volchitsa wrote: » But you had that choice. You weren't informed that this is being done despite the fact that a lower risk procedure exists. It's really strange that you appear to think that an anecdote in which you made a choice like that can help justify the removal of the same choice from someone else.
pilly wrote: » That's very interesting Jack, you feel you've the right to make those kind of decisions but you don't feel a woman should be afforded the same rights. Bit of a contradiction No?
Bannasidhe wrote: » But it doesn't. What has actually happened is medical staff are so unclear about the law they wait until the balance of probability means the women is over 50% likely to die - would you like those odds if it was your life on the line?
One eyed Jack wrote: I'm really the wrong person to ask that question as I've taken my chances with worse odds regarding my medical treatment and what I was and wasn't prepared to live with. You wouldn't believe the amount of bureaucracy and being bounced around between consultants and hospitals because nobody wanted to risk an almost certain death on their conscience for what to them should normally be a standard procedure that as one consultant put it "if you need blood, I'm giving you blood". I simply told them "no, you won't!", and made it perfectly clear that that was something I wasn't prepared to live with, and would rather die than live with it. I didn't expect them to understand, and many of them didn't, and 'medicalsplained' ( ) to me the likely outcome of my decision as though I had never given it any thought before.
One eyed Jack wrote: » But it doesn't. What has actually happened is medical staff are so unclear about the law they wait until the balance of probability means the women is over 50% likely to die - would you like those odds if it was your life on the line? I'm really the wrong person to ask that question as I've taken my chances with worse odds regarding my medical treatment and what I was and wasn't prepared to live with. ... that as one consultant put it "if you need blood, I'm giving you blood". I simply told them "no, you won't!", and made it perfectly clear that that was something I wasn't prepared to live with, and would rather die than live with it. I didn't expect them to understand, and many of them didn't, and 'medicalsplained' (:pac:) to me the likely outcome of my decision as though I had never given it any thought before. I took the risk, knowing the consequences, and I got lucky. I don't think the medical professionals were wrong, and I don't think I was right, and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone else as it was entirely a decision based upon illogical, irrational, emotive nonsense as you put it. I can understand that medical professionals would be more interested in covering their own arse from a legal perspective, but that's a risk that they take, and it's a risk they would still take regardless of the existence of the 8th amendment because we live in an increasingly litigious society, where medical professionals are increasingly being held accountable for their actions, and I don't know about you, but I for one see that as a good thing... not the fact that we live in an increasingly litigious society, but the fact that more and more medical professionals are held accountable for their actions.
But it doesn't. What has actually happened is medical staff are so unclear about the law they wait until the balance of probability means the women is over 50% likely to die - would you like those odds if it was your life on the line?
end of the road wrote: » again this is another false allegation. nobody is being punished, this isn't about punishing. it's about helping people to really think about their options rather then seeing abortion as the solution, and upholding the unborn's right to live. so another failed allegation from your good self. try again
end of the road wrote: » which in turn makes the killing of the unborn bar extreme circumstances more difficult and expensive, in turn deterring some from making the trip, meaning some lives are saved. so in terms of abortion on demand it does work to an extent.
mrkiscool2 wrote: » You have respect for them up until the point they become pregnant with an unwanted child. Then all respect goes out the window
mrkiscool2 wrote: » either a. they should be burdened with a child they don't want and, even if they are giving the child up for adoption, be burdened with carrying it for 9 months and go through the emotional and traumatic experience of childbirth or b. be punished financially, mentally and emotionally by being made to travel to have an abortion. You literally said it should be expensive and difficult for them to do so. That isn't respectful at all.
end of the road wrote: » what a horrible thing to say. shame on you. by all means disagree with my view but there is no need to be making up horrible allegations about me. i do not under any circumstances hate women. i have the upmost respect for them. i just disagree with abortion on demand and i believe that by making the procurement of abortion difficult that some women will consider not having an abortion. that is all. if it wasn't for abortion on demand i would gladly vote repeal as i want the other issues it causes gone. but because of the high likely hood of abortion on demand i will be unable to vote yes and i'm unhappy about that. i cannot vote for something that will lead to something i fundamentally disagree with.
Bannasidhe wrote: » No. The State is saying after birth is when it acknowledges the child as a separate person exists. It is immaterial where the child was born or at what state of gestation. From the moment of birth it exists as a legal entity and becomes entitled to benefits. All of this brandishing about terms like child in the womb is emotive nonsense - particularly when it is a embryonic clump of cells.
Yeah, thanks for mansplaining what unborn means - I was getting it confused with undead. Now, let me return the favour by womansplaining that a woman is an adult female not a female of any age. The framers of this ridiculous piece of bunkum failed to acknowledge that there are non-adult females in this country who through no fault of their own become pregnant. There are 10 year old girls capable of becoming pregnant - they are not 'women' - they are children. Children this hideous clause would force to become mothers.
Da Boss wrote: » This is all personal to me as I was informed I would have me aborted should the law have allowed. Therefore the eight amendment saved my life, the life I currently enjoy that only for the eighth I wouldn’t never have seen. Surely you see where I’m coming from and why the eighth is so important to me
mrkiscool2 wrote: » WOW. Wow. Your hatred of women really coming out now EOTR. So, forcing women to have babies is good because reasons and there should be a massive financial expense and difficulty for women who travel for one, because fcuk those women.
Bannasidhe wrote: » What about the lives of women and girls it has cost? Dodgy on-line pills. Botched DIY abortions. Suicide. Do they not count? Or are they just collateral damage?
