Scorned woman /man ...revenge.

littelady

(Jeremy kyle voice over needed ! )
Have you ever been the victim of a love rat. Your best friend run off with your partner. My question is have you sought revenge and how. Over to you.

Ps. Im happily married not interested in inflicting others :-D

demanufactured

littelady wrote: »

(Jeremy kyle voice over needed ! )
Have you ever been the victim of a love rat. Your best friend run off with your partner. My question is have you seeked revenge and how. Over to you.

Ps. Im happily married not interested in inflicting others :-D

Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!

littelady

littelady wrote: »

(Jeremy kyle voice over needed ! )
Have you ever been the victim of a love rat. Your best friend run off with your partner. My question is have you seeked revenge and how.

Have you?

we'llallhavetea

went out with a violent asshole so i cheated on him and fcuking RELISHED every moment of telling him about it. dont think i would have that in me now really, i have gotten out of the "assholes are cool" phase thank feck!

NeonDemon

Yes. Broken hearts want broken necks. She cheated so I ****ed two of her other sl*t friends. She tried to play the whole Im gonna commit suicide if you do this shtick but I didnt care if she did.

jester77

Best mate of over 30 years tried it on with my girlfriend at the time. We were living on 3 different continents, the long distance thing was tough. He put his head in and started making moves. My girlfriend moved back to my city, shortly after he got a transfer to a different city in the same country, what a coincidence. They had a weekend lined up, found out about it and I turned up instead and confronted him.

My revenge? Blocked his number, blacklisted him on my networks and never saw or spoke to him again.

NeonDemon

jester77 wrote: »

Best mate of over 30 years tried it on with my girlfriend at the time. We were living on 3 different continents, the long distance thing was tough. He put his head in and started making moves. My girlfriend moved back to my city, shortly after he got a transfer to a different city in the same country, what a coincidence. They had a weekend lined up, found out about it and I turned up instead and confronted him.

My revenge? Blocked his number, blacklisted him on my networks and never saw or spoke to him again.

How is that revenge? Also your girlfriend clearly consented if they planned it. Christ dude. I hope youre not still with her.

Mark Tapley

NeonDemon wrote: »

Yes. Broken hearts want broken necks. She cheated so I ****ed two of her other sl*t friends. She tried to play the whole Im gonna commit suicide if you do this shtick but I didnt care if she did.

I think you might have level 6 hairy hands syndrome. Seek medical attention immediately.

littelady

No I havent seeked revenge, I was luckily never cheated on but I would go stark crazy.

NeonDemon

Mark Tapley wrote: »

I think you might have level 6 hairy hands syndrome. Seek medical attention immediately.

I have no idea what that means buddy. Enlighten me, Im only 20 years old after all.

Mark Tapley

NeonDemon wrote: »

I have no idea what that means buddy. Enlighten me, Im only 20 years old after all.

It means your posts all sound a bit mental.

Spanish Eyes

Sought Revenge. Not seeked.

Anyway. Revenge is a dish best served cold.

Do not go for it until you have cooled down and planned it. lol.

Much more effective.

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5

Never been cheated on that I'm aware of, had relationships end pretty badly though. Does screaming drunken abuse down the phone and sending angry emails that are mostly typos count as revenge? Yeah. Yeah I showed them.

NeonDemon

Mark Tapley wrote: »

It means your posts all sound a bit mental.

'ok'

Barry Badrinath

NeonDemon wrote: »

Yes. Broken hearts want broken necks. She cheated so I ****ed two of her other sl*t friends. She tried to play the whole Im gonna commit suicide if you do this shtick but I didnt care if she did.

Jaysis thats grim.

jester77

NeonDemon wrote: »

How is that revenge? Also your girlfriend clearly consented if they planned it. Christ dude. I hope youre not still with her.

Exactly, it's not. Why would anyone bother with revenge, these type of people are not worth giving a second thought to. These people are ultimately going to live a miserable existence so just leave them to it. Definitely not worth getting worked up over.

littelady

Think thats normal ....i have done that

NeonDemon

NeonDemon wrote: »

Yes. Broken hearts want broken necks. She cheated so I ****ed two of her other sl*t friends. She tried to play the whole Im gonna commit suicide if you do this shtick but I didnt care if she did.

Zoiks.

That's a bit...intense...

littelady

littelady wrote:

(Jeremy kyle voice over needed ! ) Have you ever been the victim of a love rat. Your best friend run off with your partner. My question is have you seeked revenge and how. Over to you.

Amended jez

NeonDemon

Deleted User wrote: »

Zoiks.

That's a bit...intense...

