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Dont know what to do with this "friendzone" situation

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  • #32
    IITYWYBMAD
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,035 ✭✭✭IITYWYBMAD


    SterlingArcher wrote: »
    Oh is it captain obvious. Jesus I should have put sarcastic notes or something in for the obvious disabled ♿.

    Keep digging, why don't you...:-/


  • #33
    WIZWEB
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 528 ✭✭✭WIZWEB


    OP as others have identified you have a self-esteem issue. You're putting up with some serious disrespect while measuring yourself up against her 'boyfriend'. Without being harsh you've also stated a wow is me pity play about being always unlucky in love. I would suggest attending counselling to work on your relationship with yourself before considering one with another. Also put yourself in her main (emotional) supplies shoes and show some empathy towards him, how he is being treated and disrespected by both you and her.

    In your current emotional state you're a puppet on a string to this lady. Don't doubt for a minute that you and her current partner are the only ones worshiping her ego. She'll groom as many men (and others) as necessary for as long as you all will participate in her childish games. What is also common for narcissists like her is to triangulate you with others to enact envy and jealousy which draws you (the victim) even closer to meeting their selfish whims. Such individuals are always the star in their own performance. You're nothing but another fan. As others have suggested cut off and block all means of contact. End your 'relationship' with this emotional vampire immediately while beginning work on your own unmet emotional needs.


  • #34
    Tokyo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 22,656 ✭✭✭✭Tokyo


    Mod: SterlingArcher - two week ban for that outburst. Please keep it civil folks, and advisory towards the OP.


  • #35
    mojesius
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,394 ✭✭✭mojesius


    Walk away, delete her number. I've been in your shoes before and it's not a nice place, your emotions being tugged at so the other person can get a quick ego boost.

    Budding/potential romantic situations that are a pure rollercoaster of highs and lows never really work out. She'll happily string you along like this for a long time I'd she can. Meanwhile, you'll get more emotionally invested for nothing

    She sounds selfish and untrustworthy. I don't understand how some people can do this others.


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