Cameras have ruined Christmas

Ultimate Seduction · 26-12-2018 04:49AM #1

Christmas eve an all the pics of what Santa has left. Hard on parents who can't afford or don't want to spend thousands on Santa.

Then the kid wakes up Christmas morning with a camera shoved in their face as they get out of bed. Horrible . thank goodness I'm a generation ahead of this.

AllForIt · 26-12-2018 04:53AM

I blame Facebook not cameras. Cameras are nice yokes.

joeguevara · 26-12-2018 05:01AM

The annoying thing I noticed for the first time this year was the photos of all the families in matching pajamas. Now I think it’s cute if the kids have them or even the ma joins in but when you see a guy who is obviously embarrassed and made pose in a rudolf emblazoned set it is time to scream ‘what the fcuk have we become?’ What happened to the times of the Dad getting tanked, rolling home at closing to put the kids presents together p1ssed.

Ultimate Seduction · 26-12-2018 05:23AM

I don't use Facebook so I couldn't blame that. It really is discussing though. Seems its more about who's the best Santa than the kids.

Grab All Association · 26-12-2018 05:48AM

joeguevara wrote: »

The annoying thing I noticed for the first time this year was the photos of all the families in matching pajamas. Now I think it’s cute if the kids have them or even the ma joins in but when you see a guy who is obviously embarrassed and made pose in a rudolf emblazoned set it is time to scream ‘what the fcuk have we become?’ What happened to the times of the Dad getting tanked, rolling home at closing to put the kids presents together p1ssed.

Blame Dunnes Stores

Del2005 · 26-12-2018 06:01AM

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

Christmas eve an all the pics of what Santa has left. Hard on parents who can't afford or don't want to spend thousands on Santa.

Before cameras it was the kids, and parents, bragging about what they got from Santa when playing together or when back in school, so the only thing that changed is that a camera is involved not the showing off.

Zorya · 26-12-2018 09:59AM

AllForIt wrote: »

I blame Facebook not cameras. Cameras are nice yokes.

This. I love cameras. They are magical. I don't have Facebook so, thank goodness, do not see these poor children or families in matching pyjamas.

On Youtube/Twitter though, one sometimes sees videos of children being ''good'', like doing a kind deed, giving a homeless person their dinner or helping an old lady up steps etc., and I do feel a bit cringey that the child is getting to 'act out' their goodness. It puts the centre of attention outside the body for the child, so to speak, not inside their heart/mind or conscience, if you know what I mean. This can only encourage narcissism instead of thoughtful compassion in the child.

LirW · 26-12-2018 10:07AM

It isn't just Christmas, there are enough parents that plaster their social media with pictures of their kids.
I'm a firm believer that children's pictures have no place on social media, especially not in the volume they're sometimes posted.
So parents who tend to post every little fart of their kids would have a live coverage of Christmas because it's the likes that count.

weisses · 26-12-2018 10:11AM

Ohhhh the poor people with their first world problems

26-12-2018 10:11AM

Actually just posted this on another thread. Not strictly Christmas but still relevant I suppose.

Children's birthday parties are like an episode of Black Mirror these days. All the little commodities lined up at some play centre for their nuggets/sausages while their owners snap away relentlessly as if it were feeding time at the zoo.

Pawwed Rig · 26-12-2018 10:11AM

'Thousands on Santa' ?? OP you move in very different circles to me.

looksee · 26-12-2018 10:20AM

No, of course they have not ruined Christmas. There have always been the eejits who have to take everything one step too far. There have always been fool people who spend more than they have, for whatever reason. If you don't have the self-confidence to dismiss this kind of behaviour then don't annoy yourself by looking at it.

When was the perfect Christmas moment OP? What exactly has been destroyed?

average_runner · 26-12-2018 10:27AM

Camera's have there place. But people do spend too much time behind the camera and miss the moment themselves.

But once people are happy who cares?

Teddy Daniels · 26-12-2018 10:32AM

Omackeral wrote: »

Actually just posted this on another thread. Not strictly Christmas but still relevant I suppose.

