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The 8th amendment(Mod warning in op)

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,494 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    mrkiscool2 wrote: »
    WOW. Wow. Your hatred of women really coming out now EOTR. So, forcing women to have babies is good because reasons and there should be a massive financial expense and difficulty for women who travel for one, because fcuk those women.

    what a horrible thing to say. shame on you. by all means disagree with my view but there is no need to be making up horrible allegations about me.
    i do not under any circumstances hate women. i have the upmost respect for them. i just disagree with abortion on demand and i believe that by making the procurement of abortion difficult that some women will consider not having an abortion. that is all. if it wasn't for abortion on demand i would gladly vote repeal as i want the other issues it causes gone. but because of the high likely hood of abortion on demand i will be unable to vote yes and i'm unhappy about that. i cannot vote for something that will lead to something i fundamentally disagree with.

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,739 ✭✭✭✭kylith


    Da Boss wrote: »
    This is all personal to me as I was informed I would have me aborted should the law have allowed. Therefore the eight amendment saved my life, the life I currently enjoy that only for the eighth I wouldn’t never have seen. Surely you see where I’m coming from and why the eighth is so important to me
    It was a terrible thing to tell you that, but being logical here; if your mother had had a termination you'd never have known anything about it. While it would have happened to the foetus that became you, there was no 'you' to know about it. You would have felt no fear, no pain, no discomfort of all. I know me saying this is harsh because you can't help but think about it as it happening to you personally, as you are now.

    Let me tell you another story: had my friend's mother not had access to abortion services in the UK in the 70s she would not have been able to attend college, she would not then have met my friend's father in college and have subsequently gotten a good job when she graduated, my friend and his siblings and their children would never have been born. One abortion in the 70s saved a woman and that child from a life of disaffection and poverty and brought 5 other wonderful people into the world who would not exist otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,524 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    No. The State is saying after birth is when it acknowledges the child as a separate person exists.
    It is immaterial where the child was born or at what state of gestation. From the moment of birth it exists as a legal entity and becomes entitled to benefits.

    All of this brandishing about terms like child in the womb is emotive nonsense - particularly when it is a embryonic clump of cells.


    Right, and if you knew that much, I don't understand why you would ask the question in the first place.

    Yeah, thanks for mansplaining what unborn means - I was getting it confused with undead.

    Now, let me return the favour by womansplaining that a woman is an adult female not a female of any age. The framers of this ridiculous piece of bunkum failed to acknowledge that there are non-adult females in this country who through no fault of their own become pregnant. There are 10 year old girls capable of becoming pregnant - they are not 'women' - they are children. Children this hideous clause would force to become mothers.


    I think the law acknowledges perfectly well that the term woman refers to a female of any age, and therefore fully acknowledges the possibility of 10 year old females becoming pregnant. The important bit there is the recognition of the female sex, regardless of their age.

    No mansplaining intended, no womansplaining required.

    But it doesn't. What has actually happened is medical staff are so unclear about the law they wait until the balance of probability means the women is over 50% likely to die - would you like those odds if it was your life on the line?


    I'm really the wrong person to ask that question as I've taken my chances with worse odds regarding my medical treatment and what I was and wasn't prepared to live with. You wouldn't believe the amount of bureaucracy and being bounced around between consultants and hospitals because nobody wanted to risk an almost certain death on their conscience for what to them should normally be a standard procedure that as one consultant put it "if you need blood, I'm giving you blood". I simply told them "no, you won't!", and made it perfectly clear that that was something I wasn't prepared to live with, and would rather die than live with it. I didn't expect them to understand, and many of them didn't, and 'medicalsplained' (:pac:) to me the likely outcome of my decision as though I had never given it any thought before.

    I took the risk, knowing the consequences, and I got lucky. I don't think the medical professionals were wrong, and I don't think I was right, and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone else as it was entirely a decision based upon illogical, irrational, emotive nonsense as you put it.

