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Should Private Schools be Closed?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 17,495 ✭✭✭✭eviltwin


    The school has clear obligations under the Children First Guidelines 2011

    http://www.dcya.gov.ie/viewdoc.asp?fn=/documents/Child_Welfare_Protection/ChildrenFirst/WhatResDoesOrgsHave.htm

    The Ombudsman for Children Niall Muldoon pointed to clear guidelines that put an onus on schools to notify authorities without delay.

    "In line with Children First 2011 Guidelines for the Protection and Welfare of Children, every school was obliged to have a child protection policy.

    "Where there is a child protection concern, the designated liaison person should be notified immediately and Túsla should be contacted without delay. Any delay would not be in the best interests of the child or children involved," he said.

    http://m.independent.ie/irish-news/news/garda-fear-evidence-compromised-after-a-delay-in-reporting-alleged-sex-assault-35261734.html

    Thats why I am completely confused at the suggestion above that they don't.

    Children's First are only guidelines. There isn't mandatory reporting yet.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,236 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    josha1 wrote: »
    What exactly are the undeserving poor? No one is undeserving of a chance to go to a particular school. You seem to think that they completely cherry pick students based on the latter of those criterion, which is simply not true. They choose anyone and everyone (contrary to what the other poster was saying, that they should only let in 'intelligent' people.

    It's a Victorian ideological concept towards poverty that has a very socially stratified view of dividing poor basically into strivers and scroungers

    http://www.experiencewoodhorn.com/part-2-deserving-or-undeserving-poor/
    http://www.herinst.org/BusinessManagedDemocracy/culture/work/deserving.html
    https://workingclassstudies.wordpress.com/2015/04/06/the-return-of-the-undeserving-poor/

    You just outlined yourself they have criteria on who they will give a scholarship to - on who "deserves" a scholarship

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71 ✭✭josha1


    It's a Victorian ideological concept towards poverty that has a very socially stratified view of dividing poor basically into strivers and scroungers

    http://www.experiencewoodhorn.com/part-2-deserving-or-undeserving-poor/
    http://www.herinst.org/BusinessManagedDemocracy/culture/work/deserving.html
    https://workingclassstudies.wordpress.com/2015/04/06/the-return-of-the-undeserving-poor/

    You just outlined yourself they have criteria on who they will give a scholarship to - on who "deserves" a scholarship
    To say that Ireland has any true sort of class system akin to the Victorian times is a bit ridiculous.

    While I personally feel that those who 'strive' may be more deserving (in some cases), the schools, or at least the two schools that I'm thinking about in particular don't require people to meet them criteria, it was a direct response to the person who said that only academics should be considered. The schools effectively don't have criteria other than you wouldn't have the opportunity to go there without the scholarship.

    There are plenty of scholarship students who simply float in and out and don't take part in school activities or the 'extras' that previous posters were talking about, as they are entitled to.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    4ensic15 wrote: »
    The school was given legal advice to report the incident immediately which it ignored.
    If this school was fully private with no lower middle-class parents scraping together money to pay fees for their offspring there, most likely this incident would never have happened.

    It shouldn't even have gone as far as 'seeking legal advice'. It would appear that the school did not report the incident straight away.

    Instead (going by what was on RTE news last night) they rang tusla and put forth different scenarios and hung up the phone (as if they were just asking innocent hypothetical questions), so they failed to notify the proper authorities in a timely manner. This is important in terms of evidence gathering.

    Not only this, they then went on to tell the parents (or suggest to them!) that they HAD notified tusla... when in fact they just had a chat with Tusla about hypothetical situations. They were giving the parents the impression that it had been reported. If they had been misleading with the truth to the parents then it shows that they were actively trying to 'manage the situation'.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    Bridge93 wrote: »
    If you are willing to pay the fees for your child's education and the waiting lists are not extortionately long (they aren't anymore) than your kid can go to that school. This idea that there are selection criteria is not true

    So in other words they choose the kids of those who are willing or able to pay fees. In other words something the kid has no control over.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,018 ✭✭✭Bridge93


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    So in other words they choose the kids of those who are willing or able to pay fees. In other words something the kid has no control over.

    No kid has any control over what school they go to fee paying or not.

    It's similar to kids who's parents have them on private healthcare plans. They didn't choose to be or not to be. In both scenarios the parents choose.
    Should we have no private healthcare system either?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,304 ✭✭✭jackofalltrades


    Firstly poor kid, that's an absolutely terrible thing to happen to someone.
    Even worse if it turns out that someone recorded it.

    Secondly I can't fathom how someones first reaction is to not immediately contact the Gardaí on hearing that something like this happened.

