Scorned woman /man ...revenge.

Dravokivich · 04-07-2016 09:48AM

Never seen the point in revenge. Just means bullsh!t continues rolling on. Anyone I've had an issue with I've just left them be.

Labarbapostiza · 04-07-2016 03:35PM

Dravokivich wrote: »

Never seen the point in revenge. Just means bullsh!t continues rolling on. Anyone I've had an issue with I've just left them be.

When you seek revenge...you dig two graves my friend...as they say in the Spaghetti Westerns.

Some people it's non stop vengeance. It's the root of a lot of badness in the world. People perceive their unhappiness as being the fault of someone else and lash out.

A friend, a woman, wanted to make her divorce as messy as possible, just for the sake of giving her husband as much grief as possible, even though the messiness would have negative consequences for herself. Her problem wasn't that he'd done anything, just that over familiarity can eventually breed poisonous contempt. The kind of stuff she was doing was hilarious from a sick point of view, she knew which buttons to press for a laugh, but they were expensive laughs.

Actually, Mumsnet forums are an addictive read. There's a whole class of women, who were born to be divorced. They don't, and never even have, liked men, and even less liked the men they married. The divorce was often all a part of the game plan. Some men beat their wives, and some wives use divorce proceedings to batter their husbands.

Outlaw Pete · 04-07-2016 04:01PM

Nah, what's the point. I usually just cry and listen to She's Gone by Hall & Oates tbh.

Shint0 · 04-07-2016 04:23PM

The flying mouse wrote: »

My ex wife in Portugal put a curse on me from a Brazilian witch doctor, I had a **** life for years after we split, and then I went to one who informed me of the curse, It was lifted and low n behold my life got better. tis true.

I certainly wouldn't rule out this phenomenon. While the logical side of my brain would try to discount it I am aware personally of situations from within other cultures where situations like this appear to have occurred. Perhaps a topic for another thread.

FortySeven · 04-07-2016 04:27PM

Shint0 wrote: »

I certainly wouldn't rule out this phenomenon. While the logical side of my brain would try to discount it I am aware personally of situations from within other cultures where situations like this appear to have occurred. Perhaps a topic for another thread.

Pretty sure we can just discredit it here and be done.

Shint0 · 04-07-2016 04:45PM

FortySeven wrote: »

Pretty sure we can just discredit it here and be done.

I thought Boards was hoping to rid itself of the open and shut one-sided arguments

:P

The 'creepy and unnerving' thread is very popular and I generally would be the biggest sceptic going but I had something seriously 'other wordly' happen me a long time ago which really got my hackles up. I might get round to posting it one day in that thread.

wakka12 · 04-07-2016 05:17PM

NeonDemon wrote: »

Yes. Broken hearts want broken necks. She cheated so I ****ed two of her other sl*t friends. She tried to play the whole Im gonna commit suicide if you do this shtick but I didnt care if she did.

All talk. I could almost guarantee you'd care if she did. Sudden deaths of even people I don't know very well are pretty shocking and Im not even an emotional person. A suicide death of somebody you were intimate and surely liked a lot for at least a little while will affect you.

wakka12 · 04-07-2016 05:20PM

please helpThank YOU wrote: »

Falsely accused of Childabuse thats what happen to me with bitterX scorned and the will go around Falsely spreading your are a childabuser peadophile in pubs to your friends job etc it happend to me and it was hell on earth and your Friends will turn there backs on you thats what happend me from a bitter x scorned

Id find it really difficult to not become physically violent toward her if somebody did that to me, but it'd just make things even worse.

wakka12 · 04-07-2016 05:22PM

Amanda.ie wrote: »

Revenge makes you feel better for all of five minutes, dont stoop to their level. Move on and forget about them.

I always hear people say this , I hope Im not the only one but personally I think revenge feels great.

Wibbs · 04-07-2016 06:00PM

I've been cheated on a couple of times. Saddened me more than anything TBH. #Whatareyagonnado? *shrug*

AlteredStates · 04-07-2016 08:46PM

Wish them the very best for the future. Their guilty conscience & karma will ultimately play its part. Life is too short to be anything but happy.

