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Is self loathing to the Irish...

  • 12-03-2019 01:06PM
    #1
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,482 ✭✭✭


    ... nearly what it is to the Jewish folk?

    Is there a bizarre amount of self loathing among the Irish? 61 votes

    Yes
    77% 47 votes
    No
    22% 14 votes


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 7,275 ✭✭✭Your Face


    Christ


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,627 ✭✭✭Woke Hogan


    As my Jewish uncle in law once told me: "Jewish people are filled with guilt, Irish people are filled with shame."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,118 ✭✭✭✭freshpopcorn


    Yes but I've seen it with other nationalities as well.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,969 ✭✭✭Deebles McBeebles


    Your Face wrote: »
    Christ

    The Jews did a number on him, I wonder if that's where the self loathing started.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,387 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    Does that mean Roddy Doyle is our Woody Allen?


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  • Posts: 5,422 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Apples and oranges.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,173 ✭✭✭✭banie01


    Your Face wrote: »
    Christ

    Sure wasnt he a Jew and Irish!
    The poor bollox!

    Unemployed carpenter, living at home with the Ma who decides to go on a lads tour for his 30's and ends up crucified!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,117 ✭✭✭Technocentral


    I hate self loathing.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,779 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    banie01 wrote: »
    Sure wasnt he a Jew and Irish!
    The poor bollox!

    Unemployed carpenter, living at home with the Ma who decides to go on a lads tour for his 30's and ends up crucified!

    Had the same idea, you did it better!

    ---

    As regards the topic: the problem both groups have is an inability to define the concept "self".

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 56,719 ✭✭✭✭tayto lover


    “What’s done is done and cannot be undone”
    Live it up and never look back.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,015 ✭✭✭Feisar


    While I view the starvation of our country the same as the holocaust, no we are not self loathing.

    We were in the past to quick to doff the cap to the church/politician/local big man. I believe this is a throw back to penal times. When the British left others filled the power vacuum.

    Self defeatist maybe.

    First they came for the socialists...



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,235 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Never! We would have beaten you with or without Fr. Fehily’s doping programme.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭Zorya


    Though anyone raised in the 70s, 80s and definitely before, would find it next to impossible not to have had at least some portion of self loathing battered into them, I prefer Brendan Behan's take on our similarity to the Jews, "Other people have a nationality. The Irish and the Jews have a psychosis."


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭Auntie Semite


    The aversion to Gaelic names by some in the Worst name thread is a good example of Irish self loathing/Cultural cringe.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,197 ✭✭✭✭Cienciano


    This bullshít "self loathing" thing only exists within boards.ie and specifically after hours. It doesn't exist in real life.
    Any criticism of something irish, no matter how mild,gets the "self loathing" comeback from a certain section of posters.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,034 ✭✭✭mad muffin


    I’m not Irish. My wife is. I have not observed any self loathing in her family or extended family. Which includes her sisters husband, and his family and their spouses.

    As a matter of fact I have only noted supreme confidence and pride in being Irish.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,235 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    The aversion to Gaelic names by some in the Worst name thread is a good example of Irish self loathing/Cultural cringe.

    I think people in certain parts of the country are acutely aware of the practice whereby privileged middle-class idiots (of which I am one, by the way) seek to differentiate themselves from other privileged middle-class idiots by naming their offspring Saídbh, Sneachta and Cáca-Milis Ó'Flathúleath. That isn't self-loathing, that's telling gobshites to cetch a hould o' thimselves. :pac:


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭Zorya


    Cienciano wrote: »
    This bullshít "self loathing" thing only exists within boards.ie and specifically after hours. It doesn't exist in real life.
    Any criticism of something irish, no matter how mild,gets the "self loathing" comeback from a certain section of posters.

    Oh. I didn't know that the self loathing here referred to the whole culture, I thought by ''self'' it meant the lonesome individual wracked in the dark depth of the night with anguish and horror at one's own existence, past misdeeds, present failures, and future hopelessness, the sheets a sweaty tangle of stinking despair.

