Just because we both own dogs doesn't mean we are friends

chrissb8 · 29-10-2019 11:22AM

I think it's pretty rude to interrupt someone on their walk with their dog. So what if you're a dog lover, don't be so rude as to think you can just come over and take 5 minutes out of someone's day interrupting their walk, bending down infront of their dog to pet it asking the owner innane questions.

That must be annoying if all you wanted to do was get a quick half an hour walk in but being interrupted by some eejits who won't let you be. I can't stand the entitlement of people like that.

People who are all about their dogs are weirdos too. They are fantastic companions, but don't be humanising them looking at their reactions and behaviour like it has 5 layers of thoughts going on in one go. Posting pictures on social media all the time or worse yet letting them do whatever the hell they want around the house. Including letting them in and around the table at mealtimes slobbering and begging. You may be fine with it but guests who aren't used to it or a big fan of dogs might be uneasy.

At the end of the day. It's a dog, so stop putting them on this weird pedestal. They will eat their own vomit/s**t if you give them a chance and I think that says it all.

Beautiful animals but that's just it. They're still animals.

daheff · 29-10-2019 11:24AM

Wear headphones when out walking your dog. People are less likely to interrupt you then

Salmon Leap · 29-10-2019 11:30AM

BDI wrote: »

It’s just a dog. You arnt a hero for getting it for free.

Shows how much you know, rescues are not free.

decky1 · 29-10-2019 11:36AM

why have people gone so solitary? is it not nice to be out for a walk and meet someone for a bit of a chat, people have become very strange, they no problem having their heads down looking at the phone sifting through other peoples facebook etc.

Badly Drunk Boy · 29-10-2019 11:42AM

Salmon Leap wrote: »

Shows how much you know, rescues are not free.

Of course they're not free! They're being held captive by the likes of you!! :pac: :P

The One Doctor · 29-10-2019 11:47AM

If you're a dog lover you might get the hump.

manbitesdog · 29-10-2019 11:59AM

Hoboo wrote: »

I'd avoid anyone who comes up to me and asks if my dog is a rescue, and then blanks me when I say no. Now that's someone you want to avoid, those people are a pain in the arse.

But if they just blank you then there should be no problem. Then you’re both avoiding each other!

manbitesdog · 29-10-2019 12:01PM

castletownman wrote: »

I have noticed a boom in 'dog-lovers' over the last few years. The extreme ones too-who stop you in the middle of your walk just so they can tell you how lovely your dog is and how their dog Millie is the boss at home.

Who refer to their dogs as 'fur babies'.

I love dogs myself, but those sort of people are very off-putting and frankly some of them are odd.

Considering we domesticated dogs centuries (or millenia) ago why are the suddenly more popular than ever before?

Dogs are actually less popular than ever. They are not well adapted to modern city living, where cats have overtaken them as the more popular pet.

Princess Calla · 29-10-2019 12:19PM

Feisar wrote: »

Replace dog with baby and ye are describing my life right now.

Random strangers petting him
Starting conversations about feeding habits
Are you getting much sleep?
Does he do any tricks? (Roll over)

I was going to say never have children OP. The whole neighbourhood will be in your house a week after the baby arrives. There's no boundaries with questions that get asked

Go to the supermarket and your an aul dear magnet, offering lots of advice

Wibbs · 29-10-2019 01:17PM

decky1 wrote: »

why have people gone so solitary? is it not nice to be out for a walk and meet someone for a bit of a chat, people have become very strange,

I hear you D. Though to be fair it's more online you get these kinda conversations. In the real world most people aren't "introverted" antisocial or unsocialised types who find basic human interaction so taxing, scary, irritating[delete as applicable].

Salmon Leap · 29-10-2019 01:27PM

decky1 wrote: »

why have people gone so solitary? is it not nice to be out for a walk and meet someone for a bit of a chat, people have become very strange, they no problem having their heads down looking at the phone sifting through other peoples facebook etc.

Love bringing my dog for a walk, but it can also be my unwinding time- Headphones on and listing to music or podcasts

Cienciano · 29-10-2019 02:44PM

El Tarangu wrote: »

My dad is now retired, lives on his own, and all of his kids are grown and living abroad for the last number of years. He's delighted when people come over to say hello and pet the dogs, and doesn't mind at all talking about their lineage or where he got them from, even though he must have told the story hundreds of times at this stage.

Lots of older people get dogs, not just for the company of the dogs themselves, but for the fact that they encourage people, who might normally be just a bit too reserved to approach an old man walking in a park, to come over and say hello. So I'm sure the OP, even thought they themselves might find it a pain in the bum, would be at pains not to discourage the practice for the important social function it provides

I'd agree, had plenty of chats to older folk with dogs, my kids love going up to dogs on leads and asking the owners about them.
Lots of people on boards are into not talking to anyone. We're coming up to 12 pubs threads soon, wait for the people who want to go to the pub on their own and read a book and hate everyone else brigade.

D3V!L · 29-10-2019 03:01PM

My dog is dressing up as a dog for Halloween. Look at him !! Looook !!

Isn't he cute

What dog do you have ? My furbaby is a dachshund cross.

29-10-2019 03:29PM

You could always try barking when accosted in the park, it works for me.

29-10-2019 03:42PM

Wibbs wrote: »

I hear you D. Though to be fair it's more online you get these kinda conversations. In the real world most people aren't "introverted" antisocial or unsocialised types who find basic human interaction so taxing, scary, irritating[delete as applicable].

