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The 8th Amendment Part 2 - Mod Warning in OP

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    RobertKK wrote: »
    It is probably that way for the women in the UK who are on the 7th, 8th or 9th abortion.

    7, 8 or 9 abortions over a period of 25+ years of fertility (lets leave out that girls are fertile much younger than age 20 but shure...) ... how many chances is that to get pregnant again... 300 times... hmmm.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 40,922 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    RobertKK wrote: »
    It is probably that way for the women in the UK who are on the 7th, 8th or 9th abortion.


    you really shouldn't rely on the daily mail for objective reporting on anything.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Surprised you came back tbh after your absolute shambles of an "accurate 12 week old fetus" picture.

    Women having a choice bothers you Robert, doesn't it?

    I'm sorry but you think human have bobble heads as the head was too big to be proportionate, but it didn't suit, so you had to see what wasn't there. All that was wrong was the colour.

    The choice to kill is an issue.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    you really shouldn't rely on the daily mail for objective reporting on anything.

    Between 30% and 34% of abortions are repeat abortions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,677 ✭✭✭PhoenixParker


    January wrote: »
    7, 8 or 9 abortions over a period of 25+ years of fertility (lets leave out that girls are fertile much younger than age 20 but shure...) ... how many chances is that to get pregnant again... 300 times... hmmm.

    But don’t you understand that the answer to a tiny minority of women being irresponsible is to punish all women collectively?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Between 30% and 34% of abortions are repeat abortions.

    so?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    January wrote: »
    7, 8 or 9 abortions over a period of 25+ years of fertility (lets leave out that girls are fertile much younger than age 20 but shure...) ... how many chances is that to get pregnant again... 300 times... hmmm.

    They mustn't understand how it happens...


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭BarleySweets


    RobertKK wrote: »
    It is probably that way for the women in the UK who are on the 7th, 8th or 9th abortion.

    Robert! Hey buddy! Good to see you back! How would you like women on their 7th, 8th or 9th abortions to be treated by our society?

    Also, is 6 and under good by you? What makes the 7th one the kicker?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,771 ✭✭✭✭RobertKK


    Robert! Hey buddy! Good to see you back! How would you like women on their 7th, 8th or 9th abortions to be treated by our society?

    Also, is 6 and under good by you? What makes the 7th one the kicker?

    To be taught sex education.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭BarleySweets


    RobertKK wrote: »
    They mustn't understand how it happens...

    Well in fairness, if Fianna Fáil keeps voting against sex education classes, how do you expect them to learn how it happens? Afterall, priests aren’t allowed to give their alter boys and girls “special education” anymore!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,109 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    bubblypop wrote: »
    Ahh sure we will be out & about sleeping with everyone, without any contraception because we will be able to run in at lunchtime & get a quick abortion.
    RobertKK wrote: »
    It is probably that way for the women in the UK who are on the 7th, 8th or 9th abortion.
    With the multiple risks of clotting, haemorrhaging (or for the US based Robert hemorrhaging ), that's not really likely to be true now is it. Come on Robert you can do better than that.

    Give us some more fake news, doctored photos will you? The NFL Draft isnt on for a couple of days yet so you should have some free time.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Between 30% and 34% of abortions are repeat abortions.

    In that case, should we abolish the social welfare system just because a small percentage of our population are work shy and see the dole as a career choice?

    Or do we keep it, knowing a small amount will abuse the system, but taking it as a necessary evil to allow those in genuine crisis's and in desperate need of assistance get the help they need during a tough time?

    Its exactly the same thing.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    RobertKK wrote: »
    They mustn't understand how it happens...

    Or their contraception failed, or they can't use contraception, or they are in abusive relationships and are being stealthed by their partners.

    It's absolutely none of your business how many abortions a woman has in her lifetime, if she doesn't feel she is able to have a child she shouldn't be forced into it. Whether she is being responsible or irresponsible, why would you force an irresponsible woman to raise a child?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23,109 ✭✭✭✭ELM327


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Between 30% and 34% of abortions are repeat abortions.
    a) So?
    b) Source? Is this like the "1 in 5" stats that were roundly laughed at and debunked?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    We're just getting down to the crux of it, Robert doesn't like women who have sex for pleasure. That's all.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,070 ✭✭✭✭pq0n1ct4ve8zf5


    RobertKK wrote: »
    I'm sorry but you think human have bobble heads as the head was too big to be proportionate, but it didn't suit, so you had to see what wasn't there. All that was wrong was the colour.

    The choice to kill is an issue.

    The colour, the limbs, the facial features, the proportions. And not randomly wrong, wrong in a way specifically and explicitly aimed to make it look more like a baby.

    Literally you could post a picture of a Barbie doll and say it's basically just a scaled down woman and it'd be as sensible a statement.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 790 ✭✭✭baylah17


    RobertKK wrote: »
    It is probably that way for the women in the UK who are on the 7th, 8th or 9th abortion.

