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Garda Apology

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,357 ✭✭✭hawkelady


    Could you translate FOAD thanks, although I am sure it is intuitive for those who know these things.

    Anyway, the sad thing is, it was not just the Gardai who succeeded in controlling women back in the day, it was everywhere. What a total isolationist Catholic run country with the squinting windows it was.

    Still here though, there are many organisations with willing participants who still want to stifle women.


    I think it means F off and die. Although I could be way off as I’ve never seen foad either.


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Nothing on RTÉ website.
    Can you not tell us in your own words?

    not without quoting RTE news directly - which I'll do now:

    "The GRA described MM's treatment as shocking and disgraceful and it distanced itself from the comments about the case, made by its general secretary, at the time"


    ^^^ As reported on RTE news tonight.

    In other words, a piece of bullsh1ite statement- where was the GRA in 1984 didn't support it's members and still fails to do so.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,850 ✭✭✭Stop moaning ffs


    Not once has she been critical of the Catholic Church though. Not, once.

    Yet you keep banging on about it like it’s something else entirely you’re trying to raise awareness of. By all of her accounts she has nothing but praise for the members of the Catholic Church who actually helped her, as opposed to the narrative you’ve been attempting to portray throughout this thread. She blames the system of the AGS as it was at the time (and in truth AGS were every bit as influential and powerful in society as priests, nuns and politicians).

    I’m not entirely sucked in by the narrative she’s presenting now some 35 years later, but I can also understand how being 22 at the time and given her life up to that point, how she would have felt she was being treated unfairly and still to this day believes she was treated unfairly. But not once does she make any mention of the Catholic Church being responsible. She lays the blame for the way she was treated entirely on AGS.

    Neither did I make the comparison I was responding to poster suggesting she was after money and a similar never will happen investigation such as the church debacle.

    At least quote within context even if you can’t grasp it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Another Tribunal beckons. For every employer back in the day who treated their female pregnant women like that.

    Civil Service, Ps, anything like that. God knows what happened outside the Government employees. Maybe they were outside the Opus Dei influence and I would hope so. Those in Government jobs had no chance. Did they?


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    hawkelady wrote: »
    Do you care to let us know what they said?

    Look at my post above - yes I can


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Kudos to the Protestant employers. Guinness, and so on. Never hear anything but good about them.

    Not so good about CS and other Government employers though as evidenced in the thread.


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Kudos to the Protestant employers. Guinness, and so on. Never hear anything but good about them.

    Not so good about CS and other Government employers though as evidenced in the thread.

    It's not really a time for point scoring but off you go if you feel the need.

    The fact is, even the GRA let MM down in 1984/5 - the one institution that could have supported her. But no, the GRA fcked-up on that.


    So what's your point around protestants in Ireland in 1984? Care to share?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    It's not really a time for point scoring but off you go if you feel the need.

    The fact is, even the GRA let MM down in 1994/5 - the one institution that could have supported her. But no, the GRA fcked-up on that.


    So what's your point around protestants in Ireland in 1984? Care to share?

    Just saying that the COI employers had no truck with the Catholic influence in Ireland at the time. They built great houses for their employees and looked after them well. No matter what religion they held.

    But Government employees did have to observe the rules of the Catholic Church at the time. And obviously that included the Garda top brass. And schools, the Army, and anywhere the CC could push it's tentacles into. Many a person was totalled. That is the reality.


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Just saying that the COI employers had no truck with the Catholic influence in Ireland at the time. They built great houses for their employees and looked after them well. No matter what religion they held.

    But Government employees did have to observe the rules of the Catholic Church at the time. And obviously that included the Garda top brass. And schools, the Army, and anywhere the CC could push it's tentacles into. Many a person was totalled. That is the reality.

    My point was, GRA did F'ck-all in 1984/5 to support MM- leaving aside the bleeding obvious of what the culture was in 1984/5, what's your point ?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Neither did I make the comparison I was responding to poster suggesting she was after money and a similar never will happen investigation such as the church debacle.

    At least quote within context even if you can’t grasp it.


    Stop moaning ffs, you’ve been wedging your prejudices into the thread, all throughout the thread, when the woman at the centre of this particular case has not once held them responsible for the way she was treated.

