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Do you find those fake lips attractive?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,886 ✭✭✭✭siblers


    wakka12 wrote: »
    Sometimes it looks bad, but sometimes it really makes girls look better
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    She definitely looks better after. But some people are just really against people changing their appearance with surgery and will always just say they looked better before without judging each individual outcome
    The after pic seems a lot more filtered, purposely made the before look worse and the after look better than what they really were


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Raconteuse wrote: »
    No I think it's absolutely terrible that people who have absolutely zero features to be insecure about, like the blonde girl above, feel the need to get an enhancement done. They should be happy with what they've got. Therapy is what you need if you look perfectly nice and think you need cosmetic work.

    Different story of course for those who are unlucky enough to have facial features that don't do them any favours, and it is good that the option is out there for them to change this.

    And of course burn patients, acid attack victims etc.

    Looks are subjective. Maybe that blonde girl you think is pretty looked in the mirror hating herself before she got her lips done, maybe now shes happy. Is the surgery valid then? Or is it only valid for somebody to get surgery if most other people agree its ugly enough to operate on? How ugly is ugly enough to warrant surgical intervention? Maybe this girl hangs around very good looking people and they tell her her lips need work. , and compared to them its bad enough in her mind a case to warrant surgery. Its all relative


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,817 ✭✭✭Raconteuse


    I knew I'd get the looks are subjective thing.

    They're often not though.

    We can all tell the difference between that perfectly nice looking woman in the before picture, with her well proportioned features, and someone unfortunate enough to have e.g. as LirW said, a massive nose. Or a huge birthmark. Or cleft palate.

    But if you're just extremely self critical and have a distorted view of how you look, or full-on body dysmorphia, you should go for counselling instead.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 726 ✭✭✭bunderoon


    Serious question - why would a person want to get them?

    Same with implants etc. ( Excluding some who would need them after a serious op/sickness etc)

    Would it be some form of desperation to attract a certain type of partner or more aong the lines of a mental illness.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,299 ✭✭✭✭Strumms


    bunderoon wrote: »
    Serious question - why would a person want to get them?

    Same with implants etc. ( Excluding some who would need them after a serious op/sickness etc)

    Would it be some form of desperation to attract a certain type of partner or more aong the lines of a mental illness.


    There are people who keep getting cosmetic surgery / treatments and cannot stop. It’s actually an illness, a form of addiction. Jesus just googled it there, it’s more prevalent then I imagined, some freak shows out there.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,928 ✭✭✭Day Lewin


    But those people with a pair of weird lips like two sausages; why do they do that? Do they think it looks nice? Not to me!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Raconteuse wrote: »
    I knew I'd get the looks are subjective thing.

    They're often not though.

    We can all tell the difference between that perfectly nice looking woman in the before picture, with her well proportioned features, and someone unfortunate enough to have e.g. as LirW said, a massive nose. Or a huge birthmark. Or cleft palate.

    But if you're just extremely self critical and have a distorted view of how you look, or full-on body dysmorphia, you should go for counselling instead.

    But they are subjective though. And again, what warrants surgery, simply having a big unsexy nose or a nose so bad that people stare or make fun? many ethnicities have very large noses for instance comapred to say west europeans. To them their noses look normal, to somebody in ireland their noses might be wide, or long compared to most irish people they know and see daily. A big element of how a person feels about their appearance is what the people around them and the people theyre exposed to look like and the opinion of those people on looks/beauty. For instance, a lot of black women in America being uncomfortable with how they look due to white beauty standards, of course theres nothing wrong with how black women look, but many feel that way because their beauty isnt celebrated the same as others around them. Its just one example and my point is that just because you think she looks fine, doesnt mean that she hasnt been exposed to or been around groups of people that have made her feel the need to alter her appearance to a higher standard in her mind. Basically, maybe her opinion to alter her lips is more justified than you think, maybe its not just 'mental illness'.