    I can understand that medical professionals would be more interested in covering their own arse from a legal perspective, but that's a risk that they take, and it's a risk they would still take regardless of the existence of the 8th amendment because we live in an increasingly litigious society, where medical professionals are increasingly being held accountable for their actions, and I don't know about you, but I for one see that as a good thing... not the fact that we live in an increasingly litigious society, but the fact that more and more medical professionals are held accountable for their actions.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,159 ✭✭✭mrkiscool2


    what a horrible thing to say. shame on you. by all means disagree with my view but there is no need to be making up horrible allegations about me.
    i do not under any circumstances hate women. i have the upmost respect for them. i just disagree with abortion on demand and i believe that by making the procurement of abortion difficult that some women will consider not having an abortion. that is all. if it wasn't for abortion on demand i would gladly vote repeal as i want the other issues it causes gone. but because of the high likely hood of abortion on demand i will be unable to vote yes and i'm unhappy about that. i cannot vote for something that will lead to something i fundamentally disagree with.
    You have respect for them up until the point they become pregnant with an unwanted child. Then all respect goes out the window and either a. they should be burdened with a child they don't want and, even if they are giving the child up for adoption, be burdened with carrying it for 9 months and go through the emotional and traumatic experience of childbirth or b. be punished financially, mentally and emotionally by being made to travel to have an abortion. You literally said it should be expensive and difficult for them to do so. That isn't respectful at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 29,494 ✭✭✭✭end of the road


    mrkiscool2 wrote: »
    You have respect for them up until the point they become pregnant with an unwanted child. Then all respect goes out the window

    again this is another false allegation.

    mrkiscool2 wrote: »
    either a. they should be burdened with a child they don't want and, even if they are giving the child up for adoption, be burdened with carrying it for 9 months and go through the emotional and traumatic experience of childbirth or b. be punished financially, mentally and emotionally by being made to travel to have an abortion. You literally said it should be expensive and difficult for them to do so. That isn't respectful at all.

    nobody is being punished, this isn't about punishing. it's about helping people to really think about their options rather then seeing abortion as the solution, and upholding the unborn's right to live. so another failed allegation from your good self. try again

    I'm very highly educated. I know words, i have the best words, nobody has better words then me.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,159 ✭✭✭mrkiscool2


    again this is another false allegation.

    nobody is being punished, this isn't about punishing. it's about helping people to really think about their options rather then seeing abortion as the solution, and upholding the unborn's right to live. so another failed allegation from your good self. try again
    So this
    which in turn makes the killing of the unborn bar extreme circumstances more difficult and expensive, in turn deterring some from making the trip, meaning some lives are saved. so in terms of abortion on demand it does work to an extent.
    That's respect to you? Not giving a flying fcuk about the woman in this instance? That's not disrespect? Or punishment? Then I don't know what is


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,641 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    But it doesn't. What has actually happened is medical staff are so unclear about the law they wait until the balance of probability means the women is over 50% likely to die - would you like those odds if it was your life on the line?

    I'm really the wrong person to ask that question as I've taken my chances with worse odds regarding my medical treatment and what I was and wasn't prepared to live with. ...

    that as one consultant put it "if you need blood, I'm giving you blood". I simply told them "no, you won't!", and made it perfectly clear that that was something I wasn't prepared to live with, and would rather die than live with it. I didn't expect them to understand, and many of them didn't, and 'medicalsplained' (:pac:) to me the likely outcome of my decision as though I had never given it any thought before.

    I took the risk, knowing the consequences, and I got lucky. I don't think the medical professionals were wrong, and I don't think I was right, and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone else as it was entirely a decision based upon illogical, irrational, emotive nonsense as you put it.

    I can understand that medical professionals would be more interested in covering their own arse from a legal perspective, but that's a risk that they take, and it's a risk they would still take regardless of the existence of the 8th amendment because we live in an increasingly litigious society, where medical professionals are increasingly being held accountable for their actions, and I don't know about you, but I for one see that as a good thing... not the fact that we live in an increasingly litigious society, but the fact that more and more medical professionals are held accountable for their actions.
    But you had that choice. You weren't informed that this is being done despite the fact that a lower risk procedure exists.