    Before you lecture anyone else about context, perhaps you should consider that it’s you is responsible for deflecting responsibility from the people whom the woman in this particular case claims are responsible for the way she was treated, not the people whom you want to claim are responsible for the way she was treated due to your persistent attempts to wedge in your own prejudices.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 234 ✭✭seasidedub


    judeboy101 wrote: »
    She knowingly had sex outside marriage and an illegitimate child with a fellow recruit , in a time where rightly or wrongly, would bring disrepute to the office of garda. What did she think would happen?

    Are you serious? It was the 1980's not Nathaniel Hawthorne's New England during the time of The Scarlet letter.

    And "she" had sex with a garda? Sure god love him, she tempted him into it like.

    She got to live a nightmare. He got fined 90 pounds.

    By god this country's treatment of women was pure evil.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,850 ✭✭✭Stop moaning ffs


    Stop moaning ffs, you’ve been wedging your prejudices into the thread, all throughout the thread, when the woman at the centre of this particular case has not once held them responsible for the way she was treated.

    Before you lecture anyone else about context, perhaps you should consider that it’s you is responsible for deflecting responsibility from the people whom the woman in this particular case claims are responsible for the way she was treated, not the people whom you want to claim are responsible for the way she was treated due to your persistent attempts to wedge in your own prejudices.

    I’ve no interest in anyone being held responsible. And I have no prejudices thanks a million.
    I’m happy she got to tell her story, ireland needs to know this went on and wake up, and if you have a problem with my opinion you really should read back on this thread. Some really strange archaic takes all in one place.


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    seasidedub wrote: »
    Are you serious? It was the 1980's not Nathaniel Hawthorne's New England during the time of The Scarlet letter.

    And "she" had sex with a garda? Sure god love him, she tempted him into it like.

    She got to live a nightmare. He got fined 90 pounds.

    By god this country's treatment of women was pure evil.

    I welcome both your post and sesidedub's post- simply because in between both, there's an element of "hope" there somewhere as a contrast- but, obviously, as we know now, there was no hope- because GRA and AGS were in bed with each other in 1984, humping each other. :pac::pac::pac::pac:

    The Irony.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    My point was, GRA did F'ck-all in 1984/5 to support MM- leaving aside the bleeding obvious of what the culture was in 1984/5, what's your point ?

    The CC had influence over any entity they could. And they did.

    Was not just the Gardai. At all. Bet the top brass were Opus Dei. Think about it, was like the masons.

    No promotion unless you kissed the bishop's ring at Mass, etc. Same all over the Army, Civil Service, Gardai, anywhere that was funded from the public purse.

    No wonder they did nothing. Apart from controlling women. Endemic in society then. No promotions for looking after single pregnant women. Think about who controlled that ideology.


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    The CC had influence over any entity they could. And they did.

    Was not just the Gardai. At all. Bet the top brass were Opus Dei. Think about it, was like the masons.

    No promotion unless you kissed the bishop's ring at Mass, etc. Same all over the Army, Civil Service, Gardai, anywhere that was funded from the public purse.

    No wonder they did nothing. Apart from controlling women. Endemic in society then. No promotions for looking after single pregnant women. Think about who controlled that ideology.

    Would you stop lecturing me about the 1980's - I'm very well aware of what went on- I fcking lived the 1980's- so what's you're point here in THIS argument?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    Would you stop lecturing me about the 1980's - I'm very well aware of what went on- I fcking lived the 1980's- so what's you're point here in THIS argument?

    You asked a question. Can you deal with the answer? Probably not, but that is your own issue to deal with.


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    You asked a question. Can you deal with the answer? Probably not, but that is your own issue to deal with.

    So you think the GRA in 1980's did no wrong

    OK.



    Thanks


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,199 ✭✭✭✭Spanish Eyes


    So you think the GRA in 1980's did no wrong

    OK.



    Thanks

    I think there were forces running the CC back in the day, and they had influence in any Government entity like Garda, Civil Service, whatever. Those influences (Opus Dei and the likes), ruled the roost IMO, and if you did not comply you would never be promoted. Just like the mason's handshake in many a police force elsewhere.

    Don't know why you are so uptight about the reality of all this really. It was NOT JUST THE GARDAI. Sorry for shouting, but it was endemic in Government bodies from what I can see.


  • Posts: 11,195 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    the sad thing is a large cohort of the posters on either side of this debate would read back on the last few pages and immediately think the other side was trolling them

    but i have a terrible suspicion most of ye are genuine

    thats the tragedy tbh


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,850 ✭✭✭Stop moaning ffs


    So you think the GRA in 1980's did no wrong

    OK.



