Darkness int light 2018

Krispie · 12-05-2018 12:56PM #1

At the start, I will point out I believe that the cause is extremely worthy and is doing fantastic work for those affected but.......

The Darkness into Light fundraiser, €25 for a adult. Am I the only one that thinks that this is a massive price to give to a charity to do the walk. Many many families are affected by the tragedy of suicide but are not in a financial position to take part. They would love to play their part and say thank you but, at a price??

It's my opinion but, as it's not a popular one, I assume that there will be pleasant comments below. I do give to certain charities at times but I don't go online to tell all an-sundry that I have done so. I do commend the people that do take part but social media is then saturated with their stories for the following days...

I don't know if there is a facility, but I would like to think that if you can't pay, does not mean you can't do!! People will say "it's only €25" but to some that is food in the fridge or the heat on....

Give what you can, when/if you can is my point.

Hande hoche! · 12-05-2018 12:58PM

You can't put a price on the selfies and social media likes.

OldMrBrennan83 · 12-05-2018 12:58PM

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WinnyThePoo · 12-05-2018 01:00PM

I've suffered with depression for my entire teenage and adult life. I certainly would not ask anyone to pay 25 quid. Anyway I'm sure alot of selfies will be took.

Sofiztikated · 12-05-2018 01:04PM

For a lot of people, it's become one of those things that you just "do" like confirmations and house parties on Good Friday. No real thought into why it's being done, just that you are doing it.

Greyfox · 12-05-2018 01:07PM

Krispie wrote: »

People will say "it's only €25" but to some that is food in the fridge or the heat on....

Give what you can, when/if you can is my point.

And I'm one of those people, it's €25 going to a very good cause. Obviously you can't do it if you can't spare €25.

BuboBubo · 12-05-2018 01:10PM

It was €20 for early registration, it's €15 for unemployed people.

The €20 fee should not have been increased imo. I reckon a lot of participants just wore last year's t-shirt and threw a few coins into a bucket.

Did it myself in Enniscorthy. Very enjoyable, great weather. Tea and biscuits afterwards in the GAA Building.

spurious · 12-05-2018 01:10PM

Isn't the 25 euro to cover the T shirt cost?

Hitman3000 · 12-05-2018 01:12PM

Krispie wrote:

It's my opinion but, as it's not a popular one, I assume that there will be pleasant comments below. I do give to certain charities at times but I don't go online to tell all an-sundry that I have done so. I do commend the people that do take part but social media is then saturated with their stories for the following days...

Yes and after the women's 10k run, oops I mean mini marathon SM will be awash with selfies and inspired stories of someone who managed to battle through 10k in 2 hours. Any well known event is subject constant attention seeking on SM part of modern life.
Btw 25 euro is a lot, but it's the major fundraiser for this charity.

fergiesfolly · 12-05-2018 01:13PM

Sofiztikated wrote: »

For a lot of people, it's become one of those things that you just "do" like confirmations and house parties on Good Friday. No real thought into why it's being done, just that you are doing it.

Did it this morning and it certainly wasn't that. Heard so many stories as people walked and some sad souls walking in silence with the weight of the world on their shoulders.
There were people I hadn't thought of in years that came to mind this morning.

12-05-2018 01:15PM

Krispie wrote: »

The Darkness into Light fundraiser, €25 for a adult. Am I the only one that thinks that this is a massive price to give to a charity to do the walk. Many many families are affected by the tragedy of suicide but are not in a financial position to take part. They would love to play their part and say thank you but, at a price??

Aside from your own income, it depends on what percentage of the charity's income is spent on "administration"/what percentage actually goes to the people in need of support?

If that's not at St John of God/Central Remedial Clinic levels, I think it's a lovely idea at a fair price.

