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Why are men dropping out of society? - mod note in 1st post

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,185 ✭✭✭Rory28


    I know some so called engineers who couldnt change a plug but I wouldnt write off engineering as a discipline because of it.

    We wouldnt have STEM subjects at all if not for the creativity fostered by arts and humanities. Creativity is what gives us our humanity. Without art or culture we're just ants.

    never said get rid of them I said they should not cost the same as a course that has a job at the end of it.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,854 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    And youre qualified to judge the quality of other peoples academic interests?

    as a taxpayer I don't want to pay for university to be turned into a finishing school for the less academically inclined. All you are doing is paying a lot of money for everyone to stand up at the football match, nobody wins. If parents want to pay for the "fluffy " end of academia, no problem with that.
    In the US you have students coming out of college with useless liberal arts and gender studies degrees and a $100K in debt which they wont be able to generate additional income to pay it down. crazy stuff, if its to be "free" access has to be restricted to keep numbers down and quality up or the state pays for the country critical stuff and the let parents pay for the really soft stuff.

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39,019 ✭✭✭✭Permabear


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,175 ✭✭✭intheclouds


    Rory28 wrote: »
    never said get rid of them I said they should not cost the same as a course that has a job at the end of it.

    Courses in arts and humanities do have jobs at the end of them.

    Theyre still the most popular courses applied for through CAO.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,175 ✭✭✭intheclouds


    silverharp wrote: »
    as a taxpayer I don't want to pay for university to be turned into a finishing school for the less academically inclined. All you are doing is paying a lot of money for everyone to stand up at the football match, nobody wins. If parents want to pay for the "fluffy " end of academia, no problem with that.
    In the US you have students coming out of college with useless liberal arts and gender studies degrees and a $100K in debt which they wont be able to generate additional income to pay it down. crazy stuff, if its to be "free" access has to be restricted to keep numbers down and quality up or the state pays for the country critical stuff and the let parents pay for the really soft stuff.

    I dont think you really understand the value of art and culture to society.

    There would be no hard end of academia if there had never been a "fluffy" end as you so quaintly put it.

    You seem to think that we should only educate people in "hard" subjects - a society based on such a short sighted vision would be a horrific dystopian place.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,549 ✭✭✭Potatoeman


    Seriously?

    You think arts and humanities are of no benefit to society?

    Thankfully youre not in charge of deciding these things.

    The most prominent and successful artists and musicians don't learn their craft in college.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,175 ✭✭✭intheclouds


    Potatoeman wrote: »
    The most prominent and successful artists and musicians don't learn their craft in college.

    Studying arts and humanities has very little to do with being an artist or a musician.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,045 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


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    Shouldn't we be trying to match people to the careers they would be most interested in and most suited to?
    Have you noticed anyone in authority or the media raising this as an issue. I haven't. Its almost celebrated that girls are outperforming boys so much.

    I have. Ironically it was often raised as part of my uni course.

    I bet some people think men are naturally most suited to physical trades and construction so those course should be dominated by men, but balk at the idea of 60% women in university courses. Survival of the fittest when they are reasonably confident men are the fittest for the role.
    Permabear wrote:
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    Well you're talking about gender equality right now on social media. It sounds almost as if so wine is going to fall for a dreaded gender quota in university courses to make sure more men get to uni.

    What is the solution to encourage more men to go to third level? Do you change the way course are delivered or change entry requirements or what?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,045 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    Well you're talking about gender equality right now on social media. It sounds almost as if so wine is going to fall for a dreaded gender quota in university courses to make sure more men get to uni.


    So wine is going to fall for = someone is going to call for. Autocorrect shafted me again


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,185 ✭✭✭Rory28


    So wine is going to fall for = someone is going to call for. Autocorrect shafted me again

    I think that is more of a secondary level problem. Boys are doing worse and worse in the leaving cert, making the higher points courses out of their reach.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39,019 ✭✭✭✭Permabear


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,478 ✭✭✭eeguy


    Potatoeman wrote: »
    The most prominent and successful artists and musicians don't learn their craft in college.

    Ehh, that's really not true.
    You can easily cherry pick dozens of examples to support your claim, but in the overall sense, most musicians and artists have some forms of formal training, either in established colleges or smaller classes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,478 ✭✭✭eeguy


    Permabear wrote: »
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    Men don't want to be primary teachers. Men are also hired preferentially over women in primary schools, so it's not like the system iso trying to exclude them


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 31,049 ✭✭✭✭Wanderer78


    eeguy wrote: »
    Men don't want to be primary teachers. Men are also hired preferentially over women in primary schools, so it's not like the system iso trying to exclude them

    errr emm, my cousin does and has been for a few years now, unfortunately most of his time has been served outside of this country. i have been told by another teacher though that he ll have a very good chance of getting a full time position here when he returns due to gender imbalance.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,854 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    I dont think you really understand the value of art and culture to society.

    There would be no hard end of academia if there had never been a "fluffy" end as you so quaintly put it.