    Thanks

    My reading of it says you and Spanish eyes are saying the same thing. Just coming at it from different directions


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  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    In the absence of any reply, here's what I think:

    Either, in the 1980's, either...

    1. AGS fcked GRA up the ass or

    2. GRA fcked AGS up the ass

    Either way, MM was never going to get justice.


    But we know what? - to all you "bottom pinchers" in AGS, watch out!!! - you might just get an accelerated pension plan while your victims will get fck all- :pac::pac::pac:


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,850 ✭✭✭Stop moaning ffs


    the sad thing is a large cohort of the posters on either side of this debate would read back on the last few pages and immediately think the other side was trolling them

    but i have a terrible suspicion most of ye are genuine

    thats the tragedy tbh


    Yep


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    My reading of it says you and Spanish eyes are saying the same thing. Just coming at it from different directions

    and if that's the case, then fine- look at my last post above ^^^^ - that's really my only argument. -No offence to anyone I've interacted with this evening.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,439 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    I’ve no interest in anyone being held responsible. And I have no prejudices thanks a million.
    I’m happy she got to tell her story, ireland needs to know this went on and wake up, and if you have a problem with my opinion you really should read back on this thread. Some really strange archaic takes all in one place.


    Of course you have an interest in holding people responsible. Now you’re trying to suggest that Ireland needs to know this went on and wake up? Irish people know bloody well it went on, and were fully supportive of it at the time!

    The reason I take issue with your opinion is because up to when I first responded to your post, I was reading your posts in the thread where you’re attempting to portray a narrative of a very different society of which this woman and others like her were victims of some strange archaic notions you have of the 80’s.

    We know for example from this woman’s own story that contraceptives were available, because they were using them, that people were having casual sex, because they were, that AGS were held in high esteem, because they were, that not everyone at the time were in thrall to the Catholic Church, because most of them weren’t. They were mostly concerned with what their families, friends and neighbours would think of them.

    Irish society really hasn’t changed all that much throughout history and much of what happened then still goes on today, and the same people who were looked down upon then are still looked down upon today. Take a look at what goes on in your own neighbourhood in the present before you get any ideas that we’ve moved on from the past.

    You have a prejudice against the Catholic Church, and it’s obvious from just your posts in this thread alone that you do. This sort of nonsense was just another example -
    There isn’t one person alive or dead in this country that came through under nuns or Christian brothers, that wasn’t hit or beaten regularly.
    Her story isn’t about that. It’s far more serious.


    I don’t know what Christian brothers you’re familiar with, but the school I went to none of us were hit or beaten, let alone regularly. Even in her own story she gave an account of a nun in her time in an industrial school who was one of the kindest people she’d known. I could say the same of the Brothers in the CBS I went to. Her story is about that though, because it’s her story, not yours to appropriate and spin to suit your own agenda.

    I’ve listened to her story and it’s not actually that uncommon at all for the times that they were, and it wouldn’t be uncommon today if a member of AGS were to bring the force into disrepute that they too would be disciplined as she was. She wasn’t treated any more unfairly than anyone else in her circumstances. I don’t think anyone owes her any apology, but if people want to apologise to her for something they didn’t do and feel collectively guilty for something they weren’t responsible for, then fair enough. But please don’t go assuming on my behalf that I’m not aware of the times they were and the people’s attitudes at the time which aren’t all that different to people’s attitudes now.

    It’s your own strange and archaic notions of collective guilt that serve no purpose in addressing what you claim was a wrong committed at the time against the woman in question in this particular case.


  • Posts: 9,106 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    But it still remains, the GRA public comment tonight, as reported by RTE New 9pm, was the greatest piece of sh1it3 comment from a union that is supposedly "interested" in it's members- like fck off to that.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,850 ✭✭✭Stop moaning ffs


    Of course you have an interest in holding people responsible. Now you’re trying to suggest that Ireland needs to know this went on and wake up? Irish people know bloody well it went on, and were fully supportive of it at the time!

    The reason I take issue with your opinion is because up to when I first responded to your post, I was reading your posts in the thread where you’re attempting to portray a narrative of a very different society of which this woman and others like her were victims of some strange archaic notions you have of the 80’s.

    We know for example from this woman’s own story that contraceptives were available, because they were using them, that people were having casual sex, because they were, that AGS were held in high esteem, because they were, that not everyone at the time were in thrall to the Catholic Church, because most of them weren’t. They were mostly concerned with what their families, friends and neighbours would think of them.

