To Grope or Not To Grope!!

Victor · 28-10-2005 11:31PM

/changes pants, again!

Sorry I was disturbed mid-post and just clicked post without reading.

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Its a case of upping the ante. It depends on position, but start with his lower back - the area around the kidneys is sensative, so just some nice massage strokes with your hands.

Move to his butt and legs. A few long strokes with your will indicate your interested in mor ethan just a kiss.

Wrap your arms around his chest and shoulders like you are doing chin-ups

"Accidently" rub his bits with your leg. No objection? Moveon.

Now of course, now that you have decided to move on, and he reciprocates, realise that he is likely to want more. Awkward but this is when you might need a "chat". Try not to spoil the moment.

DapperGent · 29-10-2005 06:38AM

When in doubt always err on the side of dropping the hand.

slidder · 29-10-2005 10:16AM

If i get lucky in a club with a girl as soon as we're alone out side and start kissing again ill take it out myself without her knowing and put her hand on it.No messing around.She'll either start the motion or pull her hand away.then ive often done myself while still kissing her then wipe my cum on her back afterwards just so she does'nt get off scott free.

Endurance Man · 29-10-2005 10:24AM

slidder wrote:

If i get lucky in a club with a girl as soon as we're alone out side and start kissing again ill take it out myself without her knowing and put her hand on it.No messing around.She'll either start the motion or pull her hand away.then ive often done myself while still kissing her then wipe my cum on her back afterwards just so she does'nt get off scott free.

Wow, thats kinda sick

dudara · 29-10-2005 12:15PM

slidder, keep the posts relevant.

dudara

slidder · 29-10-2005 03:26PM

Sorry

toiletduck · 29-10-2005 05:07PM

slidder wrote:

then ive often done myself while still kissing her then wipe my cum on her back afterwards just so she does'nt get off scott free.

doesn't every guy do this?

but getting it in her hair is still the best, i wonder what shampoo they use to get it out though... ah well, i dont care, as long as my cum is in her hair!

Endurance Man · 29-10-2005 05:08PM

toiletduck wrote:

doesn't every guy do this? but getting it in her hair is still the best, i wonder what shampoo they use to get it out though... ah well, i dont care, as long as my cum is in her hair!

I hope not.

Victor · 29-10-2005 09:11PM

Thwack!!! Come back next week.

Tiffany · 29-10-2005 10:28PM

slidder wrote:

If i get lucky in a club with a girl as soon as we're alone out side and start kissing again ill take it out myself without her knowing and put her hand on it.No messing around.She'll either start the motion or pull her hand away.then ive often done myself while still kissing her then wipe my cum on her back afterwards just so she does'nt get off scott free.

Lovely. Why not sh!t in her face while you're at it?

To the OP, he'll be very happy if you grope him. Just take it slowly and expect to be felt up in return.

dudara · 29-10-2005 10:30PM

Tiffany, leave the warnings to us mods. Keep your posts relevant.

Airblazer · 30-10-2005 02:23AM

play it slowly and see how it goes..even better let him guide you..what i find is that i let the girl control me and see how far she wants to take it..if she goes lower fair enough..if not well there's plenty of time for that..and tbh..open chat between two people saves a lot of hassle..sure it can be weird but it opens up a lot of possibilities and saves a lot of time plus confusion..

Airblazer · 30-10-2005 02:26AM

dudara wrote:

Tiffany, leave the warnings to us mods. Keep your posts relevant.

yep..can see your warnings really paid off there champ..who was it that was after slider?? oh yes toiletduck..nice one dude..reckon ye're about 20 ,virgins and watched debbie does dallas all day.

Oriel · 30-10-2005 02:41AM

OK, I read the first 6/7 posts.
Firstly, if you're not a virgin, then you're not going to be seriously writing about "what he wants". You've had sex with two people - therefore you know what a man wants.
And so, if you were actually telling the truth, and not a troll (which isn't the case), then you would know how you got there in the first place.
If you didn't "touch a guy there" "without him asking" then how did you get a guy to have sex with you twice?
If you can let a guy put his key into you BMW, then I'm pretty sure you know the way to your destination.

Happy trolling in the future,
S.

edit1/ - Beruth, I'm very surprised at you...
edit2/ - To prevent a slap on the wrist - I say:"Ask him what he wants, nothing better than the truth".

Talliesin · 31-10-2005 04:51PM

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

In particularly unfortunate situations, men can use words like "tease" with reference to women.

In those situations you're lucky you didn't go further with the little twat.

There really isn't a point after which it's "go straight to screwing, do not pass go, do not collect two hundred pounds".

It is true that there are people that think of sexuality this way, that there's a point at which you should then go "all the way".

I've come to the conclusion of late that this problem mainly afflicts vanillas. There's so little distance between whereever they are and what "all the way" means to them that they can't help trying to sprint the last few yards. If you're kinky enough that you could be shagging someone for months and still not be anywhere near "all the way" you get a bit more prespective.

But still, whether kinky or vanilla you should do what you are both comfortable with doing. If the OP wants to grope him then she should do so. Start off a little more gently than what would generally be termed "groping" and work up to it. Move back from the level you are prepared to go to now and again to make it clear that that's as far as you are going right now. Pay attention to his reactions to make sure that you are not going further than he is comfortable with and do keep paying attention to the rest of his body and the rest of him.

Have fun.

Gordon · 31-10-2005 05:17PM

Airblazer wrote:

yep..can see your warnings really paid off there champ..who was it that was after slider?? oh yes toiletduck..nice one dude..reckon ye're about 20 ,virgins and watched debbie does dallas all day.

Banned.

