Rude unsupervised kids

NasserShammaz · 16-11-2019 08:53AM

Fr_Dougal wrote: »

Sounds like the kids might have been autistic.

Ha , or like every other little brat who has sh#t parents that let them do what they want and have no respect for anyone else , that role chestnut ADHD, no your child does not have ADHD or anything else that will get you of the hook for being useless or give you an excuse to waste resource of SNA or social services .

super_furry · 16-11-2019 08:54AM

OP is clearly a time traveller.

The White Wolf · 16-11-2019 08:57AM

biko wrote: »

So what did you do?

It takes a village to raise kids...

In my experience these days the village is told to **** off and mind their own business. People are too afraid to try and educate kids socially for fear of every sort of accusation coming their way.

And to be fair, it's not just the shams who are raising their kids with an oblivious ignorance.

lawred2 · 16-11-2019 09:09AM

Justin Credible Darts wrote: »

A while back my wife and I were in a hospital waiting room, and besides us there were 6 other couples, of which one couple had a kid which was uncontrolled and allowed roam around., throwing toys and tossing magazines.

I scanned the room looking for which couple allowed their child to act this way.
Of the 12 other adults sitting down not one person was speaking to another, in fact 11 of them were on mobile phones and the 12th person reading a newspaper. I said to my wife, how sad it is how people do not even communicate with their own partner let alone other people.., at which point a couple looked up from their phones. A couple of seconds later the child who was not being supervised fell of a coffee table he was climbing and started screaming and suddenly the parents put down their phone.

I said to my wife if the parents had been watching their child it would not happened, to which the mother replied "we have our own lives too".

Here is the kicker...The hospital waiting room we were all in waiting was in the fertility clinic, these people wanted more kids, when they could not even keep an eye on the one they had, who was in the very same room, and then made excuses for their negligence.

Don't get me started on little brats I have seen like the one I saw kick their mother in a supermarket.

You seem to pass off those passive aggressive comments off as "said to my wife"..

Either say something direct or mind your own business.

Or try whispering.

Eggs For Dinner · 16-11-2019 09:16AM

Plumbthedepths wrote: »

Worked in hotels and bars years ago, nothing new here.
I often saw parents walking in with their precious offspring and as soon as they cross the threshold of the premises the assumption was the staff became responsible for supervising their children.

Was it a Maldron Hotel. Seems to be a feature of those establishments

Gynoid · 16-11-2019 09:40AM

People raising children are at a serious disadvantage since the advent of smart phones. In my opinion (obviously). It simply cannot be denied that they are attention diverters. They are quite addictive, not to everyone of course but to many. The dopamine hit etc. I just got one a few months ago - it is so easy to chill and scroll instead of doing something else. I am really glad for me personally that I raised my family before smart phones. Maybe that is an admission to an addictive streak but shrugs, yes, I have an addictive streak, but I see that same addictive streak everywhere now. People constantly fumbling with phones. I purposely set aside hours during each day when I don't have a phone with me. Maybe people who have families to raise should drop their phones in a basket on the way in the door?
Also all the tablets and phones and screens being handed to babies and toddlers - this is pervasive also from what I observe. It is so stimulating, why would it not be addictive for those children from such a young age. Enthrallment literally.
There is no way a parent can give a child sufficient attention if they are scrolling on their phone or ever ready to snap or video the child as the child goes about their normal life. Children need you to talk with them and just be with them, to look at them, to be idle with them, to just loll about on the grass or sand or carpet or bed together doing nothing. Often. Almost all the time, in fact. That is being human.

Sorry about that · 16-11-2019 10:19AM

NasserShammaz wrote: »

Yes , there is a large percentage of this population now that are most definitely from the shallow end of the gene pool and as far as I'm concerned "it" is a fair enough description

There's also a percentage of this population that most definitely have superiority complexes, who believe that it's acceptable to publicly (yet anonymously) dehumanise someone they feel is in some way inferior. Superiority complexes are actually just masked feelings of inferiority, but you probably know this.

Try not to pass this on to your own kids, they won't thank you.

whisky_galore · 16-11-2019 10:24AM

biko wrote: »

So what did you do?

It takes a village to raise kids...

How many other people's kids have you raised in your village?

pjohnson · 16-11-2019 10:25AM

NasserShammaz wrote: »

Ha , or like every other little brat who has sh#t parents that let them do what they want and have no respect for anyone else , that role chestnut ADHD, no your child does not have ADHD or anything else that will get you of the hook for being useless or give you an excuse to waste resource of SNA or social services .

:pac:

Spoken like a true intellect.

