Advertisement
Help Keep Boards Alive. Support us by going ad free today. See here: https://subscriptions.boards.ie/.
https://www.boards.ie/group/1878-subscribers-forum

Private Group for paid up members of Boards.ie. Join the club.
Hi all, please see this major site announcement: https://www.boards.ie/discussion/2058427594/boards-ie-2026

Study reveals men with cats are a dating turnoff

  • 25-06-2020 05:41PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭SharpshooterTom


    If you’re a guy with a cat and a dating app profile, listen up (but maybe put your feline pal in the other room first).

    Men who own cats might be less likely to get dates, according to a new study on how women perceive potential matches on apps like Tinder, Hinge and Bumble.

    The findings, published by researchers at Colorado State University and Boise State University, looks into the question of “whether men were considered more attractive when posing for a photo alone or holding a cat.”

    Their conclusion? Cats, aren’t cute — or at least, they don’t make their owners seem cuter. In fact, for 708 women surveyed in the experiment, they actually made men appear less attractive.

    The study was relatively simple: Researchers showed the women (whose ages ranged from 18 to 24) photos of two men, each of whom had posed for one photo with a cat, and one without.

    Then, based on the photos, the women were asked whether they’d consider dating that guy — with many saying their opinion decreased after seeing him with a feline companion.

    For example, 38 percent of women surveyed said they’d date the first man in the study, based solely on his cat-free photo. After they were shown a picture of him with his four-legged friend, that figure dropped to 33 percent.

    The percentage of women who said they’d never get involved with the man also rose once they saw him with a cat, from 9 percent to 14 percent.

    “Women viewed men as less masculine when holding the cat; higher in neuroticism, agreeableness, and openness; and less dateable,” the researchers wrote of their findings.


    The outcome was far from expected. In fact, the study’s authors admitted that, before the survey, they had believed that holding a cat would make a man appear more attractive. This was based on previous research which found that “women view pet owners as more attractive and dateable than non-pet owners,” according to the study.

    It seems as though that hypothesis may only extend to dog owners — who, according to the researchers’ citations of previous studies — might be seen as more “masculine” than guys with cats.

    “Women prefer men with “good genes”, often defined as more masculine traits,” the study states. “Clearly, the presence of a cat diminishes that perception.”

    https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/cat-might-hurting-dating-life-122335854.html

    So basically the story is its ok to own a cat but just don't shove one into your profile pic with you?


«1345

Comments

  • Posts: 7,713 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Do many single men own cats?..

    Seems like more a woman's pet..

    Although it is 2020 I suppose..


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,166 ✭✭✭✭nullzero
    °°°°°


    Do many single men own cats?..

    Seems like more a woman's pet..

    Although it is 2020 I suppose..

    Looking forward to the replies this garners, lol.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,977 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    The smell of a home with a cat is never pleasant.

    “It matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be” - A. Dumbledore

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,049 ✭✭✭GinSoaked




    About 50 seconds in maybe the reason why :D


  • Posts: 81,308 CMod ✭✭✭✭ Malaya Full Plantain


    That's funny
    i wonder if they just got sick of looking at the guy and if they tried it in the order with-without as well


  • Advertisement
  • Closed Accounts Posts: 82 ✭✭Risingshadoo


    If a woman has pets, I wouldn't date her. Sorry.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 415 ✭✭SlowMotion321


    That's cause they're pussies!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 1,898 ✭✭✭Apiarist


    Owning a cat is fine. Putting a selfie with a cat on your dating profile shows that the guy is so desperate for attention as to use a pet to attract a date.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,049 ✭✭✭GinSoaked




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,250 ✭✭✭Seamai


    I worked with a woman on her early 30's who never shut up about her two cats, I got a text from her once while she was on holidays saying she was really missing her "babies". If I was her fiance I'd be running for the hills.


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,906 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    Seamai wrote: »
    I worked with a woman on her early 30's who never shut up about her two cats, I got a text from her once while she was on holidays saying she was really missing her "babies". If I was her fiance I'd be running for the hills.

    Worked with a similar woman who spent half her day sketching pictures of her cats.

    The other half was spent talking at people about them.

