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Are You Hated ?

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    #32
    qo2cj1dsne8y4k
    Closed Accounts Posts: 23,646 ✭✭✭✭qo2cj1dsne8y4k


    Maybe, maybe not. I only worry about myself though so I don't care


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    #33
    KERSPLAT!
    Closed Accounts Posts: 31,152 ✭✭✭✭KERSPLAT!


    I'm sure there is at least one but that's their issue not mine. I don't hate anyone and I'm happy with that :)


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    #34
    Advbrd
    Closed Accounts Posts: 619 ✭✭✭Advbrd


    valoren wrote: »
    Oh yes I am. With a vengeance.

    I've written about this before here;
    http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=99293343&postcount=39

    As an addendum to the above;

    My brother and his wife had their child. He was true to his word. I was not told anything about it. I have never met her and have only seen photos of my niece on my older brothers phone and my wife and I were not invited to the christening last August.

    Hesus, that's a long post.


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    #35
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    There's definitely people who dislike me but I'm no sure about hating me. Perhaps. I'd say there are a few boardsies alright who I drive bonkers but again hate is a very strong emotion.


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    #36
    pragmatic1
    Registered Users Posts: 5,573 ✭✭✭pragmatic1


    Saipanne wrote: »
    Yes, I never, ever take the high road in a quarrel. I don't conform to the etiquette that the rest of you do, with your little subtext comments and hidden meaning. If I think you're even remotely trying to be underhanded with me I'll rip you in two. Straight up.

    Understandably, this leads to hatred to me.
    I think you'll find that a lot of people actually prefer that approach to passive aggressive shyte.


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    #37
    beks101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    Not that I'm aware of. I don't think it's possible to hate me. I'm totally grand and benign and avoid confrontation at all costs.

    Actually I'd say that guy that I yelled at and sweared at down the phone when my Lloyds Bank card failed to deliver several times doesn't like me so much. Yeah he might hate me alright.


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    #38
    Galwayguy35
    Registered Users Posts: 16,416 ✭✭✭✭Galwayguy35


    I was by the person I was supposed to marry, hopefully she's cooled down a bit in the 10 years since.


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    #39
    Wanderer78
    Registered Users Posts: 29,014 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    Thank God I'm perfect


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    #40
    Gleefulprinter
    Registered Users Posts: 206 ✭✭Gleefulprinter


    My fields are bigger than my neighbours. He hates me.


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    #41
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 21,679 ✭✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    beks101 wrote: »
    Not that I'm aware of. I don't think it's possible to hate me. I'm totally grand and benign and avoid confrontation at all costs.

    Actually I'd say that guy that I yelled at and sweared at down the phone when my Lloyds Bank card failed to deliver several times doesn't like me so much. Yeah he might hate me alright.

    You'd be surprised. I don't mean that personally but how we feel towards ourselves doesn't always translate in to how others view us. There are lots of irrational reasons why people say "I hate her/him". Contrary to my previous post the more I think about it the more it's very possible I am hated by the odd one.


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    #42
    andekwarhola
    Registered Users Posts: 4,638 ✭✭✭andekwarhola


    The flying mouse wrote: »
    anyone who things there liked by everyone is living in a bubble, that hurts a lot when burst.

    Assuming there's nobody out there on a message board talking to strangers about how much they detest you doesn't equate to saying everybody likes you.


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    #43
    Butters1979
    Registered Users Posts: 1,164 ✭✭✭Butters1979


    Do the other posters on after hours count?
    :eek:


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    #44
    _Whimsical_
    Registered Users Posts: 7,955 ✭✭✭_Whimsical_


    Possibly by one person. An ex friend who was going to do something I thought was pretty awful and would seriously affect two other people.
    I told her in a polite way that I thought she needed to rethink. All hell broke lose.


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    #45
    Grayson
    Registered Users Posts: 16,164 ✭✭✭✭Grayson


    I have an ex that probably hates me because I called her up on a lot of immature crap. I actually get on well with nearly all my ex's. Most I've grown apart from.

    There's a few others but generally it's because I did something I considered right and they disagreed.

    I think there's one or two from like 15 years ago because I fecked up. I've been a far more conscientious person since then. I think everyone fecks up a bit during their teenage years.


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    #46
    beks101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,802 ✭✭✭beks101


    Deleted User wrote: »
    You'd be surprised. I don't mean that personally but how we feel towards ourselves doesn't always translate in to how others view us. There are lots of irrational reasons why people say "I hate her/him". Contrary to my previous post the more I think about it the more it's very possible I am hated by the odd one.

    True enough. I guess my experience of being with and around people has never been of being disliked or hated for any reason.

    Hate is a strong word too. I'm sure I wreck multiple people's heads, people at work, the OH, family members and friends from time to time. And I've certainly met certain people and there's been a stalemate - just no click, no areas of compatibility and no interest in each other as people at all. Hate though? I'm probably not a strong enough personality to summon up that emotion in anyone.

