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Body of Alan Hawe to be exhumed

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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    At least they had a chance unlike the baby who was slaughtered by their scumbag mother in Crumlin recently


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,274 ✭✭✭Bambi985


    Speechless after reading about the inquest. Absolutely speechless. How can anyone have such abject horror in them? It's not human on any level.

    I really feel for those gardai that were the first on the scene. That's not something they will ever forget or get over.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,017 ✭✭✭McCrack


    Psychosis usually drives people to these type of acts

    Unless medically trained and in particular in the area of psychiatry people are naturally unable to understand the behaviour


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭ANXIOUS


    It appears to me based in the comment to the mother saying don't be worried if the wife is a bit late that he had this planned and it wasn't just a flipped switch.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,522 ✭✭✭kona


    ANXIOUS wrote: »
    It appears to me based in the comment to the mother saying don't be worried if the wife is a bit late that he had this planned and it wasn't just a flipped switch.

    Was it not clodagh that said this to the mother?


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  • Moderators, Sports Moderators, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,008 Mod ✭✭✭✭yerwanthere123


    The details of the inquest from today are a very tough read. I'd hoped that in the case of the children that perhaps they were killed in their sleep and possibly they knew nothing, but not to be.

    Really hope the families involved will eventually find a way to move on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,276 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    McCrack wrote:
    Psychosis usually drives people to these type of acts.

    Unless medically trained and in particular in the area of psychiatry people are naturally unable to understand the behaviour

    This is it. Unfortunately, this type of thing does happen and the fact that there was planning involved doesn't mean it wasn't a psychotic break. I have no desire to defend the man, i don't most people understand what happened or why he did it. The experts who deal with criminals and the criminally insane don't have enough evidence to decide what happened, do the lay person is just speculating about motives etc.

    I think most people wouldn't want to know what actually happens in these circumstances so they decide what they believe and there isn't though evidence to dispute it either way.

    I'd prefer to wait and hear what the experts actually conclude.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators Posts: 21,795 Mod ✭✭✭✭helimachoptor


    The coroner thinks he killed his wife and eldest son first because they might have been able to fight back.

    It doesn't bear thinking about the terror they felt in those final moments.

    and the mother knowing if she was getting killed, likely that her kids were either dead or shortly would be :(


  • Posts: 45,738 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    This story is horrific. The poor kids and wife :(


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    This is it. Unfortunately, this type of thing does happen and the fact that there was planning involved doesn't mean it wasn't a psychotic break. I have no desire to defend the man, i don't most people understand what happened or why he did it. The experts who deal with criminals and the criminally insane don't have enough evidence to decide what happened, do the lay person is just speculating about motives etc.

    I think most people wouldn't want to know what actually happens in these circumstances so they decide what they believe and there isn't though evidence to dispute it either way.

    I'd prefer to wait and hear what the experts actually conclude.

    I'd be more inclined to assume it was a break if it hadn't been established that he was a control freak to begin with. Sometimes losing control of a victim or of their own reputation is enough to spur an evil person into action.

    It was so calculated and coldly executed that it appears to be an exercise in absolute control, rather than a loss of all control.


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  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 13,932 Mod ✭✭✭✭JupiterKid


    The manner in which Hawe slaughtered his family suggests to me a well planned, cool, calculated act. The murders may have been sparked off by a fight or he just snapped. Hardly the mark of someone going through a psychotic episode who is usually delusional, incoherent and looses touch with reality.

    Hawe was a very evil individual.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,572 ✭✭✭barneygumble99


    This is it. Unfortunately, this type of thing does happen and the fact that there was planning involved doesn't mean it wasn't a psychotic break. I have no desire to defend the man, i don't most people understand what happened or why he did it. The experts who deal with criminals and the criminally insane don't have enough evidence to decide what happened, do the lay person is just speculating about motives etc.

    I think most people wouldn't want to know what actually happens in these circumstances so they decide what they believe and there isn't though evidence to dispute it either way.

    I'd prefer to wait and hear what the experts actually conclude.




    This is about the most sensible thing that’s been written in the whole thread.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 518 ✭✭✭keith_sixteen


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    This is about the most sensible thing that’s been written in the whole thread.

    LOL, no it is not.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,095 ✭✭✭ANXIOUS


    Article appears to have been removed from the independent.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,276 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    Candie wrote:
    I'd be more inclined to assume it was a break if it hadn't been established that he was a control freak to begin with. Sometimes losing control of a victim or of their own reputation is enough to spur an evil person into action.

    It was so calculated and coldly executed that it appears to be an exercise in absolute control, rather than a loss of all control.

    Being controlling doesn't rule out a psychotic break. Nor does him being controlling to the point of evil mean it couldn't have been a psychotic break.
    JupiterKid wrote:
    The manner in which Hawe slaughtered his family suggests to me a well planned, cool, calculated act. The murders may have been sparked off by a fight or he just snapped. Hardly the mark of someone going through a psychotic episode who is usually delusional, incoherent and looses touch with reality.

    Ah, you see this is where these things get complicated and most people's solution is to simply ignore the complexity.

    A psychotic break can involve all those elements you mentioned, but doesn't mean he couldn't have done it unless he was in the full of is health.

    I just think the reality is that we don't know why he did it. Pretending we do know doesn't solve anything, it just closes is off from finding out the truth if it's ever established


  • Posts: 45,738 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    I'd imagine there's more to come regarding motive.

    You don't just snap and murder your whole family.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 739 ✭✭✭Dev84


    Hawe will burn in hell.

    The defensive wounds on the 6 year old were horific.

    Say no more.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,255 ✭✭✭✭volchitsa


    Being controlling doesn't rule out a psychotic break. Nor does him being controlling to the point of evil mean it couldn't have been a psychotic break.



