Dumped by my girlfriend today

wirelessdude01 · 14-02-2019 10:02PM

Dwayne Fluffy Spitball wrote:

She's just genuinely upset.

She's genuinely upset over the fact that she is an absolute Muppet. Run and don't look back. GOLD DIGGER

Batgurl · 14-02-2019 10:03PM

Devils advocate

Did she know you were “planning” to pay for all the dining, entertainment, drinks etc?

You sound young and naive and she wouldn’t be the first idiot to panic about money and decide the best way out was to pull out and bury her head in the sand?

Look I’m not condoning what she did but I am advocating open honest communication which seems to be missing a lot from the tinder generation.

mjv2ydratu679c · 14-02-2019 10:03PM

Hoboo wrote: »

Sounds like she needed to instigate a row so she could spend Valentines with her other fella.

She'll be back in plenty of time before Copenhagen, and to get that gravy train back on track.

Thanks but there is no other fella. I can guarantee that 100%.

mjv2ydratu679c · 14-02-2019 10:05PM

Batgurl wrote: »

Devils advocate

Did she know you were “planning” to pay for all the dining, entertainment, drinks etc?

You sound young and naive and she wouldn’t be the first idiot to panic about money and decide the best way out was to pull out and bury her head in the sand?

Look I’m not condoning what she did but I am advocating open honest communication which seems to be missing a lot from the tinder generation.

I'm 43. She already knows I booked and paid for the accommodation and I told her iwaa going to use a bonus I got in work to pay for everything else.

screamer · 14-02-2019 10:06PM

Dwayne Fluffy Spitball wrote: »

I'm 43. She already knows I booked and paid for the accommodation and I told her iwaa going to use a bonus I got in work to pay for everything else.

What age is she.... I genuinely envisaged an 18 year old childish young woman.

mjv2ydratu679c · 14-02-2019 10:07PM

screamer wrote: »

What age is she.... I genuinely envisaged an 18 year old childish young woman.

No she's mid thirties

lawred2 · 14-02-2019 10:07PM

Mod note:

lawred2, you have been around long enough at this stage to know not to challenge the OP like that in PI. If you've an issue, report it.

Wiggle16

MissShihTzu · 14-02-2019 10:08PM

Like I said. There's something else going on. I do not believe the split was over the lack of a gift...

vectorvictor · 14-02-2019 10:08PM

Dwayne Fluffy Spitball wrote: »

No she's mid thirties

Bullet dodged as others have said.

Does she like drama in general?

All will probably be forgiven in a few days ... Until next time you "fail to deliver"

Run, keep running and then run a little faster

screamer · 14-02-2019 10:09PM

Dwayne Fluffy Spitball wrote: »

No she's mid thirties

In that case RUN. She should know better at that age and have some maturity. TBH 3 months in and she’s milked you for a 1.5k trip away and dumps you because you’re not giving her what she feels she deserves.... she does come across as a gold digger.

mjv2ydratu679c · 14-02-2019 10:12PM

OK thanks all, I was just really upset and confused. A mod can lock this thread now as I get the general feeling

screamer · 14-02-2019 10:13PM

Dwayne Fluffy Spitball wrote: »

OK thanks all, I was just really upset and confused. A mod can lock this thread now as I get the general feeling

Hope you make the right decision OP better happy alone than miserable together

wiggle16 · 14-02-2019 10:14PM

Consider it done.

Thanks & grma all who posted.

Dumped by my girlfriend today

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