    I stand to be corrected though :)


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    #47
    MilesMorales1
    Registered Users Posts: 6,431 ✭✭✭MilesMorales1


    beks101 wrote: »
    Not that I'm aware of. I don't think it's possible to hate me. I'm totally grand and benign and avoid confrontation at all costs.

    Actually I'd say that guy that I yelled at and sweared at down the phone when my Lloyds Bank card failed to deliver several times doesn't like me so much. Yeah he might hate me alright.

    How dare you be benign and grand? I hate you for your easy going attitude! *glowers*


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    #48
    Fleawuss
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,681 ✭✭✭Fleawuss


    I hope so. I'd be disappointed if the fcukwits I've taken on over the years didn't realize how deeply I hate them and their bullying arrogant Shyte and reciprocate the feeling. Because I truly hate some people.


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    #49
    mansize
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14,521 ✭✭✭✭mansize


    I hope we've all moved on. I don't hate anyone. Fifes too short. And they are no longer part of it.


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    #50
    whoopsadoodles
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,058 ✭✭✭whoopsadoodles


    beks101 wrote: »
    True enough. I guess my experience of being with and around people has never been of being disliked or hated for any reason.

    Hate is a strong word too. I'm sure I wreck multiple people's heads, people at work, the OH, family members and friends from time to time. And I've certainly met certain people and there's been a stalemate - just no click, no areas of compatibility and no interest in each other as people at all. Hate though? I'm probably not a strong enough personality to summon up that emotion in anyone.

    I stand to be corrected though :)

    Same as.

    It'd be really very odd for anyone to hate me? I've never done a think to be hated for. If anyone did hate me it would very much be something wrong with them and not me. I don't really care how that sounds tbh.

    Dislike me? That's an entirely different thing and there's bound to be folk who do, but meh. C'est la vie!


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    #51
    Pherekydes
    Registered Users Posts: 16,132 ✭✭✭✭Pherekydes


    Apart from the kids, I don't think so.

    The wife swears she doesn't hate me (much).

    The ex probably doesn't think about me, so she doesn't hate me.

    It's probably just down to the dog and Trump supporters...


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    #52
    Goya
    Closed Accounts Posts: 464 ✭✭Goya


    pragmatic1 wrote: »
    I think you'll find that a lot of people actually prefer that approach to passive aggressive shyte.
    Yeah the post seems to be saying that they're straight-talking online and nobody else is. Most people are!


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    #53
    Earthhorse
    Registered Users Posts: 14,714 ✭✭✭✭Earthhorse


    I came up with this one weird trick and the medical community have shunned me ever since.


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    #54
    HS3
    Closed Accounts Posts: 405 ✭✭HS3


    Yes


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    #55
    Tom_Barry
    Registered Users Posts: 117 ✭✭Tom_Barry


    Not to my knowledge.. I don't really care either way it's not my problem.


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    #56
    Klonker
    Registered Users Posts: 1,667 ✭✭✭Klonker


    My girlfriends ex told someone he hated me, we all worked together. Tbh I don't think it was that he still wanted to be with her, more so his ego was hurt and wouldn't like people thinking she left him for me. Anyway we were never friends before and definitely aren't now so it wasn't a big issue.


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    #57
    endacl
    Registered Users Posts: 22,261 ✭✭✭✭endacl


    PTH2009 wrote: »
    I'm a prick in there eyes but I'm the only that knws the truth??

    Now I hate you too.

    :mad:


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    #58
    [Deleted User]
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    the evasion_kid wrote: »
    An ex...I'm at a loss as to why...all the sh!t she put me through she should be doing time...


    I found that a considerable amount of women love playing the victim and trying to manipulate you into feeling guilty and ive been unfortunate to meet these women.

    Am i hated? honestly i dont care. probably but sure you cant please em all. i dont hate anyone. its a strong emotion.


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    #59
    RayM
    Closed Accounts Posts: 7,973 ✭✭✭RayM


    I've never fallen out (or parted on bad terms) with anyone. I don't think I've ever made enough of an impression on anyone for them to justifiably expend energy on hating me.


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    #60
    Burial.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,131 ✭✭✭Burial.


    You're not doing things right unless you're hated by someone in my opinion. I wouldn't say I hate anyone myself, would I refuse my piss to quench some specific people on fire, sure thing but I wouldn't say I hate them...hating would mean I'd actually give a f*ck about them.


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    #61
    leggo
    Registered Users Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    I have an odd amount of people who've never met me or have had less than five conversations with me dislike me. I've even more who tell me they disliked me at first then got to know me.

    I think it's because I'm confident but I'm shy at the same time. Like I can chat away to anyone once it gets going, but I can also be socially awkward sometimes if I'm not really feeling it. So people might see me one minute being confident around some people, then see me being cold around them, then take that as if I'm rude or something when really they're analysing me a bit harshly. I also take time to warm to people myself and will scope a person until I've kinda figured them out, but it's more to do with wanting to find common ground and not offend someone than trying to suss out if they're a dick.

    Most people who know me reasonably well tend to think I'm a sound, stand-up guy though. So that's all that matters really.


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