    Ah, you see this is where these things get complicated and most people's solution is to simply ignore the complexity.

    A psychotic break can involve all those elements you mentioned, but doesn't mean he couldn't have done it unless he was in the full of is health.

    I just think the reality is that we don't know why he did it. Pretending we do know doesn't solve anything, it just closes is off from finding out the truth if it's ever established


    You're not seriously suggesting someone suffering a psychotic break who's just murdered their wife and children in the most brutal way is then going to calmly sit down and transfer all their money into his personal account, so that his family inherited and not hers.

    That's not even plausible.

    "If a woman cannot stand in a public space and say, without fear of consequences, that men cannot be women, then women have no rights at all." Helen Joyce



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,276 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    RoboKlopp wrote:
    I'd imagine there's more to come regarding motive. You don't just snap and murder your whole family.

    You and I don't, but some people do. So it's very hard for us to understand what happened. Familial murder suicide is a known phenomenon.

    If his psychological profile was fully understood, most people wouldn't be able to understand it without being a professional psychologist anyway.

    There's no point trying to understand his mindset, using your own mindset. The layperson can only speculate wildly.


  • Posts: 45,738 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    You and I don't, but some people do. So it's very hard for us to understand what happened. Familial murder suicide is a known phenomenon.

    If his psychological profile was fully understood, most people wouldn't be able to understand it without being a professional psychologist anyway.

    There's no point trying to understand his mindset, using your own mindset. The layperson can only speculate wildly.


    True, but there's probably experts in this case that might have a clue? Hopefully anyway.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,108 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    If theres anything good that can come out of this,I hope its a greater understanding of mental illness. I don't believe for one second that any sane human could be capable of such evil.
    Something else I find unusual here is where Clodagh Hawes mother says she knew what had happened. That to me suggests she knew there were issues going on in the house.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 271 ✭✭BowSideChamp


    Anyone know what Alan Hawe's impending "fall from grace" was? It was reported that something was gonna come out about him and that is why he murdered his family.

    Also, has the contents of his suicide letter been read out yet at the inquest?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 617 ✭✭✭biZrb


    Anyone know what Alan Hawe's impending "fall from grace" was? It was reported that something was gonna come out about him and that is why he murdered his family.

    Its been reported Alan had a meeting at the school that he was dreading that day, has there been any more on this? (Apologies, I haven't read the whole thread). Could this have been the trigger? Maybe he was afraid something was going to happen after that meeting and he would suffer a fall from grace?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 437 ✭✭Charmeleon


    volchitsa wrote: »
    You're not seriously suggesting someone suffering a psychotic break who's just murdered their wife and children in the most brutal way is then going to calmly sit down and transfer all their money into his personal account, so that his family inherited and not hers.

    That's not even plausible.

    Still though, it was mentioned before that the pilot of the Germanwings plane who flew it into the side of a mountain was referred by a doctor to a psychiatric hospital as he was experiencing a psychotic episode in the weeks before he killed 150 people. The captain and crew of the plane who flew with him had absolutely no idea he was having severe mental difficulties and it seems he did a dry run on the outward leg of the journey.

    It’s not often that a mass murderer leaves a recent, well documented descent into depression and psychosis behind them so I think it is important to realise that no one that worked with him had any idea of how sick his mental state actually was.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,276 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    volchitsa wrote:
    You're not seriously suggesting someone suffering a psychotic break who's just murdered their wife and children in the most brutal way is then going to calmly sit down and transfer all their money into his personal account, so that his family inherited and not hers.That's not even plausible.


    Isn't it plausible?

    There's speculation that he just did it to save his reputation or something along those lines, then why do something that would completely destroy his reputation? The money is also a factor which would harm his posthumous reputation.

    You have to be willing to accept a number of contradictions running in parallel to put the evidence together. That's why I really think it's pointless to even speculate until the experts give their view using the current best understanding


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,168 ✭✭✭jackboy


    Gael23 wrote: »
    I don't believe for one second that any sane human could be capable of such evil.

    Unfortunately, a history of countless millions indicates that you are wrong. What Hawe did is usually rare, except under certain conditions in society where it becomes very common.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,738 ✭✭✭✭Mrs OBumble


    Gael23 wrote: »
    If theres anything good that can come out of this,I hope its a greater understanding of mental illness. I don't believe for one second that any sane human could be capable of such evil.
    Something else I find unusual here is where Clodagh Hawes mother says she knew what had happened. That to me suggests she knew there were issues going on in the house.

    There's nothing unusual in that: family and whatever friends are left of abused women usually have a fair idea that there's something very wrong, but aren't able to do anything about it unless the victim decides that she wants and needs to get out.

    And most domestic abusers are not insane. I've not seen anything to suggest that this one was.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,472 ✭✭✭brooke 2


    Gael23 wrote: »
    If theres anything good that can come out of this,I hope its a greater understanding of mental illness. I don't believe for one second that any sane human could be capable of such evil.
    Something else I find unusual here is where Clodagh Hawes mother says she knew what had happened. That to me suggests she knew there were issues going on in the house.

    When she arrived at the house and saw the two cars outside and the curtains still drawn, I believe she originally thought the family might have died from carbon monoxide poisoning. But when she went around to the back door and saw the bloodstained note in Alan Hawe's writing, instructing her not to enter, she realised he may have killed his family. Nothing which happened the night before, when the whole family visited her in her house, led her to believe that anything was wrong.
    When Alan Hawe remarked that he was not looking forward to returning to school the following day, Mrs. Coll had actually felt sorry for him!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,472 ✭✭✭brooke 2


    ....... wrote: »
    This post has been deleted.

    Wasn't the note bloodstained? That might have roused her suspicions, imo.


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