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"I Love You"......

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    #32
    jimmycrackcorm
    Registered Users Posts: 14,336 ✭✭✭✭jimmycrackcorm


    The correct answer is "If you love me you'll give me a blow job"


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    #33
    ven0m
    Registered Users Posts: 1,828 ✭✭✭ven0m


    jimmycrackcorm wrote:
    The correct answer is "If you love me you'll give me a blow job"


    I'm blessed with a woman who never needs telling..... :D


    ::: ven0mous :::


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    #34
    yossarin
    Registered Users Posts: 932 ✭✭✭yossarin


    after 7 years with my girlfriend i response to it with: "thats nice.thanks very much"


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    #35
    simu
    Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    Don't say it unless you mean it. I've been cornered into saying it once in the past - bad idea. It gets to be a real pain.


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    #36
    [Deleted User]
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    Kevin_rc_ie wrote:
    i don't understand why you didnt say "I love you" back. Is it because you don't love her? Then why are you with her then?

    not neccessarily. Its a commitment the same as marriage to say to someone you love them. Your either ready for it or not. Just because you dont feel ready to say it doesnt say your in it for the fun of it. it takes time to evaluate how you feel about someone.


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    #37
    BEAT
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 5,945 ✭✭✭BEAT


    well venom, glad to see you havnt been around CW for a good reason ;)
    I knew you'd move on.
    you can love someone and not be in love with them, make sure they know the difference when your saying it ;)


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    #38
    dragona
    Registered Users Posts: 1,646 ✭✭✭dragona


    yossarin wrote:
    after 7 years with my girlfriend i response to it with: "thats nice.thanks very much"

    Crumbs - 7 YEARS????? Seven years with someone, and you don't feel strongly enough to say you love her? Very very odd. Has she ever asked you outright to say if you do or not?

    After 7 years you think you 'd know whether you loved someone or not - if you do why not say it, it would make her feel great, and if you don't what on earth are you still together for????


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    #39
    CathyMoran
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 7,458 Mod ✭✭✭✭CathyMoran


    Personally I think that the words "I love you" are overused. Certainly I say to my brother and parents that I love them every day but in the context of relationships it is far better to say them when they are really meant. When I was younger those words were easier to say so it was easy to loose sight of what they really mean, then I fell in love and I knew the difference between loving someone as a friend and being in love. Now when I say them I get a lump in my throat but I mean it from my heart - if I say it to someone and they do not say it back I respect them for that decision and similarly if they say it and I do not respond I hope that they will not take offense. So, to OP I do think that you should only utter those words when you mean them.


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    #40
    DAEDULUS
    Closed Accounts Posts: 607 ✭✭✭DAEDULUS


    Kevin_rc_ie wrote:
    i don't understand why you didnt say "I love you" back. Is it because you don't love her? Then why are you with her then?

    Maybe because he wants access to sex? Are you saying he shouldnt go out with this girl because he doesnt love her? Thats just silly,if you were going out with a super hot model..would you actually say to her if she told you she loved you,'I'm sorry,I dont love you - we cant be together' hell no!,maybe if she did your head in but whats the harm in a relationship that you know isnt going to last years...99% of relationships are like that anyway...


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    #41
    neadla
    Closed Accounts Posts: 38 ✭neadla


    I think the fact that you got down to business with her, gives her the message that you love her too. i could be wrong, but I doubt it. How has she been with you after that episode? I think if you love her too, it's good for you, but I think you're just a little confused at the moment. Guys have a tough time dealing with their emotions, girls on the other hand find it easier.

    Hope you two work it out,

    neadla


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    #42
    melekalikimaka
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 10,686 Mod ✭✭✭✭melekalikimaka


    same happened to me a week ago, luckily shes away for the summer and said it over the phone...the ol 'we'll talk when ya get back' line saved me


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    #43
    Mr.Nice Guy
    Registered Users Posts: 45,558 ✭✭✭✭Mr.Nice Guy


    Her: "I love you."

    You: "I know."

    Always trust in Star Wars. ;)


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    #44
    Chick
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,095 ✭✭✭Chick


    neadla wrote:
    I think the fact that you got down to business with her, gives her the message that you love her too.
    True but she's probably going to start to wonder if every time she says it and you just jump her! :) You really, honestly did do the best thing though by not lying to her just for the sake of saying something back, because that hurts.

    Consequently, how long have people been in relationships before telling someone, or being told "I love you"?

    Best of luck, hope it works out alright :o


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    #45
    yossarin
    Registered Users Posts: 932 ✭✭✭yossarin


    dragona wrote:
    After 7 years you think you 'd know whether you loved someone or not - if you do why not say it, it would make her feel great, and if you don't what on earth are you still together for????

    we're both masochists. we love it!


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