    It's really strange that you appear to think that an anecdote in which you made a choice like that can help justify the removal of the same choice from someone else.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭pilly


    I'm really the wrong person to ask that question as I've taken my chances with worse odds regarding my medical treatment and what I was and wasn't prepared to live with. You wouldn't believe the amount of bureaucracy and being bounced around between consultants and hospitals because nobody wanted to risk an almost certain death on their conscience for what to them should normally be a standard procedure that as one consultant put it "if you need blood, I'm giving you blood". I simply told them "no, you won't!", and made it perfectly clear that that was something I wasn't prepared to live with, and would rather die than live with it. I didn't expect them to understand, and many of them didn't, and 'medicalsplained' ( ) to me the likely outcome of my decision as though I had never given it any thought before.


    That's very interesting Jack, you feel you've the right to make those kind of decisions but you don't feel a woman should be afforded the same rights.

    Bit of a contradiction No?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 121 ✭✭Da Boss


    One observation I’ve made reading all the pro choice posts is that despite all the reasons we, the pro life side, have given as to why The eighth amendment should be retained. They have yet to acknowledge a single genuine argument.for the retention of the eight amendment. They have yet to make any reference to the unborn child. I find the arrogance from the pro choice side baffling, as it appears to them their superior to us and were just uneducated fools.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,524 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    volchitsa wrote: »
    But you had that choice. You weren't informed that this is being done despite the fact that a lower risk procedure exists.

    It's really strange that you appear to think that an anecdote in which you made a choice like that can help justify the removal of the same choice from someone else.

    pilly wrote: »
    That's very interesting Jack, you feel you've the right to make those kind of decisions but you don't feel a woman should be afforded the same rights.

    Bit of a contradiction No?


    Great minds think alike :D

    But seriously, it was as direct an answer as I could relate, to a very specific question -

    Bannasidhe wrote: »
    But it doesn't. What has actually happened is medical staff are so unclear about the law they wait until the balance of probability means the women is over 50% likely to die - would you like those odds if it was your life on the line?


    And I said that I was the wrong person to ask that question, because I would take those odds, and it was an incredibly foolish thing to do, and as I said, I wouldn't recommend it to anyone else, so on that basis I would never think to encourage anyone else to do something so stupid.

    Now, there's no possible way I could ever imagine myself as a pregnant woman, I couldn't even relate to my wife's experience of being pregnant because as someone else said different women experience pregnancy differently, and I can't imagine two pregnancies were ever the same for two different women. Long story short - pregnancy is a complex and completely different set of circumstances to refusing a blood transfusion, but they can overlap, as in this case -

    Pregnant Jehovah's Witness' decision to refuse treatment 'harrowing' for hospital staff after mother and baby die

    Obviously her principles were based upon her religious beliefs, which I would entirely respect, and even though I completely disagreed with the potential outcome of her decision on a personal level, I would still absolutely support her decision, and I would never support the Irish State interfering with her decision in order to vindicate and protect the right to life of the unborn, effectively riding roughshod over her human rights. I have a feeling based upon precedent set in numerous previous cases that they would do so in the interests of the unborn, and then expect that the woman should continue to raise that child according to her religious beliefs, knowing that the State could step in at any moment in the interests of protecting the child from it's mother and everything that child was raised to believe, such as in happened in this case -

    Jehovah parents lose transfusion ruling


    volchista I was aware that lower risk procedures exist, I had an autologous transfusion done when they put steel pins in, but when I asked about the availability of it, I was told they don't do that any more as it's too expensive. I later found out that some hospitals actually still do it, but I wasn't prepared to risk switching consultants and hospitals again at that stage.


    Now, with all that said, my decisions that I made for myself in those circumstances, could in no way be related to a woman who would wish to terminate her pregnancy with the outcome that the foetus would cease to develop. I wouldn't want to deny her the opportunity to make that decision at an individual level, and I would do my utmost to support her if that's what she chose to do.

