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What body types do women/guys find most/least attractive?

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,453 ✭✭✭Shenshen


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    Obviously your sisters attraction to geek glasses is not directly genetics related. However she might have an emphasis for selecting on the basis of intellect and popular culture has also associated geekyness and glasses with high intellect. Hence your sister associates the two and is attracted to those with the glasses because they may have a higher intellect.


    And regarding the guy who is attracted to post menopausal women, I'd put him into the same outlier evolutionary category as people who are sexually attracted to vegetables, animals, apple tarts or the same gender. Such individuals are so rare because their skewed preferences mean they are unlikely to reproduce. Then why do we still have a few you ask? Perhaps it is just chance, or perhaps they do have some low level reproductive success. For example your friend, he might have a one night stand with a fertile woman and have one child to pass on the granny sex gene, but nonetheless spend the rest of his days balls deep in batty aul geriatrics with the reproductive potential of a peat briquette.

    No offence to our older readers intended, but from a purely evolutionary perspective post menopausal females, reproductively and sexually inert, would have been dead weight on prehistoric societies, consuming resources but yet not producing any children in return. Humans have a natural design life of about 40 years and menopause occurs because there was no real selection for a longer reproductive life because most humans were dead by 40 throughout most of our pre-history.


    However, I would suspect that given our society's move towards having children later in life there is probably some ongoing natural selection and evolution in which women who are fertile well into their late 40s or even early 50s might have a competitive advantage over women who go through a normal menopause. The high high fertility potential of younger women in their 20s say would be of neutral advantage because very very few people that age have babies anyway.

    I think maybe you should read a little more on the subject of evolution. That one ladybird book is not giving you anything near a full picture.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,365 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    ...



    No offence to our older readers intended, but from a purely evolutionary perspective post menopausal females, reproductively and sexually inert, would have been dead weight on prehistoric societies, consuming resources but yet not producing any children in return. Humans have a natural design life of about 40 years and menopause occurs because there was no real selection for a longer reproductive life because most humans were dead by 40 throughout most of our pre-history.


    ....


    a life expectancy of 40 does not mean that people were dead by the time they hit 40. The low life expectancy is due to a high infant mortality rate. The idea of humans "having a design life of 40 years" is just nonsense.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,678 ✭✭✭lawlolawl


    Being a tall guy is a huge advantage when trying to attract women.

    A short guy can learn any amount of pick up techniques etc but he will still be at a disadvantage comparatively.

    For instance, I have a friend called Colin who is 7 feet tall and you just can't teach that.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,237 ✭✭✭✭jimgoose


    a life expectancy of 40 does not mean that people were dead by the time they hit 40. The low life expectancy is due to a high infant mortality rate. The idea of humans "having a design life of 40 years" is just nonsense.

    I want more life, father! :D


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 657 ✭✭✭Musketeer4


    a life expectancy of 40 does not mean that people were dead by the time they hit 40. The low life expectancy is due to a high infant mortality rate. The idea of humans "having a design life of 40 years" is just nonsense.

    It's not really. A human body maintains itself fairly well until that age. After that it slowly but surely deteriorates in performance, strength and integrity.

    There was no advantage in maintaining female fertility beyond, say, 45 because most people had already reproduced sufficiently way before that and lots of people were probably starting to pop their clogs or be killed by that age anyway.
    The situation today is that because of our society relatively few people do or want to reproduce in their teens or 20s despite having great ability to do so and we see many more people in their 40s having kids. In time it might actually be the case that 40 somethings will outbreed 20 somethings. Today a fertile 47 year old who starts having babies has a reproductive advantage over a 20 something who can but won't have babies but finds herself unable to get pregnant at, say, 40 even.
    Thats why I think there's currently selection going on for childbearing ability towards middle age. As it stands relatively few women can successfully procreate at 45 but if those few that can keep breeding and outbreed "child-free by choice" 20 and 30 somethings then, given enough time, those genes for improved later life fertility will be passed on and we will gradually evolve into a species where females can breed well into middle age. That's evolution.

    lawlolawl wrote: »
    Being a tall guy is a huge advantage when trying to attract women.

    A short guy can learn any amount of pick up techniques etc but he will still be at a disadvantage comparatively.