    Thirdly I think it a bit tasteless, and that's putting it mildly, to use this incident to push the agenda of closing private schools.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,227 ✭✭✭✭thebaz


    I just wonder is the 12 year old best interests served by the mass media headlines of the horrific event - let the appropriate authorities investigate and prosecute , but privately rather than in the glare of the public media , don't think this can be good for the victim as he tries to recover and re-build his esteem and life, after such a horrible attack.


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    There must have been some incompetent in charge that night. The incident would have been reported to the most senior staff member and they should have taken charge by informing the parents and the authorities. What may have happened is the parents asked them to hold off until they spoke to the kid, hence the delay. Or the kid may have been very distressed (understandably) and refused to cooperate, denying th incident perhaps.

    Either way, googling and asking vague questions of the relevant agencies shows a complete lack of charge of the situation and the protocol that is certainly in place for dealing the serious incidents wasn't followed.

    Either way, bullying happens everywhere and whether this happened in a dorm or on a school trip or on a school bus is beside the point. The child is the important part of this story, not the school.

    Poor kid.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 522 ✭✭✭Walter2016


    thebaz wrote: »
    I just wonder is the 12 year old best interests served by the mass media headlines of the horrific event - let the appropriate authorities investigate and prosecute , but privately rather than in the glare of the public media , don't think this can be good for the victim as he tries to recover and re-build his esteem and life, after such a horrible attack.
    Do you REALLY think the hysterical sensationalist media give a damn about anyone's feelings?

    Media, esp indo group, have one aim and one aim only. You to read the article and see the adverts.

    Journalism, feelings and truth play no part in it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71 ✭✭josha1


    Walter2016 wrote: »
    Do you REALLY think the hysterical sensationalist media give a damn about anyone's feelings?

    Media, esp indo group, have one aim and one aim only. You to read the article and see the adverts.

    Journalism, feelings and truth play no part in it.
    I think they mean how the story got out in the first place.

    It's completely bizarre really - the school wouldn't want it to get out because of bad publicity, the victim's parents wouldn't want it to get out due to harm to the innocent victim, the accused's parents wouldn't want it to get out because of the angry mob, I really struggle to see who leaked it. The whole thing has been handled quite poorly, having said that I don't think there is a proper way to deal with such a disgusting incident.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    josha1 wrote: »
    I think they mean how the story got out in the first place.

    It's completely bizarre really - the school wouldn't want it to get out because of bad publicity, the victim's parents wouldn't want it to get out due to harm to the innocent victim, the accused's parents wouldn't want it to get out because of the angry mob, I really struggle to see who leaked it. The whole thing has been handled quite poorly, having said that I don't think there is a proper way to deal with such a disgusting incident.

    Call the police if an assault has been reported.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71 ✭✭josha1


    steddyeddy wrote: »
    Call the police if an assault has been reported.
    I mean in terms of should the parents be contacted first, should the accused be expelled immediately, should tusla or the guards be contacted first, should the school release a statement, should the victims parents go to the press, should other parents go to the press, should the supervisor be fired etc etc. It's not that simple. The entire incident is completely unprecedented.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 14,949 ✭✭✭✭IvyTheTerrible


    josha1 wrote: »
    I mean in terms of should the parents be contacted first, should the accused be expelled immediately, should tusla or the guards be contacted first, should the school release a statement, should the victims parents go to the press, should other parents go to the press, should the supervisor be fired etc etc. It's not that simple. The entire incident is completely unprecedented.
    Apart from the media attention, in what way do you think it's unprecedented? Do you think sexual assault has never happened in a school before?


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Apart from the media attention, in what way do you think it's unprecedented? Do you think sexual assault has never happened in a school before?

    Even if it's unprecedented in that school, there would be detailed protocols in place to deal with assaults, serious bullying, accidents, thefts, burglary, fire and sexual assaults too. It doesn't matter if it was unprecedented or not, there would be a plan to set the wheels in motion to deal with it.

    There was a massive failure on the part of whoever was in charge that night, and by the school thereafter in that unacceptable delay in informing the relevant authorities.

    At the very least, there should be resignations over this incompetence.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,500 ✭✭✭✭ted1


    Candie wrote: »
    Even if it's unprecedented in that school, there would be detailed protocols in place to deal with assaults, serious bullying, accidents, thefts, burglary, fire and sexual assaults too. It doesn't matter if it was unprecedented or not, there would be a plan to set the wheels in motion to deal with it.

    There was a massive failure on the part of whoever was in charge that night, and by the school thereafter in that unacceptable delay in informing the relevant authorities.

    At the very least, there should be resignations over this incompetence.

