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Acceptable time to ring in the morning?

  • 27-04-2019 02:46PM
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭


    My mother got a letter for an appointment with a consultant, date didn't suit so I rang and left a message to call me back.

    The following morning I got a call at 8.30am from the secretary returning my call, I felt this was a bit early to be making a call of this nature.

    As an aside she seemed very put out that we weren't fitting in with their plans, it was a special clinic I was told and was i sure that it didn't suit.

    So is 8.30 in the morning acceptable or should they have waited until after 9, personally Id never ring someone at 8.30 id wait until after 9.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 5,977 ✭✭✭SCOOP 64


    Id be grateful to get a call anytime knowing how busy they are.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,264 ✭✭✭✭jester77


    Shelflife wrote: »
    My mother got a letter for an appointment with a consultant, date didn't suit so I rang and left a message to call me back.

    The following morning I got a call at 8.30am from the secretary returning my call, I felt this was a bit early to be making a call of this nature.

    As an aside she seemed very put out that we weren't fitting in with their plans, it was a special clinic I was told and was i sure that it didn't suit.

    So is 8.30 in the morning acceptable or should they have waited until after 9, personally Id never ring someone at 8.30 id wait until after 9.

    Most places start at 8am, so any time from then onwards is acceptable imo.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,621 ✭✭✭giveitholly


    Shelflife wrote: »
    My mother got a letter for an appointment with a consultant, date didn't suit so I rang and left a message to call me back.

    The following morning I got a call at 8.30am from the secretary returning my call, I felt this was a bit early to be making a call of this nature.

    As an aside she seemed very put out that we weren't fitting in with their plans, it was a special clinic I was told and was i sure that it didn't suit.

    So is 8.30 in the morning acceptable or should they have waited until after 9, personally Id never ring someone at 8.30 id wait until after 9.

    8.30 is fine,what difference is half an hour?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,070 ✭✭✭Franz Von Peppercorn


    8:30 would suit me as I’m not at work.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 197 ✭✭vkus6mt3y8zg2q


    Hope you get all the help you need to get over the trauma of this as soon as possible.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,789 ✭✭✭Mrcaramelchoc


    If it was an important consultation you really have no right to complain as lots of people could be waiting for appointment s and that secretary needs to get to them all.its not just you in that lives on this planet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 31,696 ✭✭✭✭looksee


    God is a consultant, and his secretary is an arch-angel (who is very conscious of her relationship with god). In both cases they can do as they wish before granting you the privilege of paying them €200.


  • Moderators, Category Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 24,705 CMod ✭✭✭✭Ten of Swords


    Shelflife wrote: »
    My mother got a letter for an appointment with a consultant, date didn't suit so I rang and left a message to call me back after 9am.

    Fixed that for you op, I'm sure you specifically told them not to call back too early... right?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,679 ✭✭✭✭Samuel T. Cogley


    looksee wrote: »
    God is a consultant, and his secretary is an arch-angel (who is very conscious of her relationship with god). In both cases they can do as they wish before granting you the privilege of paying them €200.


    Which cheap-ass consultant are you seeing?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,318 ✭✭✭✭mdwexford


    You are correct.

    Calls before 9am are the work of barbarians.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭Shelflife


    If it was an important consultation you really have no right to complain as lots of people could be waiting for appointment s and that secretary needs to get to them all.its not just you in that lives on this planet.

    Appointment was for 5 weeks time and I rang the day I got it to let them know it didnt suit.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 562 ✭✭✭rgodard80a


    Shelflife wrote: »
    So is 8.30 in the morning acceptable or should they have waited until after 9, personally Id never ring someone at 8.30 id wait until after 9.

    For any health issue I'd be glad of a prompt response.
    It's not even your health issue, it's your mothers, so are you really complaining that you won't even take a phone call to help your own mother?

    Maybe you should just turn off your phone until 9am each day.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,789 ✭✭✭Mrcaramelchoc


    Shelflife wrote: »
    Appointment was for 5 weeks time and I rang the day I got it to let them know it didnt suit.

    Turn off your phone until 9am then.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,162 ✭✭✭✭Del2005


    I'd ring a mobile phone at any time of the day or night, you can turn them off or set up blocks. A land line I would not ring between 9pm and 8am unless for an emergency.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,923 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    mdwexford wrote:
    Calls before 9am are the work of barbarians.

