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The 8th Amendment Part 2 - Mod Warning in OP

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    taserfrank wrote: »
    Looking at the Sunday Business Post/Red C poll today, the support for yes has dropped again while the no side remains unchanged, and the number of undecideds has increased. I think if this keeps up, the no side will hopefully have it, as people come to realize that abortion on demand is not desirable.

    The drop in support for Yes and the increase in undecideds are both relatively small at 3%. Overall, this poll is similar to the last one, and a drop in Yes support isn't unexpected as we get closer to referendum day. The same happened in the marriage equality referendum polls too.

    But the No support being stuck at 26% doesn't bode well for their campaign strategy. As has been said before, they're appealing to their core base, and no further. While the normal wisdom is that don't knows will vote No, this referendum is different because the No groups have a massive image problem. Their tone clearly isn't winning anyone over, and it's not going to get better when they're repeating the same messages during TV debates.

    That's not to say that Yes has it in the bag; far from it. But unless the No have a major and swift change in messaging, how people will vote will be based on how they react to Yes groups, not the No ones.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    taserfrank wrote: »
    Looking at the Sunday Business Post/Red C poll today, the support for yes has dropped again while the no side remains unchanged, and the number of undecideds has increased. I think if this keeps up, the no side will hopefully have it, as people come to realize that abortion on demand is not desirable.

    Eh, the no side is unchanged. As long as that continues, they cannot win:

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,653 ✭✭✭✭amdublin


    It will impact my emotional well-being if repeal doesn't pass. Like I will be devastated on the day. There will be tears.

    And it will take me some while to get over it.

    If No wins at last they are kind of prepared for that. It will be a massive shock for us Yes side.

    But I am out canvassing every week. I am hearing resounding Yes on the doorsteps.

    Every yes counts on the day. Please tell your family and friends how important it is for you that they get out on the day and vote for you.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,917 ✭✭✭✭iguana


    Just on the embryo as a child comparison. If I found out this morning that I was pregnant I'd be beyond over joyed. I'd probably already have lists of names, I'd have mentally rearranged my house, probably spend hours working out the costings of an extension. I'd probably have started knitting or crocheting baby cardigans. I'd be so happy.

    But then say tonight my house went on fire and I could get out immediately ensuring absolutely no risk to my pregnancy. Or I could take the time to get to my sleeping 5 year old and save him but doing so would cause stress and smoke inhalation and guarantee a miscarriage. It's not exactly Sophie's Choice is it. It's not any sort of choice. I wouldn't hesitate for one instant to save my actual, living, breathing, incontrovertibly sentient child. And I very much doubt that one single person on this thread would act any differently. No matter what they say, nobody could consider an embryo conceived 2 weeks ago as even remotely comparable or equal to a kid who dreams of being a palaeontologist (as long as I go run his museum for him so he can always come home to me each night), is desperate to save Amur Leopards from extinction and has spent the last 2 years counting down to his seventh birthday when he'll finally be old enough to play Lego Dimensions. Because they just aren't the same.

    When it comes down to it, I don't think that anyone really, really believes that an embryo and a child are equal. I don't think anyone of sound state of mind would save a dish of 100 embryos from a fire if there was one terrified child screaming for help in the next room. When we think of embryos as babies we are projecting our own wishes and imagination onto a being with the potential to be a child. And I think we all understand that on a base level.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    I haven't seen the further questions in this one, but upwards of 80% in an earlier one said there was no chance they would change their mind. Abortion is not a new issue, absolutely no new information has come out during the campaign so far, I see no reason why the numbers would move much between now and polling day.

    55-45 on the day.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,458 ✭✭✭✭gandalf


    Eh, the no side is unchanged. As long as that continues, they cannot win:

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    I'd expect the absolute lies, deception and incitement of fear to massively escalate from the forced birth brigade based on those figures.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    gandalf wrote: »
    I'd expect the absolute lies, deception and incitement of fear to massively escalate from the forced birth brigade based on those figures.

