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Age gap & children [title edited by mod]

ClaireMurphy27 · 2019-07-31 12:10:25

I've been in a relationship with my partner for almost five years, we are both happy in our relationship. There is a 21 year age gap. He has children and has been married. Lately I have had several talks with him regarding marriage and children, he tells me he has been there done that. He feels he is too old to be a…

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#62 07-08-2019 01:35AM

okiss

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I can understand at this stage of your life why you are considering having a child. I can also see why he does not want more children.
I would not try to talk him into it. Not would I deliberately try to get pregnant thinking he will be happy if it happens because it won't end well.
At this stage I would just say that you're ending things as long term you want a family and you know he does not want anymore kid's. I know it's not an easy thing to do but at least he has been honest with you.
Also your 25 so time is on your side to meet another man who wants the same as you. I know two women who were older than you when they ended relationships because he did not want kids. Within a few years they both had families.

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