    Robert! Hey buddy! Good to see you back! How would you like women on their 7th, 8th or 9th abortions to be treated by our society?

    Also, is 6 and under good by you? What makes the 7th one the kicker?
    Woohoo Free abortions for everyone
    Maybe have abortion scratch cards where you win multiple deluxe abortions at the resort of your choice
    Oops sorry ii used the "choice" word, my bad


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    RobertKK wrote: »
    To be taught sex education.

    how will that make a difference if contraception fails?
    how will that make a difference if carrying a baby at all is dangerous for the woman?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭BarleySweets


    RobertKK wrote: »
    To be taught sex education.

    And how would a woman on her 7th, 8th or 9th abortion being taught sex education prevent accidental pregnancies from happening? Condoms burst; or if they’re using the rhythm method, ovulation can happen unexpectedly; the pill can fail; people can make mistakes even if they know all of the facts. How should society treat these serial “mistakes makers? What about you, how would you treat women on their 7th, 8th or 9th abortion? How do you think I should treat such women?

    Regardless, teaching sex education to women who are on their 9th abortion is not a valid answer to my question is it? Again you have chosen to reply to a simple question with a non-answer.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    January wrote: »
    We're just getting down to the crux of it, Robert doesn't like women who have sex for pleasure.

    Rogelio Tinkling Cue got to that point inside 24 hours.

    How many times have we heard "just keep your legs together?"

    And, as usual, it is just a coincidence that the good ol' Roman Catholic Church is officially of the same opinion.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,390 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    RobertKK wrote: »
    Between 30% and 34% of abortions are repeat abortions.
    Source?
    (a real one not the daily mail)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    This particular post from the In Her Shoes page had me in tears this morning.
    I hope no one minds me posting. It really puts into perspective the kind of situations we are forcing on women and families with a No vote.
    How anyone could vote to retain after reading stories such as these is beyond me.
    In Her Shoes - Women Of The Eighth
    7 hrs ·
    "I love these rollerblades. They bring back happy memories of my oldest daughter teaching my middle daughter how to skate.

    My oldest daughter can't skate anymore. It was one of the joys her epilepsy stole from her when she was diagnosed at 14. A lot of epileptic people can predict a seizure will happen before it does, sadly she isn't one of them and although she now has a major seizure only once every 35 days even this much means she can't safely be on wheels, especially not near traffic.

    Her doctors and neurologists have had 4 years to perfect the combination of medication which helps her. Three of the six medicines she takes daily are not safe in pregnancy. Not all epilepsy medicine is unsafe for a developing pregnancy. One medicine in particular is recommended. It was among the first she was trialled on and as luck would have it, it had no effect on her.

    Loving an epileptic can be heart breaking. I remember this time last year she was out of the country visiting relatives and I was working here in Ireland when she sent me a photo of her badly smashed up face, black eye and slightly fractured cheekbone with the words "I think I hit the fireplace". It's a slate hearth. I was nearly in tears begging my manager to let me make an international call on the company phone. She can no longer skate. She might never drive. The moped I had promised to buy her for her 17th birthday ever since she was a little girl remains unpurchased. She can't do everything her peers can do. She has to shut her eyes when an emergency vehicle passes because the flash rates have been known to trigger her. She doesn't go to concerts. We take headaches deadly seriously. She has a waterproof mattress protector because seizures can cause a loss of control, which means staying away from home can be embarrassing. She carries baby wipes leggings and a t-shirt in her school bag, just in case. She can not ever be out in a thunderstorm. None of this is the 8th amendment's fault. She is just wired this way. There is a fault in the circuit and that's just something we have to work around.

    I didn't think much about the 8th until one day she foolishly forgot to mention she was running out of medicines. It was gone 10pm and she didn't have them for the next day. This is a genuine medical emergency. Suddenly stopping her medicine is likely to lead her into the biggest seizure of her life. If there is any way in which I am going to lose her to her condition, a sudden stop in her treatment is top of the list. She can not run out. It is life and death for her. She needs these drugs and as her mother I am bound by a strong desire not to bury my beloved, to make sure she gets them. I contacted the out of hours doctor service for my region. They bade me rush her in immediately with a medication list. She keeps a printed one in her jewellery box.

    The South African GP who saw her was refreshingly frank. He explained she would have to take a pregnancy test, even though she knew she wasn't at risk, and if she was pregnant he couldn't prescribe, which meant she would be in grave danger and he hopes she'd "got a passport". In that moment the full force of this hiddeous law hit me. I stopped her on the way in to the toilet and said "if you need help in there...", she responded curtly with "No Mother. I am not a liar". She isn't a liar, but the law treats her like one. She cannot carry an unplanned pregnancy safely either, but the law would force her to dice with her life for nothing.

