What happened to your Debs date?

padd b1975 · 09-04-2018 08:15PM

She's married in Australia I think.

Sent her a friend's request a few months ago, she deleted it.

beefburrito · 09-04-2018 08:19PM

My debs was in 94 she's married now, to a big heavy bloke who goes around in tracksuits.
Nothing wrong with that, but she often used to say she'll never end up with a guy who turns into an alcoholic who's overweight and does Fck all....
Ironically she's hot a great top of the scale public sector job and he's spending a percentage of it down the local bookies...

Another lady I went to a debs with, still looks great, stops for a chat sometimes and happily married to a guy who's a responsible adult....

Vela · 09-04-2018 08:22PM

We ended up moving in together and it lasted about 5 years. I think he's engaged and living abroad now. Feels like a lifetime ago!

GuessWhoEh · 09-04-2018 08:24PM

My debs was 8 years ago.
Wasn't the best to be far. Was seeing a guy at the time who everyone absolutely hated. He wasn't the best of people in fairness. Was from Spain, started my school in 5th year and just immediately made enemies. Course me being 17 at the time and taught he was the best thing since sliced bread.
Needless to say, my debs night was ruined because he kept starting fights and I broke up with him the next day. We stopped talking for a few years and recently got back talking.
He's on the dole and currently on the run (so he says)
I, full time job, car and in my own place.

silvervixen84 · 09-04-2018 08:27PM

He was my boyfriend at the time, we broke up a few months later. He's married with two kids now.

Try_harder · 09-04-2018 08:34PM

Eh, no idea! She was a mutual friend of a friend. Wasnt that bothered. jerked off with the schools senior midfielder in the jacks tho...

Sandor Clegane · 09-04-2018 08:43PM

I ended up getting so drunk I got kicked out of the hotel, leaving her alone in their all night. In the end my parents were called to pick me up as I couldn't look after myself, she ended up staying with some friends if I recall correctly.

Never spoke again. Think she ended up as a teacher.

Donald Trump · 09-04-2018 08:51PM

LirW wrote: »

Went with my sister, she's doing grand!

(As a sister-sister duo)

Did you drop the hand at the end of the night?

Rubberlegs · 09-04-2018 08:57PM

He is sitting in his armchair in the sitting room with the youngest on his lap

eeguy · 09-04-2018 08:59PM

Didn't bring my gf at the time to my deb's as I was in the process of stealing her away from another lad who would be there.
She told him she was sick that night.

I brought one of my friends instead and we're still friends 12 years later although we don't see each other too often.

Went to the gf's debs a few weeks later. Broke up with her about a year after and haven't spoken since. Found out she got engaged a few months ago.

Outlaw Pete · 09-04-2018 09:01PM

Last time I seen her we were both on stage that night but these bullies from the school had rigged up a big bucket of pig's blood over her head and dropped it right on top of her.

She went nuts and using telekinetic powers (which I didn't even know she had) she destroyed the school and then went home and killed her own mother with rakes of knives.

We're still together now and whenever I tell people that story they always say it sounds like the movie Carrie. But no, this happened to us in Ballinasloe.

eeguy · 09-04-2018 09:04PM

Try_harder wrote: »

Eh, no idea! She was a mutual friend of a friend. Wasnt that bothered. jerked off with the schools senior midfielder in the jacks tho...

Dutch rudder?

gmisk · 09-04-2018 09:05PM

I went with a friend who had left the school year before, she was great craic and had a lovely time, she lives in Qatar with husband and a baby still vaguely in touch via Facebook.
That was also about the last time I went on a date with a woman

Ulysses Gaze · 09-04-2018 09:05PM

tomwaits48 wrote: »

Lot of weirdos with issues on this thread

Just because you got wasted and wounded...

Faugheen · 09-04-2018 09:06PM

I brought a woman I had been with a couple of times beforehand. We were good friends beforehand and I had already asked her. That summer hit and the heat was turned up.

She went away to the Gaeltacht (she was a year below me) came back the week before. Had a good night we kept at it for the rest of the Summer until we went our separate ways.

She's in London now and I always make the effort to meet with her when she's home. So much time for her. Our Summer would have ended any friendship so it's nice that we weren't kids about it and just got on with our lives.

An Claidheamh · 09-04-2018 09:18PM

Mint Sauce wrote: »

Never had one. London born and educated, we didn't have American influnces.

Passive aggressive much?......

(I'm pretty sure you have both American influences and debs in the UK).

blindside88 · 09-04-2018 09:23PM

Married her, 5th wedding anniversary later this year. Couldn’t be happier

corner of hells · 09-04-2018 09:29PM

A friend of mine brought a horse to his debs along with his girlfriend at the time.

Turned out the hotel didn't like the idea of a horse being brought into the reception which in itself was fair enough.

Things went downhill after that between the Gardai being called , teachers overreacting and his girlfriend spending the night crying her eyes out.

Anyhow nowadays he's a mechanic running his own garage and much calmer.
Him and the horse are no longer together.

godtabh · 09-04-2018 09:49PM

I decided last minute to go to mine. Asked a friend. She is still a good friend. She just had her 20 year anniversary with another good friend.

Motivator · 09-04-2018 11:01PM

Being a very shy 17 year old I was told that a girl in my class was mad about me and that I should ask her to my debs. I didn’t think that she liked me and the “will he/won’t he ask her?” debate was rampant for ages in the class, so much so that I thought it was a joke and she was going to say no to me. In the end I asked her best friend to go with me instead as she was far more approachable and she had a boyfriend so I was under no pressure to please her on the night. It was a simple turn up, have a few drinks and deliver her safely back to her boyfriend unharmed mission.

