Young women partnering with much older men

pgj2015 · 19-04-2020 12:59AM

Wanderer19 wrote: »

Successful people also want other successful people.

I worked with college students that wouldn't dream of going out with a waiter/barman unless they (the lads) were doing it for pocket money in uni. They wanted men with prospects.

shows you what they know. it is shortsighted to judge someone on their occupation. them waiters/barmen could go on to do far greater things than guys who were in uni. look at someone like Duncan Bannatyne, he did various "dead end jobs" in his 20's, when he turned 30 he decided he would become a millionaire and in 5 years he had achieved his goal. at one stage he was worth 300 million or more.

Das Reich · 19-04-2020 12:59AM

The thing is to have a woman half your age + 10. So if you are 50 the woman should have 35.

wakka12 · 19-04-2020 01:02AM

Not necessarily, some people just prefer an older partner, how they look, act, maturity, greater wealth often comes with age but its certainly not always the only thing people like about an older partner. When I was younger I just preferred older men, it was nothing to do with their money I really couldnt care less about it, I just found guys a bit older than me more attractive

anewme · 19-04-2020 01:04AM

When I was 19, I went out with a 37 year old. Was mad about him.

He used to sing that sing to me the H17 song ...I was 37, you were 17 ( ok I was 19, but same principles apply).

Lasted 2 years and imploded for various reasons.

Was nothing to do with money.

Saw him across a room almost 30 years later...it would not have worked. Everything is but a point in time.

99nsr125 · 19-04-2020 01:05AM

Das Reich wrote: »

The thing is to have a woman half your age + 10. So if you are 50 the woman should have 35.

I thought it was plus 7

Wanderer19 · 19-04-2020 01:06AM

pgj2015 wrote: »

shows you what they know. it is shortsighted to judge someone on their occupation. them waiters/barmen could go on to do far greater things than guys who were in uni. look at someone like Duncan Bannatyne, he did various "dead end jobs" in his 20's, when he turned 30 he decided he would become a millionaire and in 5 years he had achieved his goal. at one stage he was worth 300 million or more.

You're preaching to the converted - I married a barman.

Widdershins · 19-04-2020 01:10AM

The impression that they're more worldly and can teach us and take care of us. He might also have hidden assets inthe non monetary sense of the word.

donegal_man · 19-04-2020 01:11AM

Some awful cynicism on this thread. There's a fourteen year age gap between my partner and I. I'm also divorced with two children so there's no way she's with me for my wealth. We have similar interests, like the same food and share a sense of humour.
Oh and nobody ever seems to quote Debbie McGee's answer to the Mrs Merton question, "I saw the size of his wand."

nails1 · 19-04-2020 01:19AM

My 24 year old mate is having sex with a girl he believes to be underage. Is that illegal?

Leg End Reject · 19-04-2020 01:20AM

nails1 wrote: »

My 24 year old mate is having sex with a girl he believes to be underage. Is that illegal?

It's statutory rape if she's legally underage. The age of consent here is 17.

BorneTobyWilde · 19-04-2020 01:20AM

https://twitter.com/cyberbabe1998/status/901157104853143552

JoChervil · 19-04-2020 01:29AM

Sometimes money is just a side effect. A man needs to have certain personality traits to get them, which can be very attractive to women.

With money usually goes power, which again can be very attractive to women.

And an attractive man because of money, personality traits and power has bigger choice and can choose a young woman, if it is what he likes.

On the other hand I've seen a very wealthy man who obviously "bought" a young pretty woman and then was resentful, that she was with him because of his money, while he never tried to get a woman in a different way....

BorneTobyWilde · 19-04-2020 01:31AM

kowloon · 19-04-2020 01:33AM

It's the female gorillas attracted to the mightiest silverback, but human society has wealth and other societal aspects instead of strength and aggression. This is why everyone was so upset by the death of Harambe. All women secretly want to be dragged up to the top of the Empire State and be ploughed out of it by Kong. BTW, when are we due for another incel/PUA thread? I'm getting out of practice.

Leg End Reject · 19-04-2020 01:33AM

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

I thought of that when I saw this thread but couldn't remember the details!

BorneTobyWilde · 19-04-2020 01:43AM

Leg End Reject wrote: »

I thought of that when I saw this thread but couldn't remember the details!

WHat luck he was having that week, won the lottery and found love, amazing lol

ILoveYourVibes · 19-04-2020 01:43AM

handlemaster wrote: »

Why do young women partner with much older men who are wealthy ! Would these same women be interested if the man didn't have so much money ! Its like they have given up on life and are prepared to be chosen one.

They don't want a broke dude who can't afford to feed his kids.

I know women who are accountants etc Drs ..they wouldn't date a broke dude.

Lets be honest ...women marrying broke men....generations of poverty come from this.

Successful people are always more attractive to poor losers who can barely provide for themselves nevermind anyone else.
Successful people also want other successful people.

I worked with college students that wouldn't dream of going out with a waiter/barman unless they (the lads) were doing it for pocket money in uni. They wanted men with prospects.

This is true.

And these men know it. They know if he loses his money she walks. Also she knows if she weren't pretty he wouldn't look twice. Or he might leave as she gets older.

