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Feeding builders?

  • 21-05-2019 12:08PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 185 ✭✭


    What's the etiquette when builders are working in your gaff? Should I be giving them food? I have left out tea/coffee and biscuits (and splashed out on donuts the other day). But should I be making them sandwiches or something?!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,922 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    But should I be making them sandwiches or something?!

    Does your employer make you sandwiches?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭sbsquarepants


    All I know about treating builders is what I've learned from porn - oh, there should be sandwiches alright;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,161 ✭✭✭TheShow


    Is there no local Deli where they can pick up a breakfast roll?
    You're not oblidged to make sambos for them, you can do so willingly if you wish to.

    Tea/coffee & biscuits are compulsory.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,252 ✭✭✭FTA69


    As a former builder who was on a million domestic jobs then there should be tea and coffee available or at least the facilities available and yes biscuits or small cakes etc are always a nice touch. I mean obviously you’re under no obligation to do anything but personally speaking I couldn’t have a man working in my gaff without at least making him a drop of splosh or laying on a few biscuits.

    If you make them sandwiches they’d think you’re the soundest person ever and it’s an absolute touch to get. No need to be offering dinners or any of that craic.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 23,252 ✭✭✭✭2smiggy


    my mother would always offer dinner , some would accept it, but most are happy to eat their own food in their vans. IMO an offer of tea and biscuits is enough


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,162 ✭✭✭B-D-P--


    Happy builders makes for good builders.

    Simple as that. Nothing is necessary, but if they like you, they will work maybe 5-10% better than if they they think your a ......
    Fill in the blanks.


  • Posts: 24,773 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Tea/coffee yes and maybe biscuits but personally I’d rather get my own lunch from the deli, not a fan of eating lunch’s in other people’s houses.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,167 ✭✭✭Fr_Dougal


    What's the etiquette when builders are working in your gaff? Should I be giving them food? I have left out tea/coffee and biscuits (and splashed out on donuts the other day). But should I be making them sandwiches or something?!

    Don’t leave sandwiches out for builders. If you do you’ll find more and more builders arriving each day, eventually you’ll run out of room.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,913 ✭✭✭NickNickleby


    Tea and sandwiches at lunchtime, with tea/coffee offered at intervals. Packet of ham and cheese and a sliced pan doesn't cost much, and any guys working in my house have always been appreciative of the offer. It also builds up a rapport, so that makes it easier to discuss snags in a friendly way - should they arise.


  • Posts: 5,464 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Rivita and green tea.
    Always works.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,874 ✭✭✭Edgware


    Prunes, yoghurt and make sure they dont disconnect the toilet facilities


  • Moderators, Recreation & Hobbies Moderators, Sports Moderators Posts: 16,057 Mod ✭✭✭✭Tabnabs


    Tea/coffee and biscuits is a hospitable standard.

    Just don't expect them to tidy up after themselves, the cups will be left half full and teaspoons left beside them on a stained worktop...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,969 ✭✭✭Deebles McBeebles


    Packet of ham and cheese and a sliced pan doesn't cost much

    What about vegan builders? Quorn ain't cheap.


  • Moderators, Music Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,740 Mod ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    Tea, coffee and biscuits is always welcomed.
    Handjobs are a bonus.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 933 ✭✭✭El_Bee


    there's a tacit understanding that if you dont feed and water them then they wont do as good a job as if you do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,252 ✭✭✭chrissb8


    A four course meal served on tiles while you stand over them and talk them through what they'r eating and the craftsmanship that goes into every bite.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,496 ✭✭✭✭Mad_maxx


    What's the etiquette when builders are working in your gaff? Should I be giving them food? I have left out tea/coffee and biscuits (and splashed out on donuts the other day). But should I be making them sandwiches or something?!

    Leave out several buckets to catch flung teabags


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,913 ✭✭✭NickNickleby


    What about vegan builders? Quorn ain't cheap.

    First thing Monday morning, I stand at the gate and ask " eh.... are there any VEGANS here" in a menacing tone, prior to the stoning.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,667 ✭✭✭tabby aspreme


    If your making tea for them , double up on the amount you put in the pot , and let it simmer for 5 minutes before serving.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,874 ✭✭✭Edgware


    Keep an eye out for the builders cleavage


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,652 ✭✭✭AulWan


    When I had builders working in my house, I gave them access to the kettle, teabags, coffee, milk and biscuits etc but they very politely declined anything else and brought their breakfast rolls / lunch with them and usually sat in their van to eat and take tea breaks.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,910 ✭✭✭✭padd b1975


    chrissb8 wrote: »
    A four course meal served on tiles while you stand over them and talk them through what they'r eating and the craftsmanship that goes into every bite.