    But, and this is where the contentious part arises - I would not, and could never support something like that being implemented as national public policy. I used to argue for every woman to have the right to terminate her pregnancy without restrictions on the basis that we have to trust women to be able to make decisions for themselves. I still do, at an individual level, trust women to make those sorts of decisions for themselves, but the evidence I've seen both historically and from other countries suggests that one group in society is disproportionately affected by abortion, and that is the group that would most wish that they didn't have to have abortions, and that they were in a position to raise a child, but unfortunately they feel that the support just isn't there for them, and in cases like this -

    Fair play to this judge
    Pregnant woman made homeless before Christmas

    It would be nigh on impossible to convince them that they just might be wrong when all they can see in their immediate and long term future is a life of grinding poverty and misery for them and their child (or children, as the case may be). It's all too easy to convince them that it would be in theirs and their child's best interests (I don't ever use the term foetus or any other scientific and medical terminology because they look at me like I'm a cold, uncaring monster and shut down immediately, end of any hope of having a conversation, so I go with whatever term they use), if she were to terminate her pregnancy as soon as possible and I would support in whatever decision she makes for herself. I would hope that she would trust that I'm as good as my word, but I don't expect that she should, given that she doesn't know me.

    The thing is that I feel that in repealing the 8th amendment, I personally don't see it as doing women any favours, I see it as allowing and encouraging the most impoverished women to remain poor, because with each generation there is the chance that their expectations increase when their parents are more involved, and this allows for opportunities for greater social mobility for their children, effectively lifting themselves out of poverty through better access to education and staying in education, just for starters, gaining secure employment and having more opportunities for employment, and better conditions of employment, in order that they may meet the higher expectations again of the next generation, and hopefully give back to those living in poverty in that generation, effectively breaking the cycle of poverty on a smaller scale, but effecting a larger scale shift in society as a whole.

    That's why I would argue that broadening our laws with regard to abortion as a solution to any social issue just isn't the answer. At best it's only an immediate band-aid on a gaping wound, which never comes anywhere near addressing the underlying causes it's proponents claim it addresses (abortion only addresses the symptoms, it has never, and could never, address the cause).

    Heh, speaking of band-aids, I was reminded recently of one of the effects of social mobility is that it gives.people the power to speak for themselves (round these parts those people would more affectionately be referred to as 'the facebook huns', for being ill-educated, etc) -


    Is Band Aid's Do They Know It's Christmas? a problematic song?


    There are some classic quotes in there which belie the propaganda perpetuated in the song by people who would want us to feel guilty for being as fortunate as we are, but when it was pointed out to him that his lyrics were a misleading representation of life in Africa, Bob Geldof, who had received numerous accolades for his efforts, had this to say on the matter -


    Geldof previously replied to critics of the lyrics, telling them to f**k off. He told the Telegraph in 2014: "Please. It's a pop song. Relax."


    Not quite the altruist he makes himself out to be then, rather like the upwardly mobile types who post selfies on their social media wearing the latest trendy repeal apparel and imagining what rebels they are for calling Leo a tosser -


    Minister defends Varadkar after US band call him 'tosser' for not posing in front of repeal flag


    I can think of many reasons to claim Leo is a tosser of the highest order (not least for his social welfare snitching scheme campaign), but on that occasion at least, it wasn't Leo who behaved like a complete tosser. It was the chap who let his ideology cloud his judgement.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,641 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    All of that ignores the single main issue that Pilly and I were pointing out here, which is that women have been threatened with arrest for not "consenting" to medical procedures. And these are not just women who wanted abortions, by the way : because of the 8th amendment, women have had various medical procedures done without their consent and even when the procedure went wrong and caused her and her baby significant harm, a woman who sued had costs awarded against her (Ciara Hamilton).

    You refuse to acknowledge that what really matters there is that you could choose to have a procedure, or refuse to have one. That's why your point about risking your life is completely different to the situation a pregnant woman finds herself in. If I choose to risk my life, that's one thing. But the law doesn't allow me to make that decision, unlike you. Especially when my health is not important enough to be worth considering at all.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,161 ✭✭✭frag420


    Da Boss wrote: »
    One observation I’ve made reading all the pro choice posts is that despite all the reasons we, the pro life side, have given as to why The eighth amendment should be retained. They have yet to acknowledge a single genuine argument.for the retention of the eight amendment. They have yet to make any reference to the unborn child. I find the arrogance from the pro choice side baffling, as it appears to them their superior to us and were just uneducated fools.