Its probably the best thing anyones ever done to her. Now she wont cheat on anyone and will value lasting relationships even more for the rest of her life. Her pain has made her a better person. Cant say the same for me.

please helpThank YOU

Falsely accused of Childabuse thats what happen to me with bitterX scorned and the will go around Falsely spreading your are a childabuser peadophile in pubs to your friends job etc it happend to me and it was hell on earth and your Friends will turn there backs on you thats what happend me from a bitter x scorned

gigantic09

NeonDemon wrote: »

I have no idea what that means buddy. Enlighten me, Im only 20 years old after all.

You're too young for st.clabberts so.

littelady

please helpThank YOU wrote:

Falsely accused of Childabuse thats what happen to me with bitterX scorned and the will go around Falsely spreading your are a childabuser peadophile in pubs to your friends job etc it happend to me and it was hell on earth and your Friends will turn there backs on you thats what happend me from a bitter x scorned

Thats the lowest of the low to do on anyone I hope you got to clear your name.

NeonDemon

NeonDemon wrote: »

Its probably the best thing anyones ever done to her. Now she wont cheat on anyone and will value lasting relationships even more for the rest of her life. Her pain has made her a better person. Cant say the same for me.

You are 20.

At some stage in your future, you will understand that references to broken necks and not caring whether someone committed suicide are inappropriate. Even if she behaved terribly, which I fully accept.

littelady

littelady wrote:

Thats the lowest of the low to do on anyone I hope you got to clear your name.

May I add...what a biiiaaatch.

please helpThank YOU

Hello littelady it took me 3 years to clear my name
very quite occasion but the Happiest day for me .you cant live with it being branded a peadophile by a bitter xs scorned

s4uv3

The best revenge you can give a cheater is to simply say
"That's that so, see ya"

Mean what you say, cut them off, don't react, don't let them know you're hurting, not even a little bit.
Leave them scratching their heads, wondering if they ever really meant anything to you in the first place

pq0n1ct4ve8zf5

please helpThank YOU wrote: »

Hello littelady it took me 3 years to clear my name
very quite occasion but the Happiest day for me .you cant live with it being branded a peadophile by a bitter xs scorned

Glad you got through it, hope that spiteful cow can live with herself. What a terrible thing to do to someone, and incredibly disrespectful to real victims. Shít bitch.

Amanda.ie

Revenge makes you feel better for all of five minutes, dont stoop to their level. Move on and forget about them.

littelady

Amanda.ie wrote:

Revenge makes you feel better for all of five minutes, dont stoop to their level. Move on and forget about them.

Wheres the fun in that !!! In reality I would be dignified in the relms of my wild imagination I would be cutting off his bits and her hair !!! O:)

littelady

please helpThank YOU wrote:

Hello littelady it took me 3 years to clear my name very quite occasion but the Happiest day for me .you cant live with it being branded a peadophile by a bitter xs scorned

No joke I would ruin her.

littelady

littelady wrote: »

No joke I would ruin her.

Please folks, it's time to rein in the intensity.

The whole area can be very nuanced. It deserves more respect than glib comments on an anonymous forum. We don't know what was said to her by the child, what the evidence was, why social workers felt it was more than a bitter accusation etc. Which is of course not to doubt that poster for a second...but I wouldn't preach revenge on hearing one side of any story. Family law is very acrimonious.

The_Valeyard

demanufactured wrote: »

Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!

STEEEEEEEEEEEVVVVVEEEEEEE,!!!!

littelady

Deleted User wrote:

The whole area can be very nuanced. It deserves more respect than glib comments on an anonymous forum. We don't know what was said to her by the child, what the evidence was, why social workers felt it was more than a bitter accusation etc. Which is of course not to doubt that poster for a second...but I wouldn't preach revenge on hearing one side of any story. Family law is very acrimonious.[

Fair point.

Sapphire

s4uv3 wrote: »

The best revenge you can give a cheater is to simply say
"That's that so, see ya"

Mean what you say, cut them off, don't react, don't let them know you're hurting, not even a little bit.
Leave them scratching their heads, wondering if they ever really meant anything to you in the first place

I'd say the same. Best revenge on a bastard is your own happiness.

But...but maybe just one little prawn sewn into the curtain hem? Just the one?

Miss Demeanour

Why seek revenge when you can smile and be happy. Forgive but remain indifferent and move on....best for you can do for yourself.....













....failing that......a fish down the back of a sofa is savage crack .....according to a friend like......

the_syco

Deleted User wrote: »

At somereatistage in your future, you will understand that references to broken necks and not caring whether someone committed suicide are inappropriate.

Threatening suicide is emotional blackmail, and thus walking away without caring about the consequences is escape.

Alf Veedersane

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Zoiks.

