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The 8th Amendment Part 2 - Mod Warning in OP

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    amcalester wrote: »
    Just because it (happily) worked out for your sister that doesn't mean it will for others, and perhaps they should be the ones to make the decision on whether to continue with the pregnancy rather than me or you (or the Irish voting population).

    There are other stories out there where women were told their unborn wouldn't live and they did. If anyone and that includes us, aren't given a chance then what chance have we to prove others wrong with anything in this life?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,190 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    gandalf wrote: »
    Former leader of Youth Defence, spoken at far right events in Europe, doesn't like immigrants or women. Tbh calling him a politician is a bit rich as I don't believe he has successfully been elected to anything. Failed politician and dubious human being would more apt. It's interesting examining the "leadership" of the forced birth brigade. An awful lot would linked to Opus Dei as well.
    He's a rather "special" individual. When he's not getting photographed attending neo-nazi rallies, he is campaigning against literally anything you can think of.

    He was vehemently opposed to divorce until the breakdown of his own marriage when he "changed his mind" about divorce. Convenient that.

    I'm not convinced he's all there tbh.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,413 ✭✭✭Stab*City


    bubblypop wrote: »
    It's a very raw deal for the mother, who can be denied medical treatment because she is a few weeks pregnant.
    Do you know women receiving cancer treatment are given pregnancy tests before their chemo? What do you thinkhappens if it's positive?

    The 8th amendment has an impact on every pregnant woman in the country, whether 6 weeks or 6 months.

    But the mother gets a vote and the chance to lobby and change opinion the unborn does not.

    I'm just really on the fence about this. I want someone to convince me but both sides are doing a bad job.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Stab*City wrote: »
    So let me get this straight the yes vote is to remove the text from law which says the unborns rights are equal to the mother? From a neutral standpoint looks like a bit of a raw deal for the unborn? I have noticed this is a very divisive subject even between people like myself who usually don't care about this stuff. (Voting)

    The unborn only has the right to life. That's all, and it's equal to that of the mother as it stands. However, it's been proven time and time again that it's often the case that the mother's life is secondary to the foetus and her quality of life even lower in the list of importance. The mother has to be actively dying before an abortion is performed, so risk of dying, no matter how high, is not enough to cut it. As a result, healthcare for a pregnant woman is impacted by the 8th if there is any chance of a risk to the foetus.
    Currently, the right to life triumphs even the quality of life of the foetus so one diagnosed with FFA does not qualify for an abortion in the country. Even if that foetus is born and will suffer before it dies.
    If the 8th is repealed, foetus will lose it's right to life at a stage where they have no consciousness, no perception, no thought processes and no feelings. The only time it will be allowed further is in the case of FFA, or as we have it now, where the mother is actively dying. If the foetus is past the point of viability, it's more likely to be induced for the latter.

    A woman doesn't wake up one morning and decide she couldn't be arsed and wants an abortion. There is usually a reason. It comes down to whether or not you value a 12 week old foetus, or a living breathing woman more. If you believe a woman should be able to have an abortion for any reason (rape, FFA, child pregnancies etc), then a Yes vote is the only option. Regardless of whether or not abortion becomes legal through legislation after the referendum, the 8th needs to go due to the impacts it has on born, breathing and feeling people.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,121 ✭✭✭amcalester


    RobertKK wrote: »
    There are other stories out there where women were told their unborn wouldn't live and they did. If anyone and that includes us, aren't given a chance then what chance have we to prove others wrong with anything in this life?

    I don't doubt that there are, and it's great for them.

    But remember that if the 8th is repealed no woman will be forced to have an abortion.

    Only women who want one (and who meet the criteria) will be allowed one.

    You make it sound like abortions will be forced on women which is not the case.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    RobertKK wrote: »
    There are other stories out there where women were told their unborn wouldn't live and they did. If anyone and that includes us, aren't given a chance then what chance have we to prove others wrong with anything in this life?

    Abortion will still be a choice. It will not be compulsory


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    Stab*City wrote: »
    But the mother gets a vote and the chance to lobby and change opinion the unborn does not.

    I'm just really on the fence about this. I want someone to convince me but both sides are doing a bad job.

    Here you go, this is a post I put up previously on how the 8th currently is detrimental to women like my partner.
    I don't agree with abortion myself but here's my situation.

