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Dating a separated man

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  • #32
    YellowLead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 8,035 ✭✭✭YellowLead


    https://www.boards.ie/discussion/comment/123326359#Comment_123326359

    That is a huge problem. You get attached before you know the person or their true situation and then you miss all the red flags others might see. You need to slow down with people and let them earn your trust BEFORE you give it to them.

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  • #33
    charlessmith22
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 63 ✭✭charlessmith22


    I think you want to be wanted so much it's coming across very intense. Like you had a previous thread where you lost your mother a few days and seemed more mentally occupied about some guy you met a wet week not being into you. That's not healthy.

    That said your behaviour accelerated something that would have very likely not worked here anyway so that may be a blessing in disguise.

    But you may meet someone great next and this type of intensity will be too much for them. So try get to the bottom of why you get attached so fast, I think it's at a point where I'd be seeking therepy to work through some of this stuff.



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