Sexual assualt list posted in boys toilet in Cork school

12-04-2018 06:46PM

oceanman wrote: »

its a bit of a non story really....just a bunch of young lads doing what lads do, we live in very different times now than when most of us here were going to school.
that's how teenagers are these days..

If it was my young lad writing that I'd be very tempted to give him right good slap around the ear. I'd more likely say ''imagine you saw someone writing your sister's name up there, what would you think of that?''. It's stupid fcuking behaviour from young lads but it's not the end of the world either. Middle ground here folks. I sincerely doubt there was a plan to actually go out and do anything and it was probably meant to go no further than the jacks wall but it's still crude as hell and unacceptable.

12-04-2018 06:47PM

Graces7 wrote: »

No. In this case role models are more influential than parents. Surely you know that? And the recent publicity re the Belfast trial?

That should never be the case.

dark crystal · 12-04-2018 06:47PM

Max Prophet wrote: »

Possible feminazi false flag. Nothing would surprise me these days.....

Even when it wasn't the feminists, it really was.

12-04-2018 06:48PM

Candie wrote: »

I don't think too much should be made of it, but it shouldn't be dismissed like that either.

Spot on. Middle ground is something seriously lacking recently when these outrages hit.

paw patrol · 12-04-2018 06:49PM

Sam Quentin wrote: »

As serious and as disturbing this may seem to us as mature adults...
The boys in the school think it's great craic and the girls only concern would be how many ticks they got... The only devastation for the girls on the list would be if she got no ticks..
I'll say again.. Teens are living in a social media 'app' world.. Which I reckon is probably impossible to police or to even understand!?
We can kid ourselves that they give 2 shíts about anything us 'old' people have to say about their 'social' life.. It's a HUGE secret which involves lying, bluffing and all forms of sneakiness... We'r all doomed DOOMED I TELL YA.. .... DOOMED.

i agree - the hand wringing is laughable. the fact this made national news is worse than laughable.
It will only encourage lads to act the maggot.

I feel it's an internal school thing and tbh I don't care .

Why I am posting if I don't care...I care strongly about the over reaction and hysteria minor infractions cause like this cause.

Yer Da sells Avon · 12-04-2018 06:50PM

oceanman wrote: »

its a bit of a non story really....just a bunch of young lads doing what lads do

I'm sure it wasn't your intention, but comments like this do teenage boys a huge disservice.

clairewithani · 12-04-2018 06:50PM

Do people really think that girls would be more upset by not being on the list than they would by being on it or are they just downplaying it?

Max Prophet · 12-04-2018 06:50PM

dark crystal wrote: »

Even when it wasn't the feminists, it really was.

Oh you never know. About time for another twitter storm with usual silly hashtags #notinmyschool etc. You get the gist....

strandroad · 12-04-2018 06:53PM

clairewithani wrote: »

Do people really think that girls would be more upset by not being on the list than they would by being on it or are they just downplaying it?

I can't believe that even After Hours would think that the "rape winner" girl would be in any way flattered.

jmayo · 12-04-2018 06:54PM

winteremerald wrote: »

So They will have to be home schooled yes for public safety ?

I wouldn't give two fooks where they were schooled so long as it was not in the same school as my kids.

There used to be a time when if you acted the bollox in school you got expelled.
Now it seems you are meant to get counseling and a hug.
What does that say to the ones victimised ?

Maybe it was those times when people (and that included kids) were responsible for their actions and it wasn't always a case where the ones doing the shyte were classed as victims as well.

dark crystal · 12-04-2018 06:55PM

Max Prophet wrote: »

Oh you never know. About time for another twitter storm with usual silly hashtags #notinmyschool etc. You get the gist....

Oh, I get the gist alright.

Not surprised by the dismissive reactions of certain posters on here, but I'd say they'd change their tune if it was their daughter/ sister/ girlfriend on the rape list.

clairewithani · 12-04-2018 06:57PM

dark crystal wrote: »

Oh, I get the gist alright.

Not surprised by the dismissive reactions of certain posters on here, but I'd say they'd change their tune if it was their daughter/ sister/ girlfriend on the rape list.

I'd say they would be organising the vigilante group as we speak

B0jangles · 12-04-2018 06:58PM

dark crystal wrote: »

Oh, I get the gist alright.

Not surprised by the dismissive reactions of certain posters on here, but I'd say they'd change their tune if it was their daughter/ sister/ girlfriend on the rape list.

Past experience would indicate that at least some of them would be outraged on her behalf for a page or two before the usual crowd would have them convinced it was just the wimmen making a fuss over nothing for attention.

Or feminists - you can always rely on the feminists to be responsible, somehow.

Princess Consuela Bananahammock · 12-04-2018 06:59PM

jmayo wrote: »

winteremerald wrote: »

So They will have to be home schooled yes for public safety ?

I wouldn't give two fooks where they were schooled so long as it was not in the same school as my kids.

There used to be a time when if you acted the bollox in school you got expelled.
Now it seems you are meant to get counseling and a hug.
What does that say to the ones victimised ?

Maybe it was those times when people (and that included kids) were responsible for their actions and it wasn't always a case where the ones doing the shyte were classed as victims as well.