    Irish society really hasn’t changed all that much throughout history and much of what happened then still goes on today, and the same people who were looked down upon then are still looked down upon today. Take a look at what goes on in your own neighbourhood in the present before you get any ideas that we’ve moved on from the past.

    You have a prejudice against the Catholic Church, and it’s obvious from just your posts in this thread alone that you do. This sort of nonsense was just another example -




    I don’t know what Christian brothers you’re familiar with, but the school I went to none of us were hit or beaten, let alone regularly. Even in her own story she gave an account of a nun in her time in an industrial school who was one of the kindest people she’d known. I could say the same of the Brothers in the CBS I went to. Her story is about that though, because it’s her story, not yours to appropriate and spin to suit your own agenda.

    I’ve listened to her story and it’s not actually that uncommon at all for the times that they were, and it wouldn’t be uncommon today if a member of AGS were to bring the force into disrepute that they too would be disciplined as she was. She wasn’t treated any more unfairly than anyone else in her circumstances. I don’t think anyone owes her any apology, but if people want to apologise to her for something they didn’t do and feel collectively guilty for something they weren’t responsible for, then fair enough. But please don’t go assuming on my behalf that I’m not aware of the times they were and the people’s attitudes at the time which aren’t all that different to people’s attitudes now.

    It’s your own strange and archaic notions of collective guilt that serve no purpose in addressing what you claim was a wrong committed at the time against the woman in question in this particular case.


    If you say so :)


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,850 ✭✭✭Stop moaning ffs


    What was that earlier about Gardai and higher moral standards?
    They’re at it again

    https://twitter.com/JohnBurkeRTE/status/1140243741569093633


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,295 ✭✭✭✭Beechwoodspark


    Irish Times reporting that Majella Moynihan “May sue the state for damages”


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,850 ✭✭✭Stop moaning ffs


    https://www.broadsheet.ie/2019/06/17/i-remember-just-falling-to-the-ground/

    In addition to the articles above, on page 13 in The Irish Times, on February 6, 1985, Mary Maher wrote a background piece on Majella’s story which was headlined: “Did baby bring discredit on the Force?”.

    In the piece, Ms Maher reported:

    “There have, in fact, been several unmarried ban-ghardai who have become pregnant while members of the force in recent years.

    “Some of them at least appear to have been dealt with in a very humane fashion whether or not disciplinary proceedings were involved.

    “One woman was transferred following the birth of her baby to a location near her home, where arrangements were made to care for the baby while she continued working.

    In another case, a pregnant ban-gharda was instructed by her superior to marry the father of her child, but succeeded in resisting the instruction and retained her post.

    “In another case, however, a recruit who was accepted on the force after the initial medical examination, was found to be pregnant when she was called up several months later. She was dismissed.”


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,860 ✭✭✭Mrsmum


    Irish people know bloody well it went on, and were fully supportive of it at the time!

    I totally agree with this line. Parents more than anyone were very judgemental not just of their own daughters morals but of everyone elses daughters too and the harshest critics of any girl that fell pregnant. In fact I would say if MM had your average parents of the day she could forget her notions of choosing to stay single and keeping her baby. That would be seen as being a 'brazen hussy', giving two fingers to 'respectable' society. Many, many parents marched their daughters and even a reluctant groom up the aisle quick smart.

    Someone said earlier that I was an outlier knowing where to get the pill back then but really it was that falling pregnant was my biggest fear back then (even before ever having sex !) and that would have been the same for most girls. Before I came to Dublin, I remember a girl arriving home 'in disgrace' and all the disapproval around our area. Even that phrase 'in disgrace' tells you all you need to know about the attitude of the time.

    And remember illegitimate went on the birth cert if not married and that or the more common version of it was a right insult of a word. Girls often married fast to spare their child that slight following them around evermore. When a girl fell pregnant, it was rarely about what she alone wanted anymore. That's why I kinda surprised at Majella who seems to be saying she could have kept the child. From her circumstances and the attitude of the time, I can't see how she could.

    Men, not all but many had very much double standards about girls who had sex outside marriage with casual boyfriends. Perfect for 'having fun' with but not the sort you marry. And if you had the proof of another man's child, forget it. I'm not surprised that she suffered sexual harassment in the guards because clearly (sarcasm) she was not a good girl deserving of respect.

    As an example of the sh*te attitude against women in those days Majella would have been typical but that attitude was everywhere. We might as well all write to her apologising for our parents and grandparents. Instead I think it consoles us in our immaturity to scapegoat.


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