Children's birthday parties are like an episode of Black Mirror these days. All the little commodities lined up at some play centre for their nuggets/sausages while their owners snap away relentlessly as if it were feeding time at the zoo.

The worst part is I’ve decided to live in the moment at these events and the wife is all “Teddy take a picture.”
Agggggh

KathleenGrant · 26-12-2018 10:38AM

Of course cameras are not the problem and social media is but the OP has a point. It's not just people missing the moment. If they want to miss the moment that is fine. But it seems everything has to be filmed now, happy moments, surprises, sad times, births, exam results. It seems like happenings in life don't count now unless they can be shared with friends and strangers.

whisky_galore · 26-12-2018 10:39AM

LirW wrote: »

It isn't just Christmas, there are enough parents that plaster their social media with pictures of their kids.
I'm a firm believer that children's pictures have no place on social media, especially not in the volume they're sometimes posted.
So parents who tend to post every little fart of their kids would have a live coverage of Christmas because it's the likes that count.

There's an unfollow button, use it.

listermint · 26-12-2018 10:42AM

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

I don't use Facebook so I couldn't blame that. It really is discussing though. Seems its more about who's the best Santa than the kids.

Then how are you seeing everyone's pictures ?

Or did you get sent two pictures of relative's with their kids and construe that everyone else is like that

joeguevara · 26-12-2018 10:48AM

Listen I have posted on this thread about disliking the matching PJs but thinking about it who are people to disparage what a family does. If it makes them feel close and adds to their holiday then isn’t that a good thing. How can someone who has nothing to do with them say it ruins Christmas.

It feels like people are looking to blame Facebook, social media or modern technology for everything. If a parent wants to capture the moment a kid sees Santa presents, then up to them. Does it really ruin Christmas if they post it. I don’t believe it causes parents to go out and buy more because they do that anyway.

I suppose what I am saying is yes, disagree with it, have a moan but in all fairness do you think it really ruins Christmas that people take pictures and videos?

Alucan · 26-12-2018 10:51AM

I constantly have this with the wife. Me and the kids messing around having fun and she with the phone trying to get us to stop what we are doing to pose for a photo. Why not take a photo of the everyone actually enjoying themselves rather than posing with fake smiles.

lawred2 · 26-12-2018 10:57AM

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

Christmas eve an all the pics of what Santa has left. Hard on parents who can't afford or don't want to spend thousands on Santa.

Then the kid wakes up Christmas morning with a camera shoved in their face as they get out of bed. Horrible . thank goodness I'm a generation ahead of this.

It's neither cameras nor social media that have 'ruined' anything. It's cu∆ts being cu∆ts and the same cu∆nts have always been bragging and posing..

lawred2 · 26-12-2018 11:00AM

joeguevara wrote: »

The annoying thing I noticed for the first time this year was the photos of all the families in matching pajamas. Now I think it’s cute if the kids have them or even the ma joins in but when you see a guy who is obviously embarrassed and made pose in a rudolf emblazoned set it is time to scream ‘what the fcuk have we become?’ What happened to the times of the Dad getting tanked, rolling home at closing to put the kids presents together p1ssed.

Well for me the dad that dresses up may be suffering from a degree of emasculation but at least he's at home. The dad down the pub getting pissed is of no use to anyone.

Personally I wouldn't dream of putting on one of those matching outfits... utter cringe. But I'll definitely be at home on Christmas Eve with the kids.

nthclare · 26-12-2018 11:06AM

There's a lot of men choosing imasculation These day's.
In some cases I wouldn't blame them, it's either loose everything if you don't let yourself be imasculated, or just give in.

All jokes aside years ago, there would be maybe 4 photos taken during the day itself, now that amount is way more...

Even the tookey gets in on it....

Instagram feed s with glasses of prescecco at 9:30 in the morning like wtf.....

LirW · 26-12-2018 11:08AM

whisky_galore wrote: »

There's an unfollow button, use it.

