What would you do if you found out your sister in law had

21-05-2019 04:13PM #1

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

GarIT · 21-05-2019 04:15PM

Turn it the other way around. If you were cheated on would you want to know?

If I found out my sister knew I was cheated on and didn't tell me I'd never speak to her again.

ToddyDoody · 21-05-2019 04:17PM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman?

I'd need more detail.

Sonny noggs · 21-05-2019 04:17PM

This is currently in After Hours so, the most obvious question - is she hot?

Sonny noggs · 21-05-2019 04:18PM

ToddyDoody wrote: »

I'd need more detail.

Including pictures?

theteal · 21-05-2019 04:18PM

AH answer?

Pics or gtfo!

PinotNero · 21-05-2019 04:24PM

theteal wrote: »

AH answer?

Pics or gtfo!

and video....

DEFTLEFTHAND · 21-05-2019 04:24PM

I'd find it pretty amusing tbh.

I'm sure my brother would too.

facehugger99 · 21-05-2019 04:26PM

Demand a threesome as the price of my silence.

oLoonatic · 21-05-2019 04:29PM

facehugger99 wrote: »

Demand a threesome as the price of my silence.

This gets my vote too

Tomw86 · 21-05-2019 04:31PM

As an honest response, I would think you should tell him - he has a right to know. If he finds out you knew, how will he react?
Also, it sounds like she doesn't want him to know, so are you sure it was a once off?

Otherwise, please provide more details, including diagrams.

Thelonious Monk · 21-05-2019 04:34PM

I'd probably knock one out

orourkeda1977 · 21-05-2019 04:35PM

ask for a threesome

21-05-2019 04:35PM

It's their business. If you're absolutely, definitely, 100% sure it was a one-off and will never happen again and her remorse is genuine, it doesn't seem worth upsetting the brother and possibly breaking up a marriage.

Either way, this isn't your story to tell and while you can steer her one way or another via threats etc., telling him yourself is a bad idea. People tend to shoot the messenger and the worse the news is, the more they get shot.

Tread carefully and be sensible.

Ray Palmer · 21-05-2019 04:36PM

Same rule applies regardless of the sex of the other person. It is said women who cheat do so emotionally before the physical so often a bigger deal.

Cuddlesworth · 21-05-2019 04:37PM

Candie wrote: »

It's their business. If you're absolutely, definitely, 100% sure it was a one-off and will never happen again and her remorse is genuine, it doesn't seem worth upsetting the brother and possibly breaking up a marriage.

Either way, this isn't your story to tell and while you can steer her one way or another via threats etc., telling him yourself is a bad idea. People tend to shoot the messenger and the worse the news is, the more they get shot.

Tread carefully and be sensible.

It's never one off.

SEPT 23 1989 · 21-05-2019 04:38PM

21-05-2019 04:38PM

a rides a ride

id tell her to tell him. no threats or ultimatums tho

Grayson · 21-05-2019 04:39PM

Sonny noggs wrote: »

This is currently in After Hours so, the most obvious question - is she hot?

and blast her with piss.

Bob Harris · 21-05-2019 04:40PM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

More like sleeping bitches.

21-05-2019 04:42PM

Cuddlesworth wrote: »

It's never one off.

I know that's the popular consensus, but there's no evidence of it's truth. I'm sure (and a quick peruse of PI might well confirm) that many men and women make mistakes and learn from them, never to repeat them.

If someone is a serial cheater that's one thing and I'd never trust someone with form in that department. We don't know that the SIL is one of those.

Either way, the OP has to be very careful.

21-05-2019 04:49PM

Something something hate crime victim blaming accepting

kowloon · 21-05-2019 05:55PM

Candie wrote: »

It's their business. If you're absolutely, definitely, 100% sure it was a one-off and will never happen again and her remorse is genuine, it doesn't seem worth upsetting the brother and possibly breaking up a marriage.

It was you! :eek:

21-05-2019 06:40PM

kowloon wrote: »

It was you! :eek:

Sush!

cannotlogin · 21-05-2019 08:23PM

Aren't you the poster that was outraged by a co-worker that drinks 10 pints a week?

If that bothers you, how are so calm about your sister in law cheating on your brother?!

Does she need to cheat with your co-worker before you'd consider telling your brother?!

More importantly, how did you find out-you haven't told us the best part of the story?

On a serious note, family are everything. I would be more angry with a sibling that didn't tell me than a cheating spouse.

corner of hells · 21-05-2019 08:31PM

Grayson wrote: »

and blast her with piss.

And ask about coke and hookers ?

biko · 21-05-2019 08:33PM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman?

Tell your brother to cheat on her with a man.

Charles Ingles · 21-05-2019 08:34PM

Give her until the weekend to tell your brother, if she doesn't tell your brother yourself

Danzy · 21-05-2019 08:36PM

Sunny Disposition wrote: »

cheated on your brother with another woman? She is adamant that she is not really a lesbian, just had a fling, but doesn't want her husband to know. Think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, but not sure.

End their marriage or let it blow over.

Your call, you could **** up his life.

Gonad · 21-05-2019 08:38PM

https://i.makeagif.com/media/7-15-2015/iI0t2X.gif

Zorya · 21-05-2019 08:54PM

Hmmmmm going by the 10 pints a week shocker maybe this wild fling amounts to a peck on the cheek or they wore each others lipstick or something....

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