    For nothing because with the drugs she takes and has been taking for years her foetus will be at very high risk of deformity. Pregnancy itself causes an increased risk of seizures. Suddenly stopping her medication causes an increased risk of seizures. Collapsing while pregnant is a risk for miscarriage. Each seizure itself could kill her, and her foetus with her. I beg you, reader, please understand me when I tell you that in Ireland she is a headline waiting to happen. The 8th could kill her and it won't save her child. She isn't fit to be pregnant and though she may be a good girl, this is not a safe world. Is it so much to just want a rational law that allows for realistic outcomes? As it stands no one in Ireland can offer her a termination here until she is literally dying in front of them. When a seizure that lasts 5 minutes is an all-out emergency requiring an ambulance what warning will she get?

    We need her alive. Little-skates-sister needs her. I need her. Please Ireland, I am not asking you I am begging you. She's a foreign national and she can't vote. Vote for her. Vote yes.

    This is an anonymous post, but if I lose this girl, you will all know me then. I can not and I will not rest until the day her right to continue to live is upheld."


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,894 ✭✭✭Triceratops Ballet


    gmisk wrote: »
    Source?
    (a real one not the daily mail)

    it actually is true, but I still contest so what, the stats don't break down the reasons (not that the reasons matter much to me)

    https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/679028/Abortions_stats_England_Wales_2016.pdf


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    RobertKK wrote: »
    I'm sorry but you think human have bobble heads as the head was too big to be proportionate

    I'm sorry but you think plastic life-like dolls doctored to pull on heartstrings are factual representations of what actual 12 week fetuses look like.

    I can do it too!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 198 ✭✭BarleySweets


    it actually is true, but I still contest so what, the stats don't break down the reasons (not that the reasons matter much to me)

    https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/679028/Abortions_stats_England_Wales_2016.pdf

    Agreed, it’s none of my business because it’s her choice.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,137 ✭✭✭horseburger


    That's all well and good but you still haven't given a definitive answer, comparing it to a box of cereal? Excellent.

    You can't give a definitive answer and instead just drone on because you know if you agree with RobertKK you'd be wrong, yet if you disagreed with him you'd destroy what little credibility he had left after posting that absolute farce of a picture.

    You are asking me if the images that the person posted are accurate.

    Why are you asking me?

    I didn't claim it was an accurate depiction, of a foetus at any stage of pregnancy.

    Whether either of the photos you asked me about, are accurate images or not, doesn't alter the fact that a foetus/human being will undergo human growth and development before and after pregnancy, no matter at what stage of life it is at, if its life is not ended during pregnancy.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 23,862 ✭✭✭✭January


    SusieBlue wrote: »
    This particular post from the In Her Shoes page had me in tears this morning.
    I hope no one minds me posting. It really puts into perspective the kind of situations we are forcing on women and families with a No vote.
    How anyone could vote to retain after reading stories such as these is beyond me.

    Heartbreaking. I have a daughter with a heart condition (and yes Robert, if you want me to tell you which one, just ask, I've no problem discussing it on the internet because just naming it doesn't make her identifiable), she's currently healthy and hopeful that she can become a mammy one day (she's not yet ten but often says 'when I'm a mammmy, like you... I'll do this... e.g. breastfeed, baby wear etc) but we don't know what the future holds because CHD is scary and no one knows how her heart will be in a few years. I don't want her to have to travel if she finds herself pregnant and her heart is not healthy enough to carry a pregnancy to term.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 34,390 ✭✭✭✭gmisk


    January wrote: »
    Heartbreaking. I have a daughter with a heart condition (and yes Robert, if you want me to tell you which one, just ask, I've no problem discussing it on the internet because just naming it doesn't make her identifiable), she's currently healthy and hopeful that she can become a mammy one day (she's not yet ten but often says 'when I'm a mammmy, like you... I'll do this... e.g. breastfeed, baby wear etc) but we don't know what the future holds because CHD is scary and no one knows how her heart will be in a few years. I don't want her to have to travel if she finds herself pregnant and her heart is not healthy enough to carry a pregnancy to term.
    January thank you for sharing that snippet of you and your daughters story.
    She sounds like an absolute dote.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,598 ✭✭✭robarmstrong


    You are asking me if the images that the person posted are accurate.

    Why are you asking me?

    I didn't claim it was an accurate depiction, of a foetus at any stage of pregnancy.

    Whether either of the photos you asked me about, are accurate images or not, doesn't alter the fact that a foetus/human being will undergo human growth and development before and after pregnancy, no matter at what stage of life it is at, if its life is not ended during pregnancy.

    I have asked you numerous times if you could give a definitive yes or no answer to my query and all you done was deflect and take away from it, I didn't ask anything other than that, you wouldn't give a definitive answer because it would have destroyed your buddy's argument.

    What issues do you have, as someone who's "on the fence", with the pro-life campaign? Why do you seem to only pick at the pro-choice side? Bit of a weird thing to do for someone who's on the fence.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,505 ✭✭✭Tipperary animal lover


    horse sh*ite I tells ya


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