Do you really hate anybody..if so whom

Football Friend · 10-09-2016 06:27AM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AKSZWme3Bpc

Unearthly · 10-09-2016 06:30AM

A person I work with. Out of everyone I have met in personal and working life, he is the worst of the worst. He's that toxic that I'd consider leaving the company over and he isn't even my boss

The flying mouse · 10-09-2016 08:17AM

I try and not hate anyone but there are a small few of people who I dislike immensely.

Cee-Jay-Cee · 10-09-2016 08:32AM

I say I do but it's just a strong dislike in most cases.

Winterlong · 10-09-2016 08:47AM

Make love not war!

MilesMorales1 · 10-09-2016 09:22AM

DEFTLEFTHAND wrote: »

I don't hate anybody.

I was mislead in my formative years by strong leftists and once I became aware of the deception I disliked them for denying human nature and for practicing the "bigotry of low expectations."

The same thing that the Democrat Party do to this day. It really angers me how they manipulate minorities without out ever actively seeking to improve their situations.

I'd view myself these days as a conservative but I massively respect classical liberals like Dave Rubin. I like straight shooters, people who tell the truth.

Classical Liberalism and Conservatism have become quite close in recent years as the regressive left have sullied the term 'liberal'.

I like how you made that political, at 4.45am. Thats skill.

And its all very well to say 'hate is a waste of energy' or whatever buzz words you have, people do things that can't be taken back and can't be forgotten, and sometimes people are just toxic and have to be put up with for years. If other people have the ability to put those emotions in a box and not 'hate' then fair ****s to you, cos I can't do it. If anything, my hate towards that person is a useful mechanism for reminding me why I should never tolerate horrible toxic people or such awfulness from anyone ever again.

Owryan · 10-09-2016 09:26AM

Couple of people in my class in college I would come close to hating.

Also there is a sub section in society who I would because of their carry on.

Irrational I know but if we were rational beings that would be boring

Optimalprimerib · 10-09-2016 09:29AM

It's lovely to think that I would never let people get under my skin so much that I would hate them, but unfortunately I am not strong enough.

I hated plenty in my time and not always because they wronged me but because I found their toxic personality or values I didn't agree with.

Lollipops23 · 10-09-2016 09:31AM

I used to truly hate one girl in particular. I got over it over time- I still think she's a terrible person who did her best to destroy my life, but I don't allow her the headspace for hatred any more. I'm too busy living my life.

Autonomous Cowherd · 10-09-2016 10:45AM

I have experienced bad things from people but I have not felt hatred towards anyone I have ever met yet. But I do not think that means I would never hate anyone. Hate means to have a passionate aversion towards. I used to think (in an earlier ethereal phase) that evil did not exist. Then one day a strange thing happened. On here, on Boards actually. Someone linked a document in a discussion and I casually clicked on it and it opened at images that were found in Marc Dutroux's home. I shut it down within a few seconds but not before some photos had been seared into my brain. I had to run outside and get sick. It completely re-ordered my perception about the existence of evil. If he was in a room I walked into, I think what I would feel would amount to ''passionate aversion'' and thus hate. I am sure now there are others I would feel the same way towards, as he is probably not the only evil person in the world. Unfortunately. It is not an emotion I would foster, or prolong, but I think it is an authentic reaction to feel in certain instances (?)

XR3i · 10-09-2016 12:38PM

i hate the taxi-driver who wouldn't let me into the traffic the last day, i'm never letting a taxi-driver into traffic again,

forgiven, not forgotten

Mint Sauce · 10-09-2016 12:45PM

One or two I seriously dislike, and would be too soon if I ever seen them again. But hate, no.

The flying mouse · 10-09-2016 12:45PM

The people or groups I did hate before I have let go from my mind, For me hating them was some sort of egoistic power trip I was on,even feeling sorry for myself. after I sorted out my mind with a few good studys and classes,I realised that all the hating was hurting me than them. As I said above I still dislike them but don't do the hate part.Better things to be doing with my life.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 10-09-2016 03:04PM

I have two families I can't stand and would be happy to hear bad luck falling on them, however I'd say I'm more indifferent to them than hate them. They're scumbags and don't deserve any feelings from me.