    My partner is 27 weeks pregnant with a baby girl, however before this we have suffered countless miscarriages due to her having a uterine abnormality (she has a heart shaped uterus) - basically this means that unless a baby implants in a certain area, my partner will lose the baby. All of our miscarriages have occured due to the baby implanting in an area that cannot support the size or volume of the amniotic sac which eventually will rupture due to the pressure placed upon it by the sides of the uterine wall (the latest we got to was 19 weeks).

    Medical professionals have denied us access to abortions because technically my partner's health is not at risk nor is the babies (the baby will be absolutely fine and healthy, her waters will just break anyway and the baby will pass away). My partner does not meet the requirements for a legal abortion on Ireland because the medical professionals are of the opinion that due to the outcome of the pregnancy resting solely on where the baby implants, we can (and we currently are) having a successful pregnancy.

    However this means that whenever the baby is not in the right place my partner is forced to carry it until she eventually miscarries it and has to deal with the heartbreak.

    Despite my own views on abortion I do not think it is fair she has to suffer miscarriage after miscarriage instead of being able to legally have an abortion (where she will be surrounded by doctors and nurses with direct access to medical care versus randomly having her waters break and the baby passing shortly thereafter wherever she is) so I'm voting to repeal.

    I hope this gives you a different bit of insight.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,121 ✭✭✭amcalester


    Stab*City wrote: »
    But the mother gets a vote and the chance to lobby and change opinion the unborn does not.

    I'm just really on the fence about this. I want someone to convince me but both sides are doing a bad job.

    Its not really up to either side to convince you, it's up to you to educate yourself and make a decision.

    This is a good place to start


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Terminate, not kill.

    The 8th has shown no compassion to my partner's struggle nor has it shown any compassion towards others like herself.

    You can keep using terms like "kill" or "murder" but that doesn't make it so, just because you believe it to be, doesn't mean it is.

    My partner and women like her are not considered for safe and legal abortions, ideally I would like the 8th changed to include her, but it isn't. Instead I'm getting an unrestricted abortion up to 12 weeks proposal, so I'm going to take it, I'm not going to wait on the whims of others who want different proposals, I'm voting yes.

    What it seems to me is that some from the pro-life side show absolutely no compassion towards the women who genuinely suffer, and will vote to retain the 8th which in turn will leave them in the same place.

    Whereas some from the pro-choice side show little to no compassion towards the unborn. Me? I show plenty of compassion towards the unborn, I didn't refer to the babies my partner miscarried as "fetuses" or any medical/scientific/legal term at any time. They were and always will be my babies.

    Terminate is the nice language for kill. Though we know what the job of the terminator was in the terminator, kill Sarah connor so she couldn't give birth to John...


    You argue for your case, but you are also arguing for healthy unborn by healthy women to be 'terminated', whether that is your wish or not your wish, I don't know.
    But I can't vote to remove the 8th as I have to vote with my conscience and I can't have blood on my hands if Yes wins and healthy unborn lives are being 'terminated' because others see it as a choice.


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 50 ✭✭Josip007


    It's time to allow women to have the right to control over their own bodies, grow up.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Terminate is the nice language for kill. Though we know what the job of the terminator was in the terminator, kill Sarah connor so she couldn't give birth to John...


    You argue for your case, but you are also arguing for healthy unborn by healthy women to be 'terminated', whether that is your wish or not your wish, I don't know.
    But I can't vote to remove the 8th as I have to vote with my conscience and I can't have blood on my hands if Yes wins and healthy unborn lives are being 'terminated' because others see it as a choice.

    But you can have blood, pain and suffering on your hands by voting No.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,413 ✭✭✭Stab*City


    The unborn only has the right to life. That's all, and it's equal to that of the mother as it stands. However, it's been proven time and time again that it's often the case that the mother's life is secondary to the foetus and her quality of life even lower in the list of importance. The mother has to be actively dying before an abortion is performed, so risk of dying, no matter how high, is not enough to cut it. As a result, healthcare for a pregnant woman is impacted by the 8th if there is any chance of a risk to the foetus.
    Currently, the right to life triumphs even the quality of life of the foetus so one diagnosed with FFA does not qualify for an abortion in the country. Even if that foetus is born and will suffer before it dies.
    If the 8th is repealed, foetus will lose it's right to life at a stage where they have no consciousness, no perception, no thought processes and no feelings. The only time it will be allowed further is in the case of FFA, or as we have it now, where the mother is actively dying. If the foetus is past the point of viability, it's more likely to be induced for the latter.