    Considering the grammar and spelling mistakes in your posts you can forgive us for thinking so, however this is not school despite the childish factless arguments from your side!

    Also, you have been provided with medical and scientific facts, you choose not to believe them and in several instances ignore them in favour of opinions and feelings so again forgive us for thinking so.

    What I find hypocritical is that you and your ilk will ignore science and medical facts when it’s suits your agenda but when you’re gravely ill you would be happy to take the word of a medical practitioner if it meant making YOU feel better or saving YOUR life!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,161 ✭✭✭frag420


    I think the unborn child deserves consideration, it was brought into the world without it's consent, the least you can do is give it the consideration it deserves. In my opinion, abortion up until around 12 weeks should be legal.

    And in the case of failed contraception, rape etc the pregnancy came about without consent too!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,524 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    volchitsa wrote: »
    All of that ignores the single main issue that Pilly and I were pointing out here, which is that women have been threatened with arrest for not "consenting" to medical procedures. And these are not just women who wanted abortions, by the way : because of the 8th amendment, women have had various medical procedures done without their consent and even when the procedure went wrong and caused her and her baby significant harm, a woman who sued had costs awarded against her (Ciara Hamilton).

    You refuse to acknowledge that what really matters there is that you could choose to have a procedure, or refuse to have one. That's why your point about risking your life is completely different to the situation a pregnant woman finds herself in. If I choose to risk my life, that's one thing. But the law doesn't allow me to make that decision, unlike you. Especially when my health is not important enough to be worth considering at all.


    I'm not ignoring your point volchista, I'm saying that the only way the two different circumstances could be relatable is if the decisions I made for myself also affected the another human life which was immediately dependent upon my continued survival.

    I would suggest that under those conditions, I would not have the ability to withdraw consent to a procedure which would have an immediate effect on another human life which was immediately dependent upon my survival, in Ireland at least.

    You could of course make the same decision I did in the same circumstances I did, if you weren't pregnant, and that's the important distinction.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,641 ✭✭✭volchitsa


    not ignoring your point volchista, I'm saying that the only way the two different circumstances could be relatable is if the decisions I made for myself also affected the another human life which was immediately dependent upon my continued survival.

    I would suggest that under those conditions, I would not have the ability to withdraw consent to a procedure which would have an immediate effect on another human life which was immediately dependent upon my survival, in Ireland at least.

    You could of course make the same decision I did in the same circumstances I did, if you weren't pregnant, and that's the important distinction.
    If we actually followed through on this principle, you'd have a point, but there are so many instances in which this other human life gets little or no consideration (destruction of IVF embryos being one obvious example) that its application in order to justify reducing the pregnant woman's rights is more the exception than the rule.

    Which suggests that the motivation is more about making some aspirational statement than about genuinely exercising rights for the unborn.

    ”I enjoy cigars, whisky and facing down totalitarians, so am I really Winston Churchill?” (JK Rowling)



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 790 ✭✭✭baylah17


    The Eight Amendment to the Constitution was the single biggest catastrophe to beset this state since its foundation.
    What is notable about the anti-choice anti woman headbangers who now oppose its repeal is that they have the arrogance to repeatedly say it should not be put to the people of this republic to decide on its retention/removal, they oppose the very concept of a referendum at all.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭NuMarvel


    It's a trick question.

    I gave a flippant answer.

    In a discussion about the 8th, a question about the effectiveness of the 8th is far and away the most relevant question. And it's obviously a question no supporter of the 8th has given much thought to if the best answer they can give is a flippant one.
    The answer is that it protects the life of the unborn in Ireland. That is a positive for me.

    Another flippant answer I'm guessing, because the question asks for evidence. Not opinions, not personal beliefs; evidence.
    Da Boss wrote: »
    One observation I’ve made reading all the pro choice posts is that despite all the reasons we, the pro life side, have given as to why The eighth amendment should be retained. They have yet to acknowledge a single genuine argument. for the retention of the eight amendment. They have yet to make any reference to the unborn child. I find the arrogance from the pro choice side baffling, as it appears to them their superior to us and were just uneducated fools.

