Affair / Sexual chemistry

givyjoe · 22-12-2017 09:42AM

AwareWolf wrote: »

Yeah decision made either forget it or go to a counsellor. For those of you who helped thanks. For those who only had a go..... Think before you post (In afterhours). Not funny.

#Irony

BattleCorp · 22-12-2017 09:44AM

If my missus cheated on me or I even thought she cheated on me, either I'd be out the door or she would.

Aint no forgiveness in my house.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 09:44AM

AwareWolf wrote: »

I already mentioned the possibility of it. And said I wouldn't go there if it meant the end of marriage and he said it wouldn't. He's amazing really. Will love him til the day I die. Fact. As I say that's not the issue......

Go for it. Its a one off thing and your hubby is obviously fine with it.

22-12-2017 09:48AM

7 pages of people who missed the "join date, December 2017".

Fair play folks.

biko · 22-12-2017 09:49AM

me_irl wrote: »

Have a ****, frig.

AwareWolf wrote: »

Did you presume I'm a man? Sorry should have said....I'm a mum.

Do whatever the equivalent is to a ****, but for mums.

PeterParker957 · 22-12-2017 09:49AM

Deleted User wrote: »

7 pages of people who missed the "join date, December 2017".

Fair play folks.

Not everyone missed it. I called it out as fake. So did others.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 09:49AM

fergus1001 wrote: »

This is a wind up, or

1 you have 0 respect for your husband

2 you have 0 respect for your children

You are an adult with children you are responsible for their upbringing, by going off and getting the leg over you automatically **** all over your duties as a parent

I firmly believe you are a wind up merchant or you definitely need some professional help and I feel sorry for your husband

Absolute nonsense. This has zero to do with her children.

demanufactured · 22-12-2017 09:51AM

AwareWolf wrote: »

Totally want to stay in marriage. Am going no where as such. Don't want relationship just want to experience some thing that I know is going to be very good..... For the first time ever! It will b amazing sex. So you think it's possible to forget it afterwards. .?

No.

Go home and ride the cock off your husband.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 09:52AM

Easy to see that repressed Ireland lives on some of the replies in this thread.

BattleCorp · 22-12-2017 09:56AM

biko wrote: »

Do whatever the equivalent is to a ****, but for mums.

Fcuk sake. Don't you know mums don't ****.

Only dirty dirty dirty dirty men do that.

BattleCorp · 22-12-2017 09:57AM

weldoninhio wrote: »

Easy to see that repressed Ireland lives on some of the replies in this thread.

And by repressed you mean 'people who don't cheat on their partners'?

22-12-2017 10:00AM

PeterParker957 wrote: »

Not everyone missed it. I called it out as fake. So did others.

Fair play.

I see others still rushing in, giddy with the excitement of it all.

Folks, fake account, fake story, fake fake fake. But by all means, reveal a piece of yourself.

Mr.Crinklewood · 22-12-2017 10:02AM

Ask your husband if he'll wear a mask with the guys face on lt and talk in his accent whilst you have sex.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 10:13AM

BattleCorp wrote: »

And by repressed you mean 'people who don't cheat on their partners'?

Cheating means acting dishonestly. She has been up front with her partner and has not been dishonest or lied. Try again.

Beta Ray Bill · 22-12-2017 10:24AM

AwareWolf wrote: »

New to this so hope I'm posting in right place. Never had an affair. Very happily married. Clicked with someone recently. And the chemistry was unreal! Didn't have sex nearly did. Married 15 years. Have never experienced this sexual chemistry. Now can't get it out of my head and want him NOW! But afraid of how I'll feel afterwards, and can I really forget it if I get it out of my system?

Trust me, if you do this, you will want more.

Things will get out of hand and you'll be caught, your relationship with your Husband will be over and you'll have ****ed up your kids life.

How do I know?
Because I'm the ****er that caught his misses having an affair.

It's not worth it, trust me.

professore · 22-12-2017 10:25AM

weldoninhio wrote: »

fergus1001 wrote: »

This is a wind up, or

1 you have 0 respect for your husband

2 you have 0 respect for your children

You are an adult with children you are responsible for their upbringing, by going off and getting the leg over you automatically **** all over your duties as a parent

I firmly believe you are a wind up merchant or you definitely need some professional help and I feel sorry for your husband

Absolute nonsense. This has zero to do with her children.

Except they will hate her forever for betraying their daddy if they find out. Other than that, nothing.

professore · 22-12-2017 10:27AM

weldoninhio wrote: »

BattleCorp wrote: »

And by repressed you mean 'people who don't cheat on their partners'?

Cheating means acting dishonestly. She has been up front with her partner and has not been dishonest or lied. Try again.

She's lying by omission. Living in fantasy land. If her husband truly doesn't care he's ether gay or has a bit on the side himself.

22-12-2017 10:28AM

Rising like the proverbial salmon.

Beta Ray Bill · 22-12-2017 10:30AM

weldoninhio wrote: »

Absolute nonsense. This has zero to do with her children.

Course it does.

I'm going through this **** right now, my stupid Ex decided to have an affair with someone else.

Now I only get to see my kid (He's 2) twice a week.
She's f*cked up his life and my life.

My son is gonna grow up the way I did only seeing my Dad twice a week, I can tell you now that NOTHING affected me more in my childhood than not having my mam and dad live together.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 10:31AM

professore wrote: »

She's lying by omission. Living in fantasy land. If her husband truly doesn't care he's ether gay or has a bit on the side himself.