    Well, yes, but I expect it to have very little effect. Look at the chart on the right: outright opposition to the 12 weeks unrestricted regime has gone down. The No message is not working.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,615 ✭✭✭swampgas


    gandalf wrote: »
    I'd expect the absolute lies, deception and incitement of fear to massively escalate from the forced birth brigade based on those figures.

    I'm expecting the next few weeks to get very nasty indeed.

    I can only hope that the lower into the gutter the No campaign sinks, the more people will be revolted by it rather than swayed by it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,059 ✭✭✭conorhal


    frag420 wrote: »
    If you’re going to assume someone is a retard or not smart it’s probaly best to check your spelling/grammar correct!

    You know sometimes it’s best to keep your mouth shut and let the pro choice side think you're a fool than to open it and remove all doubt for us!

    Youaewr splling sucks SHUT UP!!!!

    Also, it's spealled 'probably'.
    So guess you should take your own advise and 'probabl'y shut up to avoid chimping out and typing nonsense.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,713 ✭✭✭BabysCoffee


    swampgas wrote: »
    I'm expecting the next few weeks to get very nasty indeed.

    I can only hope that the lower into the gutter the No campaign sinks, the more people will be revolted by it rather than swayed by it.

    When No goes low, Yes goes high.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,059 ✭✭✭conorhal


    ELM327 wrote: »
    I think anyone using the word "retard" in 2018, it speaks volumes about the user of the word more than anything.

    Even talking to a retard?

    Let Owen Benjamin explain the word to you.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,059 ✭✭✭conorhal


    My point is that in general we allow people to decide what level of inconvenience they’re willing to undergo to save someone’s life, only in the case of pregnancy do we make an exception.

    Your hatred shines through.
    Dismissing pregnancy as a minor inconvenience, and those wishing to have a choice about their bodies as narcissistic and whiny teenagers.

    The reality is different, hopes, dreams, health struggles, lifetime commitments, existing children needing care . . . Real women, real lives. You have to dismiss them and belittle them to convince yourself they don’t matter.

    Pregnancy is not a slight inconvenience, nor is childbirth or raising a child.
    It’s months of exhaustion and sickness, pain, years of sleepless nights and a lifelong commitment to another human being. When it’s wanted and wished for it’s the most fantastic thing, when it’s not it’s a life sentence of misery for both

    You’re staring so hard at the belly you can’t see the woman.

    Being killed is pretty inconvenient too.

    You're staring so hard at the word choice you can't see the baby.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,917 ✭✭✭✭iguana


    conorhal wrote: »
    You're staring so hard at the word choice you can't see the baby.

    Well obviously seeing as how there is no baby. There is an embryo that's anything from a big as a kumquat to as small as a poppy seed and it's buried deep inside a human woman. It's not actually visible and not actually a baby so it would be super, super weird if any of us could see one.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    conorhal wrote: »
    Being killed is pretty inconvenient too.

    You're staring so hard at the word choice you can't see the baby.

    Living women are more important and valuable than >12 week old fetuses. It shouldn’t even be up for discussion.

    If you are willing to sacrifice the health, happiness and wellbeing of your partner because you hold the >12 week old fetus in her uterus to be more valuable than her, that’s your own business.

    I shouldn’t have my maternity care compromised because of how you feel about it. How you feel about it has nothing to do with the contents of my womb. You shouldn’t get to have an opinion on it.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 171 ✭✭Zerbini Blewitt


    conorhal wrote: »
    Being killed is pretty inconvenient too.

    You're staring so hard at the word choice you can't see the baby.

    I was responding to something you edited out above: along the lines of-
    "for the pro-choice side this is all about convenience".

    It’s fairly clear that most retain the 8th types who have posted in any of the last 200 abortion threads on boards have a dependable inability to take on board or remember any information, reasoning or facts posted that go against their forced-birthing of strangers obsession.