    The anti-repeal side (not enough evidence yet to say for sure if you're pro life) can't even prove the 8th works, never mind put forward any kind of coherent argument as to why it should be retained.

    Which is probably why we get grandiose statements like this from the "pro life" camp, instead of proper discussion and analysis.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,524 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    volchitsa wrote: »
    If we actually followed through on this principle, you'd have a point, but there are so many instances in which this other human life gets little or no consideration (destruction of IVF embryos being one obvious example) that its application in order to justify reducing the pregnant woman's rights is more the exception than the rule.


    Wasn't it determined though in that case that the frozen embryos did not meet the conditions for the protection of life of the unborn on the basis that the term only applies to embryos which have implanted in the womb?

    I don't think there's any attempt to reduce a woman's human rights on the basis that she is pregnant, but rather it's an attempt to weigh up the right to life of both the unborn and the pregnant woman in question and find a balance between the two competing rights. That's why pregnancy is referred to as a unique situation in the context of human rights, with regard to the right to life. Interesting article on it here -


    Article 2: Right to Life

    Which suggests that the motivation is more about making some aspirational statement than about genuinely exercising rights for the unborn.


    Well yes, all human rights are completely aspirational, but they can also be about genuinely exercising rights for both those who are born, and those who are unborn, and with Ireland granted a broad margin of appreciation with regard to our laws on abortion, I can still see legislating for it even if the 8th amendment were repealed, could potentially take up to another 20 years given the way TD's have generally tended to vote on any members bills relating to abortion, and used every stalling tactic in the book (including the Citizens Assembly when we already had the Law Reform Commission) to avoid having to legislate for broadening our abortion laws in this country.

    That's why I personally would recommend to any woman seeking an abortion that they travel abroad, because even what she may assume will be the outcome once she is granted a termination of her pregnancy, may not be the outcome she expected.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,114 ✭✭✭222233


    Da Boss wrote: »
    One observation I’ve made reading all the pro choice posts is that despite all the reasons we, the pro life side, have given as to why The eighth amendment should be retained. They have yet to acknowledge a single genuine argument.for the retention of the eight amendment. They have yet to make any reference to the unborn child. I find the arrogance from the pro choice side baffling, as it appears to them their superior to us and were just uneducated fools.

    Different pro-choice siders have different opinions. From my perspective repealing the eight falls into acknowledging women's rights and providing a basic medical procedure available to women in many forward facing countries. However if I were to look at it from the side of the unborn I would say, that in some cases (e.g fatal foetal abnormalities etc.) repealing the eight amendment works to protect the unborn, from unnecessary potential suffering.

    I don't believe the pro-choice side are uneducated, like the pro-life side there are varying degrees of views on each part. I do however think that some within the pro-life can be quite insensitive with respect to how they speak of abortion, it seems that people forget that there are thousands of women in this country who have had abortions (Legally, without breaking any laws) as is their right to do so. I also think that some views are very one sided, they look at abortion solely from the perspective of the unborn and omit that the mother / father have any rights. Alas, the stories of women who regret having abortions are very sad, but they should not be used as a weapon to deter other women from considering the option or preventing women from having abortions. Similarly, stories of people who's mothers decided not to have an abortion, I don't get where the argument in this is, every child who has been born was born because someone didn't have an abortion. As for religion, that argument is mute as far as I'm concerned.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,837 ✭✭✭Edward M


    222233 wrote: »
    Different pro-choice siders have different opinions. From my perspective repealing the eight falls into acknowledging women's rights and providing a basic medical procedure available to women in many forward facing countries. However if I were to look at it from the side of the unborn I would say, that in some cases (e.g fatal foetal abnormalities etc.) repealing the eight amendment works to protect the unborn, from unnecessary potential suffering.