That's a bit...intense...

I imagine you'd break out of a wardrobe or oversized birthday cake just as the revenge was revealed to its full extent, singing "Don't you...forget about me..." before shuffling off, stage left.

Miss Demeanour

Miss Demeanour wrote: »

....failing that......a fish down the back of a sofa is savage crack .....according to a friend like......

Fishing down the back of the sofa? to steal their lost coins?

Pac1Man

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Have you?

Why does this always happen in 'question' threads? Everyone gets on the defensive until the thread starter answers the question first. What is the psychology behind that?

please helpThank YOU

Hi conor 74 Thank you for your comments .you are 100 percent correct that each allegation should be given a full and thorough investigation. we would expect nothing less from the Hse/Gaurd investigation to be conducted in the highest standards possible zero room for error).the interest of the child is paramount. if it is determined that the childs safety is has never been an issue and the falsely accused can point to the false accuser as somebody who has harbored ill will or malice towards the falsely accused.then it is in the interest of justice that this person be subject to prosecutution and or harsh civil penalties.We cannot be so blind as to accept every accusation as guilt.we owe our citizens more than shaming and finger pointing .too often the irish consciousness is happy to go along with the guilty by accusation mentality .through my journey of being falsely accused.I have learned of people like me who are no longer with us.because of the stigma society placed on them.we need to collectively shift our mind set and rally behind anybody seeking justice that of the victim and that of the false accuser.reading cliff richards fight with authorities and his struggle to clear his name has provided me both strenth and wisdom in my struggle. hoping that we can mature as a nation and justice system to tackle these complex issues

Pac1Man

Pac1Man wrote: »

Why does this always happen in 'question' threads? Everyone gets on the defensive until the thread starter answers the question first. What is the psychology behind that?

Because it's annoying.

It's almost as bad as the people who write a statement, and sign it off with "Discuss".

If you want people to reply your thread then put a bit of effort into getting the ball rolling yourself. Offer insight as to why you're asking or where you're coming from with your question.


(it's also possibly part of the boards rules, but i'm not sure).

Donald Trump

please helpThank YOU wrote: »

Hello littelady it took me 3 years to clear my name
very quite occasion but the Happiest day for me .you cant live with it being branded a peadophile by a bitter xs scorned

My ex tried to call me a paedophile after we broke up. I was completely astounded.........................

in fairness, it's an impressively big word for a 5 year old to know*









(Yeah yeah, a tasteless joke. Apologies if I offend anyone. I obviously don't condone anything and I obviously don't mean to detract from anyone who suffered abuse or false accusations!)

FortySeven

Came up with a thousand extraordinariliy Machiavellian scenarios for my ex in my head, still have a few favorites but ultimately I just sucked up the pain, ranted a bit on here and then picked myself up and carried on putting one foot in front of the other.

It's not over yet so I reserve the right to return to my dark fantasies.

punisher5112

Maury.....

You are the father....

Speedwell

My emotionally abusive ex-partner: "You never do anything right. You just don't want to do anything to try to make me happy, do you?"

Me, exhausted: "No, I never do anything right, so it's impossible to try to make you happy. Can you be out by the end of the month?"

qo2cj1dsne8y4k

I've never been cheated on that I know of!! Been in situations where I had feelings for someone who had no problem messing me around though to be fair I probably hurt him enough that I have no business feeling scorned.

LunarSea

I don't go for revenge (it feels too much like keeping negative feelings alive after the fact), but was briefly involved with someone that was both a financial and emotional drain with a penchant for both verbal and physical abuse (at which point I ran a mile).

Simply walking away and then seeing her get involved with two guys that treated her like dirt kinda felt like revenge via proxy. I guess karma caught up with her.

Gen.Zhukov

Donald Trump wrote: »

My ex tried to call me a paedophile after we broke up. I was completely astounded.........................

in fairness, it's an impressively big word for a 5 year old to know*









(Yeah yeah, a tasteless joke. Apologies if I offend anyone. I obviously don't condone anything and I obviously don't mean to detract from anyone who suffered abuse or false accusations!)

WTF ?

Sapphire

Oh the idea of karma is nice. It's rare though that you actually get to witness it.

Donald Trump

Donald Trump wrote: »

My ex tried to call me a paedophile after we broke up. I was completely astounded.........................

in fairness, it's an impressively big word for a 5 year old to know*









(Yeah yeah, a tasteless joke. Apologies if I offend anyone. I obviously don't condone anything and I obviously don't mean to detract from anyone who suffered abuse or false accusations!)

I feel more offended by the massive apology. Come on man.. if you're gonna make the joke, make the joke! You need to commit to it and defend it relentlessly if someone does get offended!