'Shallow' dealbreakers in a relationship?

annascott wrote: »

If he doesn't keep his car clean or would not care about driving with missing wheel trims or dents and scratches.

A clean car is the sign of a filthy mind.

posturingpat wrote: »

Being "told" what to do.
Nothing I hate more in general but from friends/partners in particular.
I was going out with a girl for a bout 6 months and she was nice but the more time went on the more she seemed to be trying to become my second mammy telling what to do/not do.

I was getting pretty fed up until one day she told me to stop eating so quickly. That was it, I told her there and then we weren't right for each other and never seen her again.
Looking back it probably was a bit harsh on my behalf but it was always going to end the same way if she kept trying to take over my life so maybe it was better in the long term.

She sounded like perfect wife material tbh. You get used to it after 15 or 20 years.

Ash.J.Williams wrote: »

I actually love it

Howya buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuud, any chance of a you ro?

annascott wrote: »

If he doesn't keep his car clean or would not care about driving with missing wheel trims or dents and scratches.

If he's a bad driver. Totally off-putting.

Also I just remembered I dumped a guy when I was about 16 for eating a snickers before we kissed. Disgusting. :pac:

posturingpat wrote: »

I remember kissing a girl after she had eaten cheese and onion tayto when I was a similar age, I could specifically tell it was Tayto she had that much left in her mouth and in her braces . She wasn't long getting the heave ho.

i feel a bit sick

Irishcrx wrote: »

Women who wear gym gear out when A - They really shouldn't be as it's too tight for their frame or B - Don't actually go to the gym just wear it as a fashion statement or something.

A girl that doesn't want children would be a deal breaker for me. Not being able to is different of course.

Gael23 wrote: »

A girl that doesn't want children would be a deal breaker for me. Not being able to is different of course.

On what planet is that shallow? :pac:

I'm enjoying this thread, it's also funny because my OH would have been written off by loads of ye based on your answers, I've been wondering how on earth he was single!

The only one I can think of that is actually shallow is if he wore tracksuit pants in public. Luckily he only wears them inside arsing about. I did get a previous boyfriend to stop going out in public wearing them, though

Tell me how wrote: »

Gravelly wrote:

Why is that strange? Someone that can't have kids can adopt.

I didn't say it was strange. I said it was interesting.

Ok, your follow up comment made it sound like you found it strange, but perhaps I misinterpreted you.

I think for me, someone who couldn't understand why people dress differently would be no good to me. I have many alternative looking friends and ignorance like that has no place in my life. It's only cloth.
And someone who dislikes smoking is fine, it makes a certain amount of sense, if they realise it is an addiction and can handle me smoking (until I'm ready to give it up) with as much respect as you can have for non smokers around you, but if they have the ''ew! gross! you must have an eternal stench and be yellow fro head to toe'' attitude, no thanks. Especially if they're a regular drinker or take illegal drugs regularly.

jeanjolie wrote: »

is probably going to be different from a girl who dresses in



Just saying....

WTF is she wearing that's bulking out the jeans like that, nappies?