    A woman doesn't wake up one morning and decide she couldn't be arsed and wants an abortion. There is usually a reason. It comes down to whether or not you value a 12 week old foetus, or a living breathing woman more. If you believe a woman should be able to have an abortion for any reason (rape, FFA, child pregnancies etc), then a Yes vote is the only option. Regardless of whether or not abortion becomes legal through legislation after the referendum, the 8th needs to go due to the impacts it has on born, breathing and feeling people.

    I can sense a bit of pro choice in your arguments. Which is fine by me each to their own. Seems like all the info out there is biased which is hard to filter when making a decision be it a yes or no.

    Im finding this really hard as i value both the woman and the unborns right to life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


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    Name one woman who died from the 8th.

    No report found the 8th was responsible for hospital mismanagement of sepsis in the case of Savita.
    Hospital mismanagement that led to Savita's death led to the hospital paying her family compensation for not doing the job they were required to do.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,618 ✭✭✭erica74


    IF A WOMAN WANTS AN ABORTION, THERE IS NO ALTERNATIVE TO AN ABORTION.
    I just heard someone on the radio talking about adoption as an alternative. Adoption means continuing with a pregnancy when you no longer want to be pregnant. If a woman wants an abortion, she no longer wants to be pregnant. Is that difficult to grasp?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,413 ✭✭✭Stab*City


    amcalester wrote: »
    Its not really up to either side to convince you, it's up to you to educate yourself and make a decision.

    This is a good place to start


    So why are they so? Everyone i talk to is trying to influence you to lean a certain way. And if you don't lean their way they look down on you.

    So should i just not vote at all? I've read the website and lots of other stuff now but i still don't know which way to vote.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    But you can have blood, pain and suffering on your hands by voting No.

    Which is not the truth.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Terminate is the nice language for kill. Though we know what the job of the terminator was in the terminator, kill Sarah connor so she couldn't give birth to John...


    You argue for your case, but you are also arguing for healthy unborn by healthy women to be 'terminated', whether that is your wish or not your wish, I don't know.
    But I can't vote to remove the 8th as I have to vote with my conscience and I can't have blood on my hands if Yes wins and healthy unborn lives are being 'terminated' because others see it as a choice.

    I am arguing for the case that women have access to safe and legal abortions full stop. My main two reasons to vote are women like my partner to have access to this at any cost or means necessary, and that if my daughter ever needs to have access to a safe and legal abortion I would much prefer her to have one here than in a different country where she won't receive an ounce of aftercare or support.

    You've agreed with abortion in some circumstances, yet ultimately you're voting No because it doesn't suit you. Abortion doesn't suit me either, but it doesn't matter if it suits me or not, what matters is that there are women in Ireland who require access to safe and legal abortion in Ireland but are currently being denied this due to the ultra-restrictive requirements in place already.

    Common sense would dictate that these women (women with uterine abnormalities do not fall under grounds for health risks to mother or baby) have that access. The 8th dictates that they do not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    Stab*City wrote: »
    I can sense a bit of pro choice in your arguments. Which is fine by me each to their own. Seems like all the info out there is biased which is hard to filter when making a decision be it a yes or no.

    Im finding this really hard as i value both the woman and the unborns right to life.

    You said the unborn seems to be getting a raw deal. I explained the stakes for what happens (and is happening) if the 8th isn't repealed.

    At the end of the day though, abortion is happening anyway. A No vote will not stop abortions, it will only stop safe ones. Those that cannot travel will resort to other means in order to cause an abortion. A No vote will have little to no effect on whether or not abortion happens.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,413 ✭✭✭Stab*City


    Josip007 wrote: »
    It's time to allow women to have the right to control over their own bodies, grow up.

    I agree with this point of view as well. But why stop there? There are lots of ways we don't have control over our own bodies. Government constantly telling us what we can and cant do.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 4,121 ✭✭✭amcalester


    Stab*City wrote: »
    So why are they so? Everyone i talk to is trying to influence you to lean a certain way. And if you don't lean their way they look down on you.

    So should i just not vote at all? I've read the website and lots of other stuff now but i still don't know which way to vote.

    They are the Referendum Commission who are impartial and will only publish the facts related to the Referendum.

    You're right that people are trying to influence others (myself included) but if you are genuinely undecided then read the link I provided and if you have questions you can ask away.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,555 ✭✭✭Ave Sodalis


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Which is not the truth.

    How is it not the truth? You would want to have your head firmly buried in the sand not to see the effects of the 8th.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    I am arguing for the case that women have access to safe and legal abortions full stop. My main two reasons to vote are women like my partner to have access to this at any cost or means necessary, and that if my daughter ever needs to have access to a safe and legal abortion I would much prefer her to have one here than in a different country where she won't receive an ounce of aftercare or support.