So your suggestion is to move them on to a different school and act surprised when they pull the she **** again rather than dealing with the situation in the first place?

Hector Bellend · 12-04-2018 07:00PM

In my day you'd go to watch the love of your life playing hockey. Youd spend a sizable portion of the match trying to look up her skirt.

Comparatively innocent

wexie · 12-04-2018 07:01PM

Outlaw Pete wrote: »

Vaginas are not halos.

Keeping that in my list of memorable boards quotes

Yer Da sells Avon · 12-04-2018 07:03PM

dark crystal wrote: »

Oh, I get the gist alright.

Not surprised by the dismissive reactions of certain posters on here, but I'd say they'd change their tune if it was their daughter/ sister/ girlfriend on the rape list.

Imagine being such a misogynist that you require a woman to be closely related to you before considering her worthy of giving a toss about.

dark crystal · 12-04-2018 07:03PM

clairewithani wrote: »

I'd say they would be organising the vigilante group as we speak

Nah, they'd leave that to the crazy blue haired, unwashed feminazis. I find these people tend to criticize a lot but are strangely lazy when it comes to doing anything in the way of action themselves. The matricarchy, wah?

B0jangles wrote: »

Past experience would indicate that at least some of them would be outraged on her behalf for a page or two before the usual crowd would have them convinced it was just the wimmen making a fuss over nothing for attention.

Or feminists - you can always rely on the feminists to be responsible, somehow.

Feminists- the ultimate scapegoats for those constantly complaining of being scapegoats.

Donald Trump · 12-04-2018 07:07PM

He's making a list
He's checking it twice
He's gonna find out who's naughty or nice
Larry Murphy's coming to town

dark crystal · 12-04-2018 07:07PM

winteremerald wrote: »

Just like father/ brother/ Son on the wrong end of a Rape accusation ?

Oh, we're playing this game of gender one-upmanship again are we?

Ok, yeah, just like that.

Graces7 · 12-04-2018 07:09PM

jmayo wrote: »

And it is eve more than my time in secondary school in the 80s.

There is no way in hell they should remain in the school.

What message does that send to other students, in particular the ones that were targeted in that list.
Again I ask someone to think of being in the shoes of the ones targeted or at least the parents of the ones targeted and then see what you think.

I was actually meaning to keep them contained in some way rather than uleash them on wider society. But as I qualified, IF there were teachers adequate to that task Not sure what faciities we have in Ireland for this? ie I a agreeing with you fully

Donald Trump · 12-04-2018 07:10PM

Outlaw Pete wrote: »

Vaginas are not halos.

I used to like to walk around with one above my head

A halo that is

paw patrol · 12-04-2018 07:10PM

dark crystal wrote: »

Feminists- the ultimate scapegoats for those constantly complaining of being scapegoats.

kinda makes sense to blame them. I mean if you were taking a punt - it's either muslims or feminists and 9 out of 10 times you are quids in.

apologies to the muslims though for being lumped with feminists

Graces7 · 12-04-2018 07:14PM

paw patrol wrote: »

i agree - the hand wringing is laughable. the fact this made national news is worse than laughable.
It will only encourage lads to act the maggot.

I feel it's an internal school thing and tbh I don't care .

Why I am posting if I don't care...I care strongly about the over reaction and hysteria minor infractions cause like this cause.

Are you for real?

Max Prophet · 12-04-2018 07:14PM

dark crystal wrote: »

Oh, we're playing this game of gender one-upmanship again are we?

Ok, yeah, just like that.

Oneuppersonship

dark crystal · 12-04-2018 07:15PM

winteremerald wrote: »

OFC gender bias is strong in this thread. Did people assume the Gender of the list poster due to the bathroom sign ?

Where did I mention the gender of the offenders?

Anyway, I thought we'd established it was the feminists that sneaked into the boys toilets and did it.

Yer Da sells Avon · 12-04-2018 07:17PM

winteremerald wrote: »

OFC gender bias is strong in this thread. Did people assume the Gender of the list poster due to the bathroom sign ?

With it being the boys' toilets in a school, what do you think is the likelihood of the perpetrator(s) not being (a) male teenage 'edgelord(s)'? Fairly slim, no?

wakka12 · 12-04-2018 07:18PM

amcalester wrote: »

For what though?

Some stupid scribbles on a toilet wall? Very hard to really form an opinion on this without know what was actually written.

I very much doubt "sexual assault" was written on the wall.

Do you think the gardai would be called for nothing? Of course what was written was dangerous and disturbing

tretorn · 12-04-2018 07:20PM

_Whimsical_ wrote: »

Wow that is beyond appalling.

It's also a reason why we just cannot tolerate allowing young boys to be exposed to sports stars who have shown themselves to be unashamed misogynists that think women are just pieces of meat whose sole purpose is for their sexual pleasure.

I was wondering how long it would take for some righteous individual to lay the blame for this at Jacksons door.

Henceforth PJ is to be held culpable for every sexual transgression carried out by males in the world.

wexie · 12-04-2018 07:23PM

was there just some kinda glitch in the Matrix?

And winteremerald just disappeared in a small cloud of genderbias outrage?

Or is there some ninja modding happening?

Sexual assualt list posted in boys toilet in Cork school

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