    I don't believe the pro-choice side are uneducated, like the pro-life side there are varying degrees of views on each part. I do however think that some within the pro-life can be quite insensitive with respect to how they speak of abortion, it seems that people forget that there are thousands of women in this country who have had abortions (Legally, without breaking any laws) as is their right to do so. I also think that some views are very one sided, they look at abortion solely from the perspective of the unborn and omit that the mother / father have any rights. Alas, the stories of women who regret having abortions are very sad, but they should not be used as a weapon to deter other women from considering the option or preventing women from having abortions. Similarly, stories of people who's mothers decided not to have an abortion, I don't get where the argument in this is, every child who has been born was born because someone didn't have an abortion. As for religion, that argument is mute as far as I'm concerned.

    That's a great post. Close to my own perspective on it.
    Perhaps the realisation needs to dawn on the likes of me that the choice is there already and that voting against change here is really only putting unnecessary hardship on those that will avail of it anyway elsewhere.
    Having had my opinions formed in earlier life based on religious teaching is perhaps part of my reluctance to vote for abortion up to any point, but having to consider should my point of view enforced on others who believe differently.
    So many human stories on both sides, but ultimately, if repeal is not voted for then we are just exporting our problems and risking even willing to give birth mothers lives.
    Being pregnant here now is a serious risk for any woman while in her pregnancy, that shouldn't be the case.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,363 ✭✭✭nozzferrahhtoo


    So, tell us, PROUDLY, why stilling the hearbeats of babies as they develop in the womb is still the right way to go about things, even when the mother's health and developing baby's health are not in any danger.

    It is giving women the OPTION to do so that is the "right way to go about things" that we can be proud of. I see no reason to feel positively or negatively about the action itself. But I feel positively about fighting for the OPTION to do it.

    And why am I proud of that? Because I would be proud of a species that recognizes the value of sentient agents. I would be proud of a moral system that has at it's heart the well being of sentient agents. And I would be proud of a system that values such agents over non-sentient ones and would not curtail the rights, choices and well being of the sentient to benefit some empty intellectually bankrupt narrative about the non-sentient.

    All of that would, and often does, make me very proud indeed.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    Da Boss wrote: »
    I would do all I could within reason. Obviously I couldn’t be forceful about it

    This is wrong. We had a referendum on this subject back when the 8th made travel for abortion illegal, and 37.6% of the electorate were in favour of keeping it illegal.

    If those 37.6% of the electorate had gotten their way, you would have the full force of the State behind the right to life of the unborn.

    But as with all their other defeats, the forces of 1950s Catholicism never try to reverse progress. Just like with divorce or SSM, I have never met one of these 37.6% since that referendum, and pro-lifers all pretend they think that it would be mad to roll it back.

    And the same will happen when the 8th is finally gone. No-one will miss it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,223 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Ireland is one of only three countries in Europe which acknowledges the legal right to life of the unborn, and introduced the 8th amendment to vindicate and protect that right as far as was practical, which means that in cases where it simply isn't practical to view the right to life of the unborn and the right to life of the woman as equal, the woman's right to life takes precedence over the right to life of the unborn, as one would logically expect, in theory at least.

    Indeed and so we get doctors tying themselves in knots trying to work out the legal practicality of whether to abort in order to save the womans life. So effectively what happens in a number of cases is that the 8th puts womens lives in danger. Why should women have to wait til it is 50% likely they will die in order to have an abortion which could save their lives?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    Da Boss wrote: »
    One observation I’ve made reading all the pro choice posts is that despite all the reasons we, the pro life side, have given as to why The eighth amendment should be retained. They have yet to acknowledge a single genuine argument.for the retention of the eight amendment. They have yet to make any reference to the unborn child. I find the arrogance from the pro choice side baffling, as it appears to them their superior to us and were just uneducated fools.

    Many, many intelligent points have been made to you, and you have ignored them.

    I'm still waiting on what you recommend the consequences be for the man who gets the woman pregnant. In your opinion, the woman needs to suffer the repercussions if contraception fails.
    So what should happen to the man, what kind of life limiting state should we force on him for 9 months where he cannot drink, smoke or fly, and must eat a restricted diet? He won't be able to work towards the end, either.
    The end of the 9 months must also be very painful, possibly involving surgery. And then after that we need to give him something he needs to be responsible for, for another 18 years minimum, that will eat into a lot of his personal time and income and will need his constant attention and care.

