Lads On Hen Nights

Joe Don Dante · 05-08-2019 04:33AM #1

is this a new thing now?? ffs

Atlantic Dawn · 05-08-2019 04:51AM

For merry men, yes.

Foweva Awone · 05-08-2019 06:34AM

Meh if I was getting married, and my closest friends were male, I'd probably want them there for my hen night.

I was engaged once upon a time (didn't end up marrying him) and my best friend at the time was a close childhood friend who happened to be a guy, he was going to me my bridesmaid (well, "dude of honour"!) If I'd had a hen night, of course I'd have wanted him to be there.

m5ex9oqjawdg2i · 05-08-2019 07:04AM

We had a girl on a stag night, we were all mates so why not? Why does it need to be women/men only?

Atoms for Peace · 05-08-2019 07:10AM

Jordyn Mealy Sunlight wrote: »

We had a girl on a stag night, we were all mates so why not? Why does it need to be women/men only?

A stripper?

jay1988 · 05-08-2019 07:19AM

OSI wrote: »

We’re really scraping the bottom of the outrage barrel huh?

Where's the outrage?

05-08-2019 07:21AM

OSI wrote: »

We’re really scraping the bottom of the outrage barrel huh?

You certainly are.

Tell me how · 05-08-2019 07:22AM

jay1988 wrote: »

Where's the outrage?

'ffs' usually is used to imply a displeasure within levels 4-6 on the international outrage scale.

It's science.

Richard Hillman · 05-08-2019 07:54AM

Either gay or sexually inoffensive. Which means you probably should consider being gay.

suicide_circus · 05-08-2019 07:59AM

Richard Hillman wrote: »

Either gay or sexually inoffensive

rather than "sexually inoffensive" i would say "non-sexual". A man who there is no danger of any of the girls on the hen getting off with such is his complete lack of pheromones.

whiskeyman · 05-08-2019 08:58AM

Apparently a 'sten' is the latest thing, where you have a joint hens and stag.
Probably more suited to those who are opting for less debauchery.

Edgware · 05-08-2019 09:36AM

Jordyn Mealy Sunlight wrote: »

We had a girl on a stag night, we were all mates so why not? Why does it need to be women/men only?

It called bukkake

Irish Praetorian · 05-08-2019 10:32AM

Joe Don Dante wrote: »

is this a new thing now?? ffs

Never heard of gay guys have we? XD

padd b1975 · 05-08-2019 01:09PM

Friends of Dorothy.

/Thread.

Ash.J.Williams · 05-08-2019 01:16PM

whiskeyman wrote: »

Apparently a 'sten' is the latest thing, where you have a joint hens and stag.
Probably more suited to those who are opting for less debauchery.

Any sten I've seen was purely down to the fact the bloke was marrying a loon

Church on Tuesday · 05-08-2019 01:29PM

Braver lads than me.

FishOnABike · 05-08-2019 01:32PM

whiskeyman wrote: »

Apparently a 'sten' is the latest thing, where you have a joint hens and stag.
Probably more suited to those who are opting for less debauchery.

Or possibly more debauchery ?

Joe Don Dante · 05-08-2019 01:43PM

Irish Praetorian wrote: »

Never heard of gay guys have we? XD

Do you see many Lesbians on stag nights?

Raconteuse · 05-08-2019 03:13PM

whiskeyman wrote: »

Apparently a 'sten' is the latest thing, where you have a joint hens and stag.
Probably more suited to those who are opting for less debauchery.

I've heard of a "hag" too which I find quite funny.

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5 · 05-08-2019 03:43PM

Not even a new thing, is it?

I can think of some friends who'd probably end up having co-ed hen dos because they have close male friends, I know plenty more who'd have an all female one either from preference or just because their closest friends are all women.

I really don't think the "how can we enjoy our 3am extra marital handjobs behind the bins while eating a curry chip if there's a GIRL/BOY there" hen and stag dos are in any danger of dying out like, relax.

El_Duderino 09 · 05-08-2019 03:58PM

Oh no! People doing things differently! When will people stop doing things the way they want? I blame, emmm, young people? Yeah, millennials.

biko · 05-08-2019 04:00PM

I'm not ready for that level of wokeness.

Raconteuse · 05-08-2019 04:16PM

Some people just want to have a pre wedding night out with their friends/cousins and aren't bothered with the hen or stag thing. It's not a political statement.

Mister Vain · 05-08-2019 04:19PM

I got my first ever shift on a hen night after some mad fooker dared another mad fooker to shift the next guy that walked in the door, which just happened to be me.

Tammy! · 05-08-2019 04:38PM

I was on a hens years ago and we met these lads on a stag in one the bars.

Two of the lads were really good break dancers and they challenged two of the girls to a dance off but the girls didn't know any break dancing so they did the wheelbarrow and one of them lay on the ground while the other spun her around. I think the girls won

I don't really like hens in general that much tbh and have heard of men going on them before loads of times.

Feisar · 05-08-2019 04:49PM

Ash.J.Williams wrote: »

Any sten I've seen was purely down to the fact the bloke was marrying a loon

Only man I know that had a sten did indeed marry a loon

SaltSweatSugar · 05-08-2019 07:44PM

I’m a woman and I got invited to one of my best friends ‘anti-stag’ a couple of years ago when him and his fiancée split, but I didn’t go as I couldn’t get time off work. I would’ve happily gone as I’m friendly with most of his friends and get on very well with them.
That being said, I don’t think I’d invite him to my hen. He’s my best male friend and I love him to bits but I don’t think he’d enjoy it. I don’t think I’d invite any of my male friends.

Bigbagofcans · 06-08-2019 09:51AM

SaltSweatSugar wrote: »

I’m a woman and I got invited to one of my best friends ‘anti-stag’ a couple of years ago when him and his fiancée split, but I didn’t go as I couldn’t get time off work. I would’ve happily gone as I’m friendly with most of his friends and get on very well with them.
That being said, I don’t think I’d invite him to my hen. He’s my best male friend and I love him to bits but I don’t think he’d enjoy it. I don’t think I’d invite any of my male friends.

Speaking of anti-stag, are divorce parties a thing in Ireland?

I know they are in the US and with there being an increase in baby showers here, I wouldn't be surprised if divorce parties get more popular.

Pintman Paddy Losty · 06-08-2019 10:21AM

Haven't ever gone on a hen but have ended up hanging around with hen parties when I'm trying to sniff out a ride.

Most women want to go on hen parties so they can get their end away with a bit of strange away from their boyfriend/husband. I've often ended up getting stuck in to married women off on a hen.

So can see why they wouldn't want any men around who might judge them.

sbsquarepants · 06-08-2019 10:28AM

It's only gay lads who go on hens is it not?

Or the sneaky fúckers who allude to being gay so as one of the girls can "convert" them.

Tell me how · 06-08-2019 11:02AM

Pintman Paddy Losty wrote: »

Haven't ever gone on a hen but have ended up hanging around with hen parties when I'm trying to sniff out a ride.

Most women want to go on hen parties so they can get their end away with a bit of strange away from their boyfriend/husband. I've often ended up getting stuck in to married women off on a hen.

So can see why they wouldn't want any men around who might judge them.

Do you ever have an actual conversation with any of these conquests of yours? Do you listen to what they say.

For someone so successful with attracting women, I'm always baffled by your view on what they think and want.

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