategy, you could be 90 before anything happens. She'll be too slow to run away from you then.

    Next time you see her out running, any direction. Slow down and stop. Call out to her...Hi, I was hoping to bump into you....90% chance she will stop to hear what you have to say....introduce yourself....she will too and then say now that the pubs are open (they definitely will be b the time you get around to it!) any chance I could take you for a drink some evening? Done

    The worst that can happen is she's not interested or thinks your odd. Embarrassment & rejection has to be better than doing nothing!


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    #82
    Vestiapx
    Registered Users Posts: 985 ✭✭✭Vestiapx


    FFS

    " Hi I'm "insert name here " I'd love to " insert activity here" it would be fun.


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    #83
    brinty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,333 ✭✭✭brinty


    Vestiapx wrote:
    " Hi I'm "insert name here " I'd love to " insert activity here" it would be fun.


    Careful now with what you "insert" ;)

    That might be a few dates down the line


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    #84
    Kylta
    Registered Users Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    brinty wrote: »
    Careful now with what you "insert" ;)

    That might be a few dates down the line

    We'll if he don't get a move on he'll be inserting into the Palm of his hand.


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    #85
    B-D-P--
    Registered Users Posts: 1,167 ✭✭✭B-D-P--


    I want to unsubscribe so badly but I cant come to click it... I guess much like OP cant come to ask urwan out!


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    #86
    brinty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 8,333 ✭✭✭brinty


    B-D-P-- wrote:
    I want to unsubscribe so badly but I cant come to click it... I guess much like OP cant come to ask urwan out!

    Don't come to soon either OP, the girls don't like that..


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    #87
    cannotlogin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,172 ✭✭✭cannotlogin


    Anyone remember Brian & Ciara?

    This is worse!


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    #88
    4Ad
    Registered Users Posts: 2,671 ✭✭✭4Ad


    Ah Jeepers lad's dont be at me !!
    I think she has the 4AD sonar just to avoid me !!

    Or else she is looking here and has figured out who I am !!!
    Gonna hide in the hedge tomorrow morning and wait and wait and wait, just for ye !!!


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    #89
    Mossie1975
    Registered Users Posts: 196 ✭✭Mossie1975


    4Ad wrote: »
    Ah Jeepers lad's dont be at me !!
    I think she has the 4AD sonar just to avoid me !!

    Or else she is looking here and has figured out who I am !!!
    Gonna hide in the hedge tomorrow morning and wait and wait and wait, just for ye !!!

    Rooting for you here 4Ad ... God loves a trier (he knows me well :D)


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    #90
    Kylta
    Registered Users Posts: 15,457 ✭✭✭✭Kylta


    4Ad wrote: »
    Ah Jeepers lad's dont be at me !!
    I think she has the 4AD sonar just to avoid me !!

    Or else she is looking here and has figured out who I am !!!
    Gonna hide in the hedge tomorrow morning and wait and wait and wait, just for ye !!!

    Lets know how the court case works out, jogger to stalker.


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    #91
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    4Ad wrote: »
    Ah Jeepers lad's dont be at me !!
    I think she has the 4AD sonar just to avoid me !!

    Or else she is looking here and has figured out who I am !!!
    Gonna hide in the hedge tomorrow morning and wait and wait and wait, just for ye !!!

    Don't make promises you can't keep. Do you want her to forget you?


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