It's another strand of the increase in autism IMO. Most people I know (not a great group) give out about people trying to talk to them about dogs. When I'm out with the dog I might talk to 2 or 3 owners out of 10 I see. I gauge how open they are and if their dog is off the lead and takes interest in mine which is generally off lead. Maybe sometimes they walk off thinking "Who the **** does that man think he is to strike up a conversation with a stranger" but from how they behave during the conversation they cover it well. :P

Stevieluvsye · 29-10-2019 03:46PM

Deleted User wrote: »

It's another strand of the increase in autism IMO. Most people I know (not a great group) give out about people trying to talk to them about dogs. When I'm out with the dog I might talk to 2 or 3 owners out of 10 I see. I gauge how open they are and if their dog is off the lead and takes interest in mine which is generally off lead. Maybe sometimes they walk off thinking "Who the **** does that man think he is to strike up a conversation with a stranger" but from how they behave during the conversation they cover it well. :P

This drives me fcuking mad owning a big dog. Should always be on the leash if their is potential for other dogs being around.

My dog will not tolerate any other female leading to previous encounters of near misses of other dogs getting badly hurt

29-10-2019 03:48PM

Stevieluvsye wrote: »

This drives me fcuking mad owning a big dog. Should always be on the leash if their is potential for other dogs being around.

My dog will not tolerate any other female leading to previous encounters of near misses of other dogs getting badly hurt

Fair enough. I have my one off the lead for the most part. If something happens with a big dog who is on a lead then it's my fault, I accept that.

manbitesdog · 29-10-2019 03:57PM

Stevieluvsye wrote: »

My dog will not tolerate any other female leading to previous encounters of near misses of other dogs getting badly hurt

Even the missus?!

Stevieluvsye · 29-10-2019 04:03PM

manbitesdog wrote: »

Even the missus?!

Nah, grand with her. Every other (literally) bitch though is an "enemy"

Immortal Starlight · 29-10-2019 04:08PM

Id be delighted to have a chat with anyone while im out and about for a walk. Especially older people because apart from a visit to the doctor or shop they might not talk to anyone for days.

Knex* · 29-10-2019 04:21PM

daheff wrote: »

Wear headphones when out walking your dog. People are less likely to interrupt you then

Put some on the dog as well. Get the ones that come with a mic.

Keep people guessing.

whisky_galore · 29-10-2019 07:54PM

wexandproud wrote: »

you think that's bad . i was standing behind a lady at a checkout in the uk during the summer and she asked '' do you have doggy ice cream '' I instantly thought ''what the f..k the world is gone mad '' . the cashier said ''certainly , what flavor would your dog like ''
when i came outside the dog was being spoon fed the ice cream .

Did she choose Sweaty Dog Bollocks or Marking Scent Piss flavour?

ILoveYourVibes · 29-10-2019 07:55PM

Clockpics wrote: »

I've spent the weekend talking to strangers about their dogs. Good god just because I own a dog doesn't mean I care about your dog, what you feed it how you train it or its 'cute' little habits

I don't want to be rude but what am I supposed to do when they start talking to me. I don't care that you bred him yourself or it's your third jack Russell. I don't want to see a picture of his brother who lives with your sister.

Am I alone here?

Yes. I love talking about animals with other people who own or just like said animals.

blueshade · 29-10-2019 07:58PM

What's the problem with polite conversation? Most people don't know their neighbours, if you don't have kids or dogs chances are you don't get the chance to speak to them. Knowing the neighbours creates more of a neighbourhood feel and a sense of belonging which leads to a sense of community and that's a very positive thing. Honestly, I don't know why people get bent out of shape by people being friendly.

ILoveYourVibes · 29-10-2019 08:03PM

blueshade wrote: »

Honestly, I don't know why people get bent out of shape by people being friendly.

A lot of people do. Each to their own i guess.

Jonybgud · 29-10-2019 08:10PM

Show them your clock pics OP.

thecornflake · 29-10-2019 08:12PM

Cienciano wrote: »

I'd agree, had plenty of chats to older folk with dogs, my kids love going up to dogs on leads and asking the owners about them.
Lots of people on boards are into not talking to anyone. We're coming up to 12 pubs threads soon, wait for the people who want to go to the pub on their own and read a book and hate everyone else brigade.

Ah yes, speaking of animals, the seasonal **** that clog the pub, loud and imposing because they cant hold two pints. Its not just the regular customers that hate these people, everyone else does too.

Back on topic, I love dogs but tend to wave and say hi to any dog i come across but tend not to interact with the owner.

The Rape of Lucretia · 29-10-2019 09:36PM

Clockpics wrote: »

Just because we both own dogs doesn't mean we are friends

I think it does. On the old maxim that the enemey of your enemy is your friend. All dog owners, being the enemies of and cursed by non dog owners due to the footpath mess they are responsible for, are surely therefore, friends.

ILoveYourVibes · 29-10-2019 09:50PM

I could talk about cats for years.

ToddyDoody · 29-10-2019 09:57PM

Clockpics wrote: »

I've spent the weekend talking to strangers about their dogs. Good god just because I own a dog doesn't mean I care about your dog, what you feed it how you train it or its 'cute' little habits

I don't want to be rude but what am I supposed to do when they start talking to me. I don't care that you bred him yourself or it's your third jack Russell. I don't want to see a picture of his brother who lives with your sister.

Am I alone here?

Oh come on, the dogs and their owners are just happy to be out and about.

Just because we both own dogs doesn't mean we are friends

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