Affair / Sexual chemistry

JiminyRickets wrote: »

I don't know where your fascination with Asian equestrianism comes from, but youre a sick freak and need help.

I just so happen to be running a post-traumatic-horse-separation conference under a bridge in Limerick this weekend. 50 quid per word, but for someone in your downward spiral, lets call it 60 quid per word.

Your such a clever fella aren't ye - Aren't ye - Look a ye there. Special chap!

Asian Equestrian?? I that the last porn ye fawned over?? (fawn - geddit)

JiminyRickets wrote: »

Clever enough to charge horse fetishists for words of wisdom under bridges. Nobody can rabbit my conferences, they can squawk all they like until the cows come home, but they'll be barking up the wrong tree. You'll be feeling the dogs bollocks in no time, no money back guarantee.

So your into asian equestrian porn and feeling dogs bolloxes.

Is the OP human??

up for anything wrote: »

I find it sad, OP, that you are never going to experience fabulous, wonderful, lustful, great, amazing, earth-shaking, beautiful, life enhancing sex but sure a happy enough marriage may be worth it. If you're going to try and keep finding your marriage enough for you so you don't act on your newly freed sexual appetite then make sure you don't let the genii into your box or find a way to turn your husband into someone that you fancy the pants off.

He sounds a bit of a damp squib sexually. Maybe you could shake him up a little. If he's the type to agree to you sleeping with someone else then sex with him is never going to be exciting or fulfilling because he's just not bothered. If I knew my partner (if I had one at the moment) was feeling like this I'd be making a serious effort to pull out at least a few stops if not all of them. There's a long life ahead you and there will be regrets whichever path you take... just be sure that they're the regrets you won't regret regretting.

Would you be interested in meeting me under a bridge in Sligo on Sunday night?

Had to register to comment on this, I've read the thread & found it genuinely interesting.

@ the op think long & hard (pun not intended) about what you're considering doing.
I am the opposite side of your scenario, in the sense that I've been married for a similar
length of time to the girl I lost my virginity to, but not her to me, we also have children.

I've often regretted the lack of previous experience, wondered what it'd be like with someone
else, envied the fact that she knows absolutely everything I've ever done sexually, I've no
secrets, romantically speaking that should be perfect, but you know what, it's not really.

She has offered what the OP suggests, a kind of go settle your curiosity sort of thing,
She insists its a one way thing, that it's just to get it out of my system.

Reality is I don't think it'd fix anything, I'd gave guilt ridden sex, it'd break her heart, nobody
wins, she would never really trust me again, I'd constantly have to wonder who she's riding
as if it were ok for me it would have to be for her even if she said she wasn't interested, push
came to shove, if she played away after I opened the door I could hardly complain could I?

OP, I wish you luck in whatever you decide, but please consider carefully.

Ever wonder if a thread you were reading was just the same poster in the basement typing away with elaborate scenarios and a crazed supporting cast who inject intrigue and ramblings along the way..because their dreams of being an author never quite materialized...

JiminyRickets wrote: »

Would you be interested in meeting me under a bridge in Sligo on Sunday night?

Do you have a monopoly of under all the bridges in Ireland?

I don't need to meet you under a bridge in Sligo for thrills. I have a vibrator that is probably better looking, better sounding and better everything than you. :D

AwareWolf wrote: »

Thank you.

No problem, it's not something I'd openly discuss with friends, so as I say it's interesting to
read the opposite side of what appears to be a very similar scenario, although you appear to
be much further along the ways of doing something about it.

If it's not too personal, how did you approach the subject with your husband?

Was it along the lines that you wanted to settle your curiosity ?

Shemale wrote: »

Why not ask you husband about a threesome with the other person

With a threesome, your husband can see how the two of you are sexually and if there are sparks he might just realise he has to up his game.

From your side you get to pleasure both of them at the same time, no guilt and you wont be able to say for sure if the feelings you had from it were the other guy or the fact he had two men lusting after you at the same time.

This is funny, sorry for hijacking your thread OP.

Discussed that scenario with my wife recently, her reservation was a jealousy related one.
That she feared she might be jealous of seeing me with another girl, she might constantly
wonder afterwards if I got more enjoyment from the other girl than from her.

Joeseph Balls wrote: »

More likely though, this is a poor attempt at trolling.

Surprised it took so long for someone to say it. Obvious is obvious sometimes.

professore wrote: »

Amazed at all these sisters that want sex with their sisters husbands

Why because it's inconceivable that two people with nearly identical genetics could be attracted to the same person in the same way a person could fancy sisters / brothers?

A friend of mine has an uncle(dads brother) and an aunt(mothers sister) who are married