    You've agreed with abortion in some circumstances, yet ultimately you're voting No because it doesn't suit you. Abortion doesn't suit me either, but it doesn't matter if it suits me or not, what matters is that there are women in Ireland who require access to safe and legal abortion in Ireland but are currently being denied this due to the ultra-restrictive requirements in place already.

    Common sense would dictate that these women (women with uterine abnormalities do not fall under grounds for health risks to mother or baby) have that access. The 8th dictates that they do not.

    I believe it is morally wrong to take the lives of unborn, simply because one can, and then dress it up as a human right and life as a choice.

    A vote for yes is currently a vote to allow abortion for any reason under the sun up to 12 weeks, most of these abortions will be of healthy unborn lives by healthy women.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 605 ✭✭✭zedhead


    RobertKK wrote: »
    There are other stories out there where women were told their unborn wouldn't live and they did. If anyone and that includes us, aren't given a chance then what chance have we to prove others wrong with anything in this life?

    But women will still have the choice to continue the pregnancy and take that chance. But for some women it is too hard. In all other medical treatment the patient is allowed to weigh up the pro's and con's of the advice given and get to choose what treatment they avail of/do not avail of.

    Parents do this for their children all the time too - turning off life support for their children when doctors indicate hope is gone. Do you believe that right should be taken from them? Why is that different to a women choosing to terminate based on the risks presented to them?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    How is it not the truth? You would want to have your head firmly buried in the sand not to see the effects of the 8th.

    Yet many doctors, obstetricians and gynaecologists have come out in favour of the 8th and say the 8th never got in their way of providing healthcare to women.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    Stab*City wrote: »
    So why are they so? Everyone i talk to is trying to influence you to lean a certain way. And if you don't lean their way they look down on you.

    So should i just not vote at all? I've read the website and lots of other stuff now but i still don't know which way to vote.

    Let me make it simple.

    You are me, your partner has been medically diagnosed with uterine abnormalities. Her particular one is a heart-shaped uterus. Meaning that the uterus is of an abnormal shape, the detriments of this are that if a baby implants in certain areas (which is pretty much everywhere bar very few parts) it will grow until the amniotic sac ruptures due to the pressure of the uterine walls. It will rupture because that particular section of the uterus cannot support the volume and size of the amniotic sac.

    You get sick and tired of watching her go through miscarriage after miscarriage. You wonder why she can't save herself the heartbreak and have access to a safe and legal abortion, providing her with the dignity to end the pregnancy on her terms and preventing the heartbreak of a miscarriage.

    Do you:

    a) vote to repeal as the 8th is currently far too strict with it's requirements for a safe and legal abortion as women with uterine abnormalities do not qualify with the current restrictrions

    b) vote to retain, because you believe abortion is wrong.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    RobertKK wrote: »
    I believe it is morally wrong to take the lives of unborn, simply because one can, and then dress it up as a human right and life as a choice.

    A vote for yes is currently a vote to allow abortion for any reason under the sun up to 12 weeks, most of these abortions will be of healthy unborn lives by healthy women.

    I believe it is morally wrong to force women into carrying a pregnancy to full-term, simply because one can, and then dress it up as an unborn's right to life.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    zedhead wrote: »
    But women will still have the choice to continue the pregnancy and take that chance. But for some women it is too hard. In all other medical treatment the patient is allowed to weigh up the pro's and con's of the advice given and get to choose what treatment they avail of/do not avail of.

    Parents do this for their children all the time too - turning off life support for their children when doctors indicate hope is gone. Do you believe that right should be taken from them? Why is that different to a women choosing to terminate based on the risks presented to them?

    My point really is, the outcome is inevitable if one goes the abortion route.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Name one woman who died from the 8th.

    No report found the 8th was responsible for hospital mismanagement of sepsis in the case of Savita.
    Hospital mismanagement that led to Savita's death led to the hospital paying her family compensation for not doing the job they were required to do.

    Wrong.

    Early in the process the miscarriage was deemed inevitable, and when Savita requested an abortion, she was denied one. Why was the sepsis there? Because it's a risk of miscarriage. Why was it mismanaged? Because of the 8th and the hospital staff's refusal to grant her an abortion.

    If they granted her the abortion when she requested it (before the sepsis was an issue) she'd still be alive today.

    EDIT: Not so fun fact, you know what one of the leading prevention methods is in the case of septic miscarriages?

    Abortion.


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