    What are your recommendations for the consequences for him? Because all you seem to be banging on about is how the woman should suffer. She can't get pregnant on her own.


  • Posts: 18,749 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I posted this story before on a different thread I think, but I will post again,just in case people don't understand how the 8th amendment can affect women's health.

    A few years ago I had an ectopic pregnancy. I was approx 7 weeks pregnant, so most definitely a very small bunch of cells.
    In the hospital I was not informed that there were any options available in my treatment. I had to undergo emergency surgery, where they removed the embryo.
    Afterwards I spoke with a midwife, who informed me that ectopic pregnancy can be dealt with by way of a pill.
    This was not an option for me however because the 8th amendment made it illegal for them to 'kill' the embryo. They had to operate & the loss Of The embryo was as a consequence of operating.

    So, basically instead of giving me a pill, with little side affects I had to go under anaesthetic and undergo an operation which was entirely unnecessary.

    if it happened in any other country we here would believe them to be backward.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,029 ✭✭✭SusieBlue


    bubblypop wrote: »
    I posted this story before on a different thread I think, but I will post again,just in case people don't understand how the 8th amendment can affect women's health.

    A few years ago I had an ectopic pregnancy. I was approx 7 weeks pregnant, so most definitely a very small bunch of cells.
    In the hospital I was not informed that there were any options available in my treatment. I had to undergo emergency surgery, where they removed the embryo.
    Afterwards I spoke with a midwife, who informed me that ectopic pregnancy can be dealt with by way of a pill.
    This was not an option for me however because the 8th amendment made it illegal for them to 'kill' the embryo. They had to operate & the loss Of The embryo was as a consequence of operating.

    So, basically instead of giving me a pill, with little side affects I had to go under anaesthetic and undergo an operation which was entirely unnecessary.

    if it happened in any other country we here would believe them to be backward.

    That is absolutely awful. I can't believe you were put through that when there was a far less invasive option available.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    volchitsa wrote: »
    Funny none of these women ever seem to feel strongly enough about this to come out and say so themselves isn't it?

    There's one of them on a poster I've seen up in a few places. "The time it took to book travel to England was all the time it took to change my mind". Wealthy looking white woman with a happy, healthy baby.

    And posters wouldn't lie, right?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,524 ✭✭✭✭One eyed Jack


    Indeed and so we get doctors tying themselves in knots trying to work out the legal practicality of whether to abort in order to save the womans life. So effectively what happens in a number of cases is that the 8th puts womens lives in danger.


    Joey if you wanted to view the issue in those terms, then women should be discouraged from ever getting pregnant in the first place as they are immediately putting their lives in danger. In fact, women should just wrap themselves in linen and never leave their abode as they are immediately putting themselves in danger.

    I would fully expect any woman would tell me to naff off if I suggested such measures in an attempt to claim they could be putting themselves in danger otherwise.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,803 ✭✭✭✭Loafing Oaf


    And the same will happen when the 8th is finally gone. No-one will miss it.

    I'm dying to see how the pro-lifers on here and politics.ie react the following day if the referendum is passed (if their heads haven't exploded). I don't see how they can pretend that 'the fight goes on' in any meaningful sense. With contraception, divorce, etc. you would say they let that one go and move on to the next battle, but I don't see that there is a 'next battle' of any consequence. So what, stop worrying and learn to love secular liberalism?


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,223 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Joey if you wanted to view the issue in those terms, then women should be discouraged from ever getting pregnant in the first place as they are immediately putting their lives in danger. In fact, women should just wrap themselves in linen and never leave their abode as they are immediately putting themselves in danger.

    I would fully expect any woman would tell me to naff off if I suggested such measures in an attempt to claim they could be putting themselves in danger otherwise.

    It's not about how I view it. It is the reality that because doctors have to wait until a womans life is more than 50% in danger until they can give her a life saving abortion. It is reality. The 8th puts womens lives in danger.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



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