It turned out that the girl who did want me to ask her really was mad about me and didn’t take it too well. She ended up asking my best friend who was in a different school. It turned out to be a decent night and I ended up scoring my friend’s date whilst we left my date alone for the night. She was bored and wasn’t up for much dancing and messing around as she had a boyfriend.

My friend was annoyed with me over scoring his date so he got tooled up and ended up scoring mine! She felt guilty the next day and told her boyfriend all about it. My best friend ended up getting a hiding in a hurling match a couple of weeks later as my date’s boyfriend got his revenge.

I speak with neither of the girls any more. The girl who I brought is now working for a large multinational in a very good position whilst the girl I scored ended up as a scientist I think she’s living in San Francisco now. She comes home once or twice a year and I somehow always bump in to her on the same weekend every year (big social event in our home town) and always have a good chat. She’s a very nice girl and there’s always lots of flirting going on even after all these years. I often wonder how things would have played out in both of our lives if I had just asked her to be my date instead of how things actually played out. I thought she was gorgeous but didn’t think the feeling was mutual. We all headed our separate ways after the Debs and not many of our class have remained in contact, well apart from being Facebook friends, but I still often think about the decision I made when I was 17 and how different things may have been. She was gorgeous then and she’s gorgeous now (and single) and she was always great fun. She went to Wales to college the month after the debs and due to family issues at the time she never came home so things wouldn’t have worked out then.

jaxxx · 09-04-2018 11:07PM

Couldn't care less about her. B#tch stabbed me in the heart a few weeks later. Worse thing was I saw it coming, but even then I didn't expect it to be as direct as it turned out to be.

^ Had a profound effect on me though, haven't trusted anyone ever since.

end of the road · 09-04-2018 11:21PM

Donald Trump wrote: »

Did you drop the hand at the end of the night?

lol! only you could wonder about something like that! hah

_Brian · 09-04-2018 11:23PM

Were happily married.
‘Twas a mere 30 years ago.

Bambi985 · 10-04-2018 12:02AM

Motivator wrote: »

Being a very shy 17 year old I was told that a girl in my class was mad about me and that I should ask her to my debs. I didn’t think that she liked me and the “will he/won’t he ask her?” debate was rampant for ages in the class, so much so that I thought it was a joke and she was going to say no to me. In the end I asked her best friend to go with me instead as she was far more approachable and she had a boyfriend so I was under no pressure to please her on the night. It was a simple turn up, have a few drinks and deliver her safely back to her boyfriend unharmed mission.

It turned out that the girl who did want me to ask her really was mad about me and didn’t take it too well. She ended up asking my best friend who was in a different school. It turned out to be a decent night and I ended up scoring my friend’s date whilst we left my date alone for the night. She was bored and wasn’t up for much dancing and messing around as she had a boyfriend.

My friend was annoyed with me over scoring his date so he got tooled up and ended up scoring mine! She felt guilty the next day and told her boyfriend all about it. My best friend ended up getting a hiding in a hurling match a couple of weeks later as my date’s boyfriend got his revenge.

I speak with neither of the girls any more. The girl who I brought is now working for a large multinational in a very good position whilst the girl I scored ended up as a scientist I think she’s living in San Francisco now. She comes home once or twice a year and I somehow always bump in to her on the same weekend every year (big social event in our home town) and always have a good chat. She’s a very nice girl and there’s always lots of flirting going on even after all these years. I often wonder how things would have played out in both of our lives if I had just asked her to be my date instead of how things actually played out. I thought she was gorgeous but didn’t think the feeling was mutual. We all headed our separate ways after the Debs and not many of our class have remained in contact, well apart from being Facebook friends, but I still often think about the decision I made when I was 17 and how different things may have been. She was gorgeous then and she’s gorgeous now (and single) and she was always great fun. She went to Wales to college the month after the debs and due to family issues at the time she never came home so things wouldn’t have worked out then.

Drop scientist girl a facebook message, see where it goes. What's the worst that could happen?

screamer · 10-04-2018 12:06AM

I actually never gave him another thought. Probably married off to another farmers daughter the sad muck savage he was.....

_Dara_ · 10-04-2018 12:32AM

Being shy and a bit antisocial in school, I was unpopular and therefore didn’t get asked to the debs by anyone (and knew that I’d likely be turned down if I asked anyone myself).

School was fun. :rolleyes:

Wish I’d followed my instinct and not gone to the Debs. It was pretty crap. I did get the shift off someone else’s date though. Understanding the unpopularity a bit more now... :P

Wompa1 · 10-04-2018 04:21AM

Didn't go. I didn't drink and girls in my school seemed suspicious of not drinking. I don't think I was ready for girls at that stage anyway. I ended up spending my night working at my uncle's petrol station so my cousin could go to my Debs instead :pac:

Didn't have a girlfriend in secondary school at all. Only got with one girl during school and I can't remember her name or what happened to her.

fergus1001 · 10-04-2018 08:01AM

she went on to become a teacher and she's still with the same arsehole 10 years later

_Kaiser_ · 10-04-2018 08:34AM

Didn't go.. back in the day I was rather quiet and shy anyway and times they were tough in the 80s/early 90s.

Was somewhat gutted at the time, but seeing as the reunion a few years later was about 10 people who I didn't know, and I haven't spoken to anyone from school since then, I don't think I missed much.

pickarooney · 10-04-2018 08:38AM

facehugger99 wrote: »

Emer.

She had a late 80's perm and drank Ritz.

Never laid eyes on her since.

This sounds like part of a Pulp song. Please continue.

What happened to your Debs date?

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