    Anyway as you say shes perfectly fine looking, and I completely agree, and that she didnt need surgery either, but I would say she has thin lips objectively. I dont think theres anything wrong with thin lips but many people do and I also think theres nothing wrong with trying to improve that. Just because youre good looking already deosnt mean you cant improve your appearance at all. Also its her money and her life,and its not hurting anyone (other than herself,possibly) I dont get why anyone cares so much about the business of people who choose to have plastic surgery


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,519 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Tulisa absolutely destroyed herself....

    Looks like a rubber fish... Not just her lips.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,817 ✭✭✭Raconteuse


    Looks are not always subjective.

    I don't agree with encouragement of a quick fix when there's nothing wrong with how a person looks, rather than working through their issues with the help of a therapist.

    I didn't say anything about mental illness. It's more of an emotional issue than mental illness (unless it's full blown body dysmorphia).

    And her lower lip certainly isn't thin. Her upper lip is slightly thinner than average but I wouldn't notice that only for it being discussed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 439 ✭✭Salthillprom


    Personally I don't like them and would never get mine done, but I've big enough lips anyway naturally. I do know a few ppl who have their lips done and it's pretty obvious. Their side profile looks strange.. Like they got a box in the mouth.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,225 ✭✭✭jaxxx


    100% natural all the way.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,519 ✭✭✭✭punisher5112


    Anyone actually thinking of doing it, I can oblige by giving one a box to the lips and Walla the job is done and this is what you will look like after getting such ridiculous work done.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 568 ✭✭✭NewMan1982


    I don’t think I’ve ever looked at a woman and thought wow you’ve under sized lips


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 260 ✭✭SVJKarate


    Raconteuse wrote: »
    They should be happy with what they've got.

    If that were universally true, economies the world over would collapse. So much in our society's motivation is driven by the insecurity of people about their appearance, whether that's skin, body size & shape, hair (both wanted and unwanted) or facial features. The beauty industry is huge globally, and it would falter fatally if people were simply happy with what they had been given at birth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,922 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    No , I went into the Chinese last week , and the girl that took my order got them done, they looked ridiculous . She looked like she could suck a bowling ball through a straw though..lol
    Are you sure she just didn't have a bad reaction to the satay?


    They generally look pretty awful imo it's a shame people fell the need to get them done, but the number of people getting it done seems to have gone through the roof


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,786 ✭✭✭wakka12


    Maybe that would be a good thing. That applies to many fields not just the beauty industry too, we want betters cars, gadgets, nicer houses, better food , whatever, its how all economies grow but my main gripe with the beauty idustry is how unehtical it is, its mostly false promises sold to the most insecure of society and generally offer no actual improvement to ones 'beauty' whether it be skin, weight loss, hair..its largely snake oil and bloody expensive at that


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,461 ✭✭✭Bob Harris


    Personally I don't like them and would never get mine done, but I've big enough lips anyway naturally. I do know a few ppl who have their lips done and it's pretty obvious. Their side profile looks strange.. Like they got a box in the mouth.

    I'd day that unless the change is very subtle it will always be noticeable as unnatural. People must think they can get bigger lips and think they won't be out of proportion to the rest of their face.

    The lips you have fit your facial shape like it or not and someone with paper thin lips who suddenly decides they want something like Angelina Jolie's will look ridiculous. In isolation they might look ok but will look awful as a whole.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,942 ✭✭✭topper75


    ChikiChiki wrote: »
    Instagram is definitely causing mental health instabilities.