    But you're saying it's just that we get antsy when someone doesn't like Tayto. Oh, okay, I see.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭Auntie Semite


    jimgoose wrote: »
    I think people in certain parts of the country are acutely aware of the practice whereby privileged middle-class idiots (of which I am one, by the way) seek to differentiate themselves from other privileged middle-class idiots by naming their offspring Saídbh, Sneachta and Cáca-Milis Ó'Flathúleath. That isn't self-loathing, that's telling gobshites to cetch a hould o' thimselves. :pac:

    Not to derail the thread but do you hold Polish, Indians or Africans to the same standard?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,194 ✭✭✭Zorya


    jimgoose wrote: »
    I think people in certain parts of the country are acutely aware of the practice whereby privileged middle-class idiots (of which I am one, by the way) seek to differentiate themselves from other privileged middle-class idiots by naming their offspring Saídbh, Sneachta and Cáca-Milis Ó'Flathúleath. That isn't self-loathing, that's telling gobshites to cetch a hould o' thimselves. :pac:

    Your bastard! You leave my Calóg Sneachta out of this. :mad:


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,235 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Not to derail the thread but do you hold Polish, Indians or Africans to the same standard?

    Those fine people can sort out their own gobshites. ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭Auntie Semite


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Those fine people can sort out their own gobshites. ;)

    Did it occur to you that people might actually like Irish names? Or may wish to reconnect with their cultural or ancestral past?

    Maybe their motivations are entirely benign rather than them being privileged middle-class idiots who wish to differentiate themselves from other privileged middle-class idiots.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,235 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Did it occur to you that people might actually like Irish names? Or may wish to reconnect with their cultural or ancestral past?...

    Most of the people of whom I speak would struggle to reconnect with the toilet-bowl after overdoing it at Yamamori.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭Auntie Semite


    Another example of subconscious self loathing is the prevalent assumption that Ireland is an essentially useless nation that can not function on its own and needs the help of a superior outside force to run our affairs.
    "We cannot survive without the Eu" 'We would fail without them' 'We were nothing before they came along'

    I call it 'battered spouse syndrome'

    From the British to the Catholic Church to the Eu.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭Auntie Semite


    jimgoose wrote: »
    Most of the people of whom I speak would struggle to reconnect with the toilet-bowl after overdoing it at Yamamori.

    Lol perhaps you should widen your circle of friends then.


  • Posts: 5,422 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Another example of subconscious self loathing is the prevalent assumption that Ireland is an essentially useless nation that can not function on its own and needs the help of a superior outside force to run our affairs.
    "We cannot survive without the Eu" 'We would fail without them' 'We were nothing before they came along'

    I call it 'battered spouse syndrome'

    From the British to the Catholic Church to the Eu.

    "Essentially useless nation", you're in an audience of one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,779 ✭✭✭✭Princess Consuela Bananahammock


    Another example of subconscious self loathing is the prevalent assumption that Ireland is an essentially useless nation that can not function on its own and needs the help of a superior outside force to run our affairs.
    "We cannot survive without the Eu" 'We would fail without them' 'We were nothing before they came along'

    I call it 'battered spouse syndrome'

    From the British to the Catholic Church to the Eu.

    The problem here is that Ireland as a country has so much potential but too much fear to turn it into results. It's more of a kept-woman than a battered spouse.

    Everything I don't like is either woke or fascist - possibly both - pick one.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,235 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    Another example of subconscious self loathing is the prevalent assumption that Ireland is an essentially useless nation that can not function on its own and needs the help of a superior outside force to run our affairs.
    "We cannot survive without the Eu" 'We would fail without them' 'We were nothing before they came along'

    I call it 'battered spouse syndrome'

    From the British to the Catholic Church to the Eu.

    You should have a bit of faith in yourself! :D


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 274 ✭✭Auntie Semite


    The problem here is that Ireland as a country has so much potential but too much fear to turn it into results. It's more of a kept-woman than a battered spouse.

    I agree, I think Ireland has huge potential but lacks the confidence to assert itself.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,387 ✭✭✭✭super_furry


    Not to derail the thread but do you hold Polish, Indians or Africans to the same standard?

    "Not to derail the thread, but here, let me derail the thread with some anti-foreigner nonsense."

    You're getting boring at this stage.


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