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March 8th - What’s your vote? **Mod Note In Post #677**

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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,329 ✭✭✭Oscar_Madison
    #MEGA MAKE EUROPE GREAT AGAIN


    NO to both.

    No clear compelling reason to change wording - ironically had it been slipped into a more important referendum it would likely have been passed - too many questions and too little and unclear answers



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,228 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Voting YES for both

    Good summary thread here about why many disabled people are calling for a No on the care referendum


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭KevMayo88


    Voting NO for both

    It was actually The Tonight Show in an exchange with Clare Brock:

    Neal Richmond: “And this is what I want to get to the key point of, changing what the definition of family is ... this has serious consequences particularly when we think of immigration law, and proving that somebody is a family member, family law, family reunification this will allow that to happen as well, so we’re keeping up to pace with other communities.”

    Clare Brock: “So you’re talking about durable relationships?”

    Neil Richmond: “Absolutely, yeah”.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,228 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    Voting YES for both

    Good thread clarifying a lot about the family referendum and highlighting the scaremongering nonsense


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,326 ✭✭✭✭dulpit


    Voting YES for both

    The fact that this is being brought up tells me the mask is off for the no side - the typical no immigrants message...



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  • Moderators, Entertainment Moderators Posts: 10,463 Mod ✭✭✭✭xzanti


    Voting NO for both

    No to both!



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭KevMayo88


    Voting NO for both

    Richmond specifically said the amendment could be used to bring yet even more immigrants into Ireland- I think we have far too many as it is, and I certainly won't be voting for anything that could be used to exasserbate the situation going forward. Ireland needs less immigration, not more.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,279 ✭✭✭jackofalltrades


    Voting NO for both

    That's nonsense and you know it.

    Having concerns that this referendum could have unintended consequences for family reunification doesn't make you anti-immigrant.

    Especially when we've had a previous referendum had lead to unintended consequences for immigration.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,509 ✭✭✭MacDanger



    I'm currently undecided on both and I'm looking for something that would provide some clarity; was hoping the link above would but there's really not much in it e.g. the "slide" about the suggested wording from the citizens assembly isn't actually wording that could have been put into the constitution.

    I'd love some information on what specifically will happen in terms of X, Y, Z (e.g. tax, care obligations, etc.) that are not happening now but would be allowed to happen if the votes are passed.

    From what I can gather so far, neither vote will really have much practical impact whatsoever



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,820 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Voting YES for both

    I have a couple of friends who have children with disabilities and they are going to vote no because they’re concerned about the level of supports and funding and how a Yes vote might impact them but that doesn’t have anything to do with the referendum.

    Even that Alannah O’Neill link above doesn’t seem to involve the referendum. This isn’t about funding or supports. All that is up for changing is the scope of who carers can be.

    Then others seem to think it’s like the Nice Treaty and will be improved and offered again if it’s defeated but considering the lack of government appetite to even run this one there is pretty much no chance we’ll see this again if it doesn’t go through. I would suggest that a Yes vote, with a convincing majority, would show the government that the people are very interested in improving care within the state.

    EmmetSpiceland: Oft imitated but never bettered.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,228 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,300 ✭✭✭Dazler97


    I don't know what I'm voting for ,I'll do research this week as I don't wanna vote blind etc



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,817 ✭✭✭Glaceon


    I am voting NO (family amendment)

    Immigration didn't come into it for me at all. I just feel that "durable relationship" is too ambiguous and could have unintended consequences.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,509 ✭✭✭MacDanger


    Thanks, that first link provides a pretty clear summary of the No position on the Care referendum IMO



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,509 ✭✭✭MacDanger


    I guess that's a big question - would a No vote result in an "improved offer"? I probably agree that it wouldn't in the short/medium term anyway, once you get into the details of the actual wording of these things, it can be a lot more difficult than you'd think as the current govt have found out. If the referenda are rejected, I'm not sure there'll be a massive appetite from politicians to go after it again



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,144 ✭✭✭Gloomtastic!


    Voting YES for both

    The Citizens Assembly put forward their proposals to the government but apparently the Attorney General had a problem with them so changed them to the mess we have now.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,492 ✭✭✭AyeGer


    I’ve decided to go No for both. The durable relationship is far too vague. I’m not sure what exactly the motivation is to even have this vote in the first place. If it’s really important they'll have us vote again and they might address some of the concerns people have.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,820 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Voting YES for both

    Neither amendment goes far enough, in my opinion, but they’re going far enough to remove the church influenced nonsense of the women in the home and the sole carer so I’m voting for that.

    The poor state care, or support, is a fight for another day. A No vote won’t be getting this government to rethink anything, they’ll just be glad to be shot of something they barely care about that was landed on them by the citizens’ assembly.

    EmmetSpiceland: Oft imitated but never bettered.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 393 ✭✭KevMayo88


    Voting NO for both

    "...the church influenced nonsense of the women in the home"- try actually reading the existing passage in the constitution.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,820 ✭✭✭✭EmmetSpiceland


    Voting YES for both

    I have the “independent guide” in front of me, has a very simple explanation of what is there, what is proposed and what will change.

    Here, how come the MRAs aren’t fighting for a Yes vote? They, usually, get their backs up when women get something they don’t.

    The Care Amendment is a prime example of women having rights, or responsibilities, that men don’t have. Time for equality.

    EmmetSpiceland: Oft imitated but never bettered.

    “It is not blood that makes you Irish but a willingness to be part of the Irish nation” - Thomas Davis



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 117 ✭✭Danny Drier


    Vote No to both and try and preserve a bit of normalcy in the country.



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Voting NO for both

    Has anyone managed to find out this answer? It will be a firm no for me if we have no legal definition of "durable relationship".



  • Posts: 0 [Deleted User]


    Voting NO for both

    Revenue only allows joint tax assessment for married couples or civil partners.

    But Dept of Social Protection evaluates cohabiting couples jointly when means testing for benefits.

    The State has it both ways in its favour there.

    I'm reading this referendum booklet and it is truly woeful. No examples given on the impacts of a yes or no vote.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 19,859 ✭✭✭✭road_high


    Voting NO for both

    Looking increasingly like a No No- Varadkar looked and sounded absolutely pathetic and desperate today - speaking from his “safe space” in ranelagh. Seems they’ve given up completely on middle Ireland- concentrating completely on what they represent- the south Dublin bourgeoisie



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 13,326 ✭✭✭✭dulpit


    Voting YES for both

    For the people advocating a Yes/No - is the primary issue with the care wording that it doesn't go far enough? Or is there something specifically wrong with the wording that will make things worse? I ask as the father of a child with intellectual disabilities and my initial reading of the wording doesn't look like it will change anything for us (positively or negatively).



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 461 ✭✭HerrKapitan


    Voting YES for both

    Public funds would be best spent on more important things. It will cost millions more for a re-run referendum so the responsible vote would be a YES - YES and have it over and done with.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,329 ✭✭✭Oscar_Madison
    #MEGA MAKE EUROPE GREAT AGAIN


    Wow- 61% voting no to both on this thread poll so far.

    Id be in agreement with No x 2 also. The argument's to vote yes are weak and the unintended consequences of a yes vote are unknown at best - it’s a complete distraction from the serious issues of the state and the economy right now.

    My only concern is, will the No voters stay away out of apathy? I could see the final result being a lot closer than 60:40 and potentially at least one motion passed.



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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,104 ✭✭✭This is it


    Voting NO for both

    I'm not advocating for either side but I'd say it's irresponsible to vote based on the costs to run the referendum.



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