_Brian · 16-11-2019 10:47AM

Was in a cafe in Donegal last summer and a similar crew came in with the fattest kid about 7yo I’d ever seen.

Mother gets chips and sausages, kid gets chips and a glass of milk.

When they were waiting the mother was feeding the kid the small patts of butter of the table, he ate four. Then proceeded to put two into his glass of milk.

My thinking was he was goi to run a marathon or something and needed the extra energy.

Wanderer78 · 16-11-2019 10:55AM

_Brian wrote:

My thinking was he was goi to run a marathon or something and needed the extra energy.

Its clearly obvious our efforts to educate people about nutrition has failed, we need to make dramatic changes urgently, our educational system should play a critical part in this

_Brian · 16-11-2019 11:16AM

Wanderer78 wrote: »

Its clearly obvious our efforts to educate people about nutrition has failed, we need to make dramatic changes urgently, our educational system should play a critical part in this

Wife had a “client” in one day as the six month old had issues. The mother was talking about how much baba just loved skips !

Mules · 16-11-2019 01:36PM

dartboardio wrote: »

Lol yup, welcome to ireland

Where people who cannot read or write, have kids, multiple kids, named 'harmony' 'cameron' and 'harper'

See it everyday. Work in the public sector, and feel awfully sorry for all these young women who grew up in a background where its normal to pop out 3 kids by 21 and sponge off the gubberment for your whole life.

Ending up in a bnb because of trouble with hap, refusing to work and saying 'the gubberment are cxnts!!'

To be fair some of them do work but when they choose to become single mothers that's about it.

Potential-Monke · 16-11-2019 01:46PM

I don't hide the fact that I have a strong dislike for kids, so nothing drives me more mental than uncontrolled kids anywhere. Not everyone wants to hear the 'beautiful' screams of your child (a scream is a scream, whether it's due to happiness or sadness). Not everyone wants to interact with your inquisitive kid. I have to leave some places due to it, for fear of taking a swing at the little sh!ts*. Just baffles me that some people seem to think otherwise, or that everyone must like kids.

It's why I'm 100% behind the places that ban kids after a certain time, ie: pubs, restaurants, etc.

*Note, I wouldn't actually hit a child. Too many people think it's wrong.

Wanderer78 · 16-11-2019 01:46PM

Mules wrote: »

To be fair some of them do work but when they choose to become single mothers that's about it.

say wha?

Potential-Monke · 16-11-2019 02:03PM

Wanderer78 wrote: »

say wha?

*whispers* There's more money in being a single mother...

Wanderer78 · 16-11-2019 02:04PM

Potential-Monke wrote: »

*whispers* There's more money in being a single mother...

i know single mothers that struggle to feed themselves and heat their homes, id be interested to know where this secret money is, because they really need it

Potential-Monke · 16-11-2019 02:07PM

Oh you'd have loads of money if you popped out 6 kids and didn't use the benefit for the benefit of the kids. Unless you want to legitimately discuss this, in which case you're in the wrong forum. Just go with the flow like everyone else!

NasserShammaz · 16-11-2019 04:12PM

pjohnson wrote: »

:pac:

Spoken like a true intellect.

Why thank you.....

NasserShammaz · 16-11-2019 04:20PM

Sorry about that wrote: »

There's also a percentage of this population that most definitely have superiority complexes, who believe that it's acceptable to publicly (yet anonymously) dehumanise someone they feel is in some way inferior. Superiority complexes are actually just masked feelings of inferiority, but you probably know this.

Try not to pass this on to your own kids, they won't thank you.

You leave my fat unruly idiot children out of this, if they want to key your car burn your bin or bully your kids tought.its not my fault it's the ADHD makes them do it , now get over here harmony, sprocket and chardonnay stop licking all the pick n mix ðŸ‘

Deebles McBeebles · 16-11-2019 04:29PM

super_furry wrote: »

OP is clearly a time traveller.

16-11-2019 06:05PM

Wanderer78 wrote: »

Its clearly obvious our efforts to educate people about nutrition has failed, we need to make dramatic changes urgently, our educational system should play a critical part in this

the problem is when it's overshadowed by politics, like the food pyramid being sponsored by the govt. it's still being pushed in places.
or fat being made out to be the bad guy by the sugar cos

Justin Credible Darts · 16-11-2019 06:34PM

a kid's diet and weight has no bearing on them being rude and unsupervised as it says in the thread title and is a separate issue
A child could have the perfect diet, home, schooling but if the parents do not educate the kid in discipline and not show them how to act or behave properly, then said kid will be a little sh1t

Capt'n Midnight · 16-11-2019 06:48PM

A long time ago, in a far off place ...