    Remarkable stuff!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,548 ✭✭✭Martina1991


    amdublin wrote:
    It will impact my emotional well-being if repeal doesn't pass. Like I will be devastated on the day. There will be tears.
    I would be devastated as well.
    Because if the 8th remains it can effect any pregnancy I may have.

    The anti choice people here (mostly men it seems) will never have their lives put in danger because of it. For many anti choice people a yes vote won't impact their lives at all.

    Yet they want to take our rights away from us and say tough luck. You can't have adequate medical care because there's sluts out there who deserve to become mothers.


  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    I haven't read the vast majority of this thread - nor do I intend to, since I've probably read the same thing in the 1st thread.

    I'm interested in how people feel about allowing the Government to have full control over future legislation in the event of the 8th amendment being repealed?

    For me, that is the ultimate question that will sway those who are undecided. It is a level of decision making that I am unwilling to give this, or any future Government, just as I was unwilling to allow that level of power in the Seanad referendum, despite being gravely unhappy at how that particular organisation is run.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,787 ✭✭✭mohawk


    If I found out tomorrow that I was pregnant I would consider abortion. I already have a child and I cannot afford another. I would like to one day own a home, help him through college (if that is what he wants) it seems like an impossible dream. So if tomorrow I found out I was pregnant I would have to consider the implication for my child. The little human I have been watching grow for 8 years would come first. I actually would like another child but it would be selfish of me as then I would be bringing them up in poverty.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,807 ✭✭✭✭ArmaniJeanss


    I haven't read the vast majority of this thread - nor do I intend to, since I've probably read the same thing in the 1st thread.

    I'm interested in how people feel about allowing the Government to have full control over future legislation in the event of the 8th amendment being repealed?

    For me, that is the ultimate question that will sway those who are undecided. It is a level of decision making that I am unwilling to give this, or any future Government.

    Governments have power to legislate over so many aspects of your life that it seems strange to me that you'd have a problem with this one specific area. We give the government the power to increase income tax to 98%, reduce the age of consent to 8 or to declare war on our neighbouring countries. Yet life continues happily and peacefully despite these powers the government has.

    Ultimately if any government brings in social legislation that the people absolutely abhor then it will be repealed by the subsequent government who will be elected in a landslide.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,312 ✭✭✭Nettle Soup


    swampgas wrote: »
    I'm expecting the next few weeks to get very nasty indeed.

    I can only hope that the lower into the gutter the No campaign sinks, the more people will be revolted by it rather than swayed by it.

    When No goes low, Yes goes high.

    I don't think anyone undecided could read the informed posts on here and vote No.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    I haven't read the vast majority of this thread - nor do I intend to, since I've probably read the same thing in the 1st thread.

    I'm interested in how people feel about allowing the Government to have full control over future legislation in the event of the 8th amendment being repealed?

    For me, that is the ultimate question that will sway those who are undecided. It is a level of decision making that I am unwilling to give this, or any future Government, just as I was unwilling to allow that level of power in the Seanad referendum, despite being gravely unhappy at how that particular organisation is run.

    They won't have full control. That power remains with the people, as it does with all matters or legislation and Government policy. We've seen that in the recent past, with u-turns on water charges, and ownership of the new maternity hospital. Referendums aren't the only way the people can make their views were; in fact, if you're of the view that politicians can't be trusted, then referendums are an awful way to control them, because referendums can only be called by politicians in the first place.

    And unlike the Seanad referendum, the legislative power isn't something that will bring any kind of advantage to whoever is in government at the time. It won't make it easier for them to pass legislation, and it won't give them any kind of electoral advantage.

    We elect politicians to legislate; that's their job. If you don't trust politicians do to that job properly, then the answer is elect better politicians. Because the last 35 years have shown us that putting complex issues into the constitution doesn't work.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,917 ✭✭✭✭iguana


    I'm interested in how people feel about allowing the Government to have full control over future legislation in the event of the 8th amendment being repealed?