There are hundreds, if not thousands, of Irish couples who have open or cuckold relationships in Ireland. For some men it's a turn on to have their wife/gf be with another man, then describe it to them. Time to come out from under the vestment.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 10:32AM

grahambo wrote: »

Course it does.

I'm going through this **** right now, my stupid Ex decided to have an affair with someone else.

Now I only get to see my kid (He's 2) twice a week.
She's f*cked up his life and my life.

My son is gonna grow up the way I did only seeing my Dad twice a week, I can tell you now that NOTHING affected me more in my childhood than not having my mam and dad live together.

Perhaps read the OP again.

givyjoe · 22-12-2017 10:32AM

weldoninhio wrote: »

There are hundreds, if not thousands, of Irish couples who have open or cuckold relationships in Ireland. For some men it's a turn on to have their wife/gf be with another man, then describe it to them. Time to come out from under the vestment.

Any chance of a go on your missus?

Beta Ray Bill · 22-12-2017 10:35AM

weldoninhio wrote: »

Perhaps read the OP again.

You "choose to" or you "choose not to".

She said she wants more but is worried (She's in the choosing process).

Choose correctly.

22-12-2017 10:36AM

People who cheat typically don't stop after the first person. It's addictive. So, honestly, if you do cheat you're likely to continue doing so. Getting caught means your relationship is finished. Even if the wounded party forgives you, they'll never forget it. That relationship will never be the same.

You're willing to sacrifice a meaningful relationship for a quick shot of pleasure. Sex isn't particularly important. You'll do it, and twenty minutes later you'll be wondering what it actually felt like. It's a usually pleasurable activity for the moment but nothing particularly special. We tend to make it far more important than it is. (And sex can have plenty of negative aspects too)

I've been single most of my life. I always find it crazy the people who have a partner they love (more importantly, one who loves them back), and a successful relationship but are willing to risk it all over sex with a relative stranger. You really don't understand how difficult it is to find a good partner in our modern world.

So... OP... Let me put it this way.
1) You cheat, enjoy it, and get away with it, then you're probably going to cheat again until you are caught.
2) You cheat, enjoy it, get caught, you partner forgives you but never trusts you again.
3) You cheat, enjoy it, don't get caught, and have to experience all the guilt that comes with the deception. Just because the topic is never discussed doesn't mean it's not a constant lie.
4) You cheat, don't enjoy it, and 1-3...

Ultimately, cheating is immature. If you really want someone else, divorce/separate, but don't destroy your partners' life just because you're horny for someone else. Grow up.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 10:36AM

givyjoe wrote: »

Any chance of a go on your missus?

I'm currently single, but i'm rattling an wife/mother who's partner knows about it. She rings him when she gets to the hotel and tells him shes with me and he tells her he wants all the details when she gets home. She reckons its like they are teenagers again when she gets home from being with me.

wtlltw · 22-12-2017 10:37AM

OP you’ve fallen for the fella from the Plenty kitchen roll advert, haven’t you.

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 10:37AM

grahambo wrote: »

You "choose to" or you "choose not to".

She said she wants more but is worried (She's in the choosing process).

Choose correctly.

There's no mention of an affair, she just wants a one off. You are projecting your childhood onto her. She's not your mother, she is also not your ex.

givyjoe · 22-12-2017 10:38AM

weldoninhio wrote: »

I'm currently single, but i'm rattling an wife/mother who's partner knows about it. She rings him when she gets to the hotel and tells him shes with me and he tells her he wants all the details when she gets home. She reckons its like they are teenagers again when she gets home from being with me.

I'll settle for her number so

weldoninhio · 22-12-2017 10:40AM

Deleted User wrote: »

People who cheat typically don't stop after the first person. It's addictive. So, honestly, if you do cheat you're likely to continue doing so. Getting caught means your relationship is finished. Even if the wounded party forgives you, they'll never forget it. That relationship will never be the same.

You're willing to sacrifice a meaningful relationship for a quick shot of pleasure. Sex isn't particularly important. You'll do it, and twenty minutes later you'll be wondering what it actually felt like. It's a usually pleasurable activity for the moment but nothing particularly special. We tend to make it far more important than it is. (And sex can have plenty of negative aspects too)

I've been single most of my life. I always find it crazy the people who have a partner they love (more importantly, one who loves them back), and a successful relationship but are willing to risk it all over sex with a relative stranger. You really don't understand how difficult it is to find a good partner in our modern world.

So... OP... Let me put it this way.
1) You cheat, enjoy it, and get away with it, then you're probably going to cheat again until you are caught.
2) You cheat, enjoy it, get caught, you partner forgives you but never trusts you again.
3) You cheat, enjoy it, don't get caught, and have to experience all the guilt that comes with the deception. Just because the topic is never discussed doesn't mean it's not a constant lie.
4) You cheat, don't enjoy it, and 1-3...

Ultimately, cheating is immature. If you really want someone else, divorce/separate, but don't destroy your partners' life just because you're horny for someone else. Grow up.

If you haven't read the OP and the OP's comments you aren't in a position to give "advice". The thread isn't even that long. :rolleyes:

Hector Savage · 22-12-2017 10:41AM

AwareWolf wrote: »

New to this so hope I'm posting in right place. Never had an affair. Very happily married. Clicked with someone recently. And the chemistry was unreal! Didn't have sex nearly did. Married 15 years. Have never experienced this sexual chemistry. Now can't get it out of my head and want him NOW! But afraid of how I'll feel afterwards, and can I really forget it if I get it out of my system?

For what it's worth my brother went through the same and had the affair, he has 2 kids.
Lucky he got away with it but it ****ed up his mind for months/years ... don't do it OP it's not worth it .

Think of the kids.

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