Sabre0001 · 12-05-2018 01:15PM

Registration covers t-shirt and other costs, I imagine. They have more than required; they were giving away last year's shirts to people who didn't receive their shirt this year. If you'd like to do it, you could probably just join in easily enough (they're not checking registration), put some coinage in the buckets, maybe volunteer on the day if you're not in a position to contribute financially.

Oasis1974 · 12-05-2018 01:16PM

WinnyThePoo wrote: »

I've suffered with depression for my entire teenage and adult life. I certainly would ask anyone to pay 25 quid. Anyway I'm sure alot of selfies will be took.

€25 in what way cures depression you pay for everyone else then that's a lot of cash for some people some other charitable cause with the begging bowl looking for suckers.....

Hitman3000 · 12-05-2018 01:24PM

Oasis1974 wrote:

â‚¬25 in what way cures depression you pay for everyone else then that's a lot of cash for some people some other charitable cause with the begging bowl looking for suckers.....

The 25 euro pays towards the cost of counsellors, phone services etc. No one other than you has suggested that 25 euro is a cure for depression. Just be happy there are people whom are not as cynical as you willing to support this service. If you and members of your family are lucky you will never need the service but others do.

Fighting Tao · 12-05-2018 01:26PM

Yay. Another annual thread to look forward to.

Hitman3000 · 12-05-2018 01:27PM

Fighting Tao wrote:

Yay. Another annual thread to look forward to.

Unfollow, sorted.

Mr_Muffin · 12-05-2018 01:29PM

It wouldn't be my kinda thing, but if it raises funds to help people and gets the community together then I can't see how it is anything but a beneficial event for all involved.

Fighting Tao · 12-05-2018 01:29PM

Hitman3000 wrote: »

Unfollow, sorted.

Nah. It’s fun seeing how annoyed people get about it. I just hope they don’t need assistance themselves in the future as it would be hypocritical of them to use the services this event contributes to.

Aongus Von Bismarck · 12-05-2018 01:33PM

Excellent idea, extremely well organised, and for a wonderful charity.

Next.

OldMrBrennan83 · 12-05-2018 01:35PM

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JohnnyFlash · 12-05-2018 01:38PM

Patww79 wrote: »

If I was stumping up €25 I'd be giving it to something for a physical illness.

Or perhaps to a charity for tedious online misanthropy?

Hitman3000 · 12-05-2018 01:41PM

Patww79 wrote:

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So mental illness is a figment of the imagination? Do troll more...sorry I mean do explain more.

OldMrBrennan83 · 12-05-2018 01:42PM

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traveller0101 · 12-05-2018 01:44PM

Aongus Von Bismarck wrote: »

Excellent idea, extremely well organised, and for a wonderful charity.

Next.

Get a good few likes yeah? Nice one

Hitman3000 · 12-05-2018 01:44PM

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Suggesting mental health problems don't exist is beyond stupid. You opened yourself up to an accusation by your own stupidity.

OldMrBrennan83 · 12-05-2018 01:45PM

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lertsnim · 12-05-2018 01:47PM

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A new way of saying you are unable to debate your stance.

petes · 12-05-2018 01:47PM

Already a few idiots on this thread!

LizT · 12-05-2018 01:48PM

I think it’s very reasonable. I went this morning and it was really well organised, loads of banners and things along the way, cup of tea and a cake at the end.

It’s not like they force people to register, anyone can show up and do the walk. Pieta house provide an invaluable service, the HSE mental health services here are stretched beyond capacity.

Collie D · 12-05-2018 01:49PM

Patww79 wrote: »

If I was stumping up €25 I'd be giving it to something for a physical illness.

As is your right. You see, the thing about charity is that it's voluntary and you can give your money to whichever one you choose or to none at all.

I'm starting to think giving out on social media is the new selfies on social media.

Cynicism for the sake of it.

Hande hoche! · 12-05-2018 01:49PM

Fighting Tao wrote: »

Yay. Another annual thread to look forward to.

Sure now that the Good Friday one is gone, need a replacement.

Darkness int light 2018

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