Slagging on Facebook

Eircom_Sucks

So today i saw some guy absolutely get lashed out of it on facebook

Apparently he chatted to this girl on pof ( yes dear lord ) 2 years ago and she is now on one of these dating pages on facebook

Long story short , she put up his pic and slagged him off etc , poor lad was then set upon by more women who had nothing to do with it , but probably jumping on the band wagon

My point is , we have no idea what was said 2 years ago , if he or she was in wrong

But he got shat upon and wasnt there to defend himself

Pretty shocking tbh , some bullying

This surely should not be allowed

So easy for people to ruin others reputations on facebook

Wanderer2010

Happening all the time now. Facebook provides a platform for cowards to spew bile they would never have the balls to say in real life.

73bc61lyohr0mu

Facebook is an absolute gutter swamp. After all the crap involved with them it's amazing how many people are still on it..

Atlantic Dawn

He should have his privacy settings set up properly.

Wibbs

Simple enough solution ES; don't join Arsebook, or if you need to because of far flung family or whatever, keep it all as private as possible and restricted to the people you actually want to talk with.

Roger Hassenforder

His pic? anything else?

Would that fall under GDPR
Off to the ombudsman with him

Or stick up your wan, we'll get stuck in.

JohnnyFlash

You give up your privacy and some of your humanity in return for making that bug-eyed weirdo, Zuckerburg on of the wealthiest people in the world. Bad deal there for end users.

Eircom_Sucks

Atlantic Dawn wrote: »

He should have his privacy settings set up properly.

She put up his pic and aload of crap about a chat from 2 years ago

The guy id say is oblivious to this post with his pic

What if he was out and about and then picked on because of crap being said on fb ?

People could be attacked

Gregor Samsa

Wibbs wrote: »

Simple enough solution ES; don't join Arsebook, or if you need to because of far flung family or whatever, keep it all as private as possible and restricted to the people you actually want to talk with.

I think the point of the OP is that the girl put up his photo and instigated the slagging herself without his knowledge, involvement or consent. Nothing to do with him being on Facebook. You can’t defend against that by not bring on FB or restricting your settings.

TBH, though, it’s not an issue limited to FB. The same thing could happen on any internet forum.

biko

B*ches be crazy.

Nodster

biko wrote: »

B*ches be crazy.

Real B*tches love digging up the past!

Ficheall

What had he said that she was slagging off? Or was it a looks thing?

Ipso

biko wrote: »

B*ches be crazy.

Toxic feminity.

Guy:Incognito

Hiw can you be bullying someone if they dont know about it?

Eircom_Sucks

Guy:Incognito wrote: »

Hiw can you be bullying someone if they dont know about it?

What if she said “ he raped me etc “ which was all bull crap

Next thing the guys out having a few pints and some dude on the post recognises him and jumps him , all because of lies and a crazy b1tch

Surely this stuff can’t keep going on ?

Eircom_Sucks

Ficheall wrote: »

What had he said that she was slagging off? Or was it a looks thing?

Apparently few words to each other on pof 2 years ago , she hasnt moved on and started to slate the guy , that’s the impression i got

Atlantic Dawn

What if she said he raped her after she decided to go back to his hotel room at 4am to play chess with him despite the fact that the hotel was not known for chess playing?

BDI

Atlantic Dawn wrote: »

What if she said he raped her after she decided to go back to his hotel room at 4am to play chess with him despite the fact that the hotel was not known for chess playing?

What if he got her a job at his employers. She worked really hard and got a promotion. Then stopped hanging out with him and gave him a warning for being late.

Atlantic Dawn

Perhaps the solution is a secure text from those looking to ride each other where each gets a code and enters it in before they go at it to agree.

Eircom_Sucks

Very mature responses

Mam of 4

I don't think it's slagging .
Imo , slagging is teasing and laughing with the other person involved , not bad mouthing them on FB , for whatever obscure reason that girl decided to do so .
Ghouls , taking pleasure in destroying others characters .

Raconteuse

I do agree people need to be extremely careful in terms of who they share their information with online. Those online dating yokes are crazy dodgy.

However, it should also be more difficult for others to harass them. Large social media outlets seem to be lacking in this sense. The responsibility should not all be on the harassed to close their account/delete their information. Particularly when they're just kids, like Ana Kriegel.

Bet at least one of the weapons in this case has "Share dis if ur against bullying" and "I did Darkness Into Light" on their profile.

Atlantic Dawn

There's some people who think Facebook is a policed area where all things are grand, anyone with these beliefs therserves to have every cent they own seized and given to someone else because they are a fool.

Raconteuse

Atlantic Dawn wrote: »

There's some people who think Facebook is a policed area where all things are grand, anyone with these beliefs therserves to have every cent they own seized and given to someone else because they are a fool.

No they don't *deserve* that. They need to cop on but obviously nobody should exploit them in such a way. Especially if they're young and silly.

Rufeo

What happened with this. Did the guy find out?

branie2

I've never done it

Eircom_Sucks

Rufeo wrote: »

What happened with this. Did the guy find out?

Dunno

I hope so

wakka12

Well what did he say to her on POF? Must have been pretty bad for her to go posting it on facebook surely. Anyway if it was just making fun of him for being bad looking or being bad at flirting then shes a scumbag yeah

Up Donegal

Eircom_Sucks wrote: »

So today i saw some guy absolutely get lashed out of it on facebook

Apparently he chatted to this girl on pof ( yes dear lord ) 2 years ago and she is now on one of these dating pages on facebook

Excuse my ignorance but what does pof mean?

wakka12

Up Donegal wrote: »

Excuse my ignorance but what does pof mean?

plenty of fish

Up Donegal

wakka12 wrote: »

plenty of fish

Thanks, wakka12!

ILoveYourVibes

Ipso wrote: »

Toxic feminity.

Purple Mountain

Wibbs wrote: »

Simple enough solution ES; don't join Arsebook, or if you need to because of far flung family or whatever, keep it all as private as possible and restricted to the people you actually want to talk with.

I do this with Instagram.
10 followers I have, probably deemed to be unpopular or uncool but it's everyone I need to keep in touch with in far flung places.
Wouldn't touch Fakebook in a fit.

BorneTobyWilde

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People always told me be careful of what you do
And don't go around breaking young girls' hearts
And mother always told me be careful of who you love
And be careful of what you do 'cause the lie becomes the truth

weldoninhio

Eircom_Sucks wrote: »

What if she said “ he raped me etc “ which was all bull crap

Next thing the guys out having a few pints and some dude on the post recognises him and jumps him , all because of lies and a crazy b1tch

Surely this stuff can’t keep going on ?

Did she say that he raped her?? Or are you making stuff up??

Red_Wake

I came into this thread hoping for a story about facebook slags.

brainfreeze

Roger Hassenforder wrote: »

Would that fall under GDPROff to the ombudsman with him

No. GDPR is not some catch-all data protection law that some people incorrectly think it is.

GDPR is about controlling your data from businesses and organisations, not persons. GDPR has nothing to do with some random woman sticking your picture up on the internet. You can't just send your Ma a GDPR request because she is sharing baby photos of you to her friends on whatsapp.

There might be other Iaws to protect you from such malice behavior from individuals, GDPR is not one of them.

Eircom_Sucks

weldoninhio wrote: »

Did she say that he raped her?? Or are you making stuff up??

Read the thread ffs

Capt'n Midnight

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