I’m sure many of you have encountered little sh*ts in supermarkets.
Little kids running about and knocking things over, being rude, walking all over their parents, you know the kind. But the worst are the biters. Yes, those little c*nts that feel it is okay to bite you whenever they feel like it.

Okay, here’s the best part. A biter got me today when I was grocery stopping. He broke the f*cking skin, too. This was when the gears started turning, the moment I saw a tiny sprickle of blood on the little sh*t’s teeth as he was grinning at me like the little c*nt he is.

I made my eyes get wide, and started screaming “SH*T! SH*T!.” Now, my good friend, Tom we’ll call him, was there too, and he instantly picked up on it. He started shouting “F*CK! MAYBE HE DIDN’T GET IT! F*CK!.”

By now, the kid is scared sh*tless and starts crying, and instantly, Mizz Mom appears out of nowhere and starts getting pissy at us for yelling at her kid.
Here’s the kicker, I look her straight in the eye and say, “Mam, get your son tested as soon as possible, he just bit me and I’m… I’m F*CKING HIV POSITIVE.”

And now there is silence. Not a peep in the entire store. The brat knows he just f*cked up big time because his mom isn’t defending his ass. She just stares at me wide eyed. I walk away from them, buy my sh*t from the wide eyed cashier, all the while blood is dripping from my calf, making a nice little trail on the floor.

And, just as we leave, we start to hear the mother sobbing. Sobbing like the c*nt she is.
I have never felt any more satisfaction than the moment I heard that sob.

NasserShammaz · 16-11-2019 07:10PM

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

A long time ago, in a far off place ...

I’m sure many of you have encountered little sh*ts in supermarkets.
Little kids running about and knocking things over, being rude, walking all over their parents, you know the kind. But the worst are the biters. Yes, those little c*nts that feel it is okay to bite you whenever they feel like it.

Okay, here’s the best part. A biter got me today when I was grocery stopping. He broke the f*cking skin, too. This was when the gears started turning, the moment I saw a tiny sprickle of blood on the little sh*t’s teeth as he was grinning at me like the little c*nt he is.

I made my eyes get wide, and started screaming “SH*T! SH*T!.” Now, my good friend, Tom we’ll call him, was there too, and he instantly picked up on it. He started shouting “F*CK! MAYBE HE DIDN’T GET IT! F*CK!.”

By now, the kid is scared sh*tless and starts crying, and instantly, Mizz Mom appears out of nowhere and starts getting pissy at us for yelling at her kid.
Here’s the kicker, I look her straight in the eye and say, “Mam, get your son tested as soon as possible, he just bit me and I’m… I’m F*CKING HIV POSITIVE.”

And now there is silence. Not a peep in the entire store. The brat knows he just f*cked up big time because his mom isn’t defending his ass. She just stares at me wide eyed. I walk away from them, buy my sh*t from the wide eyed cashier, all the while blood is dripping from my calf, making a nice little trail on the floor.

And, just as we leave, we start to hear the mother sobbing. Sobbing like the c*nt she is.
I have never felt any more satisfaction than the moment I heard that sob.

Inspirational it is , inspirational........

LoganRice · 16-11-2019 07:29PM

They are bold and need to change! Well will teach them!

DEFTLEFTHAND · 16-11-2019 08:23PM

We're being out bred by the commoners.

Decent working folk breed later in life and produce less offspring.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts · 16-11-2019 08:24PM

Fr_Dougal wrote: »

Sounds like the kids might have been autistic.

I’m guessing this is a joke. :pac:

mloc123 · 16-11-2019 08:29PM

Justin Credible Darts wrote: »

a kid's diet and weight has no bearing on them being rude and unsupervised as it says in the thread title and is a separate issue
A child could have the perfect diet, home, schooling but if the parents do not educate the kid in discipline and not show them how to act or behave properly, then said kid will be a little sh1t

I would say the two are closely linked tbh...

Fat kids are fat because their parents do not say no to them, the same type of parents are not big into supervising and correcting bad behaviour.

Obvious Desperate Breakfasts · 16-11-2019 08:31PM

NasserShammaz wrote: »

Ha , or like every other little brat who has sh#t parents that let them do what they want and have no respect for anyone else , that role chestnut ADHD, no your child does not have ADHD or anything else that will get you of the hook for being useless or give you an excuse to waste resource of SNA or social services .

Ah, ADHD isn’t anything like autism. Not that it sounds like these children have either. But autism is not a flippant diagnosis.

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