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teacher/student affairs

  • 14-10-2019 01:09AM
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    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,483 ✭✭✭


    How common are they? In secondary school not college. Every week there's a story in the States of some female teacher in her 20s doing her male students. Surprised we don't see it here often. Must be the culture or perhaps it happens but things are under wraps.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,056 ✭✭✭One More Toy


    How common are they? In secondary school not college. Every week there's a story in the States of some female teacher in her 20s doing her male students. Surprised we don't see it here often. Must be the culture or perhaps it happens but things are under wraps.

    Lol


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,097 ✭✭✭✭Potential-Monke


    My prediction:

    Half the people: I wish that happened while I was in school

    The other half: That's disgusting and illegal for a reason and the teacher should be locked up for life

    Edit: Should have said, i'm in the first half


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,779 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Does a grinds teacher count? Vaguely remember a thread on that subject...

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 38,227 ✭✭✭✭Guy:Incognito


    How common are they? In secondary school not college. Every week there's a story in the States of some female teacher in her 20s doing her male students. Surprised we don't see it here often. Must be the culture or perhaps it happens but things are under wraps.

    They have 65 times our population. So even if it happened every single week there, that's be the equivalent of one every 15 months or so here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,274 ✭✭✭darragh o meara


    I know someone who married a teacher he had in 6th year. In fairness, she was just fresh out of college at the time so there wasn't a huge age gap. Not sure if they got together before or after 6th year though..


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,712 ✭✭✭YFlyer


    Nice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15,097 ✭✭✭✭Potential-Monke


    I know someone who married a teacher he had in 6th year. In fairness, she was just fresh out of college at the time so there wasn't a huge age gap. Not sure if they got together before or after 6th year though..

    One of my teachers was dating a 6th year student for the last couple of weeks she was in the leaving. Of course, no one knew this, but the "actual" relationship started about 3 months after she left school and started college. They're married with kids and all that jazz now. Some people still think he should be locked up.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 344 ✭✭Lesalare


    Every week there's a story in the States of some female teacher in her 20s doing her male students. Surprised we don't see it here often. Must be the culture or perhaps it happens but things are under wraps.


    There are also stories every week in the US about people being blown up with guns.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 14,954 ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    Didn’t President Macron of France and his older wife begin their relationship when he was in secondary school and she was his teacher?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn II


    JupiterKid wrote: »
    Didn’t President Macron of France and his older wife begin their relationship when he was in secondary school and she was his teacher?

    They met when she was 40 and he 15.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,398 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn II


    Sting, of course, had a song about this.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,712 ✭✭✭YFlyer


    Sting, of course, had a song about this.

    I thought he be into older women for marathon karma sutra experience.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,443 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    How

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 16,401 ✭✭✭✭Arghus


    I enjoy reading Mr fegelien's threads, it's always good to know what the youth are concerned about these days.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,282 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    They did a story with a male puple and a teacher in Emmerdale. She was also the dad's girlfriend.
    She slept with him when he was turned 16.
    It got a lot of backlash.
    When I was I secondary school any lad would have went off with certain teachers.

    There was always rumours about a 5th year sleeping with a teacher when they went abroad but I don't know of it was true.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,824 ✭✭✭FanadMan


    Sting, of course, had a song about this.

    Straight from Wikipedia.....

    Before joining The Police, Sting had previously worked as an English teacher. Sting said of the song in 1981:

    I wanted to write a song about sexuality in the classroom. I'd done teaching practice at secondary schools and been through the business of having 15-year-old girls fancying me – and me really fancying them! How I kept my hands off them I don't know... Then there was my love for Lolita which I think is a brilliant novel. But I was looking for the key for eighteen months and suddenly there it was. That opened the gates and out it came: the teacher, the open page, the virgin, the rape in the car, getting the sack, Nabokov, all that.

    — Sting, L'Historia Bandido, 1981


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 864 ✭✭✭duffysfarm


    do you ever notice when you see a story about female teacher in America who was with a student she is always a good looking woman that you would think would appeal to a lot of men?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,252 ✭✭✭✭2smiggy


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,252 ✭✭✭✭2smiggy


    duffysfarm wrote: »
    do you ever notice when you see a story about female teacher in America who was with a student she is always a good looking woman that you would think would appeal to a lot of men?

    linky :eek:


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,259 ✭✭✭Pauliedragon


    duffysfarm wrote: »
    do you ever notice when you see a story about female teacher in America who was with a student she is always a good looking woman that you would think would appeal to a lot of men?
    They don't like men apparantly they like boys. Didn't the French president marry his teacher?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,649 ✭✭✭El Tarangu


    I understand it's not uncommon in rural areas for young teachers and recently-graduated secondary school pupils to get together - limited pool of potential partners, plus the teacher could be as young as 21 or 22 and already teaching in a school.

    You'd have to wonder that, if not a physical relationship, at least some preliminary flirting was not going on while the pupil was still in school...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,798 ✭✭✭Mr. Incognito




  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,809 ✭✭✭Hector Savage


    They met when she was 40 and he 15.

    And that's perfectly fine because the woman was the 40 year old.
    If the genders were reversed of course it would be disgusting and creepy..


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,386 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    And that's perfectly fine because the woman was the 40 year old.
    If the genders were reversed of course it would be disgusting and creepy..
    True dat. There's a double standard in play there. Whatever the grey area in cases of say 17/18 and 22/23, but 40 and 15 is as creepy as hell regardless of the gender involved.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,497 ✭✭✭nkl12xtw5goz70


    When I was I secondary school any lad would have went off with certain teachers.

    Female teacher + male student: "Lucky sod! I'd love to be in his shoes."
    Male teacher + female student: "What a creepy pervert. He should be locked up. That poor girl."


  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Sports Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 12,673 Mod ✭✭✭✭artanevilla


    They are not really affairs so much as rape.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,226 ✭✭✭✭jmayo



    She was only a classroom assistant rather than full teacher.

    Obviously she was assisting some in extra curricular activities as well.

    I am not allowed discuss …



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    FanadMan wrote: »
    Straight from Wikipedia.....

    Before joining The Police, Sting had previously worked as an English teacher. Sting said of the song in 1981:

    I wanted to write a song about sexuality in the classroom. I'd done teaching practice at secondary schools and been through the business of having 15-year-old girls fancying me – and me really fancying them! How I kept my hands off them I don't know... Then there was my love for Lolita which I think is a brilliant novel. But I was looking for the key for eighteen months and suddenly there it was. That opened the gates and out it came: the teacher, the open page, the virgin, the rape in the car, getting the sack, Nabokov, all that.

    — Sting, L'Historia Bandido, 1981


    A funny lad is our Sting.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,051 ✭✭✭✭Odyssey 2005


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 6,576 ✭✭✭Paddy Cow


    And that's perfectly fine because the woman was the 40 year old.
    If the genders were reversed of course it would be disgusting and creepy..
    Wibbs wrote: »
    True dat. There's a double standard in play there. Whatever the grey area in cases of say 17/18 and 22/23, but 40 and 15 is as creepy as hell regardless of the gender involved.
    Do you remember the 30 year old teacher who left his wife and ran away to France with a 15 year old student? He ended up getting a jail sentence and a lot of people were saying it was too much and she was old enough to know what she was doing etc.


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