    While brandishing a massive pepper mill.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,419 ✭✭✭ToddyDoody


    What's the etiquette when builders are working in your gaff? Should I be giving them food? I have left out tea/coffee and biscuits (and splashed out on donuts the other day). But should I be making them sandwiches or something?!

    Put on a few fish fingers maybe.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 8,474 ✭✭✭Obvious Desperate Breakfasts


    My Dad was a tradesman and never assumed he was going to be fed. He always brought his lunch when he was on the fitting part of the job. (For the making things part, he just came home for lunch as we lived really near his workshop) I think the odd time, clients would make him lunch but it was never an expectation. He might have, like, one cup of tea or something but that was it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    I have no issue feeding tradesmen per se but I've never been happy with this idea that they should be wined and dined (or tea'd and biscuit'd) by the owner of the household to be kept sweet.

    We've all heard the stories of tradesmen turning up several days late or not turning up at all for some imagined slight or because they just couldn't be arsed. Many years ago my late father in law asked a few builders to help him build a shed outside his house and he neglected to leave out a tray of sandwiches for them. To his dying day he was convinced that that was why they never returned after laying down the foundation and rendering the project effectively abandoned.

    There's definitely a culture of complacency in the trades in Ireland and I'm not sure we should all be complicit in encouraging that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,794 ✭✭✭Aongus Von Bismarck


    I don't think it's unreasonable to offer a cup of tea, or a few biscuits to a tradesperson. It's a perfectly polite and mannerly thing to do. However there's a culture amongst tradesmen of taking the piss. It's a few years ago, but I was back in my parent's place for a few days R&R. It was a Friday, and they had a tiler in to put in new tiles in an ensuite bathroom. I wasn't aware of this, and immediately offered to pay for the cost of the tiles and labour. They accepted my most generous offer, and headed out for the day to the Burren.

    Anyway, this dodgy looking chancer arrives up around 10 in a death trap of a van. In his late 20's, and with that classic tradesman look - buzzcut haircut, tattoos, a set of teeth that look like they are all trying to get as far away from each other as possible, bloodshot eyes, rollie hanging out of the corner of his gob.

    I let him into the house, offered him a cup of tea, and then let him off to do his work. I then retired to the garden to read. The majority of the rest of the morning was him either making or taking phone calls with his mates - lots of guffawing, bad language, lurid descriptions of women from the local town, and excitement about going to some dance festival on Saturday night, and how 'off his tits' he was going to get. He also made himself 4 mugs of tea, and each time left the tea bag in the sink itself. I should have known then I was dealing with a semi-feral mucksavage. After a very generous lunch is terms of time taken he returned to an afternoon of being on his phone - interspersed with what sounded like periods of work.

    It got to around quarter to 5, and he came into the sitting room where I was listening to the radio. 'All done there, horse', he exclaimed. I enquired as to the cost of the job. I'll do it for 250 squid cash, he said. How generous of you, I said. 'I've got an equally generous offer for you. It's 150e, which represents the going rate of 35e per hour for the amount of actual work I estimated you did'. He started cursing and ranting at me, but I wasn't for moving. He eventually packed up his stuff, called me the c word, and stormed out the door. 'I won't charge you for the tea', I quipped as he hopped into the van and drove off at speed. Such a breathtaking sense of entitlement he had.


  • Moderators, Music Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,740 Mod ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    What type of tea Aongus?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,439 ✭✭✭corner of hells


    Woke meet Aongus.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,794 ✭✭✭Aongus Von Bismarck


    Boom_Bap wrote: »
    What type of tea Aongus?

    Barry’s tea. It’s my parents preferred brand. I don’t drink tea that often as I have a Jura bean to cup in the kitchen of my apartment here in Frankfurt.


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  • Moderators, Music Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 25,740 Mod ✭✭✭✭Boom_Bap


    Barry’s tea. It’s my parents preferred brand. I don’t drink tea that often as I have a Jura bean to cup in the kitchen of my apartment here in Frankfurt.


    What technique do you use to make the tea in your parents.
    Milk first?


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