    I'd far rather give the government the power to legislate than ensure their hands are absolutely tied so they can't legislate. Which in turns means that doctors can't make medically informed decisions in the best interests of their parents.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,434 ✭✭✭✭Larbre34


    I don't know how anyone who listened to the woman on the Late Late, forced to travel to have a termination due to FFA, only to have the remains couriered to her house in a carton some time later, could vote to retain the 8th. Its a special kind of Irish cruelty.

    If you object to abortion in principle, fine, no legislation will force you or your loved one to have one. But have some compassion for those facing these rare but awful, life changing situations, that in all probability you and yours will never have to face.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35 Killester1


    mohawk wrote: »
    If I found out tomorrow that I was pregnant I would consider abortion. I already have a child and I cannot afford another. I would like to one day own a home, help him through college (if that is what he wants) it seems like an impossible dream. So if tomorrow I found out I was pregnant I would have to consider the implication for my child. The little human I have been watching grow for 8 years would come first. I actually would like another child but it would be selfish of me as then I would be bringing them up in poverty.[/

    Why wait till it happens!!! Take control of your body. That’s what the YES want isn’t it ....my body my choice ..... everyone needs to take responsibility for their actions and not have abortion as the fall back.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    mohawk wrote: »
    If I found out tomorrow that I was pregnant I would consider abortion. I already have a child and I cannot afford another. I would like to one day own a home, help him through college (if that is what he wants) it seems like an impossible dream. So if tomorrow I found out I was pregnant I would have to consider the implication for my child. The little human I have been watching grow for 8 years would come first. I actually would like another child but it would be selfish of me as then I would be bringing them up in poverty.

    Fair dues for being so honest - I respect your decision for making plans for you and your family. Who knows what we would do if faced with an unwanted / not viable pregnancy in a similar circumstance.

    Body autonomy - Repeal all the way


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,106 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    conorhal wrote: »
    Even talking to a retard?

    Let Owen Benjamin explain the word to you.


    The word is not acceptable.
    End of.

    (Although I'm not sure what the politically correct word is, whatever it is, I'm sure that I'm currently corresponding with one :))


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,785 ✭✭✭It wasnt me123


    [QUOTE=Killester1;106859568

    Why wait till it happens!!! Take control of your body. That’s what the YES want isn’t it ....my body my choice ..... everyone needs to take responsibility for their actions and not have abortion as the fall back.[/quote]

    Maybe she is - dont be so quick to judge but if anything this thread has shown us is that nothing is 100% - contraception included.

    Don't judge someone elses choices - you don't know their circumstances - have some compassion for what others might be going through.

    Repeal all the way and then the busy bodies can mind their own business!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 97 ✭✭Poyndexter


    Just reading through a lot of the posts here and the lack of respect and understanding from some yes voters for people who vote no is appalling really. Many calling anyone who votes no as idiots stupid etc. is quite insulting to be honest. It has come to the situation where people are afraid to express they are voting no in public which does not encourage healthy debate.

    As someone who is going to vote no I have thought long and hard about this referendum and i understand where yes voters are coming from and I respect their views in terms of cases of rape, ffa and danger of life to the mother. However the unlimited abortion up to 12 weeks goes way too far for my liking and that is why I am voting no.

    I can assure you I am not anti-women, an idiot, a jesus freak or whatever insult some yes campaigners would like to call me but someone with a conscience to protect the most vulnerable in our society who are the unborn that at 12 weeks have a heartbeat and so many humane features.

    That’s just my thoughts on the matter and i will exercise my democratic right on may 25th by voting no. If the result is yes i will accept the result however if the result is no I fear the backlash.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    I'm interested in how people feel about allowing the Government to have full control over future legislation in the event of the 8th amendment being repealed?

    That's the whole point.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    Poyndexter wrote: »
    Just reading through a lot of the posts here and the lack of respect and understanding from some yes voters for people who vote no is appalling really. Many calling anyone who votes no as idiots stupid etc. is quite insulting to be honest. It has come to the situation where people are afraid to express they are voting no in public which does not encourage healthy debate.

    It's amazing how reading that you can't tell if the poster is talking about this referendum or the SSM referendum.


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