    You seem to think that we should only educate people in "hard" subjects - a society based on such a short sighted vision would be a horrific dystopian place.

    which is why restricted works for me too. its about affordability and quality.

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    Permabear wrote: »
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    I also have the impression (anectodal! no study backup!) that men get promoted to Principal more than they should given the raw numbers. I know more than one Primary school where the only male teacher ended up as Principal, taking him out of a teaching role.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,499 ✭✭✭Carlos Orange


    There would be no hard end of academia if there had never been a "fluffy" end as you so quaintly put it.

    Not sure I believe work looking into nuclear fusion will suffer if we don't produce enough masters on twilight.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,854 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Permabear wrote: »
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    "roll model" im not sure off. I think a male teacher is more likely to better deal with boyish behaviour . The US has gone silly with their pc culture, boy eats pop tart into a gun, he is sent home and put on Ritalin. But I notice it even in my kids school which is mixed, the boys are "over regulated"

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,045 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    Permabear wrote:
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    So men don't choose teaching at the same rate as women for one reason or another
    Permabear wrote:
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    How do you encourage more men into teaching?
    Wanderer78 wrote:
    errr emm, my cousin does and has been for a few years now, unfortunately most of his time has been served outside of this country. i have been told by another teacher though that he ll have a very good chance of getting a full time position here when he returns due to gender imbalance.

    Even counting your friend, there aren't as many male teachers as female teachers. 2 friends of mine are expecting to excel in their fields for exactly the reason that they are men - teacher and a nurse.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21,045 ✭✭✭✭El_Duderino 09


    Rory28 wrote:
    I think that is more of a secondary level problem. Boys are doing worse and worse in the leaving cert, making the higher points courses out of their reach.

    Either way, how do you address the issue?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,185 ✭✭✭Rory28


    Either way, how do you address the issue?

    me personally? no idea. maybe throw poptarts at kids who do bad on tests?

    that problem is a huge one. asking some guy on the internet for a solution that governments cant fix is a bit silly.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 531 ✭✭✭midnight city


    eeguy wrote: »
    Men don't want to be primary teachers. Men are also hired preferentially over women in primary schools, so it's not like the system iso trying to exclude them

    Nobody has ever sold it to them or pushed the idea for them. Compare it to the push to get women into STEM. The best national school teacher i had was in 6th class. After years and years of female teachers focusing on reading, irish, religion etc he seemed to really appeal to my more logical scientific brain. Lots of focus on maths, science, geography. He brought real world examples into the classroom. I think we underestimate the importance of male teachers to boys. My nephew currently has a new male teacher and my sister says he thinks he is great.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,549 ✭✭✭Potatoeman


    eeguy wrote: »
    Ehh, that's really not true.
    You can easily cherry pick dozens of examples to support your claim, but in the overall sense, most musicians and artists have some forms of formal training, either in established colleges or smaller classes.

    It would depend on the type of music but people usually get into it at a young age if they have an interest. Not sure what advantage college would provide in that field, excluding classical.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39,019 ✭✭✭✭Permabear


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,549 ✭✭✭Potatoeman


    Either way, how do you address the issue?

    Was the curriculum previously changed to address girls scoring lower than boys?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,854 ✭✭✭✭silverharp


    Permabear wrote: »
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    100% yes and a male teacher would "tend" to manage it better and kind of know when to let them blow off a bit of steam. Even in my kids school for instance there have been things like all the boys getting a punishment homework and not the girls for being noisy. they weren't allowed play soccer for a couple of months because it wasn't "inclusive" or the last one was the boys and girls playing tip rugby but the boys had to pass to 1 girl before they scored. Nobody had fun.
    In the US I believe they have cut down on recess for example so a school day can be a straight run with maybe 30min lunch? again that would hit the boys more than the girls. And now you probably have syllabus issues too.

    A belief in gender identity involves a level of faith as there is nothing tangible to prove its existence which, as something divorced from the physical body, is similar to the idea of a soul. - Colette Colfer



  • Closed Accounts Posts: 39,019 ✭✭✭✭Permabear


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 531 ✭✭✭midnight city


    silverharp wrote: »
    100% yes and a male teacher would "tend" to manage it better and kind of know when to let them blow off a bit of steam. Even in my kids school for instance there have been things like all the boys getting a punishment homework and not the girls for being noisy. they weren't allowed play soccer for a couple of months because it wasn't "inclusive" or the last one was the boys and girls playing tip rugby but the boys had to pass to 1 girl before they scored. Nobody had fun.
    In the US I believe they have cut down on recess for example so a school day can be a straight run with maybe 30min lunch? again that would hit the boys more than the girls. And now you probably have syllabus issues too.

    If there was ever an official forum to discuss this issues like that would come out. But its just not seen as important. Nobody seems to want to discuss it.

    The male teacher i was referring too nearly always let us out at break time to play football. Id say he knew the boys absolutely needed it.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 16,686 ✭✭✭✭Zubeneschamali


    Permabear wrote: »
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    Can't say I have much sympathy. The under-achieving boys in my sons schools are a complete pack of savages, you'd have to issue the teachers tasers to get any work out of them.


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