Doesn't have anything to do with the general problem though; people are quick to cry about data leaks but same people would put literally everything, including their children's sensitive data online.

I agree with the general consensus here though, take a few nice pictures, put the phone/camera away, enjoy the time together.
I'm always wondering if people sit together a few years later saying "Oh let's watch the video where little Johnny unwrapped his gift!".

whisky_galore · 26-12-2018 11:11AM

LirW wrote: »

Doesn't have anything to do with the general problem though; people are quick to cry about data leaks but same people would put literally everything, including their children's sensitive data online.

I agree with the general consensus here though, take a few nice pictures, put the phone/camera away, enjoy the time together.
I'm always wondering if people sit together a few years later saying "Oh let's watch the video where little Johnny unwrapped his gift!".

It's someone else's kid, a someone else who should know better.
Don't care, not my problem.

AndyBoBandy · 26-12-2018 11:11AM

joeguevara wrote: »

It feels like people are looking to blame Facebook, social media or modern technology

It’s not any of these things fault though. It’s the idiots who can’t sit still for 2 minutes without checking for ‘status updates’, or posting their own updates or photos. Facebook doesn’t hold a gun to your heat and make you post all these photos.

I’m slightly active on Facebook, yet our son is 4 and neither my partner or me have ever posted a photo of him on Facebook or even referenced his existence for that matter.. Have we taken pictures of him, yes, probably thousands of photos, but they are for us, and only shared with close family or froends via iMessage or WhatsApp.

My own take on it is we don’t know where Facebook is going, but it’s certainly not the nice cool interesting place it was 10 years or so ago. I don’t want my son in 10-15 years asking me why there are hundreds/thousands of pictures of him on Facebook, his entire upbringing stored in a virtual format (whether he likes it or not). What if he grows up to detest any and all forms of social media, and isn’t too happy about his entire childhood being there for all and advertisers to see.

If he decides to join and upload his childhood to online platforms when he is of age, then he can do that. But I’ll not do it for him now, particularly when he doesn’t have any understanding or control over what it is.

Kolido · 26-12-2018 11:16AM

AllForIt wrote: »

I blame Facebook not cameras. Cameras are nice yokes.

I blame idiots showing off and looking for thanks not facebook or cameras.

Capt'n Midnight · 26-12-2018 11:54AM

Thought this would have been about the elf on the shelf video surveillance.

Creepy.

OldMrBrennan83 · 26-12-2018 11:55AM

Ultimate Seduction wrote: »

Christmas eve an all the pics of what Santa has left. Hard on parents who can't afford or don't want to spend thousands on Santa.

Then the kid wakes up Christmas morning with a camera shoved in their face as they get out of bed. Horrible . thank goodness I'm a generation ahead of this.

Some people have more and some have less. That's the way of the world.

This rubbish of being offended by it needs to stop.

CelticRambler · 26-12-2018 12:18PM

Patww79 wrote: »

Some people have more and some have less. That's the way of the world.

Very true. My mother has more berries on her holly than I have on mine, which she noticed as soon as she saw the photo I sent my sister, and was very quick to point out when I phoned the other sister ... I don't know what facebook has to do with it, but I blame them anyway.

road_high · 26-12-2018 12:25PM

whisky_galore wrote: »

There's an unfollow button, use it.

I’d say majority of “friends” I’ve unfollowed for various reasons but mainly the endless stream of child pics and anecdotes...”look at me we are so wonderful and happy and have reproduced...”gives me a new respect for my parents and aunts who had kids and just got the fcuk on with it

Ultimate Seduction · 26-12-2018 12:26PM

Patww79 wrote: »

Some people have more and some have less. That's the way of the world.

This rubbish of being offended by it needs to stop.

Not offended at all. Its the kids I'm thinking about, camera shoved in there face as they get out of bed, wouldn't surprise me if some parents did 2 or 3 takes to get the perfect reaction.

Cameras have ruined Christmas

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