Slagging on Facebook

Eircom_Sucks · 01-09-2019 12:23PM #1

So today i saw some guy absolutely get lashed out of it on facebook

Apparently he chatted to this girl on pof ( yes dear lord ) 2 years ago and she is now on one of these dating pages on facebook

Long story short , she put up his pic and slagged him off etc , poor lad was then set upon by more women who had nothing to do with it , but probably jumping on the band wagon

My point is , we have no idea what was said 2 years ago , if he or she was in wrong

But he got shat upon and wasnt there to defend himself

Pretty shocking tbh , some bullying

This surely should not be allowed

So easy for people to ruin others reputations on facebook

Wanderer2010 · 01-09-2019 12:24PM

Happening all the time now. Facebook provides a platform for cowards to spew bile they would never have the balls to say in real life.

73bc61lyohr0mu · 01-09-2019 12:24PM

Facebook is an absolute gutter swamp. After all the crap involved with them it's amazing how many people are still on it..

Atlantic Dawn · 01-09-2019 12:25PM

He should have his privacy settings set up properly.

Wibbs · 01-09-2019 12:26PM

Simple enough solution ES; don't join Arsebook, or if you need to because of far flung family or whatever, keep it all as private as possible and restricted to the people you actually want to talk with.

Roger Hassenforder · 01-09-2019 12:30PM

His pic? anything else?

Would that fall under GDPR
Off to the ombudsman with him

Or stick up your wan, we'll get stuck in.

JohnnyFlash · 01-09-2019 12:53PM

You give up your privacy and some of your humanity in return for making that bug-eyed weirdo, Zuckerburg on of the wealthiest people in the world. Bad deal there for end users.

Eircom_Sucks · 01-09-2019 01:02PM

Atlantic Dawn wrote: »

He should have his privacy settings set up properly.

She put up his pic and aload of crap about a chat from 2 years ago

The guy id say is oblivious to this post with his pic

What if he was out and about and then picked on because of crap being said on fb ?

People could be attacked

Gregor Samsa · 01-09-2019 01:03PM

Wibbs wrote: »

Simple enough solution ES; don't join Arsebook, or if you need to because of far flung family or whatever, keep it all as private as possible and restricted to the people you actually want to talk with.

I think the point of the OP is that the girl put up his photo and instigated the slagging herself without his knowledge, involvement or consent. Nothing to do with him being on Facebook. You can’t defend against that by not bring on FB or restricting your settings.

TBH, though, it’s not an issue limited to FB. The same thing could happen on any internet forum.

biko · 01-09-2019 01:57PM

B*ches be crazy.

Nodster · 01-09-2019 03:13PM

biko wrote: »

B*ches be crazy.

Real B*tches love digging up the past!

Ficheall · 01-09-2019 04:00PM

What had he said that she was slagging off? Or was it a looks thing?

Ipso · 01-09-2019 04:20PM

biko wrote: »

B*ches be crazy.

Toxic feminity.

Guy:Incognito · 01-09-2019 04:25PM

Hiw can you be bullying someone if they dont know about it?

Eircom_Sucks · 01-09-2019 06:41PM

Guy:Incognito wrote: »

Hiw can you be bullying someone if they dont know about it?

What if she said “ he raped me etc “ which was all bull crap

Next thing the guys out having a few pints and some dude on the post recognises him and jumps him , all because of lies and a crazy b1tch

Surely this stuff can’t keep going on ?

Eircom_Sucks · 01-09-2019 06:42PM

Ficheall wrote: »

What had he said that she was slagging off? Or was it a looks thing?

Apparently few words to each other on pof 2 years ago , she hasnt moved on and started to slate the guy , that’s the impression i got

Atlantic Dawn · 01-09-2019 06:42PM

What if she said he raped her after she decided to go back to his hotel room at 4am to play chess with him despite the fact that the hotel was not known for chess playing?

BDI · 01-09-2019 06:45PM

Atlantic Dawn wrote: »

What if she said he raped her after she decided to go back to his hotel room at 4am to play chess with him despite the fact that the hotel was not known for chess playing?

What if he got her a job at his employers. She worked really hard and got a promotion. Then stopped hanging out with him and gave him a warning for being late.

Atlantic Dawn · 01-09-2019 06:50PM

Perhaps the solution is a secure text from those looking to ride each other where each gets a code and enters it in before they go at it to agree.

Eircom_Sucks · 01-09-2019 07:13PM

Very mature responses

Mam of 4 · 01-09-2019 07:18PM

I don't think it's slagging .
Imo , slagging is teasing and laughing with the other person involved , not bad mouthing them on FB , for whatever obscure reason that girl decided to do so .
Ghouls , taking pleasure in destroying others characters .

Raconteuse · 01-09-2019 07:20PM

I do agree people need to be extremely careful in terms of who they share their information with online. Those online dating yokes are crazy dodgy.

However, it should also be more difficult for others to harass them. Large social media outlets seem to be lacking in this sense. The responsibility should not all be on the harassed to close their account/delete their information. Particularly when they're just kids, like Ana Kriegel.

Bet at least one of the weapons in this case has "Share dis if ur against bullying" and "I did Darkness Into Light" on their profile.

Atlantic Dawn · 01-09-2019 07:26PM

There's some people who think Facebook is a policed area where all things are grand, anyone with these beliefs therserves to have every cent they own seized and given to someone else because they are a fool.

Raconteuse · 01-09-2019 07:42PM

Atlantic Dawn wrote: »

There's some people who think Facebook is a policed area where all things are grand, anyone with these beliefs therserves to have every cent they own seized and given to someone else because they are a fool.

No they don't *deserve* that. They need to cop on but obviously nobody should exploit them in such a way. Especially if they're young and silly.

Rufeo · 02-09-2019 02:06PM

What happened with this. Did the guy find out?

branie2 · 02-09-2019 02:57PM

I've never done it

Eircom_Sucks · 02-09-2019 11:49PM

Rufeo wrote: »

What happened with this. Did the guy find out?

Dunno

I hope so

wakka12 · 03-09-2019 12:03AM

Well what did he say to her on POF? Must have been pretty bad for her to go posting it on facebook surely. Anyway if it was just making fun of him for being bad looking or being bad at flirting then shes a scumbag yeah

Up Donegal · 03-09-2019 12:03AM

Eircom_Sucks wrote: »

So today i saw some guy absolutely get lashed out of it on facebook

Apparently he chatted to this girl on pof ( yes dear lord ) 2 years ago and she is now on one of these dating pages on facebook

Excuse my ignorance but what does pof mean?

wakka12 · 03-09-2019 12:04AM

Up Donegal wrote: »

Excuse my ignorance but what does pof mean?

plenty of fish

Up Donegal · 03-09-2019 12:06AM

wakka12 wrote: »

plenty of fish

Thanks, wakka12!

Slagging on Facebook

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