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Why do men lose interest after sex (coming) ?

  • 11-10-2022 1:47pm
    Registered Users Posts: 462 ✭✭Ish66

    Over the years I often wondered about this. 2 minutes before you would be 100% interested in all things and horney as hell, But once you come...Go away ?

    Appearently there is a chemical that the body releases after ejaculation that makes males want to roll over and go to sleep..Interesting Any.Thoughts ?


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  • Registered Users Posts: 1,857 ✭✭✭Pissy Missy

    Just read it, doesn't say anything about men wanting to get their coats and go home

  • Registered Users Posts: 9,814 ✭✭✭greenspurs

  • Registered Users Posts: 462 ✭✭Ish66

    I was being funny , Like a Coppers Encounter, Stop Nitpicking FFS ( Theres always one...

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  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,143 Mod ✭✭✭✭Kimbot

    Pffffttttttt after i splatter Im only really getting into my groove so it doesnt stop me :P

  • I observed a couple of rams in a field, the sheep were all busy eating grass but rams had that “ I just came” and were panned out on the grass

    anyway it’s a chemical thing and it’s real , we’re not bad people

  • Registered Users Posts: 8,115 ✭✭✭BrianD3

    Because biology. We're not machines, we are bags of hormones, receptors and neurotransmitters it's not possible to be "on" all the time so there has to be a buildup/release "fill that which is empty and empty that which is full" sums up much of our lives.

    Just like this lad doesn't want to cuddle after he has emptied himself.

  • Registered Users Posts: 8,276 ✭✭✭corner of hells

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  • Registered Users Posts: 4,782 ✭✭✭Man Vs ManUre

    Because there is still some beer in the fridge.

  • Registered Users Posts: 1,019 ✭✭✭lucalux

    It's a very real condition, PNCS (Post Nut Clarity Syndrome), or PNRS (Post Nut Regret Syndrome)

    After all the chasing you realise the sex wasn't all that... or you sober up a bit, whatever..

    This man knows his stuff:

  • Registered Users Posts: 12,556 ✭✭✭✭AckwelFoley

    I don't lose interest after sex. Its just my interest becomes more specific.

    Interest in sleeping

  • Registered Users Posts: 13,039 ✭✭✭✭Dial Hard

  • Registered Users Posts: 23,218 ✭✭✭✭Larbre34

    He is yeah, but its probably not a phenomenon that bothers any man about himself, I'm addressing their female sex partners.

  • Registered Users Posts: 442 ✭✭cheese sandwich

    To process the shame

  • Registered Users Posts: 1,730 ✭✭✭beachhead

    This is either a rise post or else some reading of medical articles is definitely required.Start with secondary school classes,though

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  • Registered Users Posts: 19,720 ✭✭✭✭recode the site

    I’m a female and sometimes I want to go asleep after orgasm, but if I’m extra horny I want to repeat. Most of the time I love continued cuddling after coitus as I wind down gradually. Quite frankly most men either roll over to sleep or else jump up in triumph like a rooster crowing after the effect. A small number of men continue affectionate after action peak, and they are absolute treasures of the amorous world of the male. They are the stuff of a great relationship. - serving exiled talent

  • Registered Users Posts: 4,459 ✭✭✭Day Lewin

    Well it's like this; when you've just had your dinner you're not hungry any more.

    Makes sense, yes?

    And everyone goes to sleep after 0rgasm, its the best thing I know for getting to sleep. Either sex. Goodnight!

  • Registered Users Posts: 19,720 ✭✭✭✭recode the site

    Yes indeed a prolonged erection is known as priapasm and can be a medical emergency, an excruciating condition which can cause gangrene of the penis, and retention of urine with kidney damage. After prostate surgery priapism can sometimes happen. Blood disorders, neurological conditions, side effects of medication & other medical conditions can cause it.

    Post edited by recode the site on - serving exiled talent

  • Registered Users Posts: 5,985 ✭✭✭Ubbquittious

    The release of prolactin is apparently the culprit

  • Registered Users Posts: 19,720 ✭✭✭✭recode the site - serving exiled talent

  • Registered Users Posts: 19,720 ✭✭✭✭recode the site

    It wouldn’t stop you complimenting the chef though you decline more sustenance 😂 - serving exiled talent

  • Registered Users Posts: 965 ✭✭✭Sorolla

    I often find the moment of coming is often accompanies by catholic guilt and the first thought is - how do I purge this sin.

  • Registered Users Posts: 1,144 ✭✭✭chrissb8

    Because I've worked on ensuring the other part is leaving the deal happy and fulfilled. Meanwhile ensuring I am staying in my head enough to perform as well as reach the end of the transaction with satisfaction as well. Then the foreplay and the physical input I am looking for water and a lie down.

    It's a busy 30 seconds.

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  • Registered Users Posts: 814 ✭✭✭Burt Renaults

    Come again?