Why are women so annoying?

milli milli wrote: »

You know you can stand up to your girlfriend and say, ‘I’ll wear what I like, thanks’.
I actually had a boyfriend like this who made comments on my clothes (so it’s not just women). I actually can’t remember how I handled it in the past, but I certainly wouldn’t put up with someone telling me what to wear now.

It’s actually out-of-order to be honest. So many people treat their partners like possessions and think they have authority over their behaviors.
It’s crazy that people put up with this kind of thing, to be honest.

What if it was said in best interest?

"Them leggings look ****e honey, i'd change them"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTrCBcrFMCI

H8GHOTI wrote: »

Ok I’m sure a couple of men can be assholes occasionally. And I know that not every woman is, just the majority.

My girlfriend had a hospital appointment and as a kind, generous and overall just super guy I said I would bring her. She says to me the night before “make sure you wear something nice”.

Oh did the letter from the doctor say it was a black tie event? Is the prognosis or advice or medicine prescribed going to be different depending on my clothes? Firstly, do you think I’m going to turn up in pajamas ffs? Secondly, I went to work in the morning so she knew I’d be smartly dressed. “Oh don’t wear that wine jumper you wear to work”. For someone who is so concerned about what I’m wearing, she hadn’t noticed I haven’t worn that for months and it’s a nice jumper anyway.

Her comment had no impact on what I wore but when I collected her looking well, I’m sure she thought to herself, oh he listened to me, thank god I said something. Of course at the hospital most people were just wearing jeans, tshirt etc.

This isn’t just my girlfriend. You’d see plenty of examples of this kind of sh!t on tv or on nights out or in supermarkets. I’ve worked in a number of offices and plenty of women would tell stories about the stupid things they said to their partner. So what’s the reason for these kind of pointless comments? They enjoy telling people what to do, want to be the boss? Just enjoy annoying men?

I had a girlfriend like that. They say sh1t to see if they can rattle your cage. And if it annoys you then they've already got the validation out of you. Whenever I get silly remarks like that from women, I usually throw in a "sweetheart" in my reply just to highlight their stupidity. Problem solved... no one likes being patronised.

To tell a story of my own, once when I was walking along the beach with her and a view others, I was skimming a view stones on the water. She walked on past me and with the back of her head to me, she said "you're not as good at the ole stone throwing as you were before". I was thinking "what?, have you been stalking me while I was throwing stones or something?" Can't a guy casually throw a few stones along the beach without being nagged.

This was one of the few occasions that I was witty enough to out smart her. I replied with "I'm still good enough to hit you in the back of the head though... don't tempt me!". She didn't like that one bit. But of course what she initially said made no sense... that's the whole idea. That's why she was walking away from me as she said it. She wanted me to shout after her "hey, hang on, what do you mean?", she wanted that attention. Now, if had made an equivalent comment to her, like say if I said "oh you're not as good at putting on your make-up as before", she could get quite hurt!

Problem Of Motivation wrote: »

Once when I was walking along the beach with her and a view others, I was skimming a view stones on the water. She walked on past me and with the back of her head to me she said "you're not as good at the ole stone throwing as you were before". I was thinking "what?, have you been stalking while I was throwing stones or something?" Can't a guy casually throw a few stones along the beach without being nagged.

This was one of the few occasions that I was witty enough to out smart her. I replied with "I'm still good enough to hit you in the back of the head though... don't tempt me!". She didn't like that one bit. But of course what she said made no sense... that's the whole idea. That's why she was walking away from me as she said it. She wanted me to shout after her "hey, hang on, what do you mean?", she wanted that attention.

Excellent story.

IIGeminiII wrote: »

Excellent story.

Is that sarcasm?