Scorned woman /man ...revenge.

03-07-2016 10:29PM

littelady wrote: »

No joke I would ruin her.

Please folks, it's time to rein in the intensity.

The whole area can be very nuanced. It deserves more respect than glib comments on an anonymous forum. We don't know what was said to her by the child, what the evidence was, why social workers felt it was more than a bitter accusation etc. Which is of course not to doubt that poster for a second...but I wouldn't preach revenge on hearing one side of any story. Family law is very acrimonious.

The_Valeyard · 03-07-2016 10:30PM

demanufactured wrote: »

Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!
Jerry!

STEEEEEEEEEEEVVVVVEEEEEEE,!!!!

littelady · 03-07-2016 10:31PM

Deleted User wrote:

The whole area can be very nuanced. It deserves more respect than glib comments on an anonymous forum. We don't know what was said to her by the child, what the evidence was, why social workers felt it was more than a bitter accusation etc. Which is of course not to doubt that poster for a second...but I wouldn't preach revenge on hearing one side of any story. Family law is very acrimonious.[

Fair point.

Sapphire · 03-07-2016 10:38PM

s4uv3 wrote: »

The best revenge you can give a cheater is to simply say
"That's that so, see ya"

Mean what you say, cut them off, don't react, don't let them know you're hurting, not even a little bit.
Leave them scratching their heads, wondering if they ever really meant anything to you in the first place

I'd say the same. Best revenge on a bastard is your own happiness.

But...but maybe just one little prawn sewn into the curtain hem? Just the one?

Miss Demeanour · 03-07-2016 10:43PM

Why seek revenge when you can smile and be happy. Forgive but remain indifferent and move on....best for you can do for yourself.....

....failing that......a fish down the back of a sofa is savage crack .....according to a friend like......

the_syco · 03-07-2016 10:44PM

Deleted User wrote: »

At somereatistage in your future, you will understand that references to broken necks and not caring whether someone committed suicide are inappropriate.

Threatening suicide is emotional blackmail, and thus walking away without caring about the consequences is escape.

Alf Veedersane · 03-07-2016 10:46PM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Zoiks.

That's a bit...intense...

I imagine you'd break out of a wardrobe or oversized birthday cake just as the revenge was revealed to its full extent, singing "Don't you...forget about me..." before shuffling off, stage left.

03-07-2016 10:50PM

Miss Demeanour wrote: »

....failing that......a fish down the back of a sofa is savage crack .....according to a friend like......

Fishing down the back of the sofa? to steal their lost coins?

Pac1Man · 03-07-2016 10:50PM

[Deleted User] wrote: »

Have you?

Why does this always happen in 'question' threads? Everyone gets on the defensive until the thread starter answers the question first. What is the psychology behind that?

please helpThank YOU · 03-07-2016 11:51PM

Hi conor 74 Thank you for your comments .you are 100 percent correct that each allegation should be given a full and thorough investigation. we would expect nothing less from the Hse/Gaurd investigation to be conducted in the highest standards possible zero room for error).the interest of the child is paramount. if it is determined that the childs safety is has never been an issue and the falsely accused can point to the false accuser as somebody who has harbored ill will or malice towards the falsely accused.then it is in the interest of justice that this person be subject to prosecutution and or harsh civil penalties.We cannot be so blind as to accept every accusation as guilt.we owe our citizens more than shaming and finger pointing .too often the irish consciousness is happy to go along with the guilty by accusation mentality .through my journey of being falsely accused.I have learned of people like me who are no longer with us.because of the stigma society placed on them.we need to collectively shift our mind set and rally behind anybody seeking justice that of the victim and that of the false accuser.reading cliff richards fight with authorities and his struggle to clear his name has provided me both strenth and wisdom in my struggle. hoping that we can mature as a nation and justice system to tackle these complex issues

04-07-2016 12:12AM

Pac1Man wrote: »

Why does this always happen in 'question' threads? Everyone gets on the defensive until the thread starter answers the question first. What is the psychology behind that?

Because it's annoying.

It's almost as bad as the people who write a statement, and sign it off with "Discuss".

If you want people to reply your thread then put a bit of effort into getting the ball rolling yourself. Offer insight as to why you're asking or where you're coming from with your question.

(it's also possibly part of the boards rules, but i'm not sure).

Donald Trump · 04-07-2016 12:23AM

please helpThank YOU wrote: »

Hello littelady it took me 3 years to clear my name
very quite occasion but the Happiest day for me .you cant live with it being branded a peadophile by a bitter xs scorned

My ex tried to call me a paedophile after we broke up. I was completely astounded.........................

in fairness, it's an impressively big word for a 5 year old to know*

(Yeah yeah, a tasteless joke. Apologies if I offend anyone. I obviously don't condone anything and I obviously don't mean to detract from anyone who suffered abuse or false accusations!)

FortySeven · 04-07-2016 12:23AM

Came up with a thousand extraordinariliy Machiavellian scenarios for my ex in my head, still have a few favorites but ultimately I just sucked up the pain, ranted a bit on here and then picked myself up and carried on putting one foot in front of the other.

It's not over yet so I reserve the right to return to my dark fantasies.

punisher5112 · 04-07-2016 12:34AM

Maury.....

You are the father....

Speedwell · 04-07-2016 12:35AM

My emotionally abusive ex-partner: "You never do anything right. You just don't want to do anything to try to make me happy, do you?"

Me, exhausted: "No, I never do anything right, so it's impossible to try to make you happy. Can you be out by the end of the month?"

qo2cj1dsne8y4k · 04-07-2016 12:40AM

I've never been cheated on that I know of!! Been in situations where I had feelings for someone who had no problem messing me around though to be fair I probably hurt him enough that I have no business feeling scorned.