ToddyDoody · 04-07-2016 09:16PM

How do you get revenge against someone who wouldn't touch you with a barge pole? It's a remarkably powerless position to be in.

wakka12 · 04-07-2016 11:10PM

ToddyDoody wrote: »

How do you get revenge against someone who wouldn't touch you with a barge pole? It's a remarkably powerless position to be in.

Spread mean things about them to mutual friends..lots of things to do..not condoning them but yeh..

Witchie · 04-07-2016 11:58PM

I have the power to ruin an ex's life and have been very tempted since he has put me through hell. Haven't done it and time is running out to do it. Should I?

Donald Trump · 05-07-2016 12:07AM

Witchie wrote: »

I have the power to ruin an ex's life and have been very tempted since he has put me through hell. Haven't done it and time is running out to do it. Should I?

You going to pull out his life support before he dies naturally?

I'm glad you're not my doctor!

FortySeven · 05-07-2016 12:15AM

Witchie wrote: »

I have the power to ruin an ex's life and have been very tempted since he has put me through hell. Haven't done it and time is running out to do it. Should I?

No. You shouldn't witchie. Be the bigger person.

wakka12 · 05-07-2016 12:28AM

Witchie wrote: »

I have the power to ruin an ex's life and have been very tempted since he has put me through hell. Haven't done it and time is running out to do it. Should I?

No you will always regret ruining somebodys life, and if people finds out that you did this to him then you'll always have the label of being the worse person out of the two of you regardless of what he did to you in the past. Not worth it

Shint0 · 05-07-2016 12:46AM

Getting revenge is really subjective and depends on the circumstances. If someone has been disrespected privately, publicly or worse they shouldn't always just stand back and take it or simply turn the other cheek because that's not healthy for one's self-esteem or one's own self-respect. Sometimes a marker does need to be laid down to re-affirm personal boundaries and that can take many forms but it should never be done out of pleasure. Even the most saintly of people have their limitations.

05-07-2016 01:24AM

I know what hatred is. A Real burning desire to inflict the same pain they caused me. But no. That kind of feeling only serves to pull you apart, not the one that most deserves it.

Labarbapostiza · 05-07-2016 02:08AM

Donald Trump wrote: »

You going to pull out his life support before he dies naturally?

I'm glad you're not my doctor!

I couldn't be a doctor for the same reason. But if I was, the health services bill would be greatly reduced. People have an over sentimentality for the old...especially the old 'salt of the earth' conservatives. There's a strong likelihood they bate their children around with batings they wouldn't dream of dishing out to their pet dog (ah they always love their dog, that kind..bate their children, wouldn't bate the dog, no, no..wouldn't dream of it, sure what has the dog done). I mean, 'natural causes', it's not like you're pals are going to tell on you, if you get them off early and down to the pub, for the same money as if they'd spent hours sweating over an ungrateful gob'fullof'shino. They'd have all kinds of 'tricks of the trade'. I mean, there must be 'tricks of the trade'...as long as they don't go over the top, like your man Harold Shipman. Not a GP you'd want to cheek, or give a pain in the arse to...But if they keep looking at their watch, and want to get down the pub to watch the match...I certainly wouldn't push my luck...If I was a doctor, you'd be getting a Shipman special to soften your coffin'

NeonDemon · 05-07-2016 03:06AM

wakka12 wrote: »

All talk. I could almost guarantee you'd care if she did. Sudden deaths of even people I don't know very well are pretty shocking and Im not even an emotional person. A suicide death of somebody you were intimate and surely liked a lot for at least a little while will affect you.

Christ you sound like a p*ssy dude. I stopped caring about her the moment she f*cked someone else. Alls fair in love and war. Its one or the other with women. Besides nothing matters in this world, do you really think I'd let someone who I slept with and shared an apartment occasionally affect me apart from getting what I want?

Read Nietzsche's Will to Power and get out of that weak beta mindset.

Speedwell · 05-07-2016 04:20AM

Witchie wrote: »

I have the power to ruin an ex's life and have been very tempted since he has put me through hell. Haven't done it and time is running out to do it. Should I?

