A question on friendships

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 12-02-2017 03:26PM

Any chance of punctuating that and explaining it better? It just rambles.

Oh, just leave them to it.

bee06 · 12-02-2017 03:30PM

Sweet baby Jesus, my brain hurts attempting to read that.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 12-02-2017 03:30PM

I stopped hanging out with lots of people, for lots of different reasons. I find it easy enough to meet new friends. Through work, through other friends, through himself.

whoopsadoodles · 12-02-2017 03:39PM

louise23 wrote: »

Hey guys just question I am currently in a situation where I had 2 mates fall out over both ther weddings. So basically these 2 wer best mates one was ment to be getting married this year and other next year. So basically they planned everythin together and wen next year's girl heard wer this year's girls venue was she said ur mad it's to far but this year's girl had her heart set on it so she thot no this is wer I want. So basically cutting long story short this year's girl never got married as relationship problems so she went deep into depression as me and next year's girl seen but we helped her get over it.this years girl full of hatred and revenge said to next year's girl u should go to the venue I looked it's class now I no she was wrong to say that but in muly opinion her head was al over place and friend should have known that. So now her and her partner have tyred to rekindle Wat they had and this is wer things get good. Next year's girl is planning on takin this year's girl venue. I understand it's not just ment for one person but in my opinion I think it is so wrong after seeing Wat ur friend went thru in my opinion again feels like Wat wasn't good enough for her so y did next year's girl say that and now choose it. This year's girl has told next year's girl how hurt she would be in they pick that venue as it bring up alot of memories but she wants to be ther to share her special day and next year's girl has chosen that venue so ther no longer speaking just lookin for people's opinion thank u

TL; DR

Two close friends planned to get married a year apart.

Friend 1 had venue picked but broke up with fella so wedding off.

Friend 2 decided to get married in same place friend 1 had planned to wed.

Bleedin murder ensued.

Advice would be delightful.

pauliebdub · 12-02-2017 03:44PM

Yes, I'm in my late 30s and have had several groups of friends as I've grown up. School friends more or less disappeared once we all went to different colleges, we would meet now and again but discovered once we became adults that we didn't have much in common. I've also shed quite a few toxic friends who were no good for me and also some friends disappear once they become partnered.

pauliebdub · 12-02-2017 03:45PM

xkariex wrote: »

Hey did any1 ever stop hanging out with people because you realised ye had nothin in common r worse !!
If so, did find it hard finding new friends and how did ya go about finding new friends especially in towns ??

Solution is to join a local group, or find something on Meetup.com

MadDog76 · 12-02-2017 03:48PM

whoopsadoodles wrote: »

TL; DR

Two close friends planned to get married a year apart.

Friend 1 had venue picked but broke up with fella so wedding off.

Friend 2 decided to get married in same place friend 1 had planned to wed.

Bleedin murder ensued.

Advice would be delightful.

How the fu*k did you make sense of that Whoops?!!?? I'm seriously impressed!!

whoopsadoodles · 12-02-2017 03:50PM

MadDog76 wrote: »

How the fu*k did you make sense of that Whoops?!!?? I'm seriously impressed!!

Been on these boards far too long. Used to deciphering nonsense!

louise23 · 12-02-2017 03:50PM

Do u think it's right for next year's girl get married in that venue even tho she nos she losing her friend ova it.

Wesser · 12-02-2017 03:53PM

The way your post reads Louise, it sounds like you are unnable to string a sentence together to be honest and a bit immature which makes me think that maybe your friends also?

ibarelycare · 12-02-2017 03:55PM

RIP the English language.

Barry Badrinath · 12-02-2017 03:55PM

louise23 wrote: »

Do u think it's right for next year's girl get married in that venue even tho she nos she losing her friend ova it.

Du ewe tink its rhi ta be a growd oop n thipe lyk ewesing da tip ov yer nowse?

MadDog76 · 12-02-2017 03:57PM

louise23 wrote: »

Do u think it's right for next year's girl get married in that venue even tho she nos she losing her friend ova it.

Do you think it's right for "next year's girl" to get married in that venue, even though she knows she will lose her friend because of that choice?

Am I right? Whoops??

whoopsadoodles · 12-02-2017 03:57PM

louise23 wrote: »

Do u think it's right for next year's girl get married in that venue even tho she nos she losing her friend ova it.

Do you think it's right for next year's girl to get married in that venue, even though she knows she's losing her friend over it?

The text speak is like putting pins in your eyes. Use your words.

I'm kind of impressed that the word losing was used instead of loosing though.

louise23 · 12-02-2017 04:02PM

Sorry so used to short text.

whoopsadoodles · 12-02-2017 04:04PM

MadDog76 wrote: »

Do you think it's right for "next year's girl" to get married in that venue, even though she knows she will lose her friend because of that choice?

Am I right? Whoops??

I wouldn't have put the quotation marks in, but hey, I'm no grammar surgeon.

louise23 · 12-02-2017 04:05PM

Ur the only one that seems to be able to understand Wat I'm saying. I'm sorry my use of words aren't used correctly but to me u understand Wat I'm trying to ay thank u

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 12-02-2017 04:07PM

Why can't you just spell out what you're trying to say?

ytpe2r5bxkn0c1 · 12-02-2017 04:07PM

louise23 wrote: »

Sorry so used to short text.

louise23 wrote: »

Ur the only one that seems to be able to understand Wat I'm saying. I'm sorry my use of words aren't used correctly but to me u understand Wat I'm trying to ay thank u

Jeez Louise!

Apologise and then revert to text speak again. Why?

Look, stay out of it and leave it between the two brides.
Friends come and go through life.

louise23 · 12-02-2017 04:08PM

As for u saying iv been on the boards to long this is my first attempt
Al I was asking for was people's opinion and I'm sorry some people can't understand it. I'm a rambler

ibarelycare · 12-02-2017 04:08PM

louise23 wrote: »

Sorry so used to short text.

Does it not take less energy to spell a word correctly rather than think of a wrong way to spell it?

jacksie66 · 12-02-2017 04:10PM

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Barry Badrinath · 12-02-2017 04:10PM

Louise, have you told Facbook about this yet?

12-02-2017 04:11PM

louise23 wrote: »

As for u saying iv been on the boards to long this is my first attempt
Al I was asking for was people's opinion and I'm sorry some people can't understand it. I'm a rambler

Rambling is fine, but you have to use proper words if you want people to understand. It's not that people don't want to read your post, it's that it's hard to without proper grammar and punctuation.

Anyway, stay out of it yourself and leave them to resolve it themselves. My own opinion is that there's no issue with the second girl using the venue, it's not like the first girl gets to dictate where anyone else gets married and she should just be gracious about it and keep her feelings to herself. It's not her day, it's the other girls day.

MadDog76 · 12-02-2017 04:13PM

jacksie66 wrote: »

I'm impressed she managed to find a 6 year old thread to reopen..

But it took her over 4 years to find it ..........

Ursus Horribilis · 12-02-2017 04:20PM

jacksie66 wrote: »

I'm impressed she managed to find a 6 year old thread to reopen..

Maybe she felt that familiar warm feeling when she dug up a thread full of text speak, dating from the days of SMS and character limits.

12-02-2017 04:20PM

She has five posts folks, it wouldn't hurt to be a bit more welcoming. This is how users are put off.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 12-02-2017 04:27PM

With all due respect it's a message board with the only means of communication being the written word. It's not too much to expect an attempt at a coherent post.

Summer wind · 12-02-2017 04:28PM

Yeah but no but yeah but no but shut up I ain't ever even done nothin!

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 12-02-2017 04:29PM

Summer wind wrote: »

Yeah but no but yeah but no but shut up I ain't ever even done nothin!

Are you disrespecting my family? Are you calling me a pikey?

A question on friendships

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