There is one thing i don't like about these posts though it reeks of ..Poor rich dude. Poor pretty girl ...YEAH RIGHT

The girl wants the easy way out. She wants to be a pet not an equal. She will do his bidding and put up with any crap.

He is a sleazy sleazebag.

99nsr125 · 19-04-2020 01:51AM

Widdershins wrote: »

The impression that they're more worldly and can teach us and take care of us. He might also have hidden assets inthe non monetary sense of the word.

A ha ha ha ha
This is hilarious

ILoveYourVibes · 19-04-2020 01:53AM

anewme wrote: »

When I was 19, I went out with a 37 year old. Was mad about him.

He used to sing that sing to me the H17 song ...I was 37, you were 17 ( ok I was 19, but same principles apply).

Lasted 2 years and imploded for various reasons.

Was nothing to do with money.

Saw him across a room almost 30 years later...it would not have worked. Everything is but a point in time.

We aren't talking about when its genuine though. We are talking about when its not. Sure people fall in love with older people or people wealthier than them.

But what about when they don't fall in love ...but are with this person. That happens to.

It doesn't mean every age diff i see i go ..ooops golddigger.

We are talking about this specific situation.

Originally Posted by Widdershins View Post
The impression that they're more worldly and can teach us and take care of us. He might also have hidden assets inthe non monetary sense of the word.

More likely they see each other as a mark. Someone they exploit. Both of them ...he can control her get her to put up with stuff she wouldn't with a poorer younger guy...she can live on his money and do nothing. It works for them. They both see each other as naive.

Of course ..you can just fall in love with an older person.

Plumbthedepths · 19-04-2020 01:54AM

Op never heard of the golden flute.

anewme · 19-04-2020 01:57AM

ILoveYourVibes wrote: »

We aren't talking about when its genuine though. We are talking about when its not. Sure people fall in love with older people or people wealthier than them.

But what about when they don't fall in love ...but are with this person. That happens to.

It doesn't mean every age diff i see i go ..ooops golddigger.

We are talking about this specific situation.

More likely they see each other as a mark. Someone they exploit. Both of them ...he can control her get her to put up with stuff she wouldn't with a poorer younger guy...she can live on his money and do nothing. It works for them. They both see each other as naive.

Of course ..you can just fall in love with an older person.

Sorry I missed the word wealthy! He was broke. But had done pretty well when I saw him years later.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-04-2020 01:58AM

I would say there are a lot of millionaires who seduce underage women or women in bad situations too.

I would say there is a lot of this.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4708322/Lotto-millionaire-sex-underage-girl-Ireland.html

kowloon · 19-04-2020 02:03AM

Plumbthedepths wrote: »

Op never heard of the golden flute.

Is this another one of those stories from band camp?

ILoveYourVibes · 19-04-2020 02:03AM

anewme wrote: »

Sorry I missed the word wealthy! He was broke. But had done pretty well when I saw him years later.

Cool ..but we aren't talking about genuine cases. Either with broke or wealthy older men. You would be silly to think its never genuine.

We are talking about the psychology involved when its obviously not genuine.

I'm sure a lot of wealthy men become womanizers. It tends to be them who end up with golddiggers.

There might be some genuine wealthy guys who end up with scammers and for them i feel truly sorry.

But not all of them are innocent. Plus there are some men who use wealth to seduce naive people into an abusive situation.
Prince Philip etc ..

Below is an article about a guy who beat his gf 117 times and despite some of it being on video ..he got away with it all.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/gurbaksh-chahal-domestic-violence_n_5201334?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAF0sIhFf_-W4QnLHwS43WfYWGa4RD3VAbjAEQ2J-2Mf5k6k8zCOYyaItTNi5jzuuxMVDPJPH0ErXvKisetVxoCjDbF3P9a4tX9HhNCsptw8FOSfYlKcH-e-GI17kmmxJyEqjs6cIsl03Q8HsQXeTz5Nsv4-_TkzJdWBgS6ga8KkW

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/life/economic-abuse-meet-wealthy-wives-whose-controlling-husbands/

The inequality in wealth ..can lead to inequality in the relationship.

Perhaps for the guy that is attractive.

Widdershins · 19-04-2020 02:06AM

99nsr125 wrote: »

A ha ha ha ha
This is hilarious

How so?

LETHAL LADY · 19-04-2020 02:06AM

Truth be told they're usually visually impaired. Think river blindness.

ILoveYourVibes · 19-04-2020 02:06AM

kowloon wrote: »

Is this another one of those stories from band camp?

Its a children's story.

Its about a dragon who kidnaps a girl ..its sometimes called the emperors flute and the dragon is replaced by an evil emperor.

Plumbthedepths · 19-04-2020 02:07AM

kowloon wrote: »

Is this another one of those stories from band camp?

What happened in band camp stays in band camp.

BorneTobyWilde · 19-04-2020 02:09AM

The older the Fiddle the sweeter the tune

ILoveYourVibes · 19-04-2020 02:10AM

BorneTobyWilde wrote: »

The older the Fiddle the sweeter the tune

I've watched grandpa porn ...they are pretty passionate!

Young women partnering with much older men

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