    For instance, I have a friend called Colin who is 7 feet tall and you just can't teach that.
    Colin, quite frankly is a freak of nature. I'd say that level of height would be a disadvatage. Who'd want to date a big long gangley beanpole like that.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25,775 ✭✭✭✭kfallon


    lawlolawl wrote: »
    For instance, I have a friend called Colin who is 7 feet tall and you just can't teach that.

    You just taught me that you have a friend called Colin who is 7 feet tall :confused:

    :p


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,365 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    It's not really. A human body maintains itself fairly well until that age. After that it slowly but surely deteriorates in performance, strength and integrity.

    but gain in other areas like knowledge and wisdom. And that "slow but sure" deterioration can take 20-30 years. Again, you have significantly misunderstood what life expectancy means.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 657 ✭✭✭Musketeer4


    No I have not. Some people might well have lived to a ripe old age and died of decripidness or battyness, many others would have died in childhood and more again would have died at varying ages from infection, accidents and being eaten by dinosaurs:D or whatever.

    Either way women did not have many babies beyond 40 because there was no selective pressure for it. They already had plenty babies well before that so there was no need to maintain reproductive ability.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,407 ✭✭✭Pac1Man


    Legs


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,058 ✭✭✭whoopsadoodles


    Pac1Man wrote: »
    Legs

    Well you're in luck.

    I've got two.

    ;)


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  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 147 ✭✭REM76


    I do feel sorry for those girls that are so short, their arse almost drags on the ground.
    No gym in the world will help them.

    In saying that, I work with a tall, good looking girl whose eyebrows look like they've been constructed using Etch-A-Sketch. She looks like a clown. She is a true idiot.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,368 ✭✭✭Chuchote


    It's all in the smile.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 147 ✭✭REM76


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    The situation today is that because of our society relatively few people do or want to reproduce in their teens or 20s despite having great ability to do so and we see many more people in their 40s having kids. In time it might actually be the case that 40 somethings will outbreed 20 somethings. Today a fertile 47 year old who starts having babies has a reproductive advantage over a 20 something who can but won't have babies but finds herself unable to get pregnant at, say, 40 even.
    Thats why I think there's currently selection going on for childbearing ability towards middle age. As it stands relatively few women can successfully procreate at 45 but if those few that can keep breeding and outbreed "child-free by choice" 20 and 30 somethings then, given enough time, those genes for improved later life fertility will be passed on and we will gradually evolve into a species where females can breed well into middle age. That's evolution.

    What a pile of dumbfounded ****e.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 657 ✭✭✭Musketeer4


    No man, it's logical insight. I think it makes sense.
    We are constantly evolving.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 147 ✭✭REM76


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    No man, it's logical insight. I think it makes sense.
    We are constantly evolving.

    Evolution takes 1,000s of years.

    "Child free by choice", you muppet.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 2,841 ✭✭✭SarahMollie


    Getting back on topic...

    Personally, I'd favour tall-ish, thin/lean guys. What I'd call naturally sporty as opposed to a gym-honed.

    I also like the slightly nerdy look, and I've always been attracted to the intellectual rather than the jock so that fits in.

    Really built guys do nothing for me, and past a point I find it really offputting.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,386 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    No offence to our older readers intended, but from a purely evolutionary perspective post menopausal females, reproductively and sexually inert, would have been dead weight on prehistoric societies, consuming resources but yet not producing any children in return.
    No offence M, but your knowledge of evolution and indeed preagricultural cultures appears both limited and extremely literal.

    Interesting fact Uno; modern humans started to live longer in the middle Palaeolithic. They lived the same lifestyle, looked the same, but more lived to older ages. One notion has it that this was because having grandparents still around proved an evolutionary advantage. It was because they weren't having kids that was an advantage. They could act as babysitters for the younger reproducing members of the group, leaving those younger members to be more productive and to increase the size of the group. Child rearing is resource expensive and time being one of the biggest resources. Grandmothers took more of the weight off. Grandfathers did also, but less in play as they remained fertile. Interesting factoid Dos; human groups became larger around the same time.

    Both had another resource; knowledge. In most societies throughout history, it's the old that are venerated, rather than the young(which is more the case in the west today). There are valid reasons for this, particularly in preliterate cultures. In such cultures the old are the "libraries". Ever notice that among the very old short term memory is often reduced, but very long term memory is solid? That's likely because the long term stuff is more important.