Ray Palmer · 10-09-2016 03:32PM

I don't hate anybody but really have no respect what so ever for certain people.

If I saw a stranger in trouble I would go and help them for certain people I would do nothing because I know them

tim_holsters · 10-09-2016 04:04PM

It's gotta be Barry Egan for me I can't think of a more worthless living Irish person, hate is too strong I suppose, hate to me at least seems to indicate some form of effort so I'll just say I strongly despise the cnut.

Summer wind · 10-09-2016 04:05PM

We had a neighbour years ago and one of her favourite things to do when my little two year old nephew was out in the yard was leaning out her upstairs window and aiming her lit cigarette buts to go in the hood of his jacket. That was just one example of loads of terrible things she did. It's very hard not to hate a person like that.

tim_holsters · 10-09-2016 04:10PM

Summer wind wrote: »

We had a neighbour years ago and one of her favourite things to do when my little two year old nephew was out in the yard was leaning out her upstairs window and aiming her lit cigarette buts to go in the hood of his jacket. That was just one example of loads of terrible things she did. It's very hard not to hate a person like that.

How did you let it go after the first time she did it? You just let her keep doing it?

cbyrd · 10-09-2016 06:26PM

I hate my brother. I worked with him for 20 years and I hate the sight of him. He has done his very best to ruin me at every turn. He has bullied my children and outright ignored my youngest cos she's not my ex husbands child. The same fcuker has a child who is not his wife's but his wife's best friend. I am morally challenged in his opinion.
I moved county to get away from him. I have learned that it's pointless to give a $hit but i have in the past enjoyed different ways of getting vengeance, the best one was telling his wife of the affair... But that would only hurt the kids. Instead I left the business and am now enjoying the complaints from my mother of it floundering. This is balm to my battered soul.

Colser · 10-09-2016 08:06PM

It's more indifference imo I'm sure he would help if they were in serious danger but not anything less(maybe I'm wrong,)...hatred is really where you wish the very worse for someone and would probably get pleasure from their suffering.I hate 2 people and even thinking about them makes my blood boil,sad but true.ðŸ˜¨

RayM · 10-09-2016 08:41PM

B.A._Baracus wrote: »

Guys please tell me the above is a joke?
I read it and started to laugh while waiting for the punchline but there wasn't any. Am actually starting to think ol' Ray here meant was he said.

I never joke about anything.

Notsomindful · 10-09-2016 08:46PM

Had an ex friend turn into an obsessive stalker resulting in me having a breakdown. Control freak and very fake.

I hate her, it makes me happy if we are forced unavoidably to be in each others company as she is so uncomfortable in my presence.

If i had water and she was on fire, id drink it and just watch her.

Summer wind · 10-09-2016 09:59PM

tim_holsters wrote: »

How did you let it go after the first time she did it? You just let her keep doing it?

Well as you can probably guess she wasn't the type you could speak to and reason with. We also were not going to have a punch up with her because that was what she was hoping for to get one of us charged with assault.

zcorpian88 · 10-09-2016 10:28PM

My ex girlfriend's biological mother (she was adopted and met her later in life) she messed up my ex's head very badly and also my ex's supervisor for her phD who wouldn't let up with the workload he kept giving her, where it got to a boiling point where I had to end the relationship because of the issues of the two things I mentioned above.

A particular friend of mine who recently sexually harassed a friend of ours on a night out (full force slap on the ass) after I did him the courtesy of setting him with a good female friend of mine, and she's been devoted to him for the last 2 years, and to make it worse he did this with his girlfriend being in the bar but she was out of sight at the time. The victim of it didn't want to cause any drama over it, but was not one bit impressed and she told me herself she will feel uneasy around him from now on but didn't even confront him, it's been rubbing me the wrong way since I found out randomly during a text conversation a few weeks ago, this same guy would be the first one to criticize anyone that ever did that or anything stupid on a night out, and he goes and does this.... and I feel bad knowing this and can't say anything because it would be meddling but I'm angry because I vouched for him in the beginning and I feel bad for my friend who he's going out with, as well as the victim of course. He's also had some very nasty arguments with some friends of ours and has lied and manipulated them into giving him his way where it be letting him off with a simple debt for a financial arrangement that was made to being asked to lie and twist stories to his girlfriend over something he did which she wouldn't like.