LunarSea · 04-07-2016 12:46AM

I don't go for revenge (it feels too much like keeping negative feelings alive after the fact), but was briefly involved with someone that was both a financial and emotional drain with a penchant for both verbal and physical abuse (at which point I ran a mile).

Simply walking away and then seeing her get involved with two guys that treated her like dirt kinda felt like revenge via proxy. I guess karma caught up with her.

Gen.Zhukov · 04-07-2016 12:52AM

Donald Trump wrote: »

My ex tried to call me a paedophile after we broke up. I was completely astounded.........................
in fairness, it's an impressively big word for a 5 year old to know*

(Yeah yeah, a tasteless joke. Apologies if I offend anyone. I obviously don't condone anything and I obviously don't mean to detract from anyone who suffered abuse or false accusations!)

WTF ?

Sapphire · 04-07-2016 12:53AM

Oh the idea of karma is nice. It's rare though that you actually get to witness it.

04-07-2016 01:03AM

Donald Trump wrote: »

My ex tried to call me a paedophile after we broke up. I was completely astounded.........................
in fairness, it's an impressively big word for a 5 year old to know*

(Yeah yeah, a tasteless joke. Apologies if I offend anyone. I obviously don't condone anything and I obviously don't mean to detract from anyone who suffered abuse or false accusations!)

I feel more offended by the massive apology. Come on man.. if you're gonna make the joke, make the joke! You need to commit to it and defend it relentlessly if someone does get offended!

candy-gal1 · 04-07-2016 01:09AM

McGruber wrote: »

Jaysis thats grim.

Well tbh if someone cheated on me and then told me that hed kill himself because i got him back by shagging his friends id tell him to go feck off too, real reversal of the situation that is - people seem to be able to do that a lot, hurt you then try make you out to be the bad one lol

Donald Trump · 04-07-2016 01:15AM

Deleted User wrote: »

Donald Trump wrote: »

My ex tried to call me a paedophile after we broke up. I was completely astounded.........................
in fairness, it's an impressively big word for a 5 year old to know*

(Yeah yeah, a tasteless joke. Apologies if I offend anyone. I obviously don't condone anything and I obviously don't mean to detract from anyone who suffered abuse or false accusations!)

I feel more offended by the massive apology. Come on man.. if you're gonna make the joke, make the joke! You need to commit to it and defend it relentlessly if someone does get offended!

Ah, I got in trouble here before for making a (what at least seemed to me to be very innocuous) joke.
I also didn't want to direct it at the person who had to go through the false accusation as that would be a bit too much. So I made myself the subject of the joke rather than directing it towards them

Some people will still be righteously indignant!

Labarbapostiza · 04-07-2016 01:37AM

Miss Demeanour wrote: »

Why seek revenge when you can smile and be happy.

Why get happy, when you can get even.

The first time you do it, there's a lot of nerves...but usually takes a week before they're on the cover of the Herald "Hav yOu sceen dese people"

Second time; more cold and calculate; half the mistakes but not half the fun.

Third time, you're wondering if you like it too much, and if you've lost the plot of the original objective.

Fourth time, and one of them 'cold case' retired gardai comes after you. Which is initially irritating, but then you have this whole kind of who is the hunter and who is being hunted frisson to the game.....otherwise you'd stop, if there wasn't something to keep the game interesting.

Labarbapostiza · 04-07-2016 01:47AM

candy-gal1 wrote: »

Well tbh if someone cheated on me and then told me that hed kill himself because i got him back by shagging his friends id tell him to go feck off too, real reversal of the situation that is - people seem to be able to do that a lot, hurt you then try make you out to be the bad one lol

It depends....did you get back at them by shagging their friend before you found out they'd shagged someone else.....Lot's of girls do that kind of thing....pre-emptive revenge. Isn't cool......but just goes to show what they're like....and you may as well cheat on them in advance.

longshanks · 04-07-2016 01:56AM

This thread is depressing. It's gone beyond grim, it's just nasty now.

Shint0 · 04-07-2016 01:58AM

While there may not have been cheating or none that can be proven anyway, I have had to resort to vengeance regarding other issues where I was put to the pin of my collar through using divide and conquer, and shaming tactics.

I never go out looking for trouble and can honestly say I probably don't have a bad bone in my body but if someone exploits my kindness and honesty, and regards it as a weakness I will come out fighting. I will slam them so hard and outsmart them at their own game they wouldn't even see it coming.

Even their own relatives and friends supported me and believed I was right in what I did. It's all in the past now and I certainly didn't take any pleasure from it but if needs must. I learned an important lesson to be more selfish in a healthy way and do what suits me first.

beaner92 · 04-07-2016 02:10AM

i basically made 2 people homeless and broke in an effort to balance the scales..i dont want to get in trouble but thats the gist...what they did didnt warrant such an act but at the time my ego was bruised in the presence of my girlfriend....

littelady · 04-07-2016 08:44AM

beaner92 wrote:

i basically made 2 people homeless and broke in an effort to balance the scales..i dont want to get in trouble but thats the gist...what they did didnt warrant such an act but at the time my ego was bruised in the presence of my girlfriend....

Jez.

The flying mouse · 04-07-2016 08:55AM

My ex wife in Portugal put a curse on me from a Brazilian witch doctor, I had a **** life for years after we split, and then I went to one who informed me of the curse, It was lifted and low n behold my life got better. tis true.

Titzon Toast · 04-07-2016 09:12AM

The flying mouse wrote: »

My ex wife in Portugal put a curse on me from a Brazilian witch doctor, I had a **** life for years after we split, and then I went to one who informed me of the curse, It was lifted and low n behold my life got better. tis true.

T'is not, it's all bullshít.

Scorned woman /man ...revenge.

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