What would you do if you found out your sister in law had

Rikand · 21-05-2019 08:57PM

facehugger99 wrote: »

Demand a threesome as the price of my silence.

At the very least demand they do it again and insist on watching

SeanW · 21-05-2019 09:23PM

Blood is thicker than water. Your primary obligation is to your brother.

kowloon · 21-05-2019 10:08PM

Danzy wrote: »

End their marriage or let it blow over.

Your call, you could **** up his life.

On the other hand, you could **** up his life by leaving them together with the side effect of him hating you for not telling him.

Telling or not telling, it can go horribly wrong either way. You're more qualified to make the call than a message board of people who don't know any of the people involced.

Personally, I would want to know.

Infernal Racket · 21-05-2019 10:13PM

Now all I want to do is watch lesbian porn.

Capt'n Midnight · 22-05-2019 12:36AM

SeanW wrote: »

Blood is thicker than water. Your primary obligation is to your brother.

Actually it's
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

Birneybau · 22-05-2019 12:47AM

...started a clickbait thread? Probably ignore it

Yermande · 22-05-2019 12:51AM

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

Actually it's
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

That doesn't really roll of the tongue though and you'd also sound like a mental patient or a theology student, albeit that in itself is a very fine distinction.

Shemale · 22-05-2019 07:24AM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

Cheating is cheating, I dont know why gender matters

Infernal Racket · 22-05-2019 08:10AM

Shemale wrote: »

Cheating is cheating, I dont know why gender matters

Cos its girl on girl man. Girl on girl really matters

Deebles McBeebles · 22-05-2019 09:05AM

Tell me more, tell me more
Was it love at first sight?
Tell me more, tell me more
Did she put up a fight?

Infernal Racket · 22-05-2019 09:11AM

Deebles McBeebles wrote: »

Tell me more, tell me more
Was it love at first sight?
Tell me more, tell me more
Did she put up a fight?

A walla walla walla oopmh

_Brian · 22-05-2019 09:14AM

Shake her hand, she’s married to a complete tool who treats her like shiit.

Strumms · 22-05-2019 09:36AM

So...your brother was cheated on, he doesn’t know but you do.... “I know, I’ll venture over to after hours and see if anyone knows what to do”. Tell the fûcker, it’s obvious she has no intention of and she won’t, the ultimatum might be an idea too but fûck, the guy needs to know, then at least he can decide how to proceed.

givyjoe · 22-05-2019 09:42AM

Danzy wrote: »

End their marriage or let it blow over.

Your call, you could **** up his life.

Nah, the wife did that.

Patty Hearst · 22-05-2019 09:48AM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

If it was my brother I would tell him without hesitation.

Wabbit Ears · 22-05-2019 09:49AM

boardsies really do fall for obvious clickbait very easily

Infernal Racket · 22-05-2019 10:00AM

Wabbit Ears wrote: »

boardsies really do fall for obvious clickbait very easily

It's more entertaining than reality

valoren · 22-05-2019 10:20AM

How did you find out?

Did she tell you herself or did you find out on the QT?

Trust...but verify...

KathleenGrant · 22-05-2019 07:10PM

My cousin's partner cheated on him with a woman, Took him ages to get over it but he did. He said afterwards that he would have found it harder to accept her being with another man.

Cee-Jay-Cee · 22-05-2019 07:17PM

Tell her to tell him herself otherwise you will.

I’d want to know if it were me and would be rightly pissed off I found out later that my sister knew but didn’t tell me.

weldoninhio · 22-05-2019 07:25PM

Just imagine that she told him, they talked and moved on wit their lives.

Then come back to AH when you’ve made up another new fantasy story in your head.

Oink · 22-05-2019 07:31PM

Capt'n Midnight wrote: »

Actually it's
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

Ah here can you give a warning next time. I don’t come to AH on a Saturday evening to learn stuff and sh!t.

Back on topic - bros before hos obviously.

31-05-2019 01:52PM

Told him last night. He doesn’t really know what to think. Stayed at my house last night, he didn’t see this coming, think he wants to take his time before making any decisions, which is good. He isn’t angry, yet anyway, just taken aback.

Deebles McBeebles · 31-05-2019 01:59PM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

Told him last night. He doesn’t really know what to think. Stayed at my house last night, he didn’t see this coming, think he wants to take his time before making any decisions, which is good. He isn’t angry, yet anyway, just taken aback.

Oh the anger will come. Best of luck to you and your brother. For what its worth, I think you had to do it.

steddyeddy · 31-05-2019 01:59PM

Candie wrote: »

It's their business. If you're absolutely, definitely, 100% sure it was a one-off and will never happen again and her remorse is genuine, it doesn't seem worth upsetting the brother and possibly breaking up a marriage.

Either way, this isn't your story to tell and while you can steer her one way or another via threats etc., telling him yourself is a bad idea. People tend to shoot the messenger and the worse the news is, the more they get shot.

Tread carefully and be sensible.

I'm not criticising but if your sibling knew that your partner had an affair with someone else you'd expect them to keep it secret? It's probably personal preference but I'd want my siblings to tell me I was being cheated on and probably lied to.

steddyeddy · 31-05-2019 02:01PM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

Told him last night. He doesn’t really know what to think. Stayed at my house last night, he didn’t see this coming, think he wants to take his time before making any decisions, which is good. He isn’t angry, yet anyway, just taken aback.

You did the right thing. He's your brother. Why hide his partner's dishonesty from him? I don't get why people are saying it's nothing to do with you.

Taxburden carrier · 31-05-2019 02:03PM

If it was my sister in law , I’d track down the person they’d cheated with, break their white stick and kick their guide dog.

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5 · 31-05-2019 02:11PM

Normally I'd be in the stay out of it camp but a sibling, no way.

Sure sometimes affairs are once off, better off not confessing and just doubling down on your commitment and copping yourself on to fcuk but they do have a habit of coming out and if I found out my partner had been unfaithful and my sibling hadn't told me I honestly think I'd take that harder than the affair!

31-05-2019 02:16PM

I don't believe that his wife won't do the same thing again, ultimately. No real choice. I hope he leaves her honestly. Me and him are going to America the week after next for him to have a change of scene and get a bit of perspective.

ArrBee · 31-05-2019 02:28PM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

I don't believe that his wife won't do the same thing again, ultimately. No real choice. I hope he leaves her honestly. Me and him are going to America the week after next for him to have a change of scene and get a bit of perspective.

"bit of perspective" = coke and hookers?

What would you do if you found out your sister in law had

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