    Cue Nox001 arriving to say anything before 12 noon is the middle of the night and anyone who gets up before 10am is clearly some kind of deranged sado-masochist.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,180 ✭✭✭Charles Ingles


    You should get her sacked, calling you at such an ungodly hour


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭Shelflife


    rgodard80a wrote: »
    For any health issue I'd be glad of a prompt response.
    It's not even your health issue, it's your mothers, so are you really complaining that you won't even take a phone call to help your own mother?

    Maybe you should just turn off your phone until 9am each day.

    Not sure where you arrived at that conclusion, I never complained about the call I merely expressed suprise that they called before 9am, It wasnt an emergency health issue but simply arranging an appointment for 5 weeks time.

    As I said I personally wouldnt ring before 9am unless it was an urgent matter.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,923 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Shelflife wrote:
    As I said I personally wouldnt ring before 9am unless it was an urgent matter.

    Why?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 1,180 ✭✭✭Charles Ingles


    Why would you answer a cell so early,
    Obviously only a maniac would call at 8.30 in the morning


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,096 ✭✭✭Shelflife


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Why?

    I suppose its just to do with the traditional office hours of 9-5. Before 9 you were on your own time and after that it was time for work.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,475 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Shelflife wrote:
    As I said I personally wouldnt ring before 9am unless it was an urgent matter.

    Why?
    Because before 9 am it's safe to assume that people are busy getting themselves and kids ready and travelling to school/work.

    Perhaps she was trying to catch you before you started work OP? Agree it was rude to call before 9 for that issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,085 ✭✭✭The Tetrarch


    Anyone else click into this thread thinking the call was at 3 am?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,833 ✭✭✭JeffKenna


    Is it the case you were still in bed?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,923 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Shelflife wrote:
    I suppose its just to do with the traditional office hours of 9-5. Before 9 you were on your own time and after that it was time for work.

    Sardonicat wrote:
    Agree it was rude to call before 9 for that issue.

    I wasn't aware individuals operated on business hours too.

    I honestly can't see the issue here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,475 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    Dial Hard wrote: »
    Shelflife wrote:
    I suppose its just to do with the traditional office hours of 9-5. Before 9 you were on your own time and after that it was time for work.

    Sardonicat wrote:
    Agree it was rude to call before 9 for that issue.

    I wasn't aware individuals operated on business hours too.

    I honestly can't see the issue here.
    If you were shepherding 2 or 3 small kids into a car trying to get them to school and yourself to work you might.
    Most people are on a tight morning schedule and haven't got the time to spare in the morning.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,833 ✭✭✭JeffKenna


    Sardonicat wrote: »
    If you were shepherding 2 or 3 small kids into a car trying to get them to school and yourself to work you might.
    Most people are on a tight morning schedule and haven't got the time to spare in the morning.

    Ask will they ring you back in a minute... Most people are in work at 9am.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 15,923 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard


    Sardonicat wrote:
    If you were shepherding 2 or 3 small kids into a car trying to get them to school and yourself to work you might. Most people are on a tight morning schedule and haven't got the time to spare in the morning.

    So just don't answer. That's what voicemail is for.

    Plenty of people can't take personal calls during business hours and would welcome a business ringing them slightly out of hours.

    Just seems like a bit of a mountain out of a molehill, tbh. It's not like they were ringing you at 3am.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,475 ✭✭✭✭Sardonicat


    JeffKenna wrote: »
    Sardonicat wrote: »
    If you were shepherding 2 or 3 small kids into a car trying to get them to school and yourself to work you might.
    Most people are on a tight morning schedule and haven't got the time to spare in the morning.

    Ask will they ring you back in a minute... Most people are in work at 9am.
    Most people are trying to get to work before 9. Pointless calling before then. And bad manners.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,833 ✭✭✭JeffKenna


    Sardonicat wrote: »
    Most people are trying to get to work before 9. Pointless calling before then. And bad manners.

    And its grand to take a call in work?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,441 ✭✭✭dartboardio


    8.30 is fine?..

    I work in a call centre and we open at 8am. Inbound and outbound calls being made.

    Dont answer if its not suitable i guess

    You need to make it clear in your voicemail that they are only to call you after 9pm if that is your wish. Other then that you have no right to complain as you didnt state a time.


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