    I wonder how much was invested in this research to arrive at a rather obvious conclusion.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,521 ✭✭✭ArnoldJRimmer


    Well number one, I don't use Tinder, but if I did, I wouldn't include details of my cat within the profile as who fcuking cares. A pet does not define a person unless you are Joe Exotic

    But number two, I wouldn't date someone who was so shallow that they would think that a man who has a cat is somehow less masculine or worthy of a date


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,519 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    I know no man that know a cat....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,853 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    I remember hearing recently dating advice to not date someone who has a dog because the dog will always come first, in the context I heard it seemed for men not to date women with dogs but I guess it could go either way. I suppose you could be extra determined and wait for the god to die of old age :pac:

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,906 ✭✭✭✭Alf Veedersane


    silverharp wrote: »
    I remember hearing recently dating advice to not date someone who has a dog because the dog will always come first

    And that ruins the mood I'm sure


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,877 ✭✭✭Hoboo


    Without spending time and money on a study, I wouldn't expect a girl/woman/lady/female, whatever the correct term is this week, holding a cat in her profile picture, would fair too well attracting guys either.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,006 ✭✭✭Grab All Association


    What happened to After Hours?

    Not that long ago with a thread like this there’d be 7 pages of vagina jokes within an hour before the thread would be locked.

    You’re all just short of putting your preferred pronouns on your boards profile and posting about veganism and gender neutral clothes.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,707 ✭✭✭Bobblehats


    Much safer option should he have three bull mastiffs straining at the leash


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,990 ✭✭✭c.p.w.g.w


    Seamai wrote: »
    I worked with a woman on her early 30's who never shut up about her two cats, I got a text from her once while she was on holidays saying she was really missing her "babies". If I was her fiance I'd be running for the hills.

    Literally sounds like myself & OH...

    Most folks form strong bonds with their pets, so much so that there is little difference in brain scans between someone who has lost(Died) a family member or a Pet(Dog & Cat)


  • Posts: 13,753 ✭✭✭✭ Bruce Tender Pushcart


    So, in conclusion, it was a simple case of "Do you like cats?"


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,862 ✭✭✭mikhail


    Well number one, I don't use Tinder, but if I did, I wouldn't include details of my cat within the profile as who fcuking cares. A pet does not define a person unless you are Joe Exotic
    "Do you have any pets?" and "Are you a cat or a dog person" are very common dating profile questions. Tinder is 90% about the photos, but photos of pets are common. (And welcome too, I think. I'd certainly hesitate to date a cat owner if I were allergic to cats!)
    But number two, I wouldn't date someone who was so shallow that they would think that a man who has a cat is somehow less masculine or worthy of a date
    There's a difference between people who would articulate that idea if you asked them, and unconscious bias and association. I expect there are lots of women who would tell you they'd be positively disposed to a cat-friendly man, but who would just rate the dating profile of a cat-owner a bit lower instinctively.

    To pick an extreme example, there are plenty of people who would consider themselves far from racist, but who display very strong statistical racial preferences in their selections on dating apps.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,980 ✭✭✭buried


    Didn't do this lad any harm, and not only was he a psycho, he had the head of a battered 1989 MO Toyota,

    Although yer wan was blind anyways so

    Bullet The Blue Shirts



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,048 ✭✭✭✭PsychoPete


    I was in a relationship with a woman who wanted to move in together but I had to get rid of my dogs, so I got rid of her


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,440 ✭✭✭Rodney Bathgate


    PsychoPete wrote: »
    I was in a relationship with a woman who wanted to move in together but I had to get rid of my dogs, so I got rid of her

    Where did you bury her body?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 395 ✭✭Class MayDresser


    Whereas a woman with her pussy on show on her dating profile is OK. Hmmm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 415 ✭✭SlowMotion321


    Where did you bury her body?

    Fed her to the dogs of course;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,048 ✭✭✭✭PsychoPete


    Where did you bury her body?

    If there is a body, there is evidence! That's a rookie mistake


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,440 ✭✭✭Rodney Bathgate


    PsychoPete wrote: »
    If there is a body, there is evidence! That's a rookie mistake

    Yes, my bad, I should have asked how you disposed of the body.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,440 ✭✭✭Rodney Bathgate


    Whereas a woman with her pussy on show on her dating profile is OK. Hmmm.

    What dating app is this now?


  • Advertisement
  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,677 ✭✭✭frozenfrozen


    is it only a 5% difference? I thought it would be more. 5% probably accounts for the "I only swiped for your dog" women


Advertisement
Advertisement