    Oh and as for direct resource gathering? The group in tribal cultures that gathers and produces the most food? Not the men, but the women, in particular the older women. The men get the high value items like meat, but the women get the bulk of the diet. We can see this today among peoples who still live that lifestyle. Among Native Australians it's the grannies who do most of the foraging for "bush tucker". When survivalist types want to find out how to thrive in an environment it's nearly always the older women they ask.

    As for "dead weight"? It seems humans have always looked after members of the group as a positive selected for trait. The first example of this was a Homo Erectus woman who came down with vitamin A poisoning. She was severely disabled by it to the point where she would have been utterly useless, but someone, or several someones kept her fed and alive for weeks. There are many examples of archaic humans with serious injuries and disabilities who lived for decades after such injuries and were clearly valued enough by the group to be helped live. It was another of our "killer apps".

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 657 ✭✭✭Musketeer4


    Yeah jimgoose, if done in the deliberate manner I described above it is "selective breeding". This can enhance specific attributes surprisingly quickly, a matter of a handfull of generations if you breed right. You could breed older women who are known to be fertile with men whose female blood relatives are are known to be fertile at older ages. Say 40s or so. You could keep breeding the offspring at older and older ages then. Also you could probably breed out conditions like downs syndrome by identifying the bloodlines that appear more prone to it and not letting them breed.

    But back to my original point, thats all selective breeding because its deliberate. If it happens just naturally, because people decide to not have children in younger years but instead delay till their 40s, we could nonetheless find in a thousand years that 40 somethings are much more fertile because the small few fertile 40 somethings today will have outbred the less fertile 40 somethings. That would take much longer than a hypothetical selective breeding experiment described above because its uncontrolled, random, and left to chance.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,060 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    How dare you! You're in no position to preach to me about my opinions with a post count of 69. Yeah, and what was your previous username I wonder? I have a good friend who is a mod that I could get to check up your ip and see what you were banned for before re-reging. I'd say that would soften you cough.

    Mod:

    Please report any posts that you think need mod attention, and leave it at that.

    Reporting posts within AH will only alert AH mods as they are the only mods that can action the post. Other forum mods cannot action posts outside their forums.


  • Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,386 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    REM76 wrote: »
    Evolution takes 1,000s of years.
    Actually it can be quite "rapid", particularly in the face of strong external pressures and/or isolated groups. Genes can and do switch on and off within a single lifetime and such changes can be passed to offspring. It's an interesting twist on the pre Darwin idea of Lamarckism.







    *Aside*
    Musketeer4 wrote:
    I have a good friend who is a mod that I could get to check up your ip
    Only Admins can view IP's

    Many worry about Artificial Intelligence. I worry far more about Organic Idiocy.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,060 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    REM76 wrote: »
    Go for it Columbo. Your opinions and overall education are desperately poor. As it says in the bible, before searching for the splinter in my eye, remove the plank from yours.

    Mod:

    Don't post in this thread again.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,365 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    Yeah jimgoose, if done in the deliberate manner I described above it is "selective breeding". This can enhance specific attributes surprisingly quickly, a matter of a handfull of generations if you breed right. You could breed older women who are known to be fertile with men whose female blood relatives are are known to be fertile at older ages. Say 40s or so. You could keep breeding the offspring at older and older ages then. Also you could probably breed out conditions like downs syndrome by identifying the bloodlines that appear more prone to it and not letting them breed.

    But back to my original point, thats all selective breeding because its deliberate. If it happens just naturally, because people decide to not have children in younger years but instead delay till their 40s, we could nonetheless find in a thousand years that 40 somethings are much more fertile because the small few fertile 40 somethings today will have outbred the less fertile 40 somethings. That would take much longer than a hypothetical selective breeding experiment described above because its uncontrolled, random, and left to chance.

    none of which is relevant to the thread.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 657 ✭✭✭Musketeer4


    Wibbs wrote: »


    Anecdotally I read that the western influence in Japanese CBD environment has lead to an increase in the average height. Urban myth? Must be, only talking 60 years.

    Are we talking about the "GI babies" here? When american GIs went around impregnating the japs en masse during and after the war.

    Whats the Japanese CBD environment?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,060 ✭✭✭✭Mr. CooL ICE


    Mod:

    I've had to delete a lot of posts which amounted to nothing more than petty name calling and discussion about moderation.

    For the love of jaysus, stop talking about moderation and/or arguing and just move on.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,365 ✭✭✭✭ohnonotgmail


    Musketeer4 wrote: »
    Are we talking about the "GI babies" here? When american GIs went around impregnating the japs en masse during and after the war.

