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Jealousy.

LegacyUser · 2005-03-20 13:38:49

With my girlfriend at the moment. Been together for ages now, we're 20 and 21. I do love her a lot and I know she loves me too. The problem is that jealousy sometimes seems to ruin our relationship :( I do trust her but the problem is that she doesn't trust me completely (a series of bad relationships before ours caused…

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#32 23-03-2005 10:47AM

KlodaX

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The presence of friction does not mean there is a dirty secret being kept. It can exist for a variety of reasons.

may not be a dirty secret as such, just some unresolved feelings between the ex and the guy. As long as the ex is illusive and unknown to the girlfriend and the guy is still hanging out with this illusive creature, the girlfriend is going to be uncomfortable. Unless she is 100% secure with the relationship. I'm in no way saying the girlfriend has a right to be or the the jealousy is at all healthy nor did she have the right to forbid him to see his ex...

I'm not arguing. I just wanted to add a little perspective to the girlfriends side seen as everyone straight away was like 'dump her' 'kick her to the kirb' ... I don't think she has earned that.

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#33 23-03-2005 10:46PM

snoopish

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um did she actually ask you to cease contact with your ex?

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