Le Rack · 31-10-2005 05:46PM

Shy Girl wrote:

This will only be our 3rd meeting. But like I've said, we're 22, not children which is why things are pretty steamy.

PS With regards to an earlier post of mine:- while in a relationship the guys didn't have to say everytime 'here do something with this' or you know what I mean, it's just for the very 1st time a particular girl touches your bits, should it have been invited or is it cool for her to work away of her own accord?

Nike got it right "Just do it"

Ya don't need to be 22 for things to get steamy fast and early on in a relationship, and especially if he's the one whom initiated the excessive steaminess then yes indeed do go for it.

LegacyUser · 31-10-2005 09:13PM

Oh I've laughed so much at some of those replies, thanks guys!

& No, I'm not a troll (don't even know exactly what that means!!!)

The 1st relationship I was in was that long ago I don't remember how we got to the 'it being fine for me to touch him' stage.

The 2nd relationship I was in I had the same dilemma, do I, don't I. I wanted to but I didn't & eventually he guided me down there but I knew from him that he was disappointed that I didn't take the initiative myself.

So, you'd think I'd know the answer this time, wouldn't you!! But I don't, this guy is V different from my last bf, & I was just afraid it'd be too much for him & he'd freak.
That's why I posted this thread, by the looks of the replies, I should 'Just do it!!'
I'd have no problem in finishing what I started if I did go down there, it's just I'd be absolutely mortified if I made my move & it wasn't what he wanted.
I'd be SO embarrassed.

Thanks everyone.

Victor · 31-10-2005 09:43PM

Another happy customer (or two

).

Tar.Aldarion · 31-10-2005 09:47PM

Ya looks like he will be.

LegacyUser · 31-10-2005 11:07PM

yeah just do it!

can i ask a few questions though

how old was your last boyfriend and how was hew different from this one?
and how long ago was it before you both parted from one another? were u with him long. maybe ur experiences with him have kinda put you off so to speak.

LegacyUser · 01-11-2005 09:55AM

Thrilla: to answer your questions:
Last bf was 31. Don't know how exactly how to say he was different but maybe: he'd been in several different relationships so was definitely used to having girls down there, he had plenty of experience, he was V open, V flirty & liked using 'dirty' talk (& I still couldn't bring myself to do it without being guided)

This new guy I know hasn't had serious relationships, there definitely wouldn't have been many (if any)(besides himself) who's been playing with his tackle. He's doesn't talk much about his feelings. definitely wouldn't be V sexually experienced. We've been V good friends for a V long time before dating so it might seem extremely weird for him.
(Maybe that explanation makes no sense whatsoever to you!!)

The break-up with my last bf was only a few months ago & I was with him for nearly 4 years.
& no, my experiences with my ex hasn't put me off. If anything it has made me confident that I know what I'm doing, just unsure as to whether I should make the 1st move or not.
But I guess I'll just wait until the next time the situation arises & judge the situation then. If he seems really into it then I'll play close to the region to let him know my intentions. If he seems to be enjoying it I'll move in for the kill (so to speak!!!!)

ferdi · 01-11-2005 11:11AM

if it feels good do it. i know that boys find pleasure in touching girly bits (oh man do we

), but do girls find pleasure in touching boys bits? i cant imagine they do butthen, i dont know very much.

LegacyUser · 01-11-2005 11:19AM

ferdi wrote:

if it feels good do it. i know that boys find pleasure in touching girly bits (oh man do we ), but do girls find pleasure in touching boys bits? i cant imagine they do butthen, i dont know very much.

When I know that it's welcomed, I love it:- watching a guy getting really turned on because of me:- great for an ego boost!!!

~Leanne~ · 01-11-2005 12:09PM

God what a stupid post - you are both 22??? And you dont know whether to "grope" him or not??? Thats something i asked myself in school! :rolleyes:

ferdi · 01-11-2005 12:11PM

Shy Girl wrote:

When I know that it's welcomed, I love it:- watching a guy getting really turned on because of me:- great for an ego boost!!!

yeah i guess its the same for guys.

LegacyUser · 01-11-2005 12:14PM

~Leanne~ wrote:

God what a stupid post - you are both 22??? And you dont know whether to "grope" him or not??? Thats something i asked myself in school! :rolleyes:

a bit cruel but yes seems wierd. you where with a 31 year old for 4 years and you dono what to do? youve been mates with this guy and you can feel comfortable around him? seems a bit fishy alrite.

Santa Claus · 01-11-2005 12:26PM

Minesajackdaniels wrote:

"Tease" is generally translated as "she didn't jerk me off and I was too embarassed to jerk myself off so there I am, testicles down to my knees, images of my second class irish teacher running rife through my head, dick you could demolish buildings with, and she's cuddled into my shoulder talking about her f*cking cat. Jesus wept."

Sorry for going off topic, but quote of the week here !!!

LegacyUser · 01-11-2005 12:29PM

Guys, I DO know what to do, very well in fact!!

That's not what this thread was about.

My only question was: when you FIRST go out with a guy, is it ok to take the initiative to play with him without him guiding you for the VERY FIRST time.

I have no problem AFTER that whatsoever.

I don't see what you find so stupid or fishy about such a question.

Thanks to all those who HAVE actually read my question PROPERLY & gave me relevant advice.

~Leanne~ · 01-11-2005 12:33PM

Thrilla wrote:

a bit cruel but yes seems wierd. you where with a 31 year old for 4 years and you dono what to do? youve been mates with this guy and you can feel comfortable around him? seems a bit fishy alrite.

I know - i dont mean to be cruel but come on!!!! Personally myself wouldnt post something like this on the net - thats all im saying

To Grope or Not To Grope!!

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