    Whats the Japanese CBD environment?


    no idea what CBD is but the increase in height of the japanese post ww2 is usually put down to an improved diet. in particular an increased protein intake.


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 657 ✭✭✭Musketeer4


    If you look at the world of dog breeding you can see how quickly selective breeding can produce animals with wildly disproportioned physiques. For example, pugs with scrunched up faces or dashunds with tiny backs and long legs or bassett hounds with ears like mud flaps on a truck.

    For a hypothetical example, you could breed the Kardashians with some Hottentots from Botswana and end up with arse cheeks the size of a bale of silage.
    Or you could breed men with large penises with women whose fathers who had large penises to create a porn star master-race.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,593 ✭✭✭LLMMLL


    Wibbs wrote: »
    Oh I don't think there's a gene or suite of genes for that L. The problem with genetics is that it's the science flavour of the decade and is applied to everything willy nilly. So if all you use is a hammer, everything starts to look like a nail. Ditto for the exalted position of evolution*.

    But that's what you seem to be doing below, analyzing every element of attraction from an evolutionary perspective.
    However your sister may be attracted to that type because a) it's a type prominent in her inner template

    What do you mean by inner template?
    and/or b) she is more that type herself and like tends to seek out like and/or c) "geek glasses" is more likely to signify higher intelligence(of a certain kind) in a man. Put it this way, in very general terms which group is likely to be more bookish and book smart, a gathering of bespectacled nerds or a gathering of bodybuilders?

    She is not an intellectual and her past 2 boyfriends have been tradesmen. She is not into smart guys. It appears she just likes the look of geek glasses. Hard to put an evolutionary spin on that if its not actually related to perceptions of intelligence. I'm simply making the point that not every taste can be related back to evolution.
    Again it would make sense that a species would have variability within the population for mate choice in changing environments. EG in a educated protected suburban environment the bespectacled highly educated "geek" is a better bet than the hyper masculine "jock" of average intelligence and education. Whereas if a war kicked off and protection required a more personal direct approach the muscled guy is the better bet. Regardless of environment it makes good sense for a generalist species to keep some minority traits on the go at any one time.

    All this MAY be true. It may also be not true. The smartest people I know did not become the most successful. I'd say the same is even more true before education became so widespread. I imagine that there were plenty of brilliant young minds in the past who just did not receive the education to capitalize on it. I know you've pointed out below that strong pressures can cause quick changes, but its really only been about 30 years since intellectual skills became important in the workforce, they're still not that important, and usually as long as you have above average intelligence you can perform these jobs. So I see no need for selection based on perceived intelligence.

    Sure, but in any population, especially one that is more open to diversity, outliers even individual "faults" are allowed. Or it's simply a "fault" in your friend. I mean there are folks who have fallen in love with objects, even buildings.


    Well take the biggest outliers of all, gay people. Now I know there are plenty of theories within an evolutionary framework that purport to explain this, but these usually explain why people who are not attracted to the opposite sex exist. They tend not to explain the attractions of these people. Gay culture has an extremely diverse set of attractions, and in many cases they've got labels for these types. Why does one guy like bears (big, hairy guys) and another likes twinks (young smooth slim guys). Why among guys who like bears do some guys like muscle daddy bears and others like chubby geek bears (I recently was told by a friend there's a night in london that caters to this subtype). Here you have bizarrely specific types, not one of which will result in a child.

    I'm not saying evolution hasn't played a part in attraction. I just find analyzing every attraction in those terms just doesn't make sense. It seems in many human enterprises there are aspects of taste, not just attraction. Not only do people have different tastes in movies (drama v comedy etc) but even within these categories tastes vary (gross out comedy, subtle comedy, slapstick) with many people having very strong preferences. To me, the specifics of attraction just reflect that natural human divergence of tastes.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭Olishi4


    As we have evolved, natural selection has probably slowed down a little and with a bigger and more diverse environment maybe the impact of sexual imprinting has increased?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 21,448 ✭✭✭✭Cupcake_Crisis


    Big fan of the dad bod. Seth Rogen, early Chris pratt, c'mere to me!!


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 405 ✭✭HS3


    Holy jaysus this thread has gone through some evolution :pac:

    I can't even remember what the options are :pac: A hairy chest is my weakness. It could be covering any body type tbh :o It is so manly I almost drool at the little tufts of hair peeking out over a shirt :o


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