    It may be a contributor to stupidity, sure, but the general phenomenon is older than any digital platform; centuries ago the goal was pale skin so the women of the day would do daft stuff to achieve the look.
    ...To get this near-death look, women would squeeze a few drops citrus juice or perfume into their eyes, or reach for some belladonna drops, which lasted longer, but also caused blindness. Pale skin was encouraged with veils, gloves and parasols, but could also be bought: Sears & Roebuck sold a popular product called Dr. Rose’s Arsenic Complexion Wafers, which were just that–little white chalk wafers filled with arsenic for delicate nibbling. They were specifically advertised as “perfectly harmless.”

    https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/the-poisonous-beauty-advice-columns-of-victorian-england


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,511 ✭✭✭Aisling(",)


    I think 99% of them are overfilled. There's one or two bloggers who I think have them looking well like Aoibhe Devlin of The Secret Obsession or Suzanne Jackson from So Sue Me.

    I've got feck all of a top lip and I'd be tempted but I think they look weird with no makeup and I hardly ever wear it. Plus I'd probably end up looking like a duck which I'd rather avoid.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,407 ✭✭✭✭greenspurs


    NO !!!
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    "Bright lights and Thunder .................... " #NoPopcorn



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,192 ✭✭✭Mango Joe


    I think they look ridiculous and so horrible.... They're the equivalent of those bolt-on-boobs that used be common....A poor attempt that look laughable for a finish.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,303 ✭✭✭Ray Palmer


    My sister in law has got it done and it looked fine at first and that seems to be the problem. When it started to fade she went and got it done again and again and again. Now her lips are distorted and she can't tell.
    Plastic surgery can really help people with actual issues but it becomes an issue when it is attempting to regain youth. Saw a show where a women had a very small chin. A quick surgery and she was completely transformed. Her 2 sisters followed suit as the all had the same issue. Completely worth while for them all but didn't seem they were going to get more work done


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    I think that similar to teeth whitening or how men think they prefer women without make-up it's a matter of not actually recognizing that it's been done when done right.

    You'd be amazed at just how rampant fillers and botox are nowadays amongst the 20-35 female (and gay male) age bracket. Just because you notice the 1 in 10 that have overdone it doesn't mean the other 9/10 haven't had it done well.

    Completely agree. When you invest money in an experienced, licensed practitioner who uses top quality products it looks very natural and 99.9% of people won't even notice.

    The problem is that the legal system hasn't caught up with current trends and the industry is completely unregulated.
    You can do a one day online course with no prior experience, buy the products online and set up shop and there is no one to say you can't.

    Locally to me, you can pay €350 to have 1ml of filler administered by a fully qualified doctor, in a sterile professional clinic using the best products & surgical level numbing creams.
    Or you can pay €80 and have it administered by the local hairdresser who did a one day online course, who doesn't have access to the top quality products due to lack of qualifications, in the stock room at the back of the hair salon.

    People go for the cheaper option, and those are usually the people whose work is so poorly done that everyone notices it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,252 ✭✭✭✭B.A._Baracus


    I, for some reason, have always associated big fat fake lips with Porn Stars :pac:
    Some look ok. Some just look way overboard.


    Always had a thing for Xenia Seeberg back in the day tho.

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,736 ✭✭✭Yer Da sells Avon


    I find them (and false nails) the opposite of attractive, but it's irrelevant because I'm fairly sure that nobody gets them done for the purpose of attracting me.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,115 ✭✭✭✭Junkyard Tom


    I was thinking of getting a bit of botox to help with the little imperfections on my face.

    Here's a pic of me.

    Thoughts?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,461 ✭✭✭Bob Harris


    I was thinking of getting a bit of botox to help with the little imperfections on my face.

    Here's a pic of me.

    Thoughts?

    Your face rings a bell.


  • Posts: 7,946 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    NewMan1982 wrote: »
    Different lighting in the second photo but yea they don’t look as bad as some of the ones I see regularly.

    Plus there's either photoshop or she's had other work done. See the bags under eyes in pic 1.

    Lip filler is a no for me.

    I wouldn't like a girl to get breast implants for health reasons.


  • Posts: 7,946 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]



    Thoughts?

    You WISH you looked that good! :pac:


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  • Posts: 1,847 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Ask Leslie Ash what she thinks of them.


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