Does the punishment fit the crime?
Is he going to know it came from you?
Is he going to fully understand it was related to his treatment of you?
Will what you plan make him feel remorse and do better in future?
Will what you plan make him apologise to you about how he treated you and make amends?
Will what you plan make him want revenge in turn against you?
Are other people going to know it was your doing? Might some of those people be people you don't want to know you did such a thing?
Would it involve (harm) other people not directly involved and/or not at fault?
Will other people who you used to get your revenge resent that you used them? Could these people be in a position to harm you later?
Can you imagine a scenario in which people who are not at fault are harmed as collateral damage, now or in the future?
Is it legal?
Could there be blowback that could harm you?
Will doing this make you feel better about yourself and your own character, or worse?

Speedwell · 05-07-2016 04:21AM

NeonDemon wrote: »

Christ you sound like a p*ssy dude. I stopped caring about her the moment she f*cked someone else. Alls fair in love and war. Its one or the other with women. Besides nothing matters in this world, do you really think I'd let someone who I slept with and shared an apartment occasionally affect me apart from getting what I want?

Read Nietzsche's Will to Power and get out of that weak beta mindset.

Yeah, you sound like a man of character and honour.

/sarcasm

NeonDemon · 05-07-2016 04:34AM

Speedwell wrote: »

Yeah, you sound like a man of character and honour.

/sarcasm

What's that got to do with anything? Your girlfriend is f*cking other people, we're bombing children in Syria, you're posting using a computer made in a South East Asian sweatshop then wake up and order a Caramel Macchiato coffee from Starbucks planted and harvested by 12 year olds in Bolivia and all you can say is a non-substantial passive aggressive remark based on a lack of life experience?

Christ dude. I've been to 5 continents and lived full-time in 3 countries and I cant help but pity people with obviously sheltered lives complaining about the most mundane sh*t the most lifeless way possible.

You talk like a woman.

Speedwell · 05-07-2016 05:00AM

NeonDemon wrote: »

What's that got to do with anything? Your girlfriend is f*cking other people, we're bombing children in Syria, you're posting using a computer made in a South East Asian sweatshop then wake up and order a Caramel Macchiato coffee from Starbucks planted and harvested by 12 year olds in Bolivia and all you can say is a non-substantial passive aggressive remark based on a lack of life experience?

Christ dude. I've been to 5 continents and lived full-time in 3 countries and I cant help but pity people with obviously sheltered lives complaining about the most mundane sh*t the most lifeless way possible.

You talk like a woman.

I'm a woman.

You're a creep.

B.A._Baracus · 05-07-2016 05:01AM

NeonDemon wrote: »

What's that got to do with anything? Your girlfriend is f*cking other people, we're bombing children in Syria, you're posting using a computer made in a South East Asian sweatshop then wake up and order a Caramel Macchiato coffee from Starbucks planted and harvested by 12 year olds in Bolivia and all you can say is a non-substantial passive aggressive remark based on a lack of life experience?

Christ dude. I've been to 5 continents and lived full-time in 3 countries and I cant help but pity people with obviously sheltered lives complaining about the most mundane sh*t the most lifeless way possible.

You talk like a woman.

You know what Mister feckin' NeonDemon!!!!!!!!!!! :mad:

... I like you :pac: Some slut cheated on you so you got some revenge.

NeonDemon · 05-07-2016 05:11AM

Speedwell wrote: »

I'm a woman.

You're a creep.

'ok'

Mark Tapley · 05-07-2016 07:43AM

NeonDemon wrote: »

What's that got to do with anything? Your girlfriend is f*cking other people, we're bombing children in Syria, you're posting using a computer made in a South East Asian sweatshop then wake up and order a Caramel Macchiato coffee from Starbucks planted and harvested by 12 year olds in Bolivia and all you can say is a non-substantial passive aggressive remark based on a lack of life experience?

Christ dude. I've been to 5 continents and lived full-time in 3 countries and I cant help but pity people with obviously sheltered lives complaining about the most mundane sh*t the most lifeless way possible.

You talk like a woman.

I'm beginning to think your girlfriend went off and had a ride rather than listen to your bullshìt.

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 05-07-2016 07:46AM

Lord, I thought I was a physcopath until I read this thread.

gramar · 05-07-2016 08:14AM

The flying mouse wrote: »

My ex wife in Portugal put a curse on me from a Brazilian witch doctor, I had a **** life for years after we split, and then I went to one who informed me of the curse, It was lifted and low n behold my life got better. tis true.

I'll believe that...when mice fly....

Scorned woman /man ...revenge.

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