Bannasidhe wrote: » It's not saving lives - it's punishing the poor. You seem to feel it's acceptable that those who can afford it can travel for terminations but the less well off must suffer the consequences.
Bannasidhe wrote: » I notice you are still talking about 'extreme' circumstances while failing to ask exactly how to define them.
Bannasidhe wrote: » Do you want to know how I define it? - being pregnant when you really really don't want to be. That's pretty ucking extreme mentally, physically, and emotionally.
One eyed Jack wrote: » Because one of the conditions for qualifying for child benefit is that the child is actually born -You need to apply for Child Benefit within 12 months of: The birth of your baby or The month the child became a member of your family or The month the family came to live in Ireland. The State is simply saying those are the criteria under which you can apply for child benefit.
The whole "alive" criteria is a red herring, because it isn't a consideration in Irish law where the term "the unborn", is defined as -“unborn”, in relation to a human life, is a reference to such a life during the period of time commencing after implantation in the womb of a woman and ending on the complete emergence of the life from the body of the woman; “woman” means a female person of any age.
which means that in cases where it simply isn't practical to view the right to life of the unborn and the right to life of the woman as equal, the woman's right to life takes precedence over the right to life of the unborn, as one would logically expect, in theory at least.
Bannasidhe wrote: » Write to your TD and ask why child benefit isn't paid for a fetus. Is the State saying they aren't human or is the State saying they are not a child? Why when a child is eventually born isn't child benefit backed dated to the time of conception?
Is something that cannot possibly survive without a 'host' truly alive or does it merely exist with the potential to eventually be alive?
captbarnacles wrote: » To add to the above: why does he State not think aborting a fetus is murder?
Bannasidhe wrote: » It doesn't you know. It simply exports the problem.
applehunter wrote: » I won't be doing that. I will let my 2 local TDs know what I thought of their votes at the Oireachtas hearings though.The State acknowledges the right to life of the unborn and, with due regard to the equal right to life of the mother, guarantees in its laws to respect, and, as far as practicable, by its laws to defend and vindicate that right. Government like paperwork. Birth Certs. can be photocopied. This logic defies our humanity.
Bannasidhe wrote: » But if people didn't engage in certain lifestyle choices these procedures would not be necessary. Do smokers not choose to risk lung cancer by indulging in an activity they know is dangerous? Why should the State provide resources to treat a self-inflicted condition?
Bannasidhe wrote: » Who gets to decide what is an extreme circumstance? How is that defined in law?
Bannasidhe wrote: » Are only physical medical circumstances allowed? Does the health of the woman factor? Are possible medical consequences allowed or must it be definite? What if the impact on the woman's health isn't dangerous at 9 weeks but as gestation continues the effects would grow more life threatening and by 22 weeks could be fatal? Would she have to wait and see?
Bannasidhe wrote: » Is mental health taken into consideration? History of severe postpartum depression leading to suicide attempts - should a form of Russian roulette be played with the woman's life?
Bannasidhe wrote: » Is homelessness an extreme circumstance? Rape? Poverty?
Bannasidhe wrote: » Do you really think women just go 'hoo hum... up the duff... ooopsie... better book an abortion before the weekend so I can paaaarty'.
Bannasidhe wrote: » The vast vast majority of Women do consider the other options and then make an informed adult decision.
Bannasidhe wrote: » But the State disagrees and pays so some men who cannot get an erection 'naturally' are helped...
Bannasidhe wrote: » Write to your TD and ask why child benefit isn't paid for a fetus.
Bannasidhe wrote: » Is the State saying they aren't human or is the State saying they are not a child?
Bannasidhe wrote: » Why when a child is eventually born isn't child benefit backed dated to the time of conception?
Bannasidhe wrote: » Is something that cannot possibly survive without a 'host' truly alive or does it merely exist with the potential to eventually be alive?
applehunter wrote: » It's a trick question. I gave a flippant answer. The answer is that it protects the life of the unborn in Ireland. That is a positive for me.
applehunter wrote: » What is the difference between referring to the life as "not a child" and "potential life"? It's dehumanising language.
NuMarvel wrote: » It's a very good question, you just gave a really poor answer. Which is probably why you're saying it's a stupid question.
January wrote: » Not at all. I was fully aware I was aborting a potential life as I'm sure others who have abortions are well aware too. My need to prioritise the 4 children I already had and myself was greater than my need to bring another child into this world.
end of the road wrote: » no as the medical procedures they would require would be necessary. outside extreme circumstances i believe the killing of the unborn to be unnecessary so it shouldn't be provided in the state.
i believe so yes . the state shoudld not provide abortion bar extreme circumstances, however after care maybe necessary and if not provided could potentially be serious, so yes the state should provide it. essentially i want to make it difficult for people to procure abortions and make them think about other options.
it's not IMO.
because that is a life saving procedure. just like abortion in extreme circumstances would be.
it doesn't have to be though.
yes i believe it should be in the constitution. yes i believe people should be prosecuted for a crime should they starve someone to death. there should be a procedure in place where if someone is brain dead that they are able to be given an injection that would end their suffering quickly
applehunter wrote: » I agree its a stupid question.
NuMarvel wrote: » A claim by an anonymous poster on an internet forum about what a third party supposedly told him can not be taken as evidence that the 8th works. Or of anything else for that matter.
The_Valeyard wrote: » Same could be said about any poster or moderator in this thread.