A question on friendships

xkariex · 26-08-2010 06:30PM #1

Hey did any1 ever stop hanging out with people because you realised ye had nothin in common r worse !!
If so, did find it hard finding new friends and how did ya go about finding new friends especially in towns ??

Cheap Thrills! · 26-08-2010 06:35PM

Check the wheelie bins, I often find friends in there! :pac:;)

chin_grin · 26-08-2010 06:36PM

Cheap Thrills! wrote: »

Check the wheelie bins, I often find friends in there! :pac:;)

MEOW!

But, to answer your question OP. Yes. And you can make plenty of friends by joining groups of likeminded individuals (be it music/film/other.....and probably always involving drink!)........Unless it's a Fight Club. I wouldn't recommend those.

xkariex · 26-08-2010 06:45PM

Ha.. thanks but that where i found the last one so gonna try sumwhere else ..

26-08-2010 07:01PM

Yea, people stop hanging around with people all the time.. Making new friends depends on your situation though, are you good looking?

Scuid Mhór · 26-08-2010 07:14PM

xkariex wrote: »

Hey did any1 ever stop hanging out with people because you realised ye had nothin in common r worse !!
If so, did find it hard finding new friends and how did ya go about finding new friends especially in towns ??

i never really needed to worry about this sort of stuff because everyone loves me. it's a curse really.

Snakeblood · 26-08-2010 07:15PM

xkariex wrote: »

Hey did any1 ever stop hanging out with people because you realised ye had nothin in common r worse !!
If so, did find it hard finding new friends and how did ya go about finding new friends especially in towns ??

It turned out I was the fat one of the group, so I had to find a fatter group. :cool:

orourkeda · 26-08-2010 07:16PM

I hate people.

Therefore, friendship is ghey.

super_furry · 26-08-2010 07:17PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S_GEIEvfDTk

ibarelycare · 26-08-2010 07:49PM

xkariex wrote: »

Hey did any1 ever stop hanging out with people because you realised ye had nothin in common r worse !!
If so, did find it hard finding new friends and how did ya go about finding new friends especially in towns ??

Hw bout u try bebo r sumwer lik dat?

cynder · 26-08-2010 07:58PM

If you have school aged kids is way easier as you become freinds with the other moms in your kids class.

people you work with

or join

dance classes
judo
boot camp
exercise classes
aerobics
Pilate's
yoga
art classes
swimming lessons
do some sort of evening course

best of luck

xkariex · 26-08-2010 08:29PM

Dnt want them kinda friends !!!

xkariex · 26-08-2010 08:31PM

xkariex wrote: »

Dnt want them kinda friends !!!

at are ya good looking person !

RoundyMooney · 26-08-2010 08:38PM

We're all shallow, we just don't admit it at first;)

Srsly though; in my experience in life, one friend tends to draw many more, it's a social dynamic thing.

saywhatyousee · 26-08-2010 08:39PM

xkariex wrote: »

Hey did any1 ever stop hanging out with people because you realised ye had nothin in common r worse !!
If so, did find it hard finding new friends and how did ya go about finding new friends especially in towns ??

take up smoking weed best way to find friends and stoners are the coolest non judgemental people in the world:cool:

AckwelFoley · 26-08-2010 09:09PM

i value friendship. i would never actively stop being some ones friend because their interests were not the same as mine, that would make me a shallow prick, and if i were like that unlikely to find decent friends.

You dont look for friends - you find each other©

easyeason3 · 26-08-2010 09:30PM

snyper wrote: »

i value friendship. i would never actively stop being some ones friend because their interests were not the same as mine, that would make me a shallow prick, and if i were like that unlikely to find decent friends.

You dont look for friends - you find each other

Ya big softie :P

Sanjuro · 26-08-2010 09:34PM

xkariex wrote: »

Hey did any1 ever stop hanging out with people because you realised ye had nothin in common r worse !!
If so, did find it hard finding new friends and how did ya go about finding new friends especially in towns ??

Yeah, I did this a few years ago. Took a big step back from a group of friends that were on course for self-destruction. Great decision to make. Felt better about myself, and now, although we're not buddy buddies, we still hang out occassionally, and it's good fun.

AckwelFoley · 26-08-2010 09:36PM

easyeason3 wrote: »

Ya big softie :P

Yea, the last sentance is a touch ghey :pac:

easyeason3 · 26-08-2010 09:39PM

snyper wrote: »

Yea, the last sentance is a touch ghey :pac:

You should sell that line to Hallmark

pow wow · 26-08-2010 10:30PM

I find holidays/living together/drunken sex usually makes me realise we 'have nothing in common'.

All my current local friends are ones from work...thankfully. Or else I'd be trying to work it out with the others :P

AckwelFoley · 26-08-2010 10:34PM

easyeason3 wrote: »

You should sell that line to Hallmark

yea... might do, ive just copyrited it

Celly Smunt · 26-08-2010 10:35PM

gigs

HavingCrack · 27-08-2010 12:58PM

grindelwald wrote: »

If you have school aged kids is way easier as you become freinds with the other moms in your kids class.

I always find something slightly weird about making friends through your children...not really sure why.

pmcmahon wrote: »

gigs

People always say this but I've never really got talking to anyone at gigs that I didn't already know

I'd love to knwo how people make friends out of them :P

Brendog · 27-08-2010 01:04PM

Who needs friends when you're a level 80 Paladan?

stovelid · 27-08-2010 01:04PM

xkariex wrote: »

how did ya go about finding new friends

You just search for them and add them?

GavRedKing · 27-08-2010 01:25PM

snyper wrote: »

i value friendship. i would never actively stop being some ones friend because their interests were not the same as mine, that would make me a shallow prick, and if i were like that unlikely to find decent friends.

You dont look for friends - you find each other©

YOINK!!!!!

I will be using this, until I see it on a card or other novelty item.:pac:

scientific1982 · 27-08-2010 01:27PM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJTBPdVpdMc

Keogg · 27-08-2010 01:31PM

saywhatyousee wrote: »

take up smoking weed best way to find friends and stoners are the coolest non judgemental people in the world:cool:

Never a truer word spoken, my friend.:) Stoners are always going to be friendly towards everyone, especially other stoners.:pac:

Pace2008 · 27-08-2010 01:40PM

HavingCrack wrote: »

People always say this but I've never really got talking to anyone at gigs that I didn't already know I'd love to knwo how people make friends out of them :P

Not into your electronic music, I take it.

louise23 · 12-02-2017 03:21PM

Hey guys just question I am currently in a situation where I had 2 mates fall out over both ther weddings. So basically these 2 wer best mates one was ment to be getting married this year and other next year. So basically they planned everythin together and wen next year's girl heard wer this year's girls venue was she said ur mad it's to far but this year's girl had her heart set on it so she thot no this is wer I want. So basically cutting long story short this year's girl never got married as relationship problems so she went deep into depression as me and next year's girl seen but we helped her get over it.this years girl full of hatred and revenge said to next year's girl u should go to the venue I looked it's class now I no she was wrong to say that but in muly opinion her head was al over place and friend should have known that. So now her and her partner have tyred to rekindle Wat they had and this is wer things get good. Next year's girl is planning on takin this year's girl venue. I understand it's not just ment for one person but in my opinion I think it is so wrong after seeing Wat ur friend went thru in my opinion again feels like Wat wasn't good enough for her so y did next year's girl say that and now choose it. This year's girl has told next year's girl how hurt she would be in they pick that venue as it bring up alot of memories but she wants to be ther to share her special day and next year's girl has chosen that venue so ther no longer speaking just lookin for people's opinion thank u

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