    Sexual abuse isn't unprecedented in that school.

    http://m.independent.ie/irish-news/orourkes-sex-shame-26200056.html

    http://m.independent.ie/irish-news/swim-coachs-sex-abuse-victims-win-fight-for-damages-26422066.html


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    ted1 wrote: »

    Did he Sexually advise anyone during his tenure at the school?
    In fairness though that was a swimming club who subsequently used the school's facilities (did students attend that club?) When the school found out about him they asked him to resign his post with the school ASAP. The club brought him back unbeknownst to the school.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,506 ✭✭✭✭BoatMad


    Candie wrote: »
    Even if it's unprecedented in that school, there would be detailed protocols in place to deal with assaults, serious bullying, accidents, thefts, burglary, fire and sexual assaults too. It doesn't matter if it was unprecedented or not, there would be a plan to set the wheels in motion to deal with it.

    There was a massive failure on the part of whoever was in charge that night, and by the school thereafter in that unacceptable delay in informing the relevant authorities.

    At the very least, there should be resignations over this incompetence.

    In fairness 4 days passed and the authorities were informed. I presume the child reported it at some stage or informed his parents.

    I would not cast aspersions until we know the details of how the incident cane to light.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,500 ✭✭✭✭ted1


    Gebgbegb wrote: »
    Did he Sexually advise anyone during his tenure at the school?
    In fairness though that was a swimming club who subsequently used the school's facilities (did students attend that club?) When the school found out about him they asked him to resign his post with the school ASAP. The club brought him back unbeknownst to the school.

    In fairness to the courts the found the school was in the wrong and awarded they pay the victims several hounded thousand euro.
    As a result of they case the school should have been on the ball this time around.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    ted1 wrote: »
    In fairness to the courts the found the school was in the wrong and awarded they pay the victims several hounded thousand euro.
    As a result of they case the school should have been on the ball this time around.
    Ok I see that the school had known of allegations made against him.
    the procedure is to pass it on to Gardai or tusla ASAP. They didn't do this.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,236 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    josha1 wrote: »
    I mean in terms of should the parents be contacted first, should the accused be expelled immediately, should tusla or the guards be contacted first, should the school release a statement, should the victims parents go to the press, should other parents go to the press, should the supervisor be fired etc etc. It's not that simple. The entire incident is completely unprecedented.

    How is it unprecented? Serious assaults have happened many many times in schools

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,236 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    BoatMad wrote: »
    In fairness 4 days passed and the authorities were informed. I presume the child reported it at some stage or informed his parents.

    I would not cast aspersions until we know the details of how the incident cane to light.

    The point is why did the school wait 4 days to report this?

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 71 ✭✭josha1


    How is it unprecented? Serious assaults have happened many many times in schools
    I don't know about you but I'd consider a boy being sexually assaulted with a hockey stick to be unprecedented.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,691 ✭✭✭4ensic15


    josha1 wrote: »
    I don't know about you but I'd consider a boy being sexually assaulted with a hockey stick to be unprecedented.

    Why! is it usually with a hurley?


  • Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 36,496 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    Del.Monte wrote: »
    Where are the men of '98 when you need them?

    Zidane and Barthez?


  • Posts: 26,219 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    ted1 wrote: »

    My point was that it wouldn't matter if it was; there are protocols in place in schools for dealing with these eventualities.

    I was a boarder myself (elsewhere), and there's no way 15 kids in one dorm watching a fight would have gone unnoticed for the period of time we seem to be talking about here.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,236 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    josha1 wrote: »
    I don't know about you but I'd consider a boy being sexually assaulted with a hockey stick to be unprecedented.

    The exact detail might be. But overall the fact it happened is not. And that is why we have laws and guidelines on child protection. Sexual abuse and assault of children has happened many many times before. I dont know why some people in the thread are acting as if it has never happened before and as if we havent developed a child protection system to deal with such invidents.

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    The exact detail might be. But overall the fact it happened is not. And that is why we have laws and guidelines on child protection. Sexual abuse and assault of children has happened many many times before. I dont know why some people in the thread are acting as if it has never happened before and as if we havent developed a child protection system to deal with such invidents.

    It has also been covered up many times before. It's ridiculous they didn't go to the Garda first.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 27,565 ✭✭✭✭steddyeddy


    josha1 wrote: »
    I mean in terms of should the parents be contacted first, should the accused be expelled immediately, should tusla or the guards be contacted first, should the school release a statement, should the victims parents go to the press, should other parents go to the press, should the supervisor be fired etc etc. It's not that simple. The entire incident is completely unprecedented.

    Well the law supercedes school policy.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 11,810 ✭✭✭✭evolving_doors


    Jeez to think those 13yr old kids had to go to bed that night and pretend to themselves that what happened was normal. They probably thought that that's how to 'be a man' in this world.

    Sure it could happen anywhere, but how did someone not notice or hear 15kids in a small bedroom? Although it could have